FabSwingers.com forum: Fab infiltrated

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When I first joined FAB a few years back it seemed that the majority of people were real swingers. This was a site for meeting and making friends.

Now it feels it is just a place for people to just look. FAB doesn't really care since it's good for business.

I think a good clear out of non active and fake profiles are needed to keep this site a swingers site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will you volunteer the criteria for the cull?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’m not sure how useful getting rid of non active profiles would be. After all....they’re ‘inactive’, mainly harmless, I’d wager.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh. People use the site as they see fit, people don’t take a test on joining and there’s no swinging code of conduct.

I don’t worry too much about what other users are doing, I tend to focus on my little square of fab and let others get on with theirs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meh. People use the site as they see fit, people don’t take a test on joining and there’s no swinging code of conduct.

I don’t worry too much about what other users are doing, I tend to focus on my little square of fab and let others get on with theirs. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am fairly inactive as people don't want to meet me !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Swingers swing. I'll be happy to volunteer to be called if I was I inactive and not meeting people but I do as my veris show. However the block list is limited so the people who are fake still show in local.

By inactive I mean not swingers. Just fantasists or people looking to have their pictures fabbed. POF has gone the same way which is why people are coming here I instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I first joined FAB a few years back it seemed that the majority of people were real swingers. This was a site for meeting and making friends.

Now it feels it is just a place for people to just look. FAB doesn't really care since it's good for business.

I think a good clear out of non active and fake profiles are needed to keep this site a swingers site."

I am 100% in agreement , been on here for 7 years and it has gone down hill with fakes , spammers and prostitutes

Need to get back to being a fun site again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you define a swinger?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you define a swinger? "

Bit late in the game to be asking that one eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not a swinger but I meet..

It is not as straightforward as saying its a swinging site as nowadays its about different things for different people

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Fab is not exclusively for Swingers. In fact I reckon fewer than 50% of the active membership are swingers... Most are here for casual hook-ups. As swingers we tend to be of the 'live and let live' opinion, those simply looking for hook-ups don't bother us, our method of meeting sorts them from the genuine swingers.

Perhaps Swingers needs to be dropped from the site name? Fab meets maybe? Either way, the site has grown and evolved over the last 11/12 years, changes in its membership are inevitable.

Enjoy it however you choose to use it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I first joined FAB a few years back it seemed that the majority of people were real swingers. This was a site for meeting and making friends.

Now it feels it is just a place for people to just look. FAB doesn't really care since it's good for business.

I think a good clear out of non active and fake profiles are needed to keep this site a swingers site."
pessimist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab is not exclusively for Swingers. In fact I reckon fewer than 50% of the active membership are swingers... Most are here for casual hook-ups. As swingers we tend to be of the 'live and let live' opinion, those simply looking for hook-ups don't bother us, our method of meeting sorts them from the genuine swingers.

Perhaps Swingers needs to be dropped from the site name? Fab meets maybe? Either way, the site has grown and evolved over the last 11/12 years, changes in its membership are inevitable.

Enjoy it however you choose to use it."

How is Swinging any different to casual hook ups?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I first joined FAB a few years back it seemed that the majority of people were real swingers. This was a site for meeting and making friends.

Now it feels it is just a place for people to just look. FAB doesn't really care since it's good for business.

I think a good clear out of non active and fake profiles are needed to keep this site a swingers site."

What is your definition of 'non active'?

How many people do they have to fuck each month to allow them to stay on the site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im not a swinger but I meet..

It is not as straightforward as saying its a swinging site as nowadays its about different things for different people "

Agreed, things do naturally evolve and whilst I wouldn't consider myself a "swinger" fab does offer me the canvas to paint a happy lifestyle.

For me a swinger in my mind was always an old Couples game, predominantly in a caravan park lol

I don't consider myself a swinger as I don't have a partner (mrs) I'm just a single guy who enjoys anything other than monogamy

I like the different experiences, meeting different people etc.

Maybe fab could have a "fab singles" page where we can stay out of your way and you ours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't worry about how others use the site. I'm here for myself. How others use it, is none of my business. Why not just focus on using it the way you enjoy and let others get on with it? It makes for a more fulfilling experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel a franchise opportunity coming on.

Fabswingers

Fabdreamers

Fabsingletons

Fabmen

Fabwomen

Fabtrans

Fabwankers

Fabtimewasters

Fabfakers

Fabfabcollectors

Fabpiccollectors

Fabhookers

Fabwhingers

Have I missed any out?

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Perhaps Swingers needs to be dropped from the site name? Fab meets maybe? Either way, the site has grown and evolved over the last 11/12 years, changes in its membership are inevitable.

Enjoy it however you choose to use it.

How is Swinging any different to casual hook ups?"

I can't answer for all swingers, but for us the people we play with tend to become longer term friends, we developed a relationship with them that is ongoing. Of course at clubs we also enjoy random one off meets but essentially we seek friendships that we can grow within.

Swinging for us is not just one Saturday night a month.... It's a lifestyle choice. We have friends who I've known some 15 years, we socialise as well as enjoy eachother sexually.

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

"I feel a franchise opportunity coming on.

Fabswingers

Fabdreamers

Fabsingletons

Fabmen

Fabwomen

Fabtrans

Fabwankers

Fabtimewasters

Fabfakers

Fabfabcollectors

Fabpiccollectors

Fabhookers

Fabwhingers

Have I missed any out?"

Fabsydneyuniversity(students)

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I don't worry about how others use the site. I'm here for myself. How others use it, is none of my business. Why not just focus on using it the way you enjoy and let others get on with it? It makes for a more fulfilling experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps Swingers needs to be dropped from the site name? Fab meets maybe? Either way, the site has grown and evolved over the last 11/12 years, changes in its membership are inevitable.

Enjoy it however you choose to use it.

How is Swinging any different to casual hook ups?

Swinging for us is not just one Saturday night a month.... It's a lifestyle choice. We have friends who I've known some 15 years, we socialise as well as enjoy eachother sexually."

So Swinging can be casual hook ups in clubs/ hotels/ etc but also can be making friends.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Meh. People use the site as they see fit, people don’t take a test on joining and there’s no swinging code of conduct.

I don’t worry too much about what other users are doing, I tend to focus on my little square of fab and let others get on with theirs. "

Simply and succinctly put - echoes my thoughts perfectly

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Having a great volume of choice means increased potential for more people to use their heads, filtering for a good match. It means people can take a break and return as needed, without needing to create yet another profile.

Use search tools and good sense to work out who may be active and mutually matched.

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Gosh I'm sorry, I met someone I rather like (via fab) and am in a terribly monogamous relationship with him now, should I leave at once? Or can I stay and use the chat rooms to keep up with the many friends I've made over the last 7 or so years?

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

I'm going to run my profile the way I want to run it.

I'm going to let everyone else run their profiles the way they want to.

As long as Fab is happy that I'm not breaking any rules, anyone else who tells me how I should or shouldn't use the site can fuck off.

I know what there's too much of, too many self appointed policemen telling everybody else what to do.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

"When I first joined FAB a few years back it seemed that the majority of people were real swingers. This was a site for meeting and making friends.

Now it feels it is just a place for people to just look. FAB doesn't really care since it's good for business.

I think a good clear out of non active and fake profiles are needed to keep this site a swingers site."

Fab is just FB with cock and fanny pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh goody. Another thread telling us who's allowed to be here and how we are allowed to use the site to fit another's preconceptions....

I've really missed these since yesterday

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Oh goody. Another thread telling us who's allowed to be here and how we are allowed to use the site to fit another's preconceptions....

I've really missed these since yesterday

I think everyone who posts one of these threads should be banned.

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By *attoo manMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not sure what a swinger really is does that mean im a casualty?

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Perhaps Swingers needs to be dropped from the site name? Fab meets maybe? Either way, the site has grown and evolved over the last 11/12 years, changes in its membership are inevitable.

Enjoy it however you choose to use it.

How is Swinging any different to casual hook ups?

Swinging for us is not just one Saturday night a month.... It's a lifestyle choice. We have friends who I've known some 15 years, we socialise as well as enjoy eachother sexually.

So Swinging can be casual hook ups in clubs/ hotels/ etc but also can be making friends.

For some yes, but that's not what we ourselves use Fab for.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I wonder if link between the green flags and time on the site might cut down on the non participating side and deliberate facts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I first joined FAB a few years back it seemed that the majority of people were real swingers. This was a site for meeting and making friends.

Now it feels it is just a place for people to just look. FAB doesn't really care since it's good for business.

I think a good clear out of non active and fake profiles are needed to keep this site a swingers site."

A lot of real people here are fake anyway so what's the difference

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

"When I first joined FAB a few years back it seemed that the majority of people were real swingers. This was a site for meeting and making friends.

Now it feels it is just a place for people to just look. FAB doesn't really care since it's good for business.

I think a good clear out of non active and fake profiles are needed to keep this site a swingers site.

A lot of real people here are fake anyway so what's the difference"

You have a wonderful smile Agent, lovely teeth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bet its the Russians again.

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

I just think people are more picky. Gone are the days of shagging someone they don't fancy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel a franchise opportunity coming on.

Fabswingers

Fabdreamers

Fabsingletons

Fabmen

Fabwomen

Fabtrans

Fabwankers

Fabtimewasters

Fabfakers

Fabfabcollectors

Fabpiccollectors

Fabhookers

Fabwhingers

Have I missed any out?"

Fabunlos

For those that are constantly threatening to leave but are still onsite 3 days later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just think people are more picky. Gone are the days of shagging someone they don't fancy"

No wonder people are pissed off then.

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By *ervent_fervourMan
over a year ago

Halifax

"I feel a franchise opportunity coming on.

Fabswingers

Fabdreamers

Fabsingletons

Fabmen

Fabwomen

Fabtrans

Fabwankers

Fabtimewasters

Fabfakers

Fabfabcollectors

Fabpiccollectors

Fabhookers

Fabwhingers

Have I missed any out?"

Fabarses.

You, of all people, should know this..

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

"I just think people are more picky. Gone are the days of shagging someone they don't fancy

No wonder people are pissed off then."

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By *ervent_fervourMan
over a year ago

Halifax

It's a bit like what happens after a band you loved who were really 'small' for ages suddenly go big and you dislike the vibe at the enormodome gigs when this happens.

As in Black Keys/ White Stripes, etc etc.

I can see it from both sides though.

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