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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We meet. I get my clothes off and you suddenly really don't want to fuck me anymore. What would you do?

Would you feel obliged to go through with it and fuck me anyway?

What would you say if you decided to leave?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Because you have the wrong bits for me.

Although I like boobs and kissing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we'd gotten that far I can't see why I'd change my mind but probably would do to be polite lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know this refers to the other thread with the woman and the small willy. But for me sex is more than a physical thing. If someone had connected to me that much that I was getting down and naked with them then by the time we have both stripped off nothing is going to stop me from carrying on because I would be too into the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know this refers to the other thread with the woman and the small willy. But for me sex is more than a physical thing. If someone had connected to me that much that I was getting down and naked with them then by the time we have both stripped off nothing is going to stop me from carrying on because I would be too into the person. "

Yeah, this for me too.

However, I can appreciate that if you’re here for a big penis, as on the other thread, and someone’s lied to you about that, you might not want to continue. I think you can feel just as disappointed about being misled.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say "Shall we have a nice cup of tea instead?".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know this refers to the other thread with the woman and the small willy. But for me sex is more than a physical thing. If someone had connected to me that much that I was getting down and naked with them then by the time we have both stripped off nothing is going to stop me from carrying on because I would be too into the person. "

Not read the other thread but if they had been honest about their size, that's not a problem. One of the best times I have had was with someone who considered himself "less than".

If they have lied about their ability to use it, that is disappointing. But I wouldn't know that until we were further along than removing clothes.

I think for me, it doesn't matter how amazing you are with tongue and fingers I want the 'D', as they say!

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By *iger.10Man
over a year ago

Llantrisant

"We meet. I get my clothes off and you suddenly really don't want to fuck me anymore. What would you do?

Would you feel obliged to go through with it and fuck me anyway?

What would you say if you decided to leave?"

I'd say, surely by that time the connection has been made, hence I've never been in that situation.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I would say "Shall we have a nice cup of tea instead?"."

I'm just trying to imagine how I'd feel hearing that,think I'd either laugh or cry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's what socials and dates are for. To gauge whether the person would be fuckable without their clothes on. If I've gotten to the bedroom stage, 99% I'm going to fuck that person.

So I had a date last night that I really wasn't sure about and I almost made an excuse and left on first sight. But I decided to give her a chance and it turned into an incredible night. We spent a long time at a local pub talking and getting to know each other before we went back to her place. Attraction and chemistry built. It was a good decision.

If you get to the bedroom stage, there has to be some form of attraction, right? If they take their clothes off and there's something you don't like, personally I'd go through with it and then not see that person again. I suppose.

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon

"We meet. I get my clothes off and you suddenly really don't want to fuck me anymore. What would you do?

Would you feel obliged to go through with it and fuck me anyway?

What would you say if you decided to leave?"
Hmmmmm, foreplay, then say it's me that I have this problem often that I can't get hard. So take the blame to save your feelings....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would say "Shall we have a nice cup of tea instead?".

I'm just trying to imagine how I'd feel hearing that,think I'd either laugh or cry."

I'd be really happy, until later when the realisation dawned on me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We meet. I get my clothes off and you suddenly really don't want to fuck me anymore. What would you do?

Would you feel obliged to go through with it and fuck me anyway?

What would you say if you decided to leave?"

My cock would have the answer for you if it can stiffen without a touch yes if you had to work hard on it then no my cock desides all sexual activity so id give you an lickin and walk away into the sunset

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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago

deptford London

"I know this refers to the other thread with the woman and the small willy. But for me sex is more than a physical thing. If someone had connected to me that much that I was getting down and naked with them then by the time we have both stripped off nothing is going to stop me from carrying on because I would be too into the person. "

whats the other thread

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By *mooth shaftMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"We meet. I get my clothes off and you suddenly really don't want to fuck me anymore. What would you do?

Would you feel obliged to go through with it and fuck me anyway?

What would you say if you decided to leave?

My cock would have the answer for you if it can stiffen without a touch yes if you had to work hard on it then no my cock desides all sexual activity so id give you an lickin and walk away into the sunset "

Agree with this fella. Let the cock decide

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Nope - because as others have said I wouldn't have got as far as getting naked with someone unless I was 100% sure I wanted to take things further.

About the only time I can see being in that situation and feeling the need to back away would be if there was something medical they'd not told me about that was a concern e.g. obvious signs of an STI or similar or they had paid no attention to personal hygiene but by the time I usually meet people I would hope I know them well enough to not be concerned about either or them being honest with me about such things

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

"We meet. I get my clothes off and you suddenly really don't want to fuck me anymore. What would you do?

Would you feel obliged to go through with it and fuck me anyway?

What would you say if you decided to leave?"

I've always found honesty is the best way, not always the easiest definitely the best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d probably feign illness or something, maybe throw myself down the stairs or start sticking pencils up my nose while singing the national anthem, you’d soon kick me out, I’d then protest and tell you I really wanted to fuck you as you slam the door in my face. Job done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, I'd just crack on with it and take one for the team...unless there was a hygiene issue and/or as long the little fella could muster the required amount of rigidity.

(General point and does not relate to the OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We meet. I get my clothes off and you suddenly really don't want to fuck me anymore. What would you do?

Would you feel obliged to go through with it and fuck me anyway?

What would you say if you decided to leave? Hmmmmm, foreplay, then say it's me that I have this problem often that I can't get hard. So take the blame to save your feelings....

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How about if foreplay made you hard, but you still werent keen to carry on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d be totally honest and say I don’t want to take anything further.

If I wanted to have sex with someone I didn’t fancy I’d have stayed with my ex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I really really didnt want to go ahead I would probably burst into tears and get all emotional. Guaranteed to send men running for the hills

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds

If I'm in a room about to get naked I'd have already seen your body and obviously found you attractive or I wouldn't be there, and vice versa. I just think as long as there's honesty you can't go far wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I really really didnt want to go ahead I would probably burst into tears and get all emotional. Guaranteed to send men running for the hills

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I've done it, I was genuinnely remorseful after for a few reasons. It took a few days or so for the guilty feeling to go away.

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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago

deptford London

i dont think this would ever happen to any of you ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I really really didnt want to go ahead I would probably burst into tears and get all emotional. Guaranteed to send men running for the hills

I've done it, I was genuinnely remorseful after for a few reasons. It took a few days or so for the guilty feeling to go away."

Burst into tears or just stopped a meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I know this refers to the other thread with the woman and the small willy. But for me sex is more than a physical thing. If someone had connected to me that much that I was getting down and naked with them then by the time we have both stripped off nothing is going to stop me from carrying on because I would be too into the person. "

It partly refers to the other thread but partly also wondering in general.

A lot of people are saying they should go through with it anyway.

So if I or they changed our mind at the last minute we couldn't say no? Worrying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bang the fuck out of you

Leave you satisfied

Both enjoyed

If he’s to leave would say I’ve left the tap running

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We meet. I get my clothes off and you suddenly really don't want to fuck me anymore. What would you do?

Would you feel obliged to go through with it and fuck me anyway?

What would you say if you decided to leave?"

Strictly speaking if we met and you suddenly dropped your cacks I'd be confused

But, for the sakes of argument, if there's been some preamble that leads up to this and gets us both in the mood and you pull down your knickers to reveal a whapping great cock of a large Dorset crab living in your fanny hair

"Errr I'm really sorry but I can't do this"

Pants on, grab my clothes and run. Aghhh

That what you wanted to know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I really really didnt want to go ahead I would probably burst into tears and get all emotional. Guaranteed to send men running for the hills

I've done it, I was genuinnely remorseful after for a few reasons. It took a few days or so for the guilty feeling to go away.

Burst into tears or just stopped a meet. "

Neither, gone through with it I mean't.

Real men only cry over football.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I would say "Shall we have a nice cup of tea instead?".

I'm just trying to imagine how I'd feel hearing that,think I'd either laugh or cry.

I'd be really happy, until later when the realisation dawned on me. "

I'm not sure I'd ever meet again.

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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago

deptford London

id say i have to go wash my hair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never fuck someone if i didn't feel it anymore. My sense of shame afterwards would be too all consuming and take the fun aspect away, for a long time. I would just make some kind of spontaneous excuse to get myself out of the situation. I've never had that as of yet. Because i tend to make a connection with a person, before i even get to that stage. By then, I'm already very into them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d probably feign illness or something, maybe throw myself down the stairs or start sticking pencils up my nose while singing the national anthem, you’d soon kick me out, I’d then protest and tell you I really wanted to fuck you as you slam the door in my face. Job done."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all have choices. At every stage of any relationship or meet.

But perhaps a little more honesty up front about what we may be looking for would avoid such issues....

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By *ugga MannMan
over a year ago

Heathrow

Perhaps I’m not the usual chap you get on here, but if I’m not feeling it there’s no way my cock will perform as he should. That part of the ‘act’ has to be unthinking or the rest will be crap too - so why bother?

In truth, you might get oral attention, possibly enough to orgasm but that’s it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Perhaps I’m not the usual chap you get on here, but if I’m not feeling it there’s no way my cock will perform as he should. That part of the ‘act’ has to be unthinking or the rest will be crap too - so why bother?

In truth, you might get oral attention, possibly enough to orgasm but that’s it. "

What would you say to me if your cock wasn't hard because you didn't fancy me with my kit off?

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

"We meet. I get my clothes off and you suddenly really don't want to fuck me anymore. What would you do?

Would you feel obliged to go through with it and fuck me anyway?

What would you say if you decided to leave?"

There was this one time when I met with a couple and the female could not have shaved/trimmed for over a year. she had a hairier arse then me. very off putting I can assure you.

I did try to carry on regardless, but alas, I am a man and If it aint doing it for me, It aint staying hard. so it ended up a bit of a wash out.

though weirdly enough they enjoyed themselves and gave me a cracking Veri!!

SO............. done it yes, would I do it again? No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I wasn't going to fuck u op I'd never get u naked it's a bit callous and soul destroying as well as cruel, if your naked in going to fuck u and make sure u are screaming load enough to wake the dead lol

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By *ugga MannMan
over a year ago

Heathrow

"Perhaps I’m not the usual chap you get on here, but if I’m not feeling it there’s no way my cock will perform as he should. That part of the ‘act’ has to be unthinking or the rest will be crap too - so why bother?

In truth, you might get oral attention, possibly enough to orgasm but that’s it.

What would you say to me if your cock wasn't hard because you didn't fancy me with my kit off?"

I’d probably just say that it was me because it would be unkind to do otherwise. Although it’s also true that for me it’s the mental connection that gets me hot. If that’s not there you wouldn’t be naked with me anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Perhaps I’m not the usual chap you get on here, but if I’m not feeling it there’s no way my cock will perform as he should. That part of the ‘act’ has to be unthinking or the rest will be crap too - so why bother?

In truth, you might get oral attention, possibly enough to orgasm but that’s it.

What would you say to me if your cock wasn't hard because you didn't fancy me with my kit off?

I’d probably just say that it was me because it would be unkind to do otherwise. Although it’s also true that for me it’s the mental connection that gets me hot. If that’s not there you wouldn’t be naked with me anyway.

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You're a good egg. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stomach cramps I would say. Nobody wants the prospect of vomit and dihorrea mid meet lol

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Noooooo. If there's no spark during the initial snog, clothes won't be removed

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Of chat and laugh with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We meet. I get my clothes off and you suddenly really don't want to fuck me anymore. What would you do?

Would you feel obliged to go through with it and fuck me anyway?

What would you say if you decided to leave?"

No, cos once I was too young for you, now I am too old. So I will not be allowed to see you naked

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I’d start speaking in tongues and accuse you of housing a demon inside you. Works a treat every time

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