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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would you class "dates" with someone from a dating site cheating, if the date wasn't a swinger? OR is there no difference between swinging and dating vanilla others? thoughts please......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends if your married and playing away

yeah if you have a partner at home, if you meet off a dating site or a swinging site its cheating

if your single its not as you have noone to cheat on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

bf and gf of 2 years, don't live together, was sposed to be workin away, in fact was off on dates........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

then yes id class that as cheating

wether you live together or not makes no difference to me, if you have made a commitment to each other and then meet someone else on the sly its cheating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if the other dosent know about it then yes it is cheating, it can't really be anything else can it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"depends if your married and playing away

yeah if you have a partner at home, if you meet off a dating site or a swinging site its cheating

if your single its not as you have noone to cheat on

"

This sums it up for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"bf and gf of 2 years, don't live together, was sposed to be workin away, in fact was off on dates........ "

Aah, that puts a different spin on it.

Is it really a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship or fb one? I don't mean that disrespectfully but if he's dating and not on an adult or swinging site is he looking for a girlfriend?

Besides, you're here on your own!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we have a joint profile on here too, and he has his single one, but with our single meets we always told the other b4 about any meets, he cant see the difference between swingin and cheatin, i can, as i didnt go behind his back to meet others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think if ya see anyone and it's serious then yes swinging becomes cheating if the other person is not aware of it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its cheating if you are lied too.. or if you dont know about it in my book

THat is how master and I define it.. Its something that the other knows nothing about.

Cali x

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By *hristopher WalksMan
over a year ago

somewhere

I agree with soapy; if the other person is unaware then I will say it is cheating. But before you get into what cheating is or isn't, those two people in that relationship needs set rules from the start and decided together what you both expect from each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we have a joint profile on here too, and he has his single one, but with our single meets we always told the other b4 about any meets, he cant see the difference between swingin and cheatin, i can, as i didnt go behind his back to meet others "

How you see it is all that matters. Opinion of others is pretty much irrelevent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we have a joint profile on here too, and he has his single one, but with our single meets we always told the other b4 about any meets, he cant see the difference between swingin and cheatin, i can, as i didnt go behind his back to meet others "

If he is meeting women for sex without your knowledge then he is cheating.

I see it this way... say he has met 10 ladies through either swinging or dating sites and chooses to tell you about one of the meets he is cheating.

...if he tells you everything, then he is not in the wrong.

He lied to you about working away so he can go off on dates and he doesn't think he's cheating?

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"bf and gf of 2 years, don't live together, was sposed to be workin away, in fact was off on dates........ "

If he was on dates........ and you two are 'together as a dating item', then YES...... it's cheating.

If he is having sex, behind your back, without telling you or lying about it...... YES......... it's cheating.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Would you class "dates" with someone from a dating site cheating, if the date wasn't a swinger? OR is there no difference between swinging and dating vanilla others? thoughts please...... "
How do you see it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i see it as cheating, he does not, we were a "proper couple" we even discussed movin in together!!, so we are at stalemate and i just wondred how others saw it

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"i see it as cheating, he does not, we were a "proper couple" we even discussed movin in together!!, so we are at stalemate and i just wondred how others saw it "
well like someone else said on the thread i think what others think is a bit irrelevant, yes you asked for opinions, but if all the opinions were it wasnt cheating would you feel any different?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yes and i value others opinions, i just thought i may be lookin at it "wrong", if he had met a swinger i would b ok with it, he didnt he lied AND met a vanilla,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn't quite get the OP at first but I do now

Anything done behind anyone's back along those lines without the other partners knowledge and consent in my eyes is cheating simple as fa me

And that is the only thing I would ever find totally unexceptable and would seriously question the relationship basis and more than likely walk away

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

lets be honest here ... if you dont think you done anything wrong you wouldnt lie about any part of . your bf lied ... that says it all .

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