FabSwingers.com forum: Blocking....why?

By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Inspiration from another thread.

What reasons do you block for?

I used to block for abuse when my filters were open.

Now I just block is someone naffs me off via a message or something on the forums.

Any other reasons Fabsters....

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Merely breathing...

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

when someone is way outside what we're looking for, to stop us messaging them

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I block if I recognise someone locally and don't want them to be able to contact/view me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Abuse and I counter block if someone blocks me. I think I've only about ten or so on my list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of the above

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By *xycpl699Couple
over a year ago

kilmarnock

we block non smokers as we are never going to meet them. hollie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A question I sometimes ask too.

Why on A adult site in an adult world do so many see the block button as a way to deal with anything?

Any door that's locked shut changes nothing...

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By *0tt0nSu3Woman
over a year ago

London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A question I sometimes ask too.

Why on A adult site in an adult world do so many see the block button as a way to deal with anything?

Any door that's locked shut changes nothing...

"adult"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they message me and I'm not interested I'll block someone straight away. It just means they don't then message me again.

I've blocked people before who I tight I'd have otherwise maybe been interested in but something they've posted on their status or on the forums has irritated me.

I also block people who I message but they don't respond. That's not in a sulky malicious way it just means they're not interested so it stops me from messaging them again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A question I sometimes ask too.

Why on A adult site in an adult world do so many see the block button as a way to deal with anything?

Any door that's locked shut changes nothing...

"adult"

I'm ever the optimist

And never blocked anyone.

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By *0tt0nSu3Woman
over a year ago

London

"Inspiration from another thread.

What reasons do you block for?

I used to block for abuse when my filters were open.

Now I just block is someone naffs me off via a message or something on the forums.

Any other reasons Fabsters....

I've been known to block profiles that require me to run for some Domestos for my eyes. I don't need to see it again.

However, there are some that are just SO bad. One was a bloke using his erect cock as a toilet paper holder. It is at that point where you think why bloody bother?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block if I recognise someone locally and don't want them to be able to contact/view me."

Same. And also guys that can't get the message when you don't reply and keep sending messages!

Mrs x

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I block profiles that either don’t match what I’m looking for, or I don’t fit what they’re looking for. Cuts the wheat from the chaff in my local searches, and saves time overall. I also block forumites who list things like “VWE only”, or “no baldies thanks” or “6ft tall and above please”, or “black men only”, just because I can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A question I sometimes ask too.

Why on A adult site in an adult world do so many see the block button as a way to deal with anything?

Any door that's locked shut changes nothing...

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That's precisely why. It is just an adult site. Why go through all the effort of dealing with anything. We have enough of that in our normal lives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block barebackers, drug users, racists and people who throw abuse at me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone I'm not interested in so that they don't message me again

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I block profiles that either don’t match what I’m looking for, or I don’t fit what they’re looking for. Cuts the wheat from the chaff in my local searches, and saves time overall. I also block forumites who list things like “VWE only”, or “no baldies thanks” or “6ft tall and above please”, or “black men only”, just because I can

Would you block all with a label? For example a BBW? Okay ladies who class themselves with BBW I’ll let you through the barricade!

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent

Usually takes a lot for us to use the block button, any racial abuse (we get quite often) is an instant block.

If we know someone in rl, that’s also a block.

Apart from that we are pretty easy going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Abuse, if they message multiple times despite me saying I’m not interested, if they’re on my local updates and I find their profile/photos a turn off (yes carrot man I’m talking to you).

Or if I get creepy messages, I.e ‘I’ll think of you next time I fuck my sister’ or the ones asking to fuck his dog

Or just if I’m being lazy and I’m not interested. I try reply if they’ve put effort into their message and/or have clearly read my profile, but I’m not replying to ‘let me cum on your tits’

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"A question I sometimes ask too.

Why on A adult site in an adult world do so many see the block button as a way to deal with anything?

Any door that's locked shut changes nothing...

"adult"

I'm ever the optimist

And never blocked anyone."

So you've never had someone message and be vile to you for no reason,lucky man.

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By *rishman444Man
over a year ago

letterkenny

I block women I message and if they read and no message back or if they delete saves me from annoying them again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone I'm not interested in so that they don't message me again "

more importantly - what do you think about the pedestrianisation of Norwich city centre?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block women I message and if they read and no message back or if they delete saves me from annoying them again "

maybe they were waiting to get back to you!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Usually takes a lot for us to use the block button, any racial abuse (we get quite often) is an instant block.

If we know someone in rl, that’s also a block.

Apart from that we are pretty easy going. "

Unrelated but jeeez your pictures are hot !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to block people that pop up day in day out with stupid status things on my local updates, get fed up of them so I block. I wonky hadcause to block a couple of people who really get on my tits orgave been total wankers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they message me and I'm not interested I'll block someone straight away. It just means they don't then message me again.

I've blocked people before who I tight I'd have otherwise maybe been interested in but something they've posted on their status or on the forums has irritated me.

I also block people who I message but they don't respond. That's not in a sulky malicious way it just means they're not interested so it stops me from messaging them again. "

Same as this and it's quite extensive.

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

Most of the people on my block list are either numpties from the chat rooms (either saying the same shit over and over or who've blocked me because I talk to certain women) or women who I've messaged and they've deleted the message. Saves accidentally messaging them again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block goldfish brains that persistently send me 'opening' messages despite not fitting my requirements and ignoring my decline message from last time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t have many on my block list, normally it’s because they’ve either been a pest and not taking no as an answer or abusive. And my ex husband continually when he makes a new profile. X

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I block goldfish brains that persistently send me 'opening' messages despite not fitting my requirements and ignoring my decline message from last time."

That’s unfair you’re insulting gold fish, what have they done?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block goldfish brains that persistently send me 'opening' messages despite not fitting my requirements and ignoring my decline message from last time."

Unrelated but the kids at work keep singing ‘Hi, I’m bob, and I’m a goldfish, I have the memory of, Hi, I’m Bob, and I’m a goldfish, and I have the memory of...’ OVER AND OVER AND OVER

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're not interested in them

Their profile makes it clear they're not interested in us

Annoying constant updates

Butchers shop window pictures of ugly fannies that come up on our local feed

Views expressed on the forum that are incompatible with our values...

Doms

People who constantly look at us but we wouldn't meet...

People we know from real life

This is not an exhaustive list...I'm positive there are other reasons...

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I only block abusers or persistent men that don't understand the 'no thanks' so then revert to sending crude messages

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By *rishman444Man
over a year ago

letterkenny

"I block women I message and if they read and no message back or if they delete saves me from annoying them again

maybe they were waiting to get back to you!! "

Well I do give them a week but most if them just delete the message so that's the answer that there not interested so I just block

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"We're not interested in them

Their profile makes it clear they're not interested in us

Annoying constant updates

Butchers shop window pictures of ugly fannies that come up on our local feed

Views expressed on the forum that are incompatible with our values...

Doms

People who constantly look at us but we wouldn't meet...

People we know from real life

This is not an exhaustive list...I'm positive there are other reasons...

I was going to glance your profile but way too scared to now

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I block women I message and if they read and no message back or if they delete saves me from annoying them again

maybe they were waiting to get back to you!!

Well I do give them a week but most if them just delete the message so that's the answer that there not interested so I just block "

Do you use an electronic diary to remind you to block them? In my job I couldn’t survive without my electronic diary.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A question I sometimes ask too.

Why on A adult site in an adult world do so many see the block button as a way to deal with anything?

Any door that's locked shut changes nothing...

why do you want to change things?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A question I sometimes ask too.

Why on A adult site in an adult world do so many see the block button as a way to deal with anything?

Any door that's locked shut changes nothing...

"adult"

I'm ever the optimist

And never blocked anyone.

So you've never had someone message and be vile to you for no reason,lucky man."

Yeah

He hasnt had the full Fab experience

Yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're not interested in them

Their profile makes it clear they're not interested in us

Annoying constant updates

Butchers shop window pictures of ugly fannies that come up on our local feed

Views expressed on the forum that are incompatible with our values...

Doms

People who constantly look at us but we wouldn't meet...

People we know from real life

This is not an exhaustive list...I'm positive there are other reasons...

I was going to glance your profile but way too scared to now

Don't be scared...we're pussy cats really...just can't be arsed with all the bollocks that goes on here...we like an easy life

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By *rishman444Man
over a year ago

letterkenny

Na I know I just look my messages and it tells u wen u message them lol and if it's a week it over I hit the block button I don't see any point in trying again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Inspiration from another thread.

What reasons do you block for?

I used to block for abuse when my filters were open.

Now I just block is someone naffs me off via a message or something on the forums.

Any other reasons Fabsters....

I block because I don't want any interaction with that person/persons.

Not now,not ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've blocked a few people because they mail incessantly despite me not replying. They just seem desperate and not the kind of people I'd want to engage with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never block, it’s something I pride myself on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

Don't think I have anybody blocked at the minute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block profiles which say "BBC only/ White men only", "9" +", "VWE only", "specific height" etc, I also block those who I've messaged and they either haven't replied after a day or two or seen and ignored for several hours, prevents me from messaging them again and saves both of us time.

Actually helps me get to people who are either interested or can have a a conversation more then a handful of words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A question I sometimes ask too.

Why on A adult site in an adult world do so many see the block button as a way to deal with anything?

Any door that's locked shut changes nothing...

"adult"

I'm ever the optimist

And never blocked anyone.

So you've never had someone message and be vile to you for no reason,lucky man."

No point in blocking them. Just report. If they're that vile they'd just make a new profile to keep on messaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't think I have anybody blocked at the minute"

Please unblock me,I can change !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don’t on the whole see the point in blocking. It’s not like blocking people really changes our experience of the site. Unless of course someone has made a nuisance of the themselves, then blocking will prevent them continuing to be a nuisance. But no we rarely block.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one been blocked by someone I met and played with we both verified each other then 2 days later i was blocked who knows why lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"one been blocked by someone I met and played with we both verified each other then 2 days later i was blocked who knows why lol "

They can't of liked the review, perhaps they wanted a scorecard

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By *azza80Woman
over a year ago

Your wildest Dreams

I block if I get message saying..'fancy a fuck' or something along those lines as altho this is a sex site, I dont fuck just anyone..or if friend request me wen my profile clearly states I dont add unless I hav met. People who dont read my profile really piss me off..i kno its long like but thats cuz was fed up of all the questions so all info is right ther..u dont read it properly then its block button xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block if I get message saying..'fancy a fuck' or something along those lines as altho this is a sex site, I dont fuck just anyone..or if friend request me wen my profile clearly states I dont add unless I hav met. People who dont read my profile really piss me off..i kno its long like but thats cuz was fed up of all the questions so all info is right ther..u dont read it properly then its block button xx"

I was gonna message but I need to print that off to write my reply and make sure I wasn't blocked!! like war and peace that girl.....

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By *azza80Woman
over a year ago

Your wildest Dreams

I was gonna message but I need to print that off to write my reply and make sure I wasn't blocked!! like war and peace that girl....."

Hahaha sorry but was getting asked so many questions xx

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"Don't think I have anybody blocked at the minute

Please unblock me,I can change ! "

Stop sending me the faf messages then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block people I have invited to meet and then haven’t turned up or had the decency to message to say that they are not coming or message arranging a meet and then just before it’s due they just don’t go online or read the message. It’s very annoying and frustrating and I hate time wasters and fantasists

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Merely breathing..."

'Holds breath'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was gonna message but I need to print that off to write my reply and make sure I wasn't blocked!! like war and peace that girl.....

Hahaha sorry but was getting asked so many questions xx"

It's ok I read I'd be blocked anyway....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (sweetmiss) block. He doesnt tend to be botherd by much to be honest.

I block if

Repeat messages deapite saying no thanks.

People who we have meet for a social on a few occassions who have turned out to be head farts for a multitude reason.

People who have not replied to about a meet ( again not in a spit the dummy out way their just not interestd and save me accidently trying to engage them again)

And the people who no show at our partys with no explaination despite saying they coming.

And the list surprisingly is not that long.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Would you block all with a label? For example a BBW? Okay ladies who class themselves with BBW I’ll let you through the barricade!

Not all with a label no; “VWE” they’re interested in a cock with legs, not the person. “Baldies” a man can do nothing about male pattern baldness, it doesn’t affect his personality or ability to communicate, or his libido, and it isn’t contagious. “6ft+” again, body shaming. “Black guys only” no point me contacting them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I obviously did the trick then

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I (sweetmiss) block. He doesnt tend to be botherd by much to be honest.

I block if

Repeat messages deapite saying no thanks.

People who we have meet for a social on a few occassions who have turned out to be head farts for a multitude reason.

People who have not replied to about a meet ( again not in a spit the dummy out way their just not interestd and save me accidently trying to engage them again)

And the people who no show at our partys with no explaination despite saying they coming.

And the list surprisingly is not that long. "

I remember once been threatened I would be blocked before I attended a party if I didn’t give so many hours notice if I wasn’t going. I thought wtf as at the time I had a poorly relative, so I ended up cancelling because of the threat....

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Would you block all with a label? For example a BBW? Okay ladies who class themselves with BBW I’ll let you through the barricade!

I get this but some people have a preference, not everyone likes baldies but I am sure some are nice people. Again 6ft+ some like small people.

So harsh.....she says giggling

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I only block if I've said no and they write again wanting me to reconsider.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I (sweetmiss) block. He doesnt tend to be botherd by much to be honest.

I block if

Repeat messages deapite saying no thanks.

People who we have meet for a social on a few occassions who have turned out to be head farts for a multitude reason.

People who have not replied to about a meet ( again not in a spit the dummy out way their just not interestd and save me accidently trying to engage them again)

And the people who no show at our partys with no explaination despite saying they coming.

And the list surprisingly is not that long.

Thats a bit poor that. We would never threaten to block anyone. And if they had a reason or even if they just changed there mind and let us know then no blocking would happen.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Repeat messages after saying no

Aggressive constant status updates or naming others.

People who ask to meet immediately and people I wouldnt want contact with in the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I (sweetmiss) block. He doesnt tend to be botherd by much to be honest.

I block if

Repeat messages deapite saying no thanks.

People who we have meet for a social on a few occassions who have turned out to be head farts for a multitude reason.

People who have not replied to about a meet ( again not in a spit the dummy out way their just not interestd and save me accidently trying to engage them again)

And the people who no show at our partys with no explaination despite saying they coming.

And the list surprisingly is not that long.

Did you tell them you had a poorly relative?

Sounds like they were using you as bait. I would have cancelled too!

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I (sweetmiss) block. He doesnt tend to be botherd by much to be honest.

I block if

Repeat messages deapite saying no thanks.

People who we have meet for a social on a few occassions who have turned out to be head farts for a multitude reason.

People who have not replied to about a meet ( again not in a spit the dummy out way their just not interestd and save me accidently trying to engage them again)

And the people who no show at our partys with no explaination despite saying they coming.

And the list surprisingly is not that long.

Did you tell them you had a poorly relative?

Sounds like they were using you as bait. I would have cancelled too! "

No because my private life was not their business. I’m reliable (if no emergencies arise) and to be judged on possibly what ‘others’ had done to them didn’t bode well so I cancelled and had prosecco and strawberries at home. They missed out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm ever the optimist

And never blocked anyone."

But you don’t get a monthly message from the same person asking if you sleep with circumsized men..

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I rarely block but when I do it’s for a valid reason not just because I’m in a mood. I have blocked because of lack of manners and filthy first messages. I have also blocked because of a personal comment that was made once.

There’s little point in blocking, as I know only too well, if someone is determined then they will create another profile or multiple profiles to get to you.

Luckily I don’t get hassle so blocking is a rarity. I do counter block though if someone blocks me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I rarely block but when I do it’s for a valid reason not just because I’m in a mood. I have blocked because of lack of manners and filthy first messages. I have also blocked because of a personal comment that was made once.

There’s little point in blocking, as I know only too well, if someone is determined then they will create another profile or multiple profiles to get to you.

Luckily I don’t get hassle so blocking is a rarity. I do counter block though if someone blocks me. "

counter block haha like it's chess

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

There’s little point in blocking, as I know only too well, if someone is determined then they will create another profile or multiple profiles to get to you.

Luckily I don’t get hassle so blocking is a rarity. I do counter block though if someone blocks me.

counter block haha like it's chess"

That’s exactly what it’s like!

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By *aveyIOM1970Man
over a year ago

douglas

"A question I sometimes ask too.

Why on A adult site in an adult world do so many see the block button as a way to deal with anything?

Any door that's locked shut changes nothing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To remove them , fins out what I don't want.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I have started blocking people for the Hi there messages, as I can't be bothered explaining to them why I won't go any further in talking to them.

I have also been blocked for fabbing someone's pictures, but each to their own.

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

"A question I sometimes ask too.

Why on A adult site in an adult world do so many see the block button as a way to deal with anything?

Any door that's locked shut changes nothing...

If you got some of the messages I got, you'd block too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block goldfish brains that persistently send me 'opening' messages despite not fitting my requirements and ignoring my decline message from last time.

That’s unfair you’re insulting gold fish, what have they done?

They can't remember so doesn't matter.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block button has become my friend in recent times...too many local lads perving every five minutes (they could be my son's friends!), women who for whatever reason take a dislike then have to let me know...thanks

, people who have opinions that I know we wouldn't be compatible.

I never used to bother blocking but now I see it as just saving myself from negative or uncomfortable feelings.

Peach x

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

If I'm messaged that either has no further interest or is abusive. Based on the amount of messages I get the block button doesn't get much activity

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over a year ago

"Block button has become my friend in recent times...too many local lads perving every five minutes (they could be my son's friends!), women who for whatever reason take a dislike then have to let me know...thanks

, people who have opinions that I know we wouldn't be compatible.

I never used to bother blocking but now I see it as just saving myself from negative or uncomfortable feelings.

Peach x"

So that actually happens that women will message you just to slag you off? shocking!!

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Inspiration from another thread.

What reasons do you block for?

I used to block for abuse when my filters were open.

Now I just block is someone naffs me off via a message or something on the forums.

Any other reasons Fabsters....

We counter block .

We block those who are local that we know we wouldn’t want to meet .

We block those who keep posting pics we don’t like seeing .

And we block anyone who keeps putting up status updates that are begging , drug related or negative .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block if I get constant messages, even when I've told them nicely they're not my type. Or if the message is just gross.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Would you block all with a label? For example a BBW? Okay ladies who class themselves with BBW I’ll let you through the barricade!

I get this but some people have a preference, not everyone likes baldies but I am sure some are nice people. Again 6ft+ some like small people.

So harsh.....she says giggling

I agree completely! And my preference is to block people I don’t match due to their preferences.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who messages me again after I've politely declined. Anyone who sends a vile message. Never blocked anyone simply because I don't like the look of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only one reason. I don't want any communication from that person. That is what it's for after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A question I sometimes ask too.

Why on A adult site in an adult world do so many see the block button as a way to deal with anything?

Any door that's locked shut changes nothing...

"adult"

I'm ever the optimist

And never blocked anyone.

So you've never had someone message and be vile to you for no reason,lucky man."

It has happened, on very rare occasions. So maybe I am lucky, who knows.

There was one sectarian idiot here, sent me a message saying "we know where you live". Which is far more chilling of a threat here than back home if your easily intimidated. And followed it by immediately going unlos!

However find the delete button to be effective enough....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only block abusers or persistent men that don't understand the 'no thanks' so then revert to sending crude messages "

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over a year ago

Would you block all with a label? For example a BBW? Okay ladies who class themselves with BBW I’ll let you through the barricade!

I get this but some people have a preference, not everyone likes baldies but I am sure some are nice people. Again 6ft+ some like small people.

So harsh.....she says giggling

We are very particular about the type of person we are on this site to meet. And that is very well endowed black men. For sex. I have a vast group of friends who are all shapes and sizes and ethnicities but Fab is for this

Mrs x

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

We block people we wouldnt consider meeting, either because the wife doesn't fancy them, or occasionally because of things they say or do.

Blocking is simply admin to us. It's no big deal.

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By *attoo manMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

Time wasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Inspiration from another thread.

What reasons do you block for?

I used to block for abuse when my filters were open.

Now I just block is someone naffs me off via a message or something on the forums.

Any other reasons Fabsters....

If they don’t meet our requirements/don’t like them. It might sound harsh, but saves any dramas.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I've blocked three people in my time here - two of them were women who were full of homophobic comment on the forums and n9t to be reasoned with - the other was a guy who sent 5 "fancy a BJ?" type messages in the space of 24 hours.

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By *afadaoMan
over a year ago

Staines

I block for a few reasons;

If I am absolutely not what another local member is looking for.

If I have messaged someone and they delete without reply.

If someone mentions a fondness for drugs in their profile or will only play bareback.

I don’t worry about any of the above - there is just literally no chance or meeting them so there’s no point in their profiles popping up on my searches or updates. Makes filtering easier.

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