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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There must be so many. What are yours. This is for male and females.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Partner has habit of coming home late, slipping into bed and expecting sex, indicated by pokey object in back.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Finding out my ex cheated I don't know about sex but I wanted to rip his cock off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The sudden realisation that they will indeed come to look like their Dad/Mum in time!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm separated so I can contribute loads but be nice to see what others think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Partner has habit of coming home late, slipping into bed and expecting sex, indicated by pokey object in back."

Get one of those handshake shockers from the joke shop and grasp him firmly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boredom. My girlfriend isn't adventurous at all, most suggestions I make are dismissed. And its not a case of asking for anything intimidating like anal or watersports, just stuff thats a bit of fun, e.g. watching a porn and acting it out, sex in other rooms etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had phase cos work an stress from it I loved bein with bf but didn't want sex but think it was cos I was workin loads just wanted cuddles and kisses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes you just get bored of someone

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon


"I'm separated so I can contribute loads but be nice to see what others think?"

Same here... was thinking the exact same thing.

Mrs Ex-Carambar and I get on very well, but the spark went in the bedroom and that was the end of our marriage. Life's a bitch sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no foreplay!!!!!

I love oral giving and receiving...mutual masturbation.

Oh and i hate it when a partner goes for that sudden new haircut-if it as one of my reasons for being attracted(i love long straight hair)

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

birth of baby, depression, found someone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

finding out they had an irish accent....

RUNS!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm separated so I can contribute loads but be nice to see what others think?

Same here... was thinking the exact same thing.

Mrs Ex-Carambar and I get on very well, but the spark went in the bedroom and that was the end of our marriage. Life's a bitch sometimes."

time to worry then

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"finding out they had an irish accent....

RUNS!"

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

We just weren't compatible - I'm an Aries, he's a tosser

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"no foreplay!!!!!

I love oral giving and receiving...mutual masturbation.

Oh and i hate it when a partner goes for that sudden new haircut-if it as one of my reasons for being attracted(i love long straight hair)"

had mine cut really short pixie style last week.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We just weren't compatible - I'm an Aries, he's a tosser "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

getting taken for granted. nowt worse than feeling you have become part of the furniture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We just weren't compatible - I'm an Aries, he's a tosser "

must have had same birthday as my ex

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

not feeling appreciated or loved

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

abuse of understanding. It's one thing to cancel an intimate evening cos your sister or brother is in a pickle. Quite another to cancel it cos you "met up with some old friend".

This is actually very hurtful and is one of those little things which when repeated "kills" the respect and eventually the love.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"getting taken for granted. nowt worse than feeling you have become part of the furniture."

Shut up and let me sit on you

Really need a new sofa lol

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Great one from an my ex hubby. I got to fat for sex... he said that!!!

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"Great one from an my ex hubby. I got to fat for sex... he said that!!!"

no wonder he an ex xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no foreplay!!!!!

I love oral giving and receiving...mutual masturbation.

Oh and i hate it when a partner goes for that sudden new haircut-if it as one of my reasons for being attracted(i love long straight hair)

had mine cut really short pixie style last week. "

well I dont know what ur hair looked/looks like do I??? lol

Id still DoYa xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not feeling appreciated or loved"

appreciated and loved...ignore my accent comment xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"no foreplay!!!!!

I love oral giving and receiving...mutual masturbation.

Oh and i hate it when a partner goes for that sudden new haircut-if it as one of my reasons for being attracted(i love long straight hair)

had mine cut really short pixie style last week.

well I dont know what ur hair looked/looks like do I??? lol

Id still DoYa xxxxxx"
I knows.

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"not feeling appreciated or loved

appreciated and loved...ignore my accent comment xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx"

you need to do better than that now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Great one from an my ex hubby. I got to fat for sex... he said that!!!"

oh ive had that

tho to be honest i could see where he was coming from, i was a size 8 when we met after 3 kids i was a size 20, he used to say to me if i wanted a fat wife id have married one lol

hurtful but i could see his reasoning

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"Great one from an my ex hubby. I got to fat for sex... he said that!!!

oh ive had that

tho to be honest i could see where he was coming from, i was a size 8 when we met after 3 kids i was a size 20, he used to say to me if i wanted a fat wife id have married one lol

hurtful but i could see his reasoning "

sorry i dont, yes i was size 8 when i 1st meet hubby now i go between a size 12 and 14, my weight goes up and down. When you take your vowels it doesnt say you must remain the same size as when i married you. Life isnt that str forward, and if married only for looks then good ridance

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"Great one from an my ex hubby. I got to fat for sex... he said that!!!

oh ive had that

tho to be honest i could see where he was coming from, i was a size 8 when we met after 3 kids i was a size 20, he used to say to me if i wanted a fat wife id have married one lol

hurtful but i could see his reasoning "

did the twat ever offer to help you lose weight and feel better about yourself??? Arse!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"not feeling appreciated or loved

appreciated and loved...ignore my accent comment xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

you need to do better than that now

You are delicious to my dreams,

from had to toe along those stocking seams,

You have that sweet shy demure,

It makes my heart just want to lure,

I have looked into your pretty face,

With a wonder as I consistently gaze,

When you smile and I can see your dimples.

OOOOOOOOH! I get the most amazing goosepimples!"

your getting there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Great one from an my ex hubby. I got to fat for sex... he said that!!!

oh ive had that

tho to be honest i could see where he was coming from, i was a size 8 when we met after 3 kids i was a size 20, he used to say to me if i wanted a fat wife id have married one lol

hurtful but i could see his reasoning

did the twat ever offer to help you lose weight and feel better about yourself??? Arse!"

haha yeah i remember after i had my 3rd child, it was quite a bad brith they lost the heart beat and rushed me down for a section, we was both in a bad way, i'lll never forget him turning up and opening his bag to give me a flyer of all the local weight watchers class for me to join when i got home lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not feeling appreciated or loved

appreciated and loved...ignore my accent comment xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

you need to do better than that now

You are delicious to my dreams,

from had to toe along those stocking seams,

You have that sweet shy demure,

It makes my heart just want to lure,

I have looked into your pretty face,

With a wonder as I consistently gaze,

When you smile and I can see your dimples.

OOOOOOOOH! I get the most amazing goosepimples!

your getting there "

stop making posts up for me, i never typed that! heheheheheh xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"Great one from an my ex hubby. I got to fat for sex... he said that!!!

oh ive had that

tho to be honest i could see where he was coming from, i was a size 8 when we met after 3 kids i was a size 20, he used to say to me if i wanted a fat wife id have married one lol

hurtful but i could see his reasoning

did the twat ever offer to help you lose weight and feel better about yourself??? Arse!

haha yeah i remember after i had my 3rd child, it was quite a bad brith they lost the heart beat and rushed me down for a section, we was both in a bad way, i'lll never forget him turning up and opening his bag to give me a flyer of all the local weight watchers class for me to join when i got home lol

"

Sorry but has to be said, the inconsiderate selfish bastard. I would have shoved it up his ass attached to a extra large pole

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"Great one from an my ex hubby. I got to fat for sex... he said that!!!

oh ive had that

tho to be honest i could see where he was coming from, i was a size 8 when we met after 3 kids i was a size 20, he used to say to me if i wanted a fat wife id have married one lol

hurtful but i could see his reasoning

did the twat ever offer to help you lose weight and feel better about yourself??? Arse!

haha yeah i remember after i had my 3rd child, it was quite a bad brith they lost the heart beat and rushed me down for a section, we was both in a bad way, i'lll never forget him turning up and opening his bag to give me a flyer of all the local weight watchers class for me to join when i got home lol

Sorry but has to be said, the inconsiderate selfish bastard. I would have shoved it up his ass attached to a extra large pole "

+1 and can't stop myself from saying "What a complete C**T"

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"Great one from an my ex hubby. I got to fat for sex... he said that!!!

oh ive had that

tho to be honest i could see where he was coming from, i was a size 8 when we met after 3 kids i was a size 20, he used to say to me if i wanted a fat wife id have married one lol

hurtful but i could see his reasoning "

By the way - your photos look amazing - hope the ex bastard is on this site and realises what the fuck he is missing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stress followed by stress medication...;-)

Usually does the trick...

In sickness and in health... My arse...

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"Stress followed by stress medication...;-)

Usually does the trick...

In sickness and in health... My arse..."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Stress followed by stress medication...;-)

Usually does the trick...

In sickness and in health... My arse..."

your arse! you can soon remedy that, get down t't gym.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nah hes not on the site, he dont do this kinda thing happily setttled with his new woman lol

i did loose 7 stone after we split so im not as big as i was when he used to moan at me

to be honest it really dont bother me anymore, i find it all quite funny now days, brings you down at the time and the lower you feel the more you eat, and the bigger you get, i was in a kinda catch 22, but as soon as we split i felt better so i joined and lost the weight

also felt like it was a extra kick in the balls to him as childish as that sounds

life goes on tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stress followed by stress medication...;-)

Usually does the trick...

In sickness and in health... My arse...

your arse! you can soon remedy that, get down t't gym."

Theres no Jim goin anywhere near my arse...

But if I need a workout Ill call ya...;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She developed a real problem with flatulence, which got a bit too much, but the bigger problem was the face shed pull while she was doing it.

Horrible reason for going of someone, and to be fair it was only one of a few that killed the relationship, but yeah...

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"finding out they had an irish accent....

RUNS!

"

*runs towards the lady with an Irish accent*

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"finding out they had an irish accent....

RUNS!

*runs towards the lady with an Irish accent* "

woo hooo about time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"finding out they had an irish accent....

RUNS!

*runs towards the lady with an Irish accent*

woo hooo about time "

I've drank a lot of wine my lovely xxxxx

Give me a voddy and I'll BOAK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"finding out they had an irish accent....

RUNS!

*runs towards the lady with an Irish accent* "

*Politely steps out of the way... Thus allowing the two ladies to warm each other up before "requesting the pleasure" with both of them...*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"finding out they had an irish accent....

RUNS!

*runs towards the lady with an Irish accent* "

*Politely steps out of the way... Thus allowing the two ladies to warm each other up before "requesting the pleasure" with both of them...*

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"finding out they had an irish accent....

RUNS!

*runs towards the lady with an Irish accent*

woo hooo about time

I've drank a lot of wine my lovely xxxxx

Give me a voddy and I'll BOAK "

I am on the rum

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"finding out they had an irish accent....

RUNS!

*runs towards the lady with an Irish accent*

woo hooo about time

I've drank a lot of wine my lovely xxxxx

Give me a voddy and I'll BOAK "

not to worry i have red for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a serious note. I lost interest in sex with my ex because he was too big and he never made the effort to arouse me through foreplay which may have made a difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He became mentally abusive, his personal hygiene went out the window and he started sleeping with a skank who he knocked up

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By *athan69Man
over a year ago

London

When they stop taking care down below. Not trimming/shaving! I.E. When she's got more hair than I have! then I must admit I lose interest

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you


"Great one from an my ex hubby. I got to fat for sex... he said that!!!

oh ive had that

tho to be honest i could see where he was coming from, i was a size 8 when we met after 3 kids i was a size 20, he used to say to me if i wanted a fat wife id have married one lol

hurtful but i could see his reasoning

did the twat ever offer to help you lose weight and feel better about yourself??? Arse!

haha yeah i remember after i had my 3rd child, it was quite a bad brith they lost the heart beat and rushed me down for a section, we was both in a bad way, i'lll never forget him turning up and opening his bag to give me a flyer of all the local weight watchers class for me to join when i got home lol

"

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

mine sent me off on the bus alone to have my first child,had an emergency c section in the end,he turned up when it was all over........i am not that woman anymore,he unfortunatly is still that man,the barsteward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

she was screwing someone ells while i was working away from home ,then when i was at home ,spending my monie on him

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By *londie1967Woman
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"We just weren't compatible - I'm an Aries, he's a tosser "

That made me spit my coffee out! Going to use that line.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must have been really blessed after reading all these, cos every time has always been fresh and different, no matter who I was with. I feel for anyone who has lost that sparkle on their bedroom antics, because it should always be special, and I mean special in a good way

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must have been really blessed after reading all these, cos every time has always been fresh and different, no matter who I was with. I feel for anyone who has lost that sparkle on their bedroom antics, because it should always be special, and I mean special in a good way

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when it gets so predictable you know exactly whats gonna happen and in what order. i even knew what day of the week we would have sex.

i like variety not boring and routine.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I get the its not you its me... I must be doing something wrong...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im not in the mood and yet spends alot of time playing his games on-line or watching tv

or im just not horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He had a girlfriend, he drank, he hit me and ....... he left the top off the tooth-paste!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"He became mentally abusive, his personal hygiene went out the window and he started sleeping with a skank who he knocked up"

Other than that though .... he was great hey ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"He had a girlfriend, he drank, he hit me and ....... he left the top off the tooth-paste! "

That fuckin' toothpaste top ..... the bastid !!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I must have been really blessed after reading all these, cos every time has always been fresh and different, no matter who I was with. I feel for anyone who has lost that sparkle on their bedroom antics, because it should always be special, and I mean special in a good way

Wolf

"

Will Mrs. Wolf be on later ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He had a girlfriend, he drank, he hit me and ....... he left the top off the tooth-paste!

That fuckin' toothpaste top ..... the bastid !!"

Utter utter b'stard ........... he used to squeeze the tube in the middle too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Her shrimp was so sweet and succelent...then it got bitter...

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Oh the joy of being single

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By *ouplefunukCouple
over a year ago

North Bristol

Hormones and stress here. We've had a tough time over the last 5 months what with the 2 rounds of IVF and the miscarriage and it's been difficult getting back into having sex for fun. We'll get there tho.

*Her*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must have been really blessed after reading all these, cos every time has always been fresh and different, no matter who I was with. I feel for anyone who has lost that sparkle on their bedroom antics, because it should always be special, and I mean special in a good way

Wolf

Will Mrs. Wolf be on later ?"

If she wants to she will..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you keep saying to your partner that you want to have sex, they call you a randy bitch, but they expect you to do it with them when they are in the mood for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you keep saying to your partner that you want to have sex, they call you a randy, but they expect you to do it with them when they are in the mood for it. "
Yep that ones does happen, i just got feed up with be told "im not in the mood for it"....then when she sex drive came back, i found myself not even bothered anymore, guess all the rejection, made me put up a wall against it......but not anymore lol!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you keep saying to your partner that you want to have sex, they call you a randy, but they expect you to do it with them when they are in the mood for it. Yep that ones does happen, i just got feed up with be told "im not in the mood for it"....then when she sex drive came back, i found myself not even bothered anymore, guess all the rejection, made me put up a wall against it......but not anymore lol!!"

Yup. Had that one with my ex. When I tried to initiate anything, I was a perve, but then when she wanted it and I wasn't in the mood, she'd complain that I wasn't giving her attention...

Another one for me is going-through-the-motions-sex. Few bigger turn-offs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To keep being groped from the minute you get up till the time you go to bed drove me crazy.....also not being able to wear a sexy nighty or underwear without sexual implications,another turn off...and the worst thing having hands grabbing your breasts as you are trying to do the dishes....rant over ..

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Mrs Wolf very often comes online and comments on posts and she uses her own profile, which is the exact opposite to Mr Wolfdevil, I am Mrs Devilwolf, both profiles are the same tho, don't wanna go confoosing anyone... lol..

Devil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To keep being groped from the minute you get up till the time you go to bed drove me crazy.....also not being able to wear a sexy nighty or underwear without sexual implications,another turn off...and the worst thing having hands grabbing your breasts as you are trying to do the dishes....rant over .."

When all of the above stopped and the five minutes missionary once a month became the norm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Great one from an my ex hubby. I got to fat for sex... he said that!!!"
bloody hell girl you sure we didnt have the same guy. i got told i was too fat for sex and wasnt girly. so i went on a miracle diet, fucked him off and lost 18 stone of unwanted fat just like that

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Great one from an my ex hubby. I got to fat for sex... he said that!!! bloody hell girl you sure we didnt have the same guy. i got told i was too fat for sex and wasnt girly. so i went on a miracle diet, fucked him off and lost 18 stone of unwanted fat just like that"

The thing is the woman he is shacked up with now is a size 28 and looks like miss piggy.... I am crap in relationships I can never quite get them right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Great one from an my ex hubby. I got to fat for sex... he said that!!! bloody hell girl you sure we didnt have the same guy. i got told i was too fat for sex and wasnt girly. so i went on a miracle diet, fucked him off and lost 18 stone of unwanted fat just like that

The thing is the woman he is shacked up with now is a size 28 and looks like miss piggy.... I am crap in relationships I can never quite get them right "

well my ex resurected his single profile on here that was supposed to have been deleted. he added to it, any size for women. when i questioned him on this. his answer was, he will shag anything and any size but he doesnt want a live in g/f on his arm who put weight on

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Great one from an my ex hubby. I got to fat for sex... he said that!!! bloody hell girl you sure we didnt have the same guy. i got told i was too fat for sex and wasnt girly. so i went on a miracle diet, fucked him off and lost 18 stone of unwanted fat just like that

The thing is the woman he is shacked up with now is a size 28 and looks like miss piggy.... I am crap in relationships I can never quite get them right

well my ex resurected his single profile on here that was supposed to have been deleted. he added to it, any size for women. when i questioned him on this. his answer was, he will shag anything and any size but he doesnt want a live in g/f on his arm who put weight on "

OMG hun that is shocking.... Its difficult being a plus size woman with the magazines and stuff but you not meant to feel like shit because your OH thinks you are fat..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess when i first saw her picking her nose and eating it,and i guess her having the spontanuatey of a wet match didn't help either poster (him) although that was seven years ago and my floozy now i can say is absolutley blooming perfuct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the opposite problem so I went to see my doctor about my sex addiction.

"Right, lie on the bed and take your underwear off."

She said, "I beg your pardon?"

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Going out to work and leaving money for groceries, only to find he'd spent it at the pub. Being picked on until we had a flaming row just so he could threaten to leave. Finding out he was lying about meeting other women. Acting like a spoiled, narcisstic twat.

The sex was awesome but sometimes it just isn't enough.

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral

Of all the things mentioned, pregnancy and birth or a new baby didn't kill my horn... Had to get the morning after pill, 3 days after giving birth. Not the drinking,drugs violence, childhood sexual abuse, cheating...was the fact he didn't kiss me for ten years that put me off sex.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

depression

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"depression "

yes that would be a reason. But there is often a deep rooted reason for depression, with me it was putting up with too muchshit .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

postnatal depression is a common reason for women going off sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because sex to them is cumming and thats not you ..... and can be fast and over before you know it .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"postnatal depression is a common reason for women going off sex "

well posted, men please note.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Yes depression. yes I got fat.. yes he got fatter.Eww. blood pressure meds kill erections all add up to a sexless life.

he doesnt fancy me I dont fancy him.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Add to that an underactive thyroid which kills libido dead.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"depression

yes that would be a reason. But there is often a deep rooted reason for depression, with me it was putting up with too muchshit ."

Post natal and childhood experiences for me...although i do believe depression can be hereditry too, my mother is also a moody cow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my wife had no depression etc just her sex drive went, there was no reason for this at all!! I was attentive, took her out romantic meals etc, and I still love her to this day, and she me, but I couldnt be with someone who wouldnt kiss me or have sex more than once every 4 months for about 10 mins. I gave it 3 years of this before finally admitting defeat. i tried on numerous occasions to spice things up etc and advised we went to councelling she didnt want to so had to end it. now I'm happy having sex with others who have a sex drive. Alot of the time sex just dwindles over time and leaves a relationship, it takes two to tango after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

post natal depression is a definate sex drive killer.......so is depression, and alas some people actually think you have to feel and look down to be depressed. Wrong!!!!! many people suffer from these and go about their life without a tear being shed, but lack sex drive is probably one of the first symptoms to be recognised!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

predictability. I got so bored with my Ex, he never did anything any different no matter what I tried to tempt him with ...Routine is such a passion killer I still realy fancied him too... got tummy lurch just looking at his hands, he had beautiful hands... just didn't know where to put them

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

The sad thing is I had great sex with my ex but the problem was that he used his fists on my face... I spent years in fear but the sex was amazing.. However I could not stay just for that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There must be so many. What are yours. This is for male and females."

When his credit card max`s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The sad thing is I had great sex with my ex but the problem was that he used his fists on my face... I spent years in fear but the sex was amazing.. However I could not stay just for that... "

that is so sad...i hope karma comes round and bites him hard..

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