FabSwingers.com forum: Turn down a social?

By *oodnitegirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I went on one last night. Had a cracking time.

We had a conversation about how they (& meets) were easier for a lady to find, which is most likely true...

Then there’s the men (newbies particularly) who ask for a club companion and then turn their nose up when we suggest to take a male pal along.

Does that extend to socials? Say you were working away from home, alone and wanted some company for dinner and a pint.. would you turn the company down if it wasn’t the desired sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope im always up for a good laugh better tham being a hermit

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Yeah I'd turn it down. My intentions would be innocent but I approximate female adult company as just 'friends'.

I can have a pint and a meal with my mates anytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope im always up for a good laugh better tham being a hermit

I'd have a pint with ya.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope im always up for a good laugh better tham being a hermit

I'd have a pint with ya. "

As long as we can wear a hazmat suit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I met two female fabbers last week for socials and I will again. Sometimes it’s just nice to talk with people who understand Fab and the lifestyle x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll meet anyone for a brew and a natter regardless of any intention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a good social

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"I like a good social

You host a bloody good social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like a good social

You host a bloody good social

Thanks

I couldn’t do it without my sidekick Miss red though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a coffee social . Or a beer social

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By *oodnitegirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"I like a good social

You host a bloody good social

I’m right looking forward to the October one xx

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"I like a good social

You host a bloody good social

Thanks

I couldn’t do it without my sidekick Miss red though

Of course

. I’m now waiting for Mr M to comment about his contributions too

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

"Yeah I'd turn it down. My intentions would be innocent but I approximate female adult company as just 'friends'.

I can have a pint and a meal with my mates anytime"

But we are not talking about mates here. If you were away from home for some reason would you meet or are you only interested in meeting for sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like a good social

You host a bloody good social

Thanks

I couldn’t do it without my sidekick Miss red though

Of course

. I’m now waiting for Mr M to comment about his contributions too

He just turns up and takes all the glory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like a good social

You host a bloody good social

Thanks

I couldn’t do it without my sidekick Miss red though

Of course

. I’m now waiting for Mr M to comment about his contributions too

Haha

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"I went on one last night. Had a cracking time.

We had a conversation about how they (& meets) were easier for a lady to find, which is most likely true...

Then there’s the men (newbies particularly) who ask for a club companion and then turn their nose up when we suggest to take a male pal along.

Does that extend to socials? Say you were working away from home, alone and wanted some company for dinner and a pint.. would you turn the company down if it wasn’t the desired sex? "

I would prefer a social with a fellow fabber. There’s always so much to talk about and you don’t have to be careful about what you say either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like a good social

You host a bloody good social

Thanks

I couldn’t do it without my sidekick Miss red though

Of course

. I’m now waiting for Mr M to comment about his contributions too

Haha

Mr M does the heavy lifting.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Yeah I'd turn it down. My intentions would be innocent but I approximate female adult company as just 'friends'.

I can have a pint and a meal with my mates anytime

But we are not talking about mates here. If you were away from home for some reason would you meet or are you only interested in meeting for sex? "

I was talking about JUST as mates though.

I wasn't talking about sex.

'SEX' Do sent even crop up in OP.

My profile answers your question but to clarify: NO I'd not be interested in meeting just for sex.

I see every meet as innocent unless pre discussed.

Is that the only reason you'd meet? Just for SEX.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have friends to socialise with. Wouldn’t see the point in meeting for “socials” unless we ultimately want to fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like a good social

You host a bloody good social

Thanks

I couldn’t do it without my sidekick Miss red though

Of course

. I’m now waiting for Mr M to comment about his contributions too

Haha

Mr M does the heavy lifting."

Pfft those cake boxes aren’t heavy!

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"I like a good social

You host a bloody good social

Thanks

I couldn’t do it without my sidekick Miss red though

Of course

. I’m now waiting for Mr M to comment about his contributions too

Haha

Mr M does the heavy lifting."

And he sure looks pretty whilst he’s doing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I went on one last night. Had a cracking time.

We had a conversation about how they (& meets) were easier for a lady to find, which is most likely true...

Then there’s the men (newbies particularly) who ask for a club companion and then turn their nose up when we suggest to take a male pal along.

Does that extend to socials? Say you were working away from home, alone and wanted some company for dinner and a pint.. would you turn the company down if it wasn’t the desired sex? "

No but if i was looking for that I would be honest in my listing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like a good social

You host a bloody good social

Thanks

I couldn’t do it without my sidekick Miss red though

Of course

. I’m now waiting for Mr M to comment about his contributions too

Haha

Mr M does the heavy lifting.

And he sure looks pretty whilst he’s doing it

He really does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I went on one last night. Had a cracking time.

We had a conversation about how they (& meets) were easier for a lady to find, which is most likely true...

Then there’s the men (newbies particularly) who ask for a club companion and then turn their nose up when we suggest to take a male pal along.

Does that extend to socials? Say you were working away from home, alone and wanted some company for dinner and a pint.. would you turn the company down if it wasn’t the desired sex? "

No, if the lady offering seemed like good company I’d go out for a meal or drink with any promise of sex. In fact I’d probably prefer it, no pressure then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would depend on the person. I'm happy to meet anyone for a coffee if we get on.

I usually find that they first say 'just a coffee', then start hinting at what I'll be wearing or that they're horny so I just cancel. (This is before they've seen a pic of me just to clarify!)

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By *oodnitegirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"I went on one last night. Had a cracking time.

We had a conversation about how they (& meets) were easier for a lady to find, which is most likely true...

Then there’s the men (newbies particularly) who ask for a club companion and then turn their nose up when we suggest to take a male pal along.

Does that extend to socials? Say you were working away from home, alone and wanted some company for dinner and a pint.. would you turn the company down if it wasn’t the desired sex?

No, if the lady offering seemed like good company I’d go out for a meal or drink with any promise of sex. In fact I’d probably prefer it, no pressure then. "

That wasn’t the question. It was if the only replies you got were from a man (to go for a social) would you still go?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I'd turn it down. My intentions would be innocent but I approximate female adult company as just 'friends'.

I can have a pint and a meal with my mates anytime

But we are not talking about mates here. If you were away from home for some reason would you meet or are you only interested in meeting for sex?

I was talking about JUST as mates though.

I wasn't talking about sex.

'SEX' Do sent even crop up in OP.

My profile answers your question but to clarify: NO I'd not be interested in meeting just for sex.

I see every meet as innocent unless pre discussed.

Is that the only reason you'd meet? Just for SEX. "

So if you were away from home and your mates, would you meet a fellow fabber just for a social drink? That is what is being asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll meet anyone for a brew and a natter regardless of any intention

Really? Coffee?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I went on one last night. Had a cracking time.

We had a conversation about how they (& meets) were easier for a lady to find, which is most likely true...

Then there’s the men (newbies particularly) who ask for a club companion and then turn their nose up when we suggest to take a male pal along.

Does that extend to socials? Say you were working away from home, alone and wanted some company for dinner and a pint.. would you turn the company down if it wasn’t the desired sex? "

Definitely not, can't beat a pint and a basket meal having a bit of craic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a few fab fellas that I've met at the socials I've attended that I'd happily meet up again with for a drink and chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It would depend on the person. I'm happy to meet anyone for a coffee if we get on.

I usually find that they first say 'just a coffee', then start hinting at what I'll be wearing or that they're horny so I just cancel. (This is before they've seen a pic of me just to clarify!)"

Idbuy you a coffee anytime if u was in bham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I went on one last night. Had a cracking time.

We had a conversation about how they (& meets) were easier for a lady to find, which is most likely true...

Then there’s the men (newbies particularly) who ask for a club companion and then turn their nose up when we suggest to take a male pal along.

Does that extend to socials? Say you were working away from home, alone and wanted some company for dinner and a pint.. would you turn the company down if it wasn’t the desired sex?

Definitely not, can't beat a pint and a basket meal having a bit of craic

Agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I went on one last night. Had a cracking time.

We had a conversation about how they (& meets) were easier for a lady to find, which is most likely true...

Then there’s the men (newbies particularly) who ask for a club companion and then turn their nose up when we suggest to take a male pal along.

Does that extend to socials? Say you were working away from home, alone and wanted some company for dinner and a pint.. would you turn the company down if it wasn’t the desired sex?

No, if the lady offering seemed like good company I’d go out for a meal or drink with any promise of sex. In fact I’d probably prefer it, no pressure then.

That wasn’t the question. It was if the only replies you got were from a man (to go for a social) would you still go?"

Oh, probably not then. Even tho there wouldn’t be any sex involved I’d only do it with female company.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Yeah I'd turn it down. My intentions would be innocent but I approximate female adult company as just 'friends'.

I can have a pint and a meal with my mates anytime

But we are not talking about mates here. If you were away from home for some reason would you meet or are you only interested in meeting for sex?

I was talking about JUST as mates though.

I wasn't talking about sex.

'SEX' Do sent even crop up in OP.

My profile answers your question but to clarify: NO I'd not be interested in meeting just for sex.

I see every meet as innocent unless pre discussed.

Is that the only reason you'd meet? Just for SEX.

So if you were away from home and your mates, would you meet a fellow fabber just for a social drink? That is what is being asked"

In that case I have re read the original OP.

There are a few male fabbers I would meet as they make me laugh.

But I wouldn't just meet a random fabber regardless of what sex they were just because I was in their postcode.

If I found them funny on these pages I would meet them for company.

It's probably a highly unlikely scenario

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon we just have a comp who can kiss the oldest bird in the cafe

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"There's a few fab fellas that I've met at the socials I've attended that I'd happily meet up again with for a drink and chat

Admit it, you’re fab straight though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a few fab fellas that I've met at the socials I've attended that I'd happily meet up again with for a drink and chat

Admit it, you’re fab straight though

It's all hatters fault!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I went on one last night. Had a cracking time.

We had a conversation about how they (& meets) were easier for a lady to find, which is most likely true...

Then there’s the men (newbies particularly) who ask for a club companion and then turn their nose up when we suggest to take a male pal along.

Does that extend to socials? Say you were working away from home, alone and wanted some company for dinner and a pint.. would you turn the company down if it wasn’t the desired sex? "

For the last time, it wasn't a cracking time! We didn't have a laugh! And if you turn up at my parents house saying you're pregnant again I will call the police!

The fanny pics you keep sending me are ok though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aye I'd have a pint with a fab fella if i was at a loose end. Perfect opportunity to compare notes on all you Fab women... admit it you do it about us blokes huh?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I've worked away from home and relished the me time. I have family, friends and a partner yet still go on holiday overseas by myself.

I enjoy my own company, so for me, meeting a fellow fabber for a social because I was lonely: that would be a no!

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Most of my meets have been social and I’ve probably had a better time and met some great people

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

If I'd met the guy previously at socials or parties etc probably..I'd know we had common ground.. if I'd no idea about the guy who he was etc probably not

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By *oodnitegirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"I went on one last night. Had a cracking time.

We had a conversation about how they (& meets) were easier for a lady to find, which is most likely true...

Then there’s the men (newbies particularly) who ask for a club companion and then turn their nose up when we suggest to take a male pal along.

Does that extend to socials? Say you were working away from home, alone and wanted some company for dinner and a pint.. would you turn the company down if it wasn’t the desired sex?

For the last time, it wasn't a cracking time! We didn't have a laugh! And if you turn up at my parents house saying you're pregnant again I will call the police!

The fanny pics you keep sending me are ok though "

Fangina De Kik.

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner

I love a social, and like lots of people who’ve already posted, it’s a great opportunity to meet fellow members and chat with someone who understands what it’s all about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a few fab fellas that I've met at the socials I've attended that I'd happily meet up again with for a drink and chat

Admit it, you’re fab straight though

It's all hatters fault!

*flips hair*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a few fab fellas that I've met at the socials I've attended that I'd happily meet up again with for a drink and chat

Admit it, you’re fab straight though

It's all hatters fault!

*flips hair*

It is incredibly difficult to be straight and know you exist at the same time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a few fab fellas that I've met at the socials I've attended that I'd happily meet up again with for a drink and chat

Admit it, you’re fab straight though

It's all hatters fault!

*flips hair*

Dont flip hair your hairs lovely x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all... I love going out with female Fabbers on a friend-basis. You can really chat about this place with someone who gets it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a few fab fellas that I've met at the socials I've attended that I'd happily meet up again with for a drink and chat

Admit it, you’re fab straight though

It's all hatters fault!

*flips hair*

It is incredibly difficult to be straight and know you exist at the same time

Oh guys. Honestly, you'll make me blush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a few fab fellas that I've met at the socials I've attended that I'd happily meet up again with for a drink and chat

Admit it, you’re fab straight though

It's all hatters fault!

*flips hair*

Dont flip hair your hairs lovely x"

And I'm worth it (imagine there's a fan swishing my hair about)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a few fab fellas that I've met at the socials I've attended that I'd happily meet up again with for a drink and chat

Admit it, you’re fab straight though

It's all hatters fault!

*flips hair*

Dont flip hair your hairs lovely x

And I'm worth it (imagine there's a fan swishing my hair about)"

I imagine you no other way

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"I went on one last night. Had a cracking time.

We had a conversation about how they (& meets) were easier for a lady to find, which is most likely true...

Then there’s the men (newbies particularly) who ask for a club companion and then turn their nose up when we suggest to take a male pal along.

Does that extend to socials? Say you were working away from home, alone and wanted some company for dinner and a pint.. would you turn the company down if it wasn’t the desired sex? "

If its just a social id happily meet almost anyone.

Man woman or other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I went on one last night. Had a cracking time.

We had a conversation about how they (& meets) were easier for a lady to find, which is most likely true...

Then there’s the men (newbies particularly) who ask for a club companion and then turn their nose up when we suggest to take a male pal along.

Does that extend to socials? Say you were working away from home, alone and wanted some company for dinner and a pint.. would you turn the company down if it wasn’t the desired sex?

If its just a social id happily meet almost anyone.

Man woman or other.

I'll fetch the lube

These socials tend to only go one way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a few fab fellas that I've met at the socials I've attended that I'd happily meet up again with for a drink and chat

Admit it, you’re fab straight though

It's all hatters fault!

*flips hair*

Dont flip hair your hairs lovely x

And I'm worth it (imagine there's a fan swishing my hair about)

I imagine you no other way

And back lit, I'd like to be back lit at all times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, would never turn down any social but tbh, I'm never asked for coffee by any Forumites, even male so called friends. It's sex or nothing in this part of the world. Unsociable lot down South.

(Apart from Sting or whatever he calls himself, he's sociable).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, would never turn down any social but tbh, I'm never asked for coffee by any Forumites, even male so called friends. It's sex or nothing in this part of the world. Unsociable lot down South.

(Apart from Sting or whatever he calls himself, he's sociable). "

I’m always happy for coffee and hangs! Hint hint!

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"I went on one last night. Had a cracking time.

We had a conversation about how they (& meets) were easier for a lady to find, which is most likely true...

Then there’s the men (newbies particularly) who ask for a club companion and then turn their nose up when we suggest to take a male pal along.

Does that extend to socials? Say you were working away from home, alone and wanted some company for dinner and a pint.. would you turn the company down if it wasn’t the desired sex?

If its just a social id happily meet almost anyone.

Man woman or other.

I'll fetch the lube

These socials tend to only go one way

We'll sorry to disappoint you cake but this social will be just a social.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Putting the fact I'm bi and open to meeting people of either sex aside - I'd happily meet a fellow fabber purely for a drink and a natter, regardless of any potential for anything more happening, so long as it was someone I felt I'd get along with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a few fab fellas that I've met at the socials I've attended that I'd happily meet up again with for a drink and chat

Admit it, you’re fab straight though

It's all hatters fault!

*flips hair*

Dont flip hair your hairs lovely x

And I'm worth it (imagine there's a fan swishing my hair about)

I imagine you no other way

And back lit, I'd like to be back lit at all times."

Such a high maintenance tartlet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a few fab fellas that I've met at the socials I've attended that I'd happily meet up again with for a drink and chat

Admit it, you’re fab straight though

It's all hatters fault!

*flips hair*

Dont flip hair your hairs lovely x

And I'm worth it (imagine there's a fan swishing my hair about)

I imagine you no other way

And back lit, I'd like to be back lit at all times.

Such a high maintenance tartlet

I'd also like a string quartet to follow me round and just play as I go about my business.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"There's a few fab fellas that I've met at the socials I've attended that I'd happily meet up again with for a drink and chat

Admit it, you’re fab straight though

It's all hatters fault!

*flips hair*

Dont flip hair your hairs lovely x

And I'm worth it (imagine there's a fan swishing my hair about)

I imagine you no other way

And back lit, I'd like to be back lit at all times.

Such a high maintenance tartlet

Says you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a few fab fellas that I've met at the socials I've attended that I'd happily meet up again with for a drink and chat

Admit it, you’re fab straight though

It's all hatters fault!

*flips hair*

Dont flip hair your hairs lovely x

And I'm worth it (imagine there's a fan swishing my hair about)

I imagine you no other way

And back lit, I'd like to be back lit at all times.

Such a high maintenance tartlet

I'd also like a string quartet to follow me round and just play as I go about my business. "

Like you have your very own accompanying mood music? Changing accordingly to the situation? Awesome!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a few fab fellas that I've met at the socials I've attended that I'd happily meet up again with for a drink and chat

Admit it, you’re fab straight though

It's all hatters fault!

*flips hair*

Dont flip hair your hairs lovely x

And I'm worth it (imagine there's a fan swishing my hair about)

I imagine you no other way

And back lit, I'd like to be back lit at all times.

Such a high maintenance tartlet

Says you!

Moi? Needy?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes, I think we would.

We used to say we would happily meet anybody socially but they often think that even if its agreed beforehand that's all it is, you don't really mean it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a few fab fellas that I've met at the socials I've attended that I'd happily meet up again with for a drink and chat

Admit it, you’re fab straight though

It's all hatters fault!

*flips hair*

Dont flip hair your hairs lovely x

And I'm worth it (imagine there's a fan swishing my hair about)

I imagine you no other way

And back lit, I'd like to be back lit at all times.

Such a high maintenance tartlet

I'd also like a string quartet to follow me round and just play as I go about my business.

Like you have your very own accompanying mood music? Changing accordingly to the situation? Awesome!

I could make a dramatic entrance all the time. It would be amazing.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

It would be nice to go on a social with someone I have a little connection with if we've been talking for a while,I wouldn't if it was just someone randomly messaging to say I'm in the area.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It would be nice to go on a social with someone I have a little connection with if we've been talking for a while,I wouldn't if it was just someone randomly messaging to say I'm in the area."

Lies! I've been barking up that tree for a while now

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I frequently get messages from people who are visiting my area and used to reply to many of them.

I would try to arrange a social meeting but the chat would turn sexual as soon as meeting was suggested.

Nowadays I just delete these messages.

It is never ladies who are visiting the area that contact me. There are a few couples and lots of single men.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"I went on one last night. Had a cracking time.

We had a conversation about how they (& meets) were easier for a lady to find, which is most likely true...

Then there’s the men (newbies particularly) who ask for a club companion and then turn their nose up when we suggest to take a male pal along.

Does that extend to socials? Say you were working away from home, alone and wanted some company for dinner and a pint.. would you turn the company down if it wasn’t the desired sex? "

A social is a social.

I have a couple of Fab buddies I'll have a natter, a brew or a beer with when the planets align....

It does make me chuckle at group socials when people, men in particular, don't show verifications from the same sex....

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Forum peeps, yes.

Random, doubtful.

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By *heLaserGuyMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Definitely not. Happy to have a social with anyone who fancies a pint.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"It would be nice to go on a social with someone I have a little connection with if we've been talking for a while,I wouldn't if it was just someone randomly messaging to say I'm in the area.

Lies! I've been barking up that tree for a while now"

Sorry I forgot the 'within spitting distance' bit.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"It would be nice to go on a social with someone I have a little connection with if we've been talking for a while,I wouldn't if it was just someone randomly messaging to say I'm in the area.

Lies! I've been barking up that tree for a while now

Sorry I forgot the 'within spitting distance' bit."

I think cakus should pick me up and head over to you for a meal and a drink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, I actually would love to go out for a drink with some males forumites!

#youknowwhoyouare

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Nope, I actually would love to go out for a drink with some males forumites!

#youknowwhoyouare"

*grows penis*

Awesome buddy, I'll get you a pint in

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By *heLaserGuyMan
over a year ago

Coventry

"It would be nice to go on a social with someone I have a little connection with if we've been talking for a while,I wouldn't if it was just someone randomly messaging to say I'm in the area.

Lies! I've been barking up that tree for a while now

Sorry I forgot the 'within spitting distance' bit.

I think cakus should pick me up and head over to you for a meal and a drink. "

Peaches I'd fly to the moon to take you out for a decent meal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope, I actually would love to go out for a drink with some males forumites!

#youknowwhoyouare

*grows penis*

Awesome buddy, I'll get you a pint in "

Thank you ever so much

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"It would be nice to go on a social with someone I have a little connection with if we've been talking for a while,I wouldn't if it was just someone randomly messaging to say I'm in the area.

Lies! I've been barking up that tree for a while now

Sorry I forgot the 'within spitting distance' bit.

I think cakus should pick me up and head over to you for a meal and a drink.

Peaches I'd fly to the moon to take you out for a decent meal

Bit of a trek that

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"It would be nice to go on a social with someone I have a little connection with if we've been talking for a while,I wouldn't if it was just someone randomly messaging to say I'm in the area.

Lies! I've been barking up that tree for a while now

Sorry I forgot the 'within spitting distance' bit.

I think cakus should pick me up and head over to you for a meal and a drink. "

On him of course for calling me a liar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope, I actually would love to go out for a drink with some males forumites!

#youknowwhoyouare"

I'll get polishing the old left knee then

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"It would be nice to go on a social with someone I have a little connection with if we've been talking for a while,I wouldn't if it was just someone randomly messaging to say I'm in the area.

Lies! I've been barking up that tree for a while now

Sorry I forgot the 'within spitting distance' bit.

I think cakus should pick me up and head over to you for a meal and a drink.

On him of course for calling me a liar."

Are you suggesting he pays, or we use him as a table?

He always pays, you just need to be hot on your toes when leaving coz you normally have about a 3 minute escape time before the waiter realises it's monopoly money he's left with the bill.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met (socially only) both male and female forumites over the years- and I have been very lucky in the main.

A couple of fruit loops (who hid it well!)

One in particular who tried to convince me over dinner that all other male forumites were bi or gay!

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

"Then there’s the men (newbies particularly) who ask for a club companion and then turn their nose up when we suggest to take a male pal along.

Does that extend to socials? Say you were working away from home, alone and wanted some company for dinner and a pint.. would you turn the company down if it wasn’t the desired sex? "

as goes for your first comment if you was going to take your pal along after things had been arranged to go as a companion or coupled up.

yes its cheaper that way

3s a crowd and your back at full price

on another note id probably say sorry not interested you might as well go with your pal instead

not having a go but ive coupled up often with other ladies for many club events.

had a really good night on those events.

yes ive got in cheaper.

ive left them alone to do there own thing.

have met up often to keep the illusion your a couple had a drink and a chat.

would I turn down the same sex for a dinner and a pint.

yes

as i could just go to local on my own. makes no difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It would be nice to go on a social with someone I have a little connection with if we've been talking for a while,I wouldn't if it was just someone randomly messaging to say I'm in the area.

Lies! I've been barking up that tree for a while now

Sorry I forgot the 'within spitting distance' bit.

I think cakus should pick me up and head over to you for a meal and a drink.

Peaches I'd fly to the moon to take you out for a decent meal

While you're flying to the moon and back, I'll take a 2 hour drive and take her for a nice Wetherspoons

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"It would be nice to go on a social with someone I have a little connection with if we've been talking for a while,I wouldn't if it was just someone randomly messaging to say I'm in the area.

Lies! I've been barking up that tree for a while now

Sorry I forgot the 'within spitting distance' bit.

I think cakus should pick me up and head over to you for a meal and a drink.

Peaches I'd fly to the moon to take you out for a decent meal

While you're flying to the moon and back, I'll take a 2 hour drive and take her for a nice Wetherspoons"

Smooth

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

With one or two rare exceptions I would not, I have a social life, why would I want to meet random strangers from a sex site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It would be nice to go on a social with someone I have a little connection with if we've been talking for a while,I wouldn't if it was just someone randomly messaging to say I'm in the area.

Lies! I've been barking up that tree for a while now

Sorry I forgot the 'within spitting distance' bit.

I think cakus should pick me up and head over to you for a meal and a drink.

Peaches I'd fly to the moon to take you out for a decent meal

While you're flying to the moon and back, I'll take a 2 hour drive and take her for a nice Wetherspoons

Smooth

You coming? The 3 of us in Wetherspoons, be just like old times

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"It would be nice to go on a social with someone I have a little connection with if we've been talking for a while,I wouldn't if it was just someone randomly messaging to say I'm in the area.

Lies! I've been barking up that tree for a while now

Sorry I forgot the 'within spitting distance' bit.

I think cakus should pick me up and head over to you for a meal and a drink.

Peaches I'd fly to the moon to take you out for a decent meal

While you're flying to the moon and back, I'll take a 2 hour drive and take her for a nice Wetherspoons

Smooth

You coming? The 3 of us in Wetherspoons, be just like old times

How could I resist?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It would be nice to go on a social with someone I have a little connection with if we've been talking for a while,I wouldn't if it was just someone randomly messaging to say I'm in the area.

Lies! I've been barking up that tree for a while now

Sorry I forgot the 'within spitting distance' bit.

I think cakus should pick me up and head over to you for a meal and a drink.

Peaches I'd fly to the moon to take you out for a decent meal

While you're flying to the moon and back, I'll take a 2 hour drive and take her for a nice Wetherspoons

Smooth

You coming? The 3 of us in Wetherspoons, be just like old times

How could I resist?

You cant

This lamp post is well and truly pissed on now

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"It would be nice to go on a social with someone I have a little connection with if we've been talking for a while,I wouldn't if it was just someone randomly messaging to say I'm in the area.

Lies! I've been barking up that tree for a while now

Sorry I forgot the 'within spitting distance' bit.

I think cakus should pick me up and head over to you for a meal and a drink.

Peaches I'd fly to the moon to take you out for a decent meal

While you're flying to the moon and back, I'll take a 2 hour drive and take her for a nice Wetherspoons

Smooth

You coming? The 3 of us in Wetherspoons, be just like old times

How could I resist?

You cant

This lamp post is well and truly pissed on now

Cringey innit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It would be nice to go on a social with someone I have a little connection with if we've been talking for a while,I wouldn't if it was just someone randomly messaging to say I'm in the area.

Lies! I've been barking up that tree for a while now

Sorry I forgot the 'within spitting distance' bit.

I think cakus should pick me up and head over to you for a meal and a drink.

Peaches I'd fly to the moon to take you out for a decent meal

While you're flying to the moon and back, I'll take a 2 hour drive and take her for a nice Wetherspoons

Smooth

You coming? The 3 of us in Wetherspoons, be just like old times

How could I resist?

You cant

This lamp post is well and truly pissed on now

Cringey innit?

The cringiest. I hope somebody doesn't get a sudden urge to tell me so

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

"With one or two rare exceptions I would not, I have a social life, why would I want to meet random strangers from a sex site?

Perhaps to see if you would like to take things further?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With one or two rare exceptions I would not, I have a social life, why would I want to meet random strangers from a sex site?

Because they're little hippies?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"It would be nice to go on a social with someone I have a little connection with if we've been talking for a while,I wouldn't if it was just someone randomly messaging to say I'm in the area.

Lies! I've been barking up that tree for a while now

Sorry I forgot the 'within spitting distance' bit.

I think cakus should pick me up and head over to you for a meal and a drink.

Peaches I'd fly to the moon to take you out for a decent meal

While you're flying to the moon and back, I'll take a 2 hour drive and take her for a nice Wetherspoons

Smooth

You coming? The 3 of us in Wetherspoons, be just like old times

How could I resist?

You cant

This lamp post is well and truly pissed on now

Cringey innit?

The cringiest. I hope somebody doesn't get a sudden urge to tell me so

I imagine someone sulking into their chips right now...no please no she's mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, would never turn down any social but tbh, I'm never asked for coffee by any Forumites, even male so called friends. It's sex or nothing in this part of the world. Unsociable lot down South.

(Apart from Sting or whatever he calls himself, he's sociable). "

Fancy a flat white

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"No, would never turn down any social but tbh, I'm never asked for coffee by any Forumites, even male so called friends. It's sex or nothing in this part of the world. Unsociable lot down South.

(Apart from Sting or whatever he calls himself, he's sociable). "

Someone say my name?

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

"No, would never turn down any social but tbh, I'm never asked for coffee by any Forumites, even male so called friends. It's sex or nothing in this part of the world. Unsociable lot down South.

(Apart from Sting or whatever he calls himself, he's sociable). "

Come and visit the Midlands or the North, a much friendlier bunch of folks

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I'd meet women for a social anytime if they were interested but I only meet guys I'm attracted to where it might lead to hot sex another time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pint is a pint. As long as its someone I could get along with, I'm down

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"It would be nice to go on a social with someone I have a little connection with if we've been talking for a while,I wouldn't if it was just someone randomly messaging to say I'm in the area.

Lies! I've been barking up that tree for a while now

Sorry I forgot the 'within spitting distance' bit.

I think cakus should pick me up and head over to you for a meal and a drink.

Peaches I'd fly to the moon to take you out for a decent meal

While you're flying to the moon and back, I'll take a 2 hour drive and take her for a nice Wetherspoons

Smooth

You coming? The 3 of us in Wetherspoons, be just like old times

How could I resist?

You cant

This lamp post is well and truly pissed on now

Cringey innit?

The cringiest. I hope somebody doesn't get a sudden urge to tell me so

Is it wrong I'm all swoony and shit?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I'd meet women for a social anytime if they were interested but I only meet guys I'm attracted to where it might lead to hot sex another time

Can I lick your lady....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It would be nice to go on a social with someone I have a little connection with if we've been talking for a while,I wouldn't if it was just someone randomly messaging to say I'm in the area.

Lies! I've been barking up that tree for a while now

Sorry I forgot the 'within spitting distance' bit.

I think cakus should pick me up and head over to you for a meal and a drink.

Peaches I'd fly to the moon to take you out for a decent meal

While you're flying to the moon and back, I'll take a 2 hour drive and take her for a nice Wetherspoons

Smooth

You coming? The 3 of us in Wetherspoons, be just like old times

How could I resist?

You cant

This lamp post is well and truly pissed on now

Cringey innit?

The cringiest. I hope somebody doesn't get a sudden urge to tell me so

Is it wrong I'm all swoony and shit?

Nope, it's all right baby

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"With one or two rare exceptions I would not, I have a social life, why would I want to meet random strangers from a sex site?

Because they're little hippies? "

That would make it even less likely that we would want to . As others have said , we have a very busy and active social life away from swinging , so there’s no way we would want to waste time with a social when there is no chance of sex .

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"With one or two rare exceptions I would not, I have a social life, why would I want to meet random strangers from a sex site?

Because they're little hippies? "

And you can make some amazing friends

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"With one or two rare exceptions I would not, I have a social life, why would I want to meet random strangers from a sex site?

Perhaps to see if you would like to take things further? "

Yes, I will do then, but not just for the sake of company

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"With one or two rare exceptions I would not, I have a social life, why would I want to meet random strangers from a sex site?

Because they're little hippies? "

Little hippies are rare exceptions - I always have time for hippies! (note the beads in the pic - I'm firmly in festival mode now!! )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I went on one last night. Had a cracking time.

We had a conversation about how they (& meets) were easier for a lady to find, which is most likely true...

Then there’s the men (newbies particularly) who ask for a club companion and then turn their nose up when we suggest to take a male pal along.

Does that extend to socials? Say you were working away from home, alone and wanted some company for dinner and a pint.. would you turn the company down if it wasn’t the desired sex? "

Depends on who is paying...

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By *oodnitegirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"I went on one last night. Had a cracking time.

We had a conversation about how they (& meets) were easier for a lady to find, which is most likely true...

Then there’s the men (newbies particularly) who ask for a club companion and then turn their nose up when we suggest to take a male pal along.

Does that extend to socials? Say you were working away from home, alone and wanted some company for dinner and a pint.. would you turn the company down if it wasn’t the desired sex?

Depends on who is paying..."

Going Dutch...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I went on one last night. Had a cracking time.

We had a conversation about how they (& meets) were easier for a lady to find, which is most likely true...

Then there’s the men (newbies particularly) who ask for a club companion and then turn their nose up when we suggest to take a male pal along.

Does that extend to socials? Say you were working away from home, alone and wanted some company for dinner and a pint.. would you turn the company down if it wasn’t the desired sex?

Depends on who is paying...

Going Dutch..."

Nope , I’m never that lonely.

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By *oodnitegirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I’m working away with work soon.

I for one will deffo be seeing Whos in the area

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By *un KnightsCouple
over a year ago

South West

I, male, spend a fair amount of time away with work and would consider a social only meet with others. Mrs Fun spends less time away but I would not deny her social meets as we trust each other.

They would however only be social and if we really clicked then arrange a meet when all can be present.

Sometimes it’s nice to just be able to chat about adult subjects without pressure. Though it may also end up with a lonely night in a hotel room with an incredibly horny and frustrating ache, such is life.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I meet a few people just for company, sometimes i verify them if they aren't done. It's good to spend time with good people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happily social with people in the forums. Regularly meet a male friend from here who I've never played with and don't ever intend to. Also met a few fems for purely coffee/ cocktails and recently met a couple that used to be on here for a day out

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