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What helps you clear your mind

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So today I remembered bruce lee's words of wisdom

"Empty your mind, be formless. Shapeless, like water. If you put water into a cup, it becomes the cup. You put water into a bottle and it becomes the bottle. You put it in a teapot it becomes the teapot. Now, water can flow or it can crash. Be water my friend"

This helps me whenever I feel like my emotions weigh me down. The above quote helps me to relax as well as classical music (piano)

What helps you clear your mind?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Orgasms and dark fantasies.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Orgasms and dark fantasies. "

Tell me more about these fantasies how dark do they get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a snooze - it helps me reset.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Lark Ascending by Vaughan Williams fortunately works everytime.

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By *urplepussy_catWoman
over a year ago

Rochester


"The Lark Ascending by Vaughan Williams fortunately works everytime. "

Me too!!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Swimming and mucking out. When my body is occupied by such a physical task that does not require my mind I do all my best thinking, and get all my clearest insights.

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By *LFB.Woman
over a year ago

Farnborough.

I like to drive to the coast in the evening and just sit on the beach and listen to the sea.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

‘.....Don't think. FEEEEEEEEL! It's like a finger pointing away to the moon.

Do not concentrate on the finger or you will miss all of the heavenly glory!’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing my head is just a collection of random thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The Lark Ascending by Vaughan Williams fortunately works everytime.

Me too!! "

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Cleaning is a fantastic way of clearing my mind.

*Cough bloody cough*

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By *onnyeasygoingMan
over a year ago

Somewhere on the M62 between 24 and 14

Alighting my head on a pillow quickly taken from a fridge.

Or singing an array of Sammy Davis Jnr tunes in the shower.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I've given up on sex, so now my go to is wine, works a treat

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Going for a walk or listening to Steve Reich

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The Lark Ascending by Vaughan Williams fortunately works everytime. "

Good shout Doc.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

A walk with woof, just to see the play joy and unconditional love soon puts things in there rightful place.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like to drive to the coast in the evening and just sit on the beach and listen to the sea."

Sounds fab, wish I lived close to a beach

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By *ookingforlustMan
over a year ago

northants

Being a male, I’m quite lucky that my brain only lets one thing occupy it at a time. So clearing my mind is quite easy.

Thinking about boobs helps also.

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Orgasms and dark fantasies. "

Interesting, but if it works

XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Foo Fighters!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The Lark Ascending by Vaughan Williams fortunately works everytime.

Good shout Doc. "

Same back to you, my friend.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I kick ass in the gym, then the pool and finish jaccuzi / steam room ..... sometimes on a sunbed

Always feel cleansed

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Going for a stomp. Not a normal walk, a proper stompy walk. I tend to go to Runnymede to do it, park at the Pleasure Gardens, cross the road and stomp across the meadow to the Magna Carts site, then stomp on up Cooper's Hawk woodland steps to the top, walk round to the RAF Memorial and sit amidst the cloisters or up on the viewing platform on the roof and breath. I usually require oxygen by that point but my head is completely clear and sorted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drama - something to get my teeth into.

Gives me a break from studies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because of how my mind works. (over thinks everything and over works itself) due to being an introvert.

I usually meditate, listen to music or introspect. Introspect is my last port of call as it is quite mentally demanding. I have tried reading and distracting my self with other stuff but it only works short term rather than sorting the issues out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because of how my mind works. (over thinks everything and over works itself) due to being an introvert.

I usually meditate, listen to music or introspect. Introspect is my last port of call as it is quite mentally demanding. I have tried reading and distracting my self with other stuff but it only works short term rather than sorting the issues out.

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What is introspect? It still sounds like over thinking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swimming.

dog walking, usually up a hill.

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By *din and his ValkyrieCouple
over a year ago

Valhalla

Music a good song, giving a blow job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going into sub zone - that's why i like it so much can switch off and just enjoy the sensations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gym for me and a swim afterwards

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By *oungalpha20Man
over a year ago

North West /Cumbria

Music helps me escape reality. Even if it's for 3 minutes.

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By *oobs1Woman
over a year ago

Sussex

Listening to the sleep hypnosis app via Alexa/Spotify and/or kissing someone who really can kiss, makes me forget everything and chill right out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meditation. Going for a run or to the gym is also good. The added spin off is it releases endorphins into your system too.

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

Absinthe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go for a long run, focussing on my breathing, pacing and putting one foot in front of the other clears my mind of any extraneous thoughts and presses the reset on my emotions.

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By *ineMan
over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill

My dogs an empty beach or desolate mountain walking to the sounds of nature rivers singing or surf crashing and.....

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Being completely alone in the sea or nature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because of how my mind works. (over thinks everything and over works itself) due to being an introvert.

I usually meditate, listen to music or introspect. Introspect is my last port of call as it is quite mentally demanding. I have tried reading and distracting my self with other stuff but it only works short term rather than sorting the issues out.

What is introspect? It still sounds like over thinking. "

Is breaking down your thoughts and and disecting them to come to a conclusion as to why you have those thoughts. Its pretty much examining a thought and emotion process..

For example if you feel angry or annoyed disect that feeling to find out while you feel that. Because sometime the reason you think your annoyed isnt really the real reason at all.. The mind is a great trickster.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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Laughter with family or friends, lightheartedness and maybe a small gin. Although drinking is never the answer people

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

A long walk on my own usually does the trick - allows me time and space to analyse my thoughts/emotions and compartmentalise them and decide how best to deal with them

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"So today I remembered bruce lee's words of wisdom

"Empty your mind, be formless. Shapeless, like water. If you put water into a cup, it becomes the cup. You put water into a bottle and it becomes the bottle. You put it in a teapot it becomes the teapot. Now, water can flow or it can crash. Be water my friend"

This helps me whenever I feel like my emotions weigh me down. The above quote helps me to relax as well as classical music (piano)

What helps you clear your mind?

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Playing sport - I walk over the white line and nothing matters in the real world.

Going on the PS4 - As above really.

Used to be the same going clubbing, getting pissed up but these new ways are much better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yoga...namaste

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yoga...namaste "

Need to get into a form of yoga and meditation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking at green. Normally walking the dog near water; the sound of it; although almost everywhere is brown or yellow currently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gin!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Walking with Pooch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swimming- usually a mile in about 35 mins. Works wonders- you can't concentrate on anything else, no matter how many times you try.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dropping the kids at the pool

Or having a long sleep help me loads

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