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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hi guys....so we have a babysitter, there's a couples night on tomorrow, OH up for it, I keep changing my mind...scared Anyone tell me what to expect from a club visit?? I want to but I really don't know if I çan handle it...

help a girl out?

k x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are good fun and a great way to meet new people. Only do what you feel happy with don't be afriad to say no thankyou.

You don't have to join in with any thing that doesn't appeal and can always chat to other couples outside of the play rooms.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Just chill ..stay close to your oh .. agree a safe word or phrase to get a time out or leave .. remember that everyone there is just human .. no better than you and probably just as nervous... have fun .. enjoy the butterflies...

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

It will be fun, you have each other. Get your best togs on and have a blast. No one will force you into anything.

Enjoy

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I was really nervous at my first club night, half of it was not knowing quite what to expect as once as I was there I was fine. I'd go with no expectations or pressure upon yourselves to play with others. Just enjoy yourselves and the atmosphere. Read the club's website so you know what to expect. As new members you should get a tour of the club on arrival and shown where everything, you can even ring and let the club know it's your first visit. Enjoy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You pretty much asked this same question 4 days ago, and got plenty of replies.

What to expect.

Clubs I've been to. A large bar type area which will either be dress up, or lingerie filled with people who are there for the same reasons you are.

People chatting and socialising like in a normal bar. And then if they want to take things further off they'll go to a room.

Best way to find out, is to just go and look.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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Just treat it as a normal night out to a club/bar or pub that you haven't been to before, The staff will be friendly and will give you tips on how to make the most of your night and being new some regular people will probably introduce themselves to you as well

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Go for it. Take it at your own pace. No one will make you do anything you don’t want to do.

I hope you have fun. Keep us updated, how it goes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry cant iv never been

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just go for it. Even if you don’t play with others, you guys can have fun!

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Btw. Which club are you thinking of going to?

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