FabSwingers.com forum: Frustrating wife

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My wife gets really really turned on by the thought of me with a guy, when we are having sex she gets me to suck her fingers or one of her dildo's while I'm fucking her and she gets seriously wet and the noises she makes, she even dragged me into the toilets of a pub in soho when a guy came on to me in a pub and he grabbed my nuts, but I can't get her to agree to a guy joining us even if he is just for me, I've thought about setting up an ACCIDENTAL meet, just need some ideas on how to approach the subject, any help or advice would be much appreciated

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Yes. Never EVER attempt to deceive or you'll more than likely be signing divorce papers.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

Does the fact she won't agree to a real life man joining you not suggest that she's turned on by the fantasy but turned off/unsure/scared/completely disinterested by the reality? So trying to force the issue by setting up such an encounter is really disrespectful and comes across as all about what YOU want rather than her wishes.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Baby steps, try watching a bit of gay porn together and see how she reacts to that

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

She loves the fantasy, stay with it.

Mrs FGoS would love that for me also. It's gonna remain her fantasy too, its not my thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she enjoyed the "public" aspect of a guy touching you, how about a swingers' club on bi night. Discuss limits beforehand and review during.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t set anything up, she won’t be happy. As others have said maybe put some mmf porn on and see how she reacts to it,

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks, made me think about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

She likes watching gay and lesbian porn and gets very turned on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That is something that has crossed my mind

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes the whole set up idea does sound really dumb now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She likes watching gay and lesbian porn and gets very turned on "

So watch some and say “how would you feel trying that?”

If she says I’d love to win win. If she says no chance, put it in the box and don’t get it back out again.

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Have you asked her about watching you suck a guy without her getting in to it. Watch and when blow job over the guy leaves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like she likes the idea of it as a fantasy, but only that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sounds like she likes the idea of it as a fantasy, but only that."

Don't think you read same post as me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks, made me think about it

Reply and quote button below a post - use it

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

The idea of things is sometimes better than reality. It’s her brain and imagination turning her on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The idea of things is sometimes better than reality. It’s her brain and imagination turning her on. "

She imagined the ball grabbing incident in Soho?

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Maybe set up a couples profile?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thanks, made me think about it

Reply and quote button below a post - use it

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. Seen it now, ta

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"She likes watching gay and lesbian porn and gets very turned on

So watch some and say “how would you feel trying that?”

If she says I’d love to win win. If she says no chance, put it in the box and don’t get it back out again."
I think that is the way forward

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Tell her about the guy who verified you and see how she reacts to that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If she enjoyed the "public" aspect of a guy touching you, how about a swingers' club on bi night. Discuss limits beforehand and review during."
good idea

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Tell her about the guy who verified you and see how she reacts to that?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tell her about the guy who verified you and see how she reacts to that?"

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