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By *lbethere OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

How many people on here are on Badoo? I met a girl off there a few years back got me on here and I’ve seen loads on there. Where do you find better to met? Here or there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been on Erykah.

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By *lbethere OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

That’s Badu ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been on there .

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By *lbethere OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Loads are, it’s a dating site not a swing site but I’ll bet around 1 in 8 of the ladies are on here too. I don’t know about the men lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loads are, it’s a dating site not a swing site but I’ll bet around 1 in 8 of the ladies are on here too. I don’t know about the men lol"

Pof is the same. The amount that are on here and there is shocking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a bloke on badoo he introduced me to fab

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By *lbethere OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I’ve never been in that, but it’s much easier on that sort of site for a male, in my experience anyway. Most the ladies who are in there seem to want different things too then they do on here ?? a bonus I guess is there isn’t anyway near the fakes that are on here i.e sexysue turns out to be wired Steve ??????

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By *lbethere OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

@shyone99 that’s exactly what happened to me only a lady!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on Badoo many years ago! I was looking for love, he was looking for casual encounters...

Mrs x

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By *lbethere OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"We met on Badoo many years ago! I was looking for love, he was looking for casual encounters...

Mrs x "

That seems to be the way on there ?? but clearly not always ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loads are, it’s a dating site not a swing site but I’ll bet around 1 in 8 of the ladies are on here too. I don’t know about the men lol"

No such thing as dating sites anymore.

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By *lbethere OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Loads are, it’s a dating site not a swing site but I’ll bet around 1 in 8 of the ladies are on here too. I don’t know about the men lol

No such thing as dating sites anymore."

To be fair most the ladies on them seem straight in with ‘I want a long term relationship’ scares the hell out of me, you’ve not even met them and they’re thinking 10 years down the line. Surely better to just put ‘let see what happens some been on there years, and with that line can’t see that changing, I never even say hi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to use it but I never see anyone I like on there now. I have 3 close male friends I’ve made from there though. All I get is crude messages on badoo now, the standards have certainly changed.

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By *lbethere OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"I used to use it but I never see anyone I like on there now. I have 3 close male friends I’ve made from there though. All I get is crude messages on badoo now, the standards have certainly changed. "

Some of the ladies I speak to tell me that they just get cock pics out of the blue, I don’t get why or how that comes about. Strange but apparently true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to use it but I never see anyone I like on there now. I have 3 close male friends I’ve made from there though. All I get is crude messages on badoo now, the standards have certainly changed.

Some of the ladies I speak to tell me that they just get cock pics out of the blue, I don’t get why or how that comes about. Strange but apparently true "

I get badly written sleazy messages now. There used to be so many nice guys to talk to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loads are, it’s a dating site not a swing site but I’ll bet around 1 in 8 of the ladies are on here too. I don’t know about the men lol

No such thing as dating sites anymore.

To be fair most the ladies on them seem straight in with ‘I want a long term relationship’ scares the hell out of me, you’ve not even met them and they’re thinking 10 years down the line. Surely better to just put ‘let see what happens some been on there years, and with that line can’t see that changing, I never even say hi "

Women are being honest about what they are looking for and that scares you? They aren't on there for hook ups with horny men, so they are saving those ones the hassle of trying to get them into bed.

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By *lbethere OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

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By *lbethere OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loads are, it’s a dating site not a swing site but I’ll bet around 1 in 8 of the ladies are on here too. I don’t know about the men lol

No such thing as dating sites anymore.

To be fair most the ladies on them seem straight in with ‘I want a long term relationship’ scares the hell out of me, you’ve not even met them and they’re thinking 10 years down the line. Surely better to just put ‘let see what happens some been on there years, and with that line can’t see that changing, I never even say hi "

I want a long term relationship but doesn’t mean I want it with anyone. I’m just saying what I’m about and that I’m not there for a hook up. I’ve wasted too much time with people that wasn’t on the same page. The same on here, I would like to meet someone for more but I want to swing etc with that partner. NSA does nothing for me unless it’s with my partner and a random person.

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By *lbethere OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Loads are, it’s a dating site not a swing site but I’ll bet around 1 in 8 of the ladies are on here too. I don’t know about the men lol

No such thing as dating sites anymore.

To be fair most the ladies on them seem straight in with ‘I want a long term relationship’ scares the hell out of me, you’ve not even met them and they’re thinking 10 years down the line. Surely better to just put ‘let see what happens some been on there years, and with that line can’t see that changing, I never even say hi

Women are being honest about what they are looking for and that scares you? They aren't on there for hook ups with horny men, so they are saving those ones the hassle of trying to get them into bed."

No, it scares me that they want an instant an relationship, that just doesn’t happen 99% of the time. To me, and this is my opinion not anybody else’s it has a whiff of the Glenn Close’s in a certain film. Maybe it’s not yours, but then again you’re not the man reading it. Can you imagine meeting someone and say ‘hi my mame’s xxx i’m Single and looking for a long term relationship’? The answer would be clearly ‘Ok that’s great, see you’ nothing to do with women being scary it would be just strange!, again my opinion only.

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By *lbethere OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"I used to use it but I never see anyone I like on there now. I have 3 close male friends I’ve made from there though. All I get is crude messages on badoo now, the standards have certainly changed.

Some of the ladies I speak to tell me that they just get cock pics out of the blue, I don’t get why or how that comes about. Strange but apparently true

I get badly written sleazy messages now. There used to be so many nice guys to talk to."

There must be some who aren’t like that, I include myself in the ‘not like that’ group on there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never heard of it but the name would put me off

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By *lbethere OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"I used to use it but I never see anyone I like on there now. I have 3 close male friends I’ve made from there though. All I get is crude messages on badoo now, the standards have certainly changed.

Some of the ladies I speak to tell me that they just get cock pics out of the blue, I don’t get why or how that comes about. Strange but apparently true

I get badly written sleazy messages now. There used to be so many nice guys to talk to."

There must be some who aren’t like that, I include myself in the ‘not like that’ group on there

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By *lbethere OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"I've never heard of it but the name would put me off "

Don’t think the name has a meaning, I just looked it up and nothing except an urban meaning in Nigerian ‘a bad man’ hmmm a warning to the ladies? Or maybe the opposite?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loads are, it’s a dating site not a swing site but I’ll bet around 1 in 8 of the ladies are on here too. I don’t know about the men lol

No such thing as dating sites anymore.

To be fair most the ladies on them seem straight in with ‘I want a long term relationship’ scares the hell out of me, you’ve not even met them and they’re thinking 10 years down the line. Surely better to just put ‘let see what happens some been on there years, and with that line can’t see that changing, I never even say hi

Women are being honest about what they are looking for and that scares you? They aren't on there for hook ups with horny men, so they are saving those ones the hassle of trying to get them into bed.

No, it scares me that they want an instant an relationship, that just doesn’t happen 99% of the time. To me, and this is my opinion not anybody else’s it has a whiff of the Glenn Close’s in a certain film. Maybe it’s not yours, but then again you’re not the man reading it. Can you imagine meeting someone and say ‘hi my mame’s xxx i’m Single and looking for a long term relationship’? The answer would be clearly ‘Ok that’s great, see you’ nothing to do with women being scary it would be just strange!, again my opinion only."

That doesn't mean that you will be the person they want a relationship with though. They are merely stating their intentions if the right one comes along. I'm looking for a long term relationship, that doesn't mean I'm willing to just settle for anyone. You shouldn't be scared of that. And definitely shouldn't assume that they are so desperate to settle down, that any guy who takes them on a date will do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loads are, it’s a dating site not a swing site but I’ll bet around 1 in 8 of the ladies are on here too. I don’t know about the men lol

No such thing as dating sites anymore.

To be fair most the ladies on them seem straight in with ‘I want a long term relationship’ scares the hell out of me, you’ve not even met them and they’re thinking 10 years down the line. Surely better to just put ‘let see what happens some been on there years, and with that line can’t see that changing, I never even say hi

Women are being honest about what they are looking for and that scares you? They aren't on there for hook ups with horny men, so they are saving those ones the hassle of trying to get them into bed.

No, it scares me that they want an instant an relationship, that just doesn’t happen 99% of the time. To me, and this is my opinion not anybody else’s it has a whiff of the Glenn Close’s in a certain film. Maybe it’s not yours, but then again you’re not the man reading it. Can you imagine meeting someone and say ‘hi my mame’s xxx i’m Single and looking for a long term relationship’? The answer would be clearly ‘Ok that’s great, see you’ nothing to do with women being scary it would be just strange!, again my opinion only."

That’s just your opinion but it shows the woman’s standards and she’s being open about it. I like it when men put the same on their profile, it means they are serious about meeting and dating and not after one night stands necessarily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loads are, it’s a dating site not a swing site but I’ll bet around 1 in 8 of the ladies are on here too. I don’t know about the men lol

No such thing as dating sites anymore.

To be fair most the ladies on them seem straight in with ‘I want a long term relationship’ scares the hell out of me, you’ve not even met them and they’re thinking 10 years down the line. Surely better to just put ‘let see what happens some been on there years, and with that line can’t see that changing, I never even say hi

Women are being honest about what they are looking for and that scares you? They aren't on there for hook ups with horny men, so they are saving those ones the hassle of trying to get them into bed.

No, it scares me that they want an instant an relationship, that just doesn’t happen 99% of the time. To me, and this is my opinion not anybody else’s it has a whiff of the Glenn Close’s in a certain film. Maybe it’s not yours, but then again you’re not the man reading it. Can you imagine meeting someone and say ‘hi my mame’s xxx i’m Single and looking for a long term relationship’? The answer would be clearly ‘Ok that’s great, see you’ nothing to do with women being scary it would be just strange!, again my opinion only.

That doesn't mean that you will be the person they want a relationship with though. They are merely stating their intentions if the right one comes along. I'm looking for a long term relationship, that doesn't mean I'm willing to just settle for anyone. You shouldn't be scared of that. And definitely shouldn't assume that they are so desperate to settle down, that any guy who takes them on a date will do "

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By *lbethere OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I was on there, had several 'dates' all turned out to be silver tongued liars.

Funnily enough the last one, was on Fabs & told me about it, he was an arse too but suppose I shoukd thank him for getting me on here

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By *lbethere OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Loads are, it’s a dating site not a swing site but I’ll bet around 1 in 8 of the ladies are on here too. I don’t know about the men lol

No such thing as dating sites anymore.

To be fair most the ladies on them seem straight in with ‘I want a long term relationship’ scares the hell out of me, you’ve not even met them and they’re thinking 10 years down the line. Surely better to just put ‘let see what happens some been on there years, and with that line can’t see that changing, I never even say hi

Women are being honest about what they are looking for and that scares you? They aren't on there for hook ups with horny men, so they are saving those ones the hassle of trying to get them into bed.

No, it scares me that they want an instant an relationship, that just doesn’t happen 99% of the time. To me, and this is my opinion not anybody else’s it has a whiff of the Glenn Close’s in a certain film. Maybe it’s not yours, but then again you’re not the man reading it. Can you imagine meeting someone and say ‘hi my mame’s xxx i’m Single and looking for a long term relationship’? The answer would be clearly ‘Ok that’s great, see you’ nothing to do with women being scary it would be just strange!, again my opinion only.

That’s just your opinion but it shows the woman’s standards and she’s being open about it. I like it when men put the same on their profile, it means they are serious about meeting and dating and not after one night stands necessarily. "

I see your point, but if I go on a date I go on it to see how I get on etc, and I Believe it puts many men of if they’re thinking ‘she wants a long term relationship’ instead of ‘let see where this leads’ could be that old male commitment issue in the background I guess ??????

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By *lbethere OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Loads are, it’s a dating site not a swing site but I’ll bet around 1 in 8 of the ladies are on here too. I don’t know about the men lol

No such thing as dating sites anymore.

To be fair most the ladies on them seem straight in with ‘I want a long term relationship’ scares the hell out of me, you’ve not even met them and they’re thinking 10 years down the line. Surely better to just put ‘let see what happens some been on there years, and with that line can’t see that changing, I never even say hi

Women are being honest about what they are looking for and that scares you? They aren't on there for hook ups with horny men, so they are saving those ones the hassle of trying to get them into bed.

No, it scares me that they want an instant an relationship, that just doesn’t happen 99% of the time. To me, and this is my opinion not anybody else’s it has a whiff of the Glenn Close’s in a certain film. Maybe it’s not yours, but then again you’re not the man reading it. Can you imagine meeting someone and say ‘hi my mame’s xxx i’m Single and looking for a long term relationship’? The answer would be clearly ‘Ok that’s great, see you’ nothing to do with women being scary it would be just strange!, again my opinion only.

That’s just your opinion but it shows the woman’s standards and she’s being open about it. I like it when men put the same on their profile, it means they are serious about meeting and dating and not after one night stands necessarily.

I see your point, but if I go on a date I go on it to see how I get on etc, and I Believe it puts many men of if they’re thinking ‘she wants a long term relationship’ instead of ‘let see where this leads’ could be that old male commitment issue in the background I guess ?????? "

The question marks should be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loads are, it’s a dating site not a swing site but I’ll bet around 1 in 8 of the ladies are on here too. I don’t know about the men lol

No such thing as dating sites anymore.

To be fair most the ladies on them seem straight in with ‘I want a long term relationship’ scares the hell out of me, you’ve not even met them and they’re thinking 10 years down the line. Surely better to just put ‘let see what happens some been on there years, and with that line can’t see that changing, I never even say hi

Women are being honest about what they are looking for and that scares you? They aren't on there for hook ups with horny men, so they are saving those ones the hassle of trying to get them into bed.

No, it scares me that they want an instant an relationship, that just doesn’t happen 99% of the time. To me, and this is my opinion not anybody else’s it has a whiff of the Glenn Close’s in a certain film. Maybe it’s not yours, but then again you’re not the man reading it. Can you imagine meeting someone and say ‘hi my mame’s xxx i’m Single and looking for a long term relationship’? The answer would be clearly ‘Ok that’s great, see you’ nothing to do with women being scary it would be just strange!, again my opinion only.

That’s just your opinion but it shows the woman’s standards and she’s being open about it. I like it when men put the same on their profile, it means they are serious about meeting and dating and not after one night stands necessarily.

I see your point, but if I go on a date I go on it to see how I get on etc, and I Believe it puts many men of if they’re thinking ‘she wants a long term relationship’ instead of ‘let see where this leads’ could be that old male commitment issue in the background I guess ?????? "

I think they just want to put the men off who are only looking for a quick fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loads are, it’s a dating site not a swing site but I’ll bet around 1 in 8 of the ladies are on here too. I don’t know about the men lol

No such thing as dating sites anymore.

To be fair most the ladies on them seem straight in with ‘I want a long term relationship’ scares the hell out of me, you’ve not even met them and they’re thinking 10 years down the line. Surely better to just put ‘let see what happens some been on there years, and with that line can’t see that changing, I never even say hi

Women are being honest about what they are looking for and that scares you? They aren't on there for hook ups with horny men, so they are saving those ones the hassle of trying to get them into bed.

No, it scares me that they want an instant an relationship, that just doesn’t happen 99% of the time. To me, and this is my opinion not anybody else’s it has a whiff of the Glenn Close’s in a certain film. Maybe it’s not yours, but then again you’re not the man reading it. Can you imagine meeting someone and say ‘hi my mame’s xxx i’m Single and looking for a long term relationship’? The answer would be clearly ‘Ok that’s great, see you’ nothing to do with women being scary it would be just strange!, again my opinion only.

That’s just your opinion but it shows the woman’s standards and she’s being open about it. I like it when men put the same on their profile, it means they are serious about meeting and dating and not after one night stands necessarily.

I see your point, but if I go on a date I go on it to see how I get on etc, and I Believe it puts many men of if they’re thinking ‘she wants a long term relationship’ instead of ‘let see where this leads’ could be that old male commitment issue in the background I guess ??????

I think they just want to put the men off who are only looking for a quick fuck. "

Exactly . I also think 'lets see where it leads' is very casual. If someone is looking for a long term relationship, they are hoping to scare off the ones who are not on the same page. It makes for a good filter. Given that the OP is not looking for a long term relationship himself, given the 'scared' descriptive wording, the women will want to filter him out from messaging also. It shows it works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loads are, it’s a dating site not a swing site but I’ll bet around 1 in 8 of the ladies are on here too. I don’t know about the men lol

No such thing as dating sites anymore.

To be fair most the ladies on them seem straight in with ‘I want a long term relationship’ scares the hell out of me, you’ve not even met them and they’re thinking 10 years down the line. Surely better to just put ‘let see what happens some been on there years, and with that line can’t see that changing, I never even say hi

Women are being honest about what they are looking for and that scares you? They aren't on there for hook ups with horny men, so they are saving those ones the hassle of trying to get them into bed.

No, it scares me that they want an instant an relationship, that just doesn’t happen 99% of the time. To me, and this is my opinion not anybody else’s it has a whiff of the Glenn Close’s in a certain film. Maybe it’s not yours, but then again you’re not the man reading it. Can you imagine meeting someone and say ‘hi my mame’s xxx i’m Single and looking for a long term relationship’? The answer would be clearly ‘Ok that’s great, see you’ nothing to do with women being scary it would be just strange!, again my opinion only.

That’s just your opinion but it shows the woman’s standards and she’s being open about it. I like it when men put the same on their profile, it means they are serious about meeting and dating and not after one night stands necessarily.

I see your point, but if I go on a date I go on it to see how I get on etc, and I Believe it puts many men of if they’re thinking ‘she wants a long term relationship’ instead of ‘let see where this leads’ could be that old male commitment issue in the background I guess ??????

The question marks should be "

Hahaha trying to use your phone Emojis?

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Few years ago when i was single I had a fair bit of success on tinder and ok Cupid, plus a little on POF for NSA. I found there where plenty on there just looling for NSA company and fun who would not consider them selfs swingers or come on this site or the scene in general. All of them very open about just wanting a NSA thing. Most of them like me had just come out of a marriage or long term relationship and little time/oppertunity to meet people in bars etc.

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By *iger.10Man
over a year ago

Llantrisant


"Loads are, it’s a dating site not a swing site but I’ll bet around 1 in 8 of the ladies are on here too. I don’t know about the men lol

No such thing as dating sites anymore.

To be fair most the ladies on them seem straight in with ‘I want a long term relationship’ scares the hell out of me, you’ve not even met them and they’re thinking 10 years down the line. Surely better to just put ‘let see what happens some been on there years, and with that line can’t see that changing, I never even say hi

Women are being honest about what they are looking for and that scares you? They aren't on there for hook ups with horny men, so they are saving those ones the hassle of trying to get them into bed.

No, it scares me that they want an instant an relationship, that just doesn’t happen 99% of the time. To me, and this is my opinion not anybody else’s it has a whiff of the Glenn Close’s in a certain film. Maybe it’s not yours, but then again you’re not the man reading it. Can you imagine meeting someone and say ‘hi my mame’s xxx i’m Single and looking for a long term relationship’? The answer would be clearly ‘Ok that’s great, see you’ nothing to do with women being scary it would be just strange!, again my opinion only.

That’s just your opinion but it shows the woman’s standards and she’s being open about it. I like it when men put the same on their profile, it means they are serious about meeting and dating and not after one night stands necessarily.

I see your point, but if I go on a date I go on it to see how I get on etc, and I Believe it puts many men of if they’re thinking ‘she wants a long term relationship’ instead of ‘let see where this leads’ could be that old male commitment issue in the background I guess ??????

I think they just want to put the men off who are only looking for a quick fuck. "

This..Women I've chatted to on dating sites use it as a filter. Even on here, I chatted to a lady, who on her profile, had put 'Only chatting for now!!' and still has that showing, but told me that is merely a filter and does want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loads are, it’s a dating site not a swing site but I’ll bet around 1 in 8 of the ladies are on here too. I don’t know about the men lol

No such thing as dating sites anymore.

To be fair most the ladies on them seem straight in with ‘I want a long term relationship’ scares the hell out of me, you’ve not even met them and they’re thinking 10 years down the line. Surely better to just put ‘let see what happens some been on there years, and with that line can’t see that changing, I never even say hi

Women are being honest about what they are looking for and that scares you? They aren't on there for hook ups with horny men, so they are saving those ones the hassle of trying to get them into bed.

No, it scares me that they want an instant an relationship, that just doesn’t happen 99% of the time. To me, and this is my opinion not anybody else’s it has a whiff of the Glenn Close’s in a certain film. Maybe it’s not yours, but then again you’re not the man reading it. Can you imagine meeting someone and say ‘hi my mame’s xxx i’m Single and looking for a long term relationship’? The answer would be clearly ‘Ok that’s great, see you’ nothing to do with women being scary it would be just strange!, again my opinion only.

That’s just your opinion but it shows the woman’s standards and she’s being open about it. I like it when men put the same on their profile, it means they are serious about meeting and dating and not after one night stands necessarily.

I see your point, but if I go on a date I go on it to see how I get on etc, and I Believe it puts many men of if they’re thinking ‘she wants a long term relationship’ instead of ‘let see where this leads’ could be that old male commitment issue in the background I guess ?????? "

A guy who is also open to a commitment would not be put off. I don’t want to meet the ones who are not sure what they want, I want a guy who is very aware of himself and which direction he wants to go in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loads are, it’s a dating site not a swing site but I’ll bet around 1 in 8 of the ladies are on here too. I don’t know about the men lol

No such thing as dating sites anymore.

To be fair most the ladies on them seem straight in with ‘I want a long term relationship’ scares the hell out of me, you’ve not even met them and they’re thinking 10 years down the line. Surely better to just put ‘let see what happens some been on there years, and with that line can’t see that changing, I never even say hi

Women are being honest about what they are looking for and that scares you? They aren't on there for hook ups with horny men, so they are saving those ones the hassle of trying to get them into bed.

No, it scares me that they want an instant an relationship, that just doesn’t happen 99% of the time. To me, and this is my opinion not anybody else’s it has a whiff of the Glenn Close’s in a certain film. Maybe it’s not yours, but then again you’re not the man reading it. Can you imagine meeting someone and say ‘hi my mame’s xxx i’m Single and looking for a long term relationship’? The answer would be clearly ‘Ok that’s great, see you’ nothing to do with women being scary it would be just strange!, again my opinion only.

That’s just your opinion but it shows the woman’s standards and she’s being open about it. I like it when men put the same on their profile, it means they are serious about meeting and dating and not after one night stands necessarily.

I see your point, but if I go on a date I go on it to see how I get on etc, and I Believe it puts many men of if they’re thinking ‘she wants a long term relationship’ instead of ‘let see where this leads’ could be that old male commitment issue in the background I guess ??????

I think they just want to put the men off who are only looking for a quick fuck.

This..Women I've chatted to on dating sites use it as a filter. Even on here, I chatted to a lady, who on her profile, had put 'Only chatting for now!!' and still has that showing, but told me that is merely a filter and does want to meet. "

I put on mine that I'm unlikely to open messages as I'm always on the forums, for the same reason. That way it filters down the 'meet now' posse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a shit holiday resort to me

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By *oachman 9CoolMan
over a year ago

derby

I found badoo full of scammers perhaps even to the point of nigerian princes..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds like a shit holiday resort to me"

Bad? Oooo..... Sound better now?

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By *lbethere OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"I found badoo full of scammers perhaps even to the point of nigerian princes.. "

You know what a lot of women have said that, none have ever tried it with me. I did have a Romanian women try to get paid sex lol I asked her how much she was going to pay me, funny she never got back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I found badoo full of scammers perhaps even to the point of nigerian princes..

You know what a lot of women have said that, none have ever tried it with me. I did have a Romanian women try to get paid sex lol I asked her how much she was going to pay me, funny she never got back"

I’ve never come across scammers. I enjoyed the app 3 years ago and met some lovely people, a few that are part of my close circle of friends. A friend of mine has met her current long term partner there. I just lost interest and went onto Bumble instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That’s Badu ??"

You know her as well, lovely lady, very strong thighs. I think her ex husband was a freelance mortgage advisor.

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By *lbethere OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"That’s Badu ??

You know her as well, lovely lady, very strong thighs. I think her ex husband was a freelance mortgage advisor."

You know Steve too? Yeah great guy think he’s moved into timeshare sales now though!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I met a bloke on badoo he introduced me to fab"

Me too lol!

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By *lbethere OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"I met a bloke on badoo he introduced me to fab

Me too lol! "

That’s quite a few including me! But I think men have a better chance on their than here. Women the other way wrong, probably in general how both would like!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I've never been on Erykah."

Liar, I met you behind the bikesheds after several risqué messages and encounters, don't you remember Sugalumps?

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By *lbethere OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"I found badoo full of scammers perhaps even to the point of nigerian princes..

You know what a lot of women have said that, none have ever tried it with me. I did have a Romanian women try to get paid sex lol I asked her how much she was going to pay me, funny she never got back

I’ve never come across scammers. I enjoyed the app 3 years ago and met some lovely people, a few that are part of my close circle of friends. A friend of mine has met her current long term partner there. I just lost interest and went onto Bumble instead."

I had a few say they get scammers trying it on on there.

Bumble, that’s a bad as badoo lol why don’t they just have normal names? To be fair when I go out I do OK when it comes to the ladies, smooth eh? Lol most from these sites don’t even seem to be arsed just doing what they think they should. I guess people have become that technology orentated it’s now the norm let date online, get food online etc face to face is becoming a thing of the past.

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By *lbethere OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"I've never heard of it but the name would put me off "

To be honest it’s rubbish anyway, just as a single male the chances of meeting a female are for me much higher than here. Chances of meeting one or one with a friend or hubby for that bit more out there sex not as good lol

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