FabSwingers.com forum: Messaging

By *exlover94 OP Man
over a year ago

Mitcham

Is there a best way to message female or couple? I’m getting fed up of no reply, not even a kind NO

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Straight answer.

Everyone is different so will respond (or not) to different things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there a best way to message female or couple? I’m getting fed up of no reply, not even a kind NO"

Without being rude OP it will be for the same reasons that you asked before.

Being a fully paid FAB member does not entitle you to anything more than anybody else.

People DO NOT have to reply with a polite no, read the fab rules it tells you this clearly.

Many, many people ask this same question and have the same dilemma I’m afraid.

You just need to keep trying.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

It could be the content within the message that your sending Raj.

Have you attached a cock pic?

Some women love that kind of thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It could be the content within the message that your sending Raj.

Have you attached a cock pic?

Some women love that kind of thing"

Women do t like that at all so dont send cock pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find I get a quick response by adding a cock pick... I usually telling me to Do one... have not worked out what i am supposed to do yet.. but i keep trying. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there a best way to message female or couple? I’m getting fed up of no reply, not even a kind NO"

Again after reading you’re profile you appear (note I only say appear) to be pushy and impatient (but I could be wrong I’m merely interpreting your narrative)

You also make a pint of your age, age isn’t that relevant in swinging (to us at least)

You only have one photo to show and you exclude a lot of people by stating you prefer educated people.

Just our feedback good luck in your swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel your frustration as I have same issues, you'd think out of respect and being polite you'd get a reply saying sorry I'm not interested, however it's never the case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not many people use Fab to meet others despite what you think a swinger is.

Some use it to keep in touch with friends.

Some use it for the forums

Most use it to show off and seek attention.

Others use it to feel good about themselves.

If it's swingers you want to meet then go to a club and meet them.

Many people on here will struggle to even define what a swinger is let alone be one.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I feel your frustration as I have same issues, you'd think out of respect and being polite you'd get a reply saying sorry I'm not interested, however it's never the case "

You'd also think that by putting on my profile that I rarely read messages it would stop people getting arsey when I don't read their message. Apparently not.

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By *anksy100Man
over a year ago

London

It’s true even when you be polite and select what to say you can be blanked! I think it’s just the sheer volume of messages the ladies get on here! Maybe they are spoilt for choice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel your frustration as I have same issues, you'd think out of respect and being polite you'd get a reply saying sorry I'm not interested, however it's never the case

You'd also think that by putting on my profile that I rarely read messages it would stop people getting arsey when I don't read their message. Apparently not."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a nice hat and wait for them to come to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel your frustration as I have same issues, you'd think out of respect and being polite you'd get a reply saying sorry I'm not interested, however it's never the case

You'd also think that by putting on my profile that I rarely read messages it would stop people getting arsey when I don't read their message. Apparently not."

Proves profiles don't get read

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By *exlover94 OP Man
over a year ago

Mitcham

"Straight answer.

Everyone is different so will respond (or not) to different things. "

Thanks

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By *exlover94 OP Man
over a year ago

Mitcham

"Is there a best way to message female or couple? I’m getting fed up of no reply, not even a kind NO

Without being rude OP it will be for the same reasons that you asked before.

Being a fully paid FAB member does not entitle you to anything more than anybody else.

Will do

People DO NOT have to reply with a polite no, read the fab rules it tells you this clearly.

Many, many people ask this same question and have the same dilemma I’m afraid.

You just need to keep trying."

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By *exlover94 OP Man
over a year ago

Mitcham

"Nope"

Thanks queen

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I feel your frustration as I have same issues, you'd think out of respect and being polite you'd get a reply saying sorry I'm not interested, however it's never the case

You'd also think that by putting on my profile that I rarely read messages it would stop people getting arsey when I don't read their message. Apparently not.

Proves profiles don't get read "

Exactly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remember it is difficult for the ladies as well. Say 100 messages a day.

1 minute to read each one only to find out there is one message that deserves a reply but that person lives 100 miles away.

That's every day as well.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

"It could be the content within the message that your sending Raj.

Have you attached a cock pic?

Some women love that kind of thing

Women do t like that at all so dont send cock pics "

Some women maybe but we aren't all the same

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Remember it is difficult for the ladies as well. Say 100 messages a day.

1 minute to read each one only to find out there is one message that deserves a reply but that person lives 100 miles away.

That's every day as well.

You been peeping at my box?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get a nice hat and wait for them to come to you. "

I have a lovely fedora, always tilted. Obvs.

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By *attoo manMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

Women and couple will get loads of messages daily. Maybe they dont have time to read them all.But am sure they answer the ones they can.

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By *exlover94 OP Man
over a year ago

Mitcham

"It could be the content within the message that your sending Raj.

Have you attached a cock pic?

Some women love that kind of thing

Women do t like that at all so dont send cock pics "

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By *exlover94 OP Man
over a year ago

Mitcham

"I feel your frustration as I have same issues, you'd think out of respect and being polite you'd get a reply saying sorry I'm not interested, however it's never the case "

Exactly the same feel dude, what can we do!

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By *exlover94 OP Man
over a year ago

Mitcham

"Is there a best way to message female or couple? I’m getting fed up of no reply, not even a kind NO

Again after reading you’re profile you appear (note I only say appear) to be pushy and impatient (but I could be wrong I’m merely interpreting your narrative)

You also make a pint of your age, age isn’t that relevant in swinging (to us at least)

You only have one photo to show and you exclude a lot of people by stating you prefer educated people.

Just our feedback good luck in your swinging."

Thanks for the feedback, anything else let me know.

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By *exlover94 OP Man
over a year ago

Mitcham

"Not many people use Fab to meet others despite what you think a swinger is.

Some use it to keep in touch with friends.

Some use it for the forums

Most use it to show off and seek attention.

Others use it to feel good about themselves.

If it's swingers you want to meet then go to a club and meet them.

Many people on here will struggle to even define what a swinger is let alone be one."

Thanks

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By *exlover94 OP Man
over a year ago

Mitcham

"Remember it is difficult for the ladies as well. Say 100 messages a day.

1 minute to read each one only to find out there is one message that deserves a reply but that person lives 100 miles away.

That's every day as well.

You been peeping at my box?"

????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not many people use Fab to meet others despite what you think a swinger is.

Some use it to keep in touch with friends.

Some use it for the forums

Most use it to show off and seek attention.

Others use it to feel good about themselves.

If it's swingers you want to meet then go to a club and meet them.

Many people on here will struggle to even define what a swinger is let alone be one."

Succinctly point, sir.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you message someone, what makes you think they should reply? Bit entitled tof you ask me. No one here owes anyone anything. Unless they're a loan shark.

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By *exlover94 OP Man
over a year ago

Mitcham

"If you message someone, what makes you think they should reply? Bit entitled tof you ask me. No one here owes anyone anything. Unless they're a loan shark.

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