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"Some people say they're not here to make friends. Just here for the sex. Some seem quite shocked at the thought of making friends with anyone on the site. Why? What is so terrible about people you meet on a sex site? Are they only good enough to fuck but not be seen with in public? " I have made good friends on this site, but I am not seeking friends here - why would a need to casual sex mean I had anything else in common with someone? | |||
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"I like to think I've made some good friends on here . I think if you don't use the forums then I guess you're not likely to make friends . But I enjoy that the most now . I hope I've made some friends ( or I'm being lied to lol )"The forum is not the only place to make friends here, I have several who never use the forums and I'm sure lots of other people do too. | |||
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"Some people say they're not here to make friends. Just here for the sex. Some seem quite shocked at the thought of making friends with anyone on the site. Why? What is so terrible about people you meet on a sex site? Are they only good enough to fuck but not be seen with in public? " I think a lot of people do think that way, which is a bit sad IMO I personally have made some good friends through fab and have no problem being seen out in public with anyone..  | |||
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"Some people say they're not here to make friends. Just here for the sex. Some seem quite shocked at the thought of making friends with anyone on the site. Why? What is so terrible about people you meet on a sex site? Are they only good enough to fuck but not be seen with in public? I think a lot of people do think that way, which is a bit sad IMO I personally have made some good friends through fab and have no problem being seen out in public with anyone.. "Here here. If I'm honest, my closest and most trusted friends are those I've met through the site. Some I don't see in a sexual way at all. Some I bang. If someone is too afraid to be seen in public with me, that's something I'm not comfortable with. | |||
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"I didn't come here to make friends. I chat to people and have met some at The STPs, but I wouldn't call them friends. They are acquaintances I have a similar interest with. " I'm similar, but perhaps it's that I don't have the skills to make friends. I am friendly and acquainted with a lot of people; some are closer than others. Although one of my pre-forum men is a true friend - I know he's got my back if needed. I like the friendliness I have found on the forum and will help people virtually whenever I can. | |||
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"Some people say they're not here to make friends. Just here for the sex. Some seem quite shocked at the thought of making friends with anyone on the site. Why? What is so terrible about people you meet on a sex site? Are they only good enough to fuck but not be seen with in public? " It's a bit like going to work. I work to earn money. Making friends is a bonus, but not the reason I do it. Same with fab. I'm here for sex. So much the better if I become friends, too. But that's not the reason I'm here. | |||
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"Some people say they're not here to make friends. Just here for the sex. Some seem quite shocked at the thought of making friends with anyone on the site. Why? What is so terrible about people you meet on a sex site? Are they only good enough to fuck but not be seen with in public? " I’d like more friends from fab
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"I've made some great friends through fab. We take our kiddies for days out together, have done shopping and spa trips together and have many other non swinging days out planned, as well as the bonus of easy to arrange threesomes and Foursomes "And more somes ???  | |||
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"I may be getting the wrong end of the stick but i always thought of "swinging" as a lifestyle thing rather than just meeting strangers for a quick fumble. Part of the lifestyle being meeting and spending time with likeminded people? Meeting strangers for a one off quicky isnt swinging its just like meeting someone in a pub and having sex. Maybe im just old... "I think people use the site for both things. | |||
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"I wish I had friends " It's difficult finding the entrance to Diagon Alley. | |||
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"I never talk to the people I fuck and never fuck the people I talk to. That's my moto and I stick to it like some hair would stick to dried cum " Gorilla glue | |||
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"I wish I had friends " Friends are like trampolines. I always wanted a trampoline. | |||
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"Some people say they're not here to make friends. Just here for the sex. Some seem quite shocked at the thought of making friends with anyone on the site. Why? What is so terrible about people you meet on a sex site? Are they only good enough to fuck but not be seen with in public? It's a bit like going to work. I work to earn money. Making friends is a bonus, but not the reason I do it. Same with fab. I'm here for sex. So much the better if I become friends, too. But that's not the reason I'm here. " I like that analogy. | |||
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"I wish I had friends It's difficult finding the entrance to Diagon Alley. " Ever so true | |||
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"I wish I had friends Friends are like trampolines. I always wanted a trampoline. " Friends are like trampolines. I always bounce on trampolines and bite through my tongue.  | |||
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"I wish I had friends Friends are like trampolines. I always wanted a trampoline. Friends are like trampolines. I always bounce on trampolines and bite through my tongue. "I don't think you're doing trampolines right. | |||
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"I wish I had friends Friends are like trampolines. I always wanted a trampoline. Friends are like trampolines. I always bounce on trampolines and bite through my tongue.
I don't think you're doing trampolines right. "Or friends | |||
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"I wish I had friends Friends are like trampolines. I always wanted a trampoline. Friends are like trampolines. I always bounce on trampolines and bite through my tongue.
I don't think you're doing trampolines right.
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"I wish I had friends Friends are like trampolines. I always wanted a trampoline. " We had three trampolines at school. It was my favourite PE lesson. I'd have to do it in the dark now. | |||
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"I wish I had friends Friends are like trampolines. I always wanted a trampoline. We had three trampolines at school. It was my favourite PE lesson. I'd have to do it in the dark now. " Wish I went to your school | |||
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"I wish I had friends Friends are like trampolines. I always wanted a trampoline. We had three trampolines at school. It was my favourite PE lesson. I'd have to do it in the dark now. " Bouncing tits  | |||
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"I wish I had friends Friends are like trampolines. I always wanted a trampoline. We had three trampolines at school. It was my favourite PE lesson. I'd have to do it in the dark now. " We had no trampolines | |||
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"I wish I had friends Friends are like trampolines. I always wanted a trampoline. We had three trampolines at school. It was my favourite PE lesson. I'd have to do it in the dark now. " Same here. We never had nets to hold us in either | |||
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"I wish I had friends Friends are like trampolines. I always wanted a trampoline. We had three trampolines at school. It was my favourite PE lesson. I'd have to do it in the dark now. We had no trampolines "We used the science teachers bloomers and pulled them tight. Took 14 pupils to get all the way round the edge mind you. | |||
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"I wish I had friends Friends are like trampolines. I always wanted a trampoline. We had three trampolines at school. It was my favourite PE lesson. I'd have to do it in the dark now. Wish I went to your school "It was a great all girls comprehensive. I left feeling I had received an education and not just learning. And we had trampolines. | |||
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"I wish I had friends Friends are like trampolines. I always wanted a trampoline. We had three trampolines at school. It was my favourite PE lesson. I'd have to do it in the dark now. " We had trampolines too but my knees weren't able to withstand the bouncing. | |||
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"I wish I had friends Friends are like trampolines. I always wanted a trampoline. We had three trampolines at school. It was my favourite PE lesson. I'd have to do it in the dark now. Wish I went to your school
It was a great all girls comprehensive. I left feeling I had received an education and not just learning. And we had trampolines.
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"Some people say they're not here to make friends. Just here for the sex. Some seem quite shocked at the thought of making friends with anyone on the site. Why? What is so terrible about people you meet on a sex site? Are they only good enough to fuck but not be seen with in public? I think a lot of people do think that way, which is a bit sad IMO I personally have made some good friends through fab and have no problem being seen out in public with anyone..
Here here. If I'm honest, my closest and most trusted friends are those I've met through the site.
Some I don't see in a sexual way at all.
Some I bang.
If someone is too afraid to be seen in public with me, that's something I'm not comfortable with."I’m sure I saw you in the corner shop in Princes end last week buying a bottle of white lightning cider | |||
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"I wish I had friends Friends are like trampolines. I always wanted a trampoline. We had three trampolines at school. It was my favourite PE lesson. I'd have to do it in the dark now. We had no trampolines "I think they were probably deemed too dangerous after the '80s. I was at school in the '70s and we used to go to the pub with (some) of the teachers and wouldn't get detention for smoking behind the gym block. | |||
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"I wish I had friends Friends are like trampolines. I always wanted a trampoline. We had three trampolines at school. It was my favourite PE lesson. I'd have to do it in the dark now. Same here. We never had nets to hold us in either "Nets? We had to have one girl on each corner. That was the total extent of the safety requirements.
OP, apologies. I stop talking about trampolines... but it has felt friendly chatting to people about this. | |||
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"Some people say they're not here to make friends. Just here for the sex. Some seem quite shocked at the thought of making friends with anyone on the site. Why? What is so terrible about people you meet on a sex site? Are they only good enough to fuck but not be seen with in public? I think a lot of people do think that way, which is a bit sad IMO I personally have made some good friends through fab and have no problem being seen out in public with anyone..
Here here. If I'm honest, my closest and most trusted friends are those I've met through the site.
Some I don't see in a sexual way at all.
Some I bang.
If someone is too afraid to be seen in public with me, that's something I'm not comfortable with.
I’m sure I saw you in the corner shop in Princes end last week buying a bottle of white lightning cider "Oh no, I'm not a cider drinker. I was round the back glugging tennents super strength paint stripper | |||
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"I wish I had friends Friends are like trampolines. I always wanted a trampoline. We had three trampolines at school. It was my favourite PE lesson. I'd have to do it in the dark now. Same here. We never had nets to hold us in either
Nets? We had to have one girl on each corner. That was the total extent of the safety requirements.
OP, apologies. I stop talking about trampolines... but it has felt friendly chatting to people about this. "I believe they were called spotters. They watched you fall. | |||
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"Some people say they're not here to make friends. Just here for the sex. Some seem quite shocked at the thought of making friends with anyone on the site. Why? What is so terrible about people you meet on a sex site? Are they only good enough to fuck but not be seen with in public? " they're objects | |||
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"I wish I had friends Friends are like trampolines. I always wanted a trampoline. We had three trampolines at school. It was my favourite PE lesson. I'd have to do it in the dark now. Same here. We never had nets to hold us in either
Nets? We had to have one girl on each corner. That was the total extent of the safety requirements.
OP, apologies. I stop talking about trampolines... but it has felt friendly chatting to people about this.
I believe they were called spotters. They watched you fall."And fought over whose turn it was next once you'd been ejected  | |||
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"Im not here to make friends. We just use the site to arrange to meet guys for sex. I dont have friends in 'real' life either as im a solitary person who is happy in my own company. Family provide friendship for me and i have a few people that i see such as at football etc. Hubby and i spend a lot of time together too. There are a few people we chat to when we see them at clubs but i wouldnt call them friends. " I have three friends and many acquaintances. I think its more likely that we'd make acquaintances with people from fab than proper friends that you could ring up to help you dispose of a body. | |||
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"I wish I had friends Friends are like trampolines. I always wanted a trampoline. We had three trampolines at school. It was my favourite PE lesson. I'd have to do it in the dark now. Same here. We never had nets to hold us in either
Nets? We had to have one girl on each corner. That was the total extent of the safety requirements.
OP, apologies. I stop talking about trampolines... but it has felt friendly chatting to people about this. "Please don't apologise, I love it... it's a perfect example of virtual friends. | |||
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"We have that on our profile. Have nothing against people who do make friends on here at all. My sole purpose for being here is for mmf and I can't imagine being friends with any of those people. We still chat to them occasionally and they are all nice friendly guys but socialising with someone that we've had a threesome with....No thanks. Too weird x" I understand that.  | |||
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"I wish I had friends Friends are like trampolines. I always wanted a trampoline. We had three trampolines at school. It was my favourite PE lesson. I'd have to do it in the dark now. Same here. We never had nets to hold us in either
Nets? We had to have one girl on each corner. That was the total extent of the safety requirements.
OP, apologies. I stop talking about trampolines... but it has felt friendly chatting to people about this.
Please don't apologise, I love it... it's a perfect example of virtual friends. "I’m making friends?! | |||
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"I wish I had friends Friends are like trampolines. I always wanted a trampoline. We had three trampolines at school. It was my favourite PE lesson. I'd have to do it in the dark now. Same here. We never had nets to hold us in either
Nets? We had to have one girl on each corner. That was the total extent of the safety requirements.
OP, apologies. I stop talking about trampolines... but it has felt friendly chatting to people about this.
Please don't apologise, I love it... it's a perfect example of virtual friends.
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"I’m only here for the sex..... I wouldn’t class anyone I meet for sex more than once a friend.. more of just a sex partner... The basis of our relationship is sex.... I don’t choose my friends on the basis of sexual attraction. This is a funny question..... For all the people that are looking to make friends on this site.... Do you ask to see a face picture before you start chatting? Or you will just talk to anyone? " Most have come from forum interaction. Others I've met who aren't from the forums but we still hang out, speak regularly, support one another and do all the other things mates do. | |||
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"Some people say they're not here to make friends. Just here for the sex. Some seem quite shocked at the thought of making friends with anyone on the site. Why? What is so terrible about people you meet on a sex site? Are they only good enough to fuck but not be seen with in public? " Can never have enough friends imo. Some would say i'm a crap mate but i'm awesome so that's a lie | |||
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"I’m only here for the sex..... I wouldn’t class anyone I meet for sex more than once a friend.. more of just a sex partner... The basis of our relationship is sex.... I don’t choose my friends on the basis of sexual attraction. This is a funny question..... For all the people that are looking to make friends on this site.... Do you ask to see a face picture before you start chatting? Or you will just talk to anyone? " There are lots of people on fab who say they put personality before looks. I'm not one of them, I need to be attracted physically before I will consider getting sexual with someone. However there are many organised socials at which it *should * be possible to make friends. We have found though that the majority use them to scope out future sexual partners. I suspect that it's possible for a friendship to develop incidentally though. | |||
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"Some people say they're not here to make friends. Just here for the sex. Some seem quite shocked at the thought of making friends with anyone on the site. Why? What is so terrible about people you meet on a sex site? Are they only good enough to fuck but not be seen with in public? " Not so much friends just people to have a laugh and let myself go with | |||
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"Some people say they're not here to make friends. Just here for the sex. Some seem quite shocked at the thought of making friends with anyone on the site. Why? What is so terrible about people you meet on a sex site? Are they only good enough to fuck but not be seen with in public? " Not in the slightest . We are definately in that ‘ not here to make friends category ‘ , but it has nothing to do with feeling ashamed of the company we keep . It’s simply this . We swing as a hobby , and that hobby is a completely separate part of our life . We don’t want our swinging life to impact on our everyday life . So we keep the two very much apart . When we are out and with our kids we don’t want swinging to even be on the radar . When we are out shopping , or out with vanilla friends , or out with family we don’t want any contact with anything related to swinging . The only time we have anything to do with anyone with respect to swinging is when we are out and looking for a meet . Once the meet is over , that’s it . Done dusted and forgotten . It’s how we roll . | |||
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"I’m only here for the sex..... I wouldn’t class anyone I meet for sex more than once a friend.. more of just a sex partner... The basis of our relationship is sex.... I don’t choose my friends on the basis of sexual attraction. This is a funny question..... For all the people that are looking to make friends on this site.... Do you ask to see a face picture before you start chatting? Or you will just talk to anyone? " I talk to anyone. | |||
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"I’m only here for the sex..... I wouldn’t class anyone I meet for sex more than once a friend.. more of just a sex partner... The basis of our relationship is sex.... I don’t choose my friends on the basis of sexual attraction. This is a funny question..... For all the people that are looking to make friends on this site.... Do you ask to see a face picture before you start chatting? Or you will just talk to anyone? I talk to anyone. " This is true, you even talk to me | |||
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"I’ve had the fortune of making friends from this site. I have met some for sex, some for socials and some are currently still only virtual friends, be that both virtually on and off Fab. Was this my intent in coming to site initially? Yes. I can’t fuck someone that I wouldn’t have the potential to be friends with, and thus actual friendships forming was inevitable. The fact a small community has arisen without the fucking or even meeting too is very special to me. I’ve also had the word friend bandered around when perhaps friendship operated differently to my comprehension of the term and act. But you learn, and people teach you what they want from you. Everyone is doing the best they can at any given moment, and sometimes the two lives don’t align harmoniously. Anyone that I felt friendship for though, the love and warm wishes for their futures remain even when the interactions cease. " | |||
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"I’m only here for the sex..... I wouldn’t class anyone I meet for sex more than once a friend.. more of just a sex partner... The basis of our relationship is sex.... I don’t choose my friends on the basis of sexual attraction. This is a funny question..... For all the people that are looking to make friends on this site.... Do you ask to see a face picture before you start chatting? Or you will just talk to anyone? I talk to anyone. This is true, you even talk to me "And you talk back.  | |||
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"Some people say they're not here to make friends. Just here for the sex. Some seem quite shocked at the thought of making friends with anyone on the site. Why? What is so terrible about people you meet on a sex site? Are they only good enough to fuck but not be seen with in public? " Bingo On the head Eureka You got it in one | |||
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"Some people say they're not here to make friends. Just here for the sex. Some seem quite shocked at the thought of making friends with anyone on the site. Why? What is so terrible about people you meet on a sex site? Are they only good enough to fuck but not be seen with in public? Not in the slightest . We are definately in that ‘ not here to make friends category ‘ , but it has nothing to do with feeling ashamed of the company we keep . It’s simply this . We swing as a hobby , and that hobby is a completely separate part of our life . We don’t want our swinging life to impact on our everyday life . So we keep the two very much apart . When we are out and with our kids we don’t want swinging to even be on the radar . When we are out shopping , or out with vanilla friends , or out with family we don’t want any contact with anything related to swinging . The only time we have anything to do with anyone with respect to swinging is when we are out and looking for a meet . Once the meet is over , that’s it . Done dusted and forgotten . It’s how we roll . " That makes a lot of sense, thank you. That makes it feel much more positive. | |||
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"Some people say they're not here to make friends. Just here for the sex. Some seem quite shocked at the thought of making friends with anyone on the site. Why? What is so terrible about people you meet on a sex site? Are they only good enough to fuck but not be seen with in public? " Once people become friends they like to discuss normal stuff like washing mac_ines breaking down etc...this was a fantasy for us that involved sex and none of the above | |||
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"Some people say they're not here to make friends. Just here for the sex. Some seem quite shocked at the thought of making friends with anyone on the site. Why? What is so terrible about people you meet on a sex site? Are they only good enough to fuck but not be seen with in public? Once people become friends they like to discuss normal stuff like washing mac_ines breaking down etc...this was a fantasy for us that involved sex and none of the above" Speaking of which. Mine just did  | |||
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"Some people say they're not here to make friends. Just here for the sex. Some seem quite shocked at the thought of making friends with anyone on the site. Why? What is so terrible about people you meet on a sex site? Are they only good enough to fuck but not be seen with in public? Once people become friends they like to discuss normal stuff like washing mac_ines breaking down etc...this was a fantasy for us that involved sex and none of the above Speaking of which. Mine just did "I hope I didn't jinx it  | |||
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"Some people say they're not here to make friends. Just here for the sex. Some seem quite shocked at the thought of making friends with anyone on the site. Why? What is so terrible about people you meet on a sex site? Are they only good enough to fuck but not be seen with in public? " Some seem quite shocked that some of us are here just for sex. Nothing terrible about the people I meet. I just have no desire to mix those I have sex with with my everyday life. They are separate entities. | |||
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"Some people say they're not here to make friends. Just here for the sex. Some seem quite shocked at the thought of making friends with anyone on the site. Why? What is so terrible about people you meet on a sex site? Are they only good enough to fuck but not be seen with in public? Some seem quite shocked that some of us are here just for sex. Nothing terrible about the people I meet. I just have no desire to mix those I have sex with with my everyday life. They are separate entities. " | |||
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"Gawd yeah, imagine being seen out with the kind of filthy pervert who frequents this site. I think people are tying to say they're not looking for clingers." I never have clingers! I use moist toilet wipes! | |||
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"Gawd yeah, imagine being seen out with the kind of filthy pervert who frequents this site. I think people are tying to say they're not looking for clingers. I never have clingers! I use moist toilet wipes! "They lead to fatbergs. | |||
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"Some people say they're not here to make friends. Just here for the sex. Some seem quite shocked at the thought of making friends with anyone on the site. Why? What is so terrible about people you meet on a sex site? Are they only good enough to fuck but not be seen with in public? " I have made loads of friends on here. | |||
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"We arent here to make friends, but if it happens as a result of meeting that’s fine. We don’t actively seek friends because it’s diffucult enough finding time to see the friends we have. The difference is, that some fab users need to be friends, need socials before sex. We don’t. I think there’s room for both." Same for us! | |||
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"I think the norm on a Fab is to create a ‘divide’ between Fab life and ‘real’ life. This by extension creates a divide between Fab friends and friends from real life. I mean I wonder how many people say they want to make friends on Fab yet won’t invite their Fab friends to their home, give them their phone number, disclose their full name. This is all normal with regular friends. Our philosophy is to treat our swinging friends as we treat our regular friends, the only difference being is that we fuck our swinger friends. Mrs " yes love this my philosophy exactly a friend's a friend | |||
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"I would generally agree with that, but with the caveat that just because the two worlds might be kept quite separate, doesn’t mean that in some way Fab friends don’t qualify as actual friends." I agree. My friendship groups rarely overlap in everyday life. The opera people might meet the neighborhood people if I drag the latter to something but that's about it. | |||
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"I would generally agree with that, but with the caveat that just because the two worlds might be kept quite separate, doesn’t mean that in some way Fab friends don’t qualify as actual friends. I agree. My friendship groups rarely overlap in everyday life. The opera people might meet the neighborhood people if I drag the latter to something but that's about it. " I almost said the exact same thing. In fact I hate social events where different circles are all in attendance together and I’m the common link. I think naturally different people or groups see different sides of us anyway, so I find those sorts of situations quite difficult. | |||
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