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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For some bizarre reason I have yet to fathom, it is not unusual for younger ladies to engage me in conversation at the gym. There are a few that I now see there regularly. They are a bit flirty but they are not my preference as they are ages with my children. Today I was in a workout area, on my own, doing some stretches on a mat when a young lady I haven't spoken to came in. I had just come off a treadmill and she had been alongside me, but I hadn't paid much attention whilst I was trying to avoid cardiac arrest. Now this room is about 40' square with mats on 3 sides. There is also a larger matted space adjoining it. So there's loads of other mats available, but she chooses the one right next to me to work out on. I never instigate conversations with women at the gym because I don't want to be the creepy gym guy. So we never spoke, but as I finished and left after about 15 minutes she had a hurt look on her face, and not from working out. Was she trying to tell me something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A simple 'good morning' from you wouldn't of hurt, or sounded creepy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For some bizarre reason I have yet to fathom, it is not unusual for younger ladies to engage me in conversation at the gym. There are a few that I now see there regularly. They are a bit flirty but they are not my preference as they are ages with my children. Today I was in a workout area, on my own, doing some stretches on a mat when a young lady I haven't spoken to came in. I had just come off a treadmill and she had been alongside me, but I hadn't paid much attention whilst I was trying to avoid cardiac arrest. Now this room is about 40' square with mats on 3 sides. There is also a larger matted space adjoining it. So there's loads of other mats available, but she chooses the one right next to me to work out on. I never instigate conversations with women at the gym because I don't want to be the creepy gym guy. So we never spoke, but as I finished and left after about 15 minutes she had a hurt look on her face, and not from working out. Was she trying to tell me something?"

She was a women so god knows!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For some bizarre reason I have yet to fathom, it is not unusual for younger ladies to engage me in conversation at the gym. There are a few that I now see there regularly. They are a bit flirty but they are not my preference as they are ages with my children. Today I was in a workout area, on my own, doing some stretches on a mat when a young lady I haven't spoken to came in. I had just come off a treadmill and she had been alongside me, but I hadn't paid much attention whilst I was trying to avoid cardiac arrest. Now this room is about 40' square with mats on 3 sides. There is also a larger matted space adjoining it. So there's loads of other mats available, but she chooses the one right next to me to work out on. I never instigate conversations with women at the gym because I don't want to be the creepy gym guy. So we never spoke, but as I finished and left after about 15 minutes she had a hurt look on her face, and not from working out. Was she trying to tell me something?"

Maybe her cats ran away

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Simply flash them a smile; It speaks a thousand words yet is not requisite of any vocalisation and who knows where it could lead....

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"Simply flash them a smile; It speaks a thousand words yet is not requisite of any vocalisation and who knows where it could lead.... "

I agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A simple 'good morning' from you wouldn't of hurt, or sounded creepy."

I used to, years ago when I first started using a gym, especially if it was someone I had seen a few times, but more often than not I just got a funny look and no answer, so I stopped. Spin classes were more sociable but I didn't enjoy spinning. People are funny stuff...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe just a smile and a good morning would have been polite. I often do that with men in the gym, not trying to chat anyone up but sometimes it’s just nice to acknowledge they’re there x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must admit when I’m at the gym I’m in no look or position to be flirting or chatting. If someone is attracted to me when I’m working out then they’ll be severely disappointed when I turn up to meet them not beetroot red, gasping in pain or dripping with sweat.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley


"I must admit when I’m at the gym I’m in no look or position to be flirting or chatting. If someone is attracted to me when I’m working out then they’ll be severely disappointed when I turn up to meet them not beetroot red, gasping in pain or dripping with sweat. "

On the flip side she’ll know what you look like after sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A simple 'good morning' from you wouldn't of hurt, or sounded creepy.

I used to, years ago when I first started using a gym, especially if it was someone I had seen a few times, but more often than not I just got a funny look and no answer, so I stopped. Spin classes were more sociable but I didn't enjoy spinning. People are funny stuff..."

Oh some of you southerners are a queer breed

I do think northerners are more prone to say hello to pasers-by etc without it coming across as strange.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must admit when I’m at the gym I’m in no look or position to be flirting or chatting. If someone is attracted to me when I’m working out then they’ll be severely disappointed when I turn up to meet them not beetroot red, gasping in pain or dripping with sweat.

On the flip side she’ll know what you look like after sex! "

The mind boggles if I’m gasping in pain!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For some bizarre reason I have yet to fathom, it is not unusual for younger ladies to engage me in conversation at the gym. There are a few that I now see there regularly. They are a bit flirty but they are not my preference as they are ages with my children. Today I was in a workout area, on my own, doing some stretches on a mat when a young lady I haven't spoken to came in. I had just come off a treadmill and she had been alongside me, but I hadn't paid much attention whilst I was trying to avoid cardiac arrest. Now this room is about 40' square with mats on 3 sides. There is also a larger matted space adjoining it. So there's loads of other mats available, but she chooses the one right next to me to work out on. I never instigate conversations with women at the gym because I don't want to be the creepy gym guy. So we never spoke, but as I finished and left after about 15 minutes she had a hurt look on her face, and not from working out. Was she trying to tell me something?"

I give a telling nod with a smile or if I had a cap I would tilt it to bid them adieu. Thats to both guys and girls that little gesture can make that last rep a little easier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A simple 'good morning' from you wouldn't of hurt, or sounded creepy.

I used to, years ago when I first started using a gym, especially if it was someone I had seen a few times, but more often than not I just got a funny look and no answer, so I stopped. Spin classes were more sociable but I didn't enjoy spinning. People are funny stuff...

Oh some of you southerners are a queer breed

I do think northerners are more prone to say hello to pasers-by etc without it coming across as strange."

This is why I fell in love with the north. To The King In The North #Gameofthrones

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"For some bizarre reason I have yet to fathom, it is not unusual for younger ladies to engage me in conversation at the gym. There are a few that I now see there regularly. They are a bit flirty but they are not my preference as they are ages with my children. Today I was in a workout area, on my own, doing some stretches on a mat when a young lady I haven't spoken to came in. I had just come off a treadmill and she had been alongside me, but I hadn't paid much attention whilst I was trying to avoid cardiac arrest. Now this room is about 40' square with mats on 3 sides. There is also a larger matted space adjoining it. So there's loads of other mats available, but she chooses the one right next to me to work out on. I never instigate conversations with women at the gym because I don't want to be the creepy gym guy. So we never spoke, but as I finished and left after about 15 minutes she had a hurt look on her face, and not from working out. Was she trying to tell me something?"

Are you sure ‘the hurt look’ wasn’t ‘thank goodness he’s going’ kind of look?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could have said hello OP, nobody ran away screaming from a simple hello. And it’s an icebreaker.

Try it next time.

I woukd have thought if she was particularly interested in you she would have said something and not try and woo you telepathically.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could have said hello OP, nobody ran away screaming from a simple hello. And it’s an icebreaker.

Try it next time.

I woukd have thought if she was particularly interested in you she would have said something and not try and woo you telepathically."

I wouldn't be too confident on that philosophy, couple of women have said to me "but I was giving you the signals!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For some bizarre reason I have yet to fathom, it is not unusual for younger ladies to engage me in conversation at the gym. There are a few that I now see there regularly. They are a bit flirty but they are not my preference as they are ages with my children. Today I was in a workout area, on my own, doing some stretches on a mat when a young lady I haven't spoken to came in. I had just come off a treadmill and she had been alongside me, but I hadn't paid much attention whilst I was trying to avoid cardiac arrest. Now this room is about 40' square with mats on 3 sides. There is also a larger matted space adjoining it. So there's loads of other mats available, but she chooses the one right next to me to work out on. I never instigate conversations with women at the gym because I don't want to be the creepy gym guy. So we never spoke, but as I finished and left after about 15 minutes she had a hurt look on her face, and not from working out. Was she trying to tell me something?

Are you sure ‘the hurt look’ wasn’t ‘thank goodness he’s going’ kind of look? "

It could have been, or perhaps she thought I smell funny. So why, with all that free space, did she come and workout right next to me? Maybe she did notice me on the treadmill and knows CPR?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Say hello when you next see her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For some bizarre reason I have yet to fathom, it is not unusual for younger ladies to engage me in conversation at the gym. There are a few that I now see there regularly. They are a bit flirty but they are not my preference as they are ages with my children. Today I was in a workout area, on my own, doing some stretches on a mat when a young lady I haven't spoken to came in. I had just come off a treadmill and she had been alongside me, but I hadn't paid much attention whilst I was trying to avoid cardiac arrest. Now this room is about 40' square with mats on 3 sides. There is also a larger matted space adjoining it. So there's loads of other mats available, but she chooses the one right next to me to work out on. I never instigate conversations with women at the gym because I don't want to be the creepy gym guy. So we never spoke, but as I finished and left after about 15 minutes she had a hurt look on her face, and not from working out. Was she trying to tell me something?

Are you sure ‘the hurt look’ wasn’t ‘thank goodness he’s going’ kind of look?

It could have been, or perhaps she thought I smell funny. So why, with all that free space, did she come and workout right next to me? Maybe she did notice me on the treadmill and knows CPR? "

She sounds creepy as fuck. Is there any CCTV in the gym? She might be trying to get you done for sexual harassment or something.

Very weird that she chose the mat next you in a big room but didn't speak.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For some bizarre reason I have yet to fathom, it is not unusual for younger ladies to engage me in conversation at the gym. There are a few that I now see there regularly. They are a bit flirty but they are not my preference as they are ages with my children. Today I was in a workout area, on my own, doing some stretches on a mat when a young lady I haven't spoken to came in. I had just come off a treadmill and she had been alongside me, but I hadn't paid much attention whilst I was trying to avoid cardiac arrest. Now this room is about 40' square with mats on 3 sides. There is also a larger matted space adjoining it. So there's loads of other mats available, but she chooses the one right next to me to work out on. I never instigate conversations with women at the gym because I don't want to be the creepy gym guy. So we never spoke, but as I finished and left after about 15 minutes she had a hurt look on her face, and not from working out. Was she trying to tell me something?

Are you sure ‘the hurt look’ wasn’t ‘thank goodness he’s going’ kind of look?

It could have been, or perhaps she thought I smell funny. So why, with all that free space, did she come and workout right next to me? Maybe she did notice me on the treadmill and knows CPR?

She sounds creepy as fuck. Is there any CCTV in the gym? She might be trying to get you done for sexual harassment or something.

Very weird that she chose the mat next you in a big room but didn't speak. "

Well I didn't suspect being set up for anything like that, but yes it was strange that with all that free space she sets down next to the dripping, old, stranger. Yes, CCTV everywhere..

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