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What do you prefer, newbies or experienced swingers

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Which provides most fun for you?

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon


"Which provides most fun for you?"

Females. Don't mind whether newbies or not. As long as they're female.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

Both!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends on the peeps not the experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"depends on the peeps not the experience."

This.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"depends on the peeps not the experience."

Well that goes without saying as very few people will play with someone they don't really like.

I have noted some profiles say no hardened swingers and others say no time wasters or people who are unsure which could and i stress could be a newbie. I was just wondering which way people preferred to swing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well we have enjoyed both or should that be all.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Generally I prefer someone more experienced - they tend not to scare as easily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Generally I prefer someone more experienced - they tend not to scare as easily "

agrees with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Generally I prefer someone more experienced - they tend not to scare as easily

agrees with this"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never scare, unless im watching the ring or something lol.

Oh ermm if there willing to show me what there made of, and really enjoy sex, and the whole buzz that goes with meeting. Then I dont mind!

On the other hand I wouldnt want someone who had gotten that jaded to it that the buzz isnt really there for them anymore I dont think id enjoy it as much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We used to have newbies blocked

At the end of the day we were all newbies at one point.

Meets can happen in the strangest of places and circumstances when all are willing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont care as long as they know how to have good fun and dont want to start with cuppa at starbucks and a long boreing chat bout the weather

we like to say hi show u what her tits r like and get u to feel how wet her fanny is then have some good fun then when all shagged out laze aroung and have a chat bout whatever went down . dont like shag n run we like fun n chill all together 4 sometime 2 sort our next meet hopefully lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have newbies blocked even though it doesn't mean they're new to swinging. I just find they contact everyone when they first join without checking if you're compatible or not.

I prefer playmates that know what they're doing, inexperienced subs are not fun for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all started as newbies at one point and as I was given my first introduction to play time from a great couple near to hindhead and will always be thankful to them for that, they may be newbies to this site but been on other site.

Never judge a book by its cover comes to mind!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Generally I prefer someone more experienced - they tend not to scare as easily

agrees with this

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have newbies blocked, they are quite annoying when they mail and then decide its not for them and disappear from the site.

Inexperienced people do not put me off, if they are worldly-wise, but as I am not that experienced myself, I prefer someone who does have some idea about swinging, otherwise it might be like the blind leading the blind!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Generally I prefer someone more experienced - they tend not to scare as easily

agrees with this

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite happy with experienced or with newbies.

We were all newbies once and I wonder if many of you can remebmer that first real good meet which sealed it that this was a good lifestyle chioce and you wanted more.

Besides, its great helping fresh new swingers on their way down the road of corruption!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite happy with experienced or with newbies.

We were all newbies once and I wonder if many of you can remebmer that first real good meet which sealed it that this was a good lifestyle chioce and you wanted more.

Besides, its great helping fresh new swingers on their way down the road of corruption!

"

That's all very well if you're into "straight forward" sex. Personally I think if you're looking for a D/s playmate it would be inadvisable to play with someone who hadn't a clue what they're doing or what they want.

I've been contacted by men wanting me to "beat them up" then they have "a turn"...clueless!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i only meet single men so dont make any difference to me as they all experienced in sex and when its just 1 on 1 who they have had sex with before dont really matter

when i was a couple and we used to meet couples i prefered couples who was experienced and secure in what they was doing, theres nothing worse than meeting a new couples and getting cought up in the cross fire after when they decide they cant handle seeing their partner with someone else after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite happy with experienced or with newbies.

We were all newbies once and I wonder if many of you can remebmer that first real good meet which sealed it that this was a good lifestyle chioce and you wanted more.

Besides, its great helping fresh new swingers on their way down the road of corruption!

That's all very well if you're into "straight forward" sex. Personally I think if you're looking for a D/s playmate it would be inadvisable to play with someone who hadn't a clue what they're doing or what they want.

I've been contacted by men wanting me to "beat them up" then they have "a turn"...clueless! "

Well, my answer was never going to be a "one size fits all" solution; swinging over the years has taught me that is ever rarely the case!

Your right, there are a number of scenarios where inexperience can cause issues - anyone who thinks that D/s is about "getting beaten up" has failed at the first hurdle of grasping the basic concepts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had good and bad meets with both.

It's the person that makes the difference not the experience.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Which provides most fun for you?"

sexy people with no inhibitions...we were all newbies once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when i was a couple and we used to meet couples i prefered couples who was experienced and secure in what they was doing, theres nothing worse than meeting a new couples and getting cought up in the cross fire after when they decide they cant handle seeing their partner with someone else after all "

That's why we prefer experienced swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We were all newbies once and I wonder if many of you can remebmer that first real good meet which sealed it that this was a good lifestyle chioce and you wanted more. "

I remeber it exactly- it was my first one, and although I was very nervous, I still had a clue- unlike some I have spoken to!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

If we are honest, we prefer someone who has had MFM before....saves them getting stagefright and them feeling bad....but, it isn't a deal breaker, we have had an MFM with a newbie and it worked well.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

as most people have said.. we were all newbies once, and at some point somebody had to take a risk on us... so to then only look for experienced people is sort of ironic...

I don't think it is a case of choosing one over another, as every situation is different.... i know that's a "cop-out" answer, if i get on with them and am attracted enough to want to play is the only thing that really matters.......

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

I have met 'newbies' many times and would be happy to do so again.

In my post I said 'generally', but for me that doesnt mean exclusively.

I do have newbies filtered though because I cant be bothered wasting time chatting to someone who then deletes their account the following day when they either sober up or realise the site isnt for them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shaz said a while back she prefers newbies as she likes corrupting them

But we have had just as much fun with both.

Tony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like people.

so if i get on with them well and decide to meet i dont care if they are experienced or newbies

most know about sex and the inns and outs and the way to do it, its not like 1 need to draw a picture

but shy people i rarely meet as i just dont get on with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I do have newbies filtered though because I cant be bothered wasting time chatting to someone who then deletes their account the following day when they either sober up or realise the site isnt for them..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i like people.

so if i get on with them well and decide to meet i dont care if they are experienced or newbies

most know about sex and the "inns and outs" and the way to do it, its not like 1 need to draw a picture

but shy people i rarely meet as i just dont get on with them"

I like the "Inns and outs"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have had better meets with newbies than with seasoned swingers, all told.

and as for newbies contacting everyone and anyone, i fel it was the other way round with us.

the first couple of weeks on here it was almost like vultures seeing who could get in first. lol.

emerald liked the attention, mind. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i like people.

so if i get on with them well and decide to meet i dont care if they are experienced or newbies

most know about sex and the "inns and outs" and the way to do it, its not like 1 need to draw a picture

but shy people i rarely meet as i just dont get on with them

I like the "Inns and outs" "

yeah i should have said something different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank the lord,someone gave us a chance not so long ago! But in our short time we have only played with the more experianced.

Newbies or not we dont mind,if there genuine and want to meet they will! When we first joined we were asked if we would like to meet a couple who had been members for a year,while advertising,"Looking for first time meet",got me thinking,if they hadnt had one in a year they wasnt going too!

We were right and they bottled it in the end! There still out there looking for there first time meet,another 6 monthes on,lol.

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

well im quite new to this,but very happy in my skin and relaxed,it was an experianced swinger who got me into this, he said i was a natural,and i think i am

i dont contact anyone though,i havent had to,got more than enough attention

when i first logged on keep it coming yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Newbies or not we dont mind,if there genuine and want to meet they will! When we first joined we were asked if we would like to meet a couple who had been members for a year,while advertising,"Looking for first time meet",got me thinking,if they hadnt had one in a year they wasnt going too!

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that is a good point, maybe they like to view and look and not meet

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