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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

...who loathes the term "BBW"?

I'm fat and never refer to myself as a BBW.

If I categorise my pics then I do select it but the term just makes me cringe.

Probably just me, but interested to find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t stand it either. However, I understand why it’s a vital part of the body positive movement...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...who loathes the term "BBW"?

I'm fat and never refer to myself as a BBW.

If I categorise my pics then I do select it but the term just makes me cringe.

Probably just me, but interested to find out "
I hate labels too especially on my shorts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do BBWs always say, ‘If you’re not into bigger women, then jog on !’

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I’m sure you’re not.

The B for beautiful seems to be the one most find problematic as it’s very subjective. I’m comfortable with the term. I’m big, pretty (see it’s subjective) and a woman. No issues here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you think of anything better. I use it as a polite term but like yourself I would say I am just fat but others take offence to being called fat so I'll stick to playing it safe.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway


"Why do BBWs always say, ‘If you’re not into bigger women, then jog on !’

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It’s because we can’t catch you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Mainly because I don't consider myself 'B' (the second one).

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK

I sometimes refer to myself as a FB (no not fuck buddy), fat b......

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Of course youre not. There have been numerous posts on the hundreds of bbw threads where people have said they dislike it.

Although I note that you do participate in the bbw chat threads so can't be that against the term.

I don't for a second belive I am beautiful as the acronym suggests big it is a useful label for people to see that I I'm a big lass.

I have no problem using the word fat to describe myself but a lot of people tend to use it alongside more insulting words and so it is not a popular way of describing people.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Of course youre not. There have been numerous posts on the hundreds of bbw threads where people have said they dislike it.

Although I note that you do participate in the bbw chat threads so can't be that against the term.

I don't for a second belive I am beautiful as the acronym suggests big it is a useful label for people to see that I I'm a big lass.

I have no problem using the word fat to describe myself but a lot of people tend to use it alongside more insulting words and so it is not a popular way of describing people. "

Oh and before I get accused of it..... I am not saying you shouldn't participate in bbw threads or indeed go to bbw events etc, it was just an observation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t say I hate it, I don’t feel it describes me I might be big, but beautiful no. But on here it serves a purpose to say I’m a bigger woman. X

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"I’m sure you’re not.

The B for beautiful seems to be the one most find problematic as it’s very subjective. I’m comfortable with the term. I’m big, pretty (see it’s subjective) and a woman. No issues here. "

Yes you are, that’s why you’re on my hotlist

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Yes. Mainly because I don't consider myself 'B' (the second one)."

You are, that’s why you’re on my hotlist too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. Mainly because I don't consider myself 'B' (the second one).

You are, that’s why you’re on my hotlist too "

Where did you tether your horse today?

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Yes. Mainly because I don't consider myself 'B' (the second one).

You are, that’s why you’re on my hotlist too

Where did you tether your horse today? "

Right outside -your- door, sweetcheeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like or dislike the term I chat alot on the BBW thread and it's used on our profile however I'm not beautiful but as people say beauty is in the beholder and if like to think I had an inner beauty p.s I'm fat and wobbly xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do BBWs always say, ‘If you’re not into bigger women, then jog on !’

It’s because we can’t catch you "

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

I used to think it stood for big bouncy women, sorry I don't mean to offend anyone I was just my ignorance on the subject at the time.

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By *umpsimusMan
over a year ago

Camberley

How about using the word Rubenesque ?

The word beautiful seems to be sticking point for the ladies who have posted here and I suppose you all have your own ideas of what that word means.

You all look beautiful to me, rarely will a stick thin lady catch my eye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I dont like it either , as surely all women are beautiful regardless of the size of their bodies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate the term bbw to and I'd never use it to describe myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never understood the need for labels i like i want i take pretty simple why label desire

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

How about fab, fabulous and bouncy for all you lovely ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't loathe it, but I don't identify as one. When a man messages and mentions BBW I tell him he's going to be very disappointed when he sees my face and saggy stomach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about fab, fabulous and bouncy for all you lovely ladies."

I'm none of them either.

I'm flabby and bloated.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

The term has become so used and normalised I think some now just a generic way of describing their size/shape even if they don't really like the the term or feel it reflects them. It's just become almost a default and no doubt lost a lot of its original meaning/intention (what ever that was).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes i loathe it ,i prefer i am curvy ,or i am size 18 or whatever

its just as bad as people that write gud instead of good , why would you do that ?

and a kiss after every sentence x

why would you do that x

do blokes think the women think ,oh he's such a lovely guy he sends me a kiss after every sentence x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes i loathe it ,i prefer i am curvy ,or i am size 18 or whatever

its just as bad as people that write gud instead of good , why would you do that ?

and a kiss after every sentence x

why would you do that x

do blokes think the women think ,oh he's such a lovely guy he sends me a kiss after every sentence x "

Lol

Mrs x

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

There are many terms I dislike.. I never use those acronyms

BBW, Milf, gilf, filf, cougar,..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just another label. I don't read too much into the terminology. Everyone knows that not every big person is beautiful. It's just a polite and gentle way to say fat. I see no issue with it personally. It's not meant as a negative, yet people take it as such. Or they feel it's condescending. I cant think of worst names to be called, in all honesty. That one is tame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just another label. I don't read too much into the terminology. Everyone knows that not every big person is beautiful. It's just a polite and gentle way to say fat. I see no issue with it personally. It's not meant as a negative, yet people take it as such. Or they feel it's condescending. I cant think of worst names to be called, in all honesty. That one is tame "

Can*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I dont like it either , as surely all women are beautiful regardless of the size of their bodies "

Everyone is beautiful to someone. But to some they won't be attractive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do BBWs always say, ‘If you’re not into bigger women, then jog on !’

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I don't but that is probably just because I'm fat and not a BBW

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"...who loathes the term "BBW"?

I'm fat and never refer to myself as a BBW.

If I categorise my pics then I do select it but the term just makes me cringe.

Probably just me, but interested to find out "
I'm not particularly bothered about labels . You know I think you are immensely Fuckable Miss . Coquette ....

( Except on Wednesday between 7 and 10pm ) It's coming home !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"yes i loathe it ,i prefer i am curvy ,or i am size 18 or whatever"

I'm inventing a new slant on BBW for myself...

I'm a TFF ... Tall, fat fucker

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"...who loathes the term "BBW"?

I'm fat and never refer to myself as a BBW.

If I categorise my pics then I do select it but the term just makes me cringe.

Probably just me, but interested to find out I'm not particularly bothered about labels . You know I think you are immensely Fuckable Miss . Coquette ....

( Except on Wednesday between 7 and 10pm ) It's coming home !!"

Thank you young man, and I agree I'm not available then either

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally I dont like it either , as surely all women are beautiful regardless of the size of their bodies

Everyone is beautiful to someone. But to some they won't be attractive. "

I know I'm not attractive to most but I also don't mind

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"...who loathes the term "BBW"?

I'm fat and never refer to myself as a BBW.

If I categorise my pics then I do select it but the term just makes me cringe.

Probably just me, but interested to find out I'm not particularly bothered about labels . You know I think you are immensely Fuckable Miss . Coquette ....

( Except on Wednesday between 7 and 10pm ) It's coming home !!

Thank you young man, and I agree I'm not available then either "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not a term I use.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does anyone ever say if your not into skinny bony types walk buy .Anyway back to the question I've never really thought it to be a bad thing , it's an abbreviation I look out for I like cuddly ladies. So I'm going to say if you don't like then I don't either. You look great by the way.x

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I'm not too keen on the bbw label but it does serve a useful purpose on fab. It can be a handy descriptor of body shape and size and we all know the options the site gives you to describe yourself aren't great.

I am definitely a woman and I'm big. As for being beautiful, I let others decide that for themselves. After all what one person thinks is beautiful the next might think is hideous.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" After all what one person thinks is beautiful the next might think is hideous. "

Exactly right ...

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I don’t use the term myself although if a lady derives some semblance of empowerment from utilising said acronym, then it’s all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I dont like it either , as surely all women are beautiful regardless of the size of their bodies

Everyone is beautiful to someone. But to some they won't be attractive.

I know I'm not attractive to most but I also don't mind "

I didn't mean you. x It was a general comment.

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