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By *axirider OP   Man
over a year ago

guildford

I need some female input. My wife and myself haven't had sex for over a year now but not for the lack of trying on my half. All I get is "we dont have time" I ask her if anything is wrong but she tells me everything is o.k.

Somebody help

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

To be honest there is very little info to go on, and you should really be asking her what the problem is. Sorry not much help here

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By *axirider OP   Man
over a year ago

guildford

I keep asking what the problem is but she replies with nothing is the problem. For the first 2-3 years we had a great sex life. but now nothing.

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"I keep asking what the problem is but she replies with nothing is the problem. For the first 2-3 years we had a great sex life. but now nothing."

To be honest could be 1001 reasons, the only one who can tell you the reason is your wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

errrr don't forget that just cos yer married doesn't mean you can't still be boyfriend and girlfriend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with the other posts could be a multitude of things. why dont you ask your wife instead of asking on here? maybe shes found out youve got a secret profile on fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need some female input. My wife and myself haven't had sex for over a year now but not for the lack of trying on my half. All I get is "we dont have time" I ask her if anything is wrong but she tells me everything is o.k.

Somebody help"

Well, is it purely a coincidence that you have been on here 11 months and not had sex with your wife for a year?

I am assuming she doesn't know about here, but womens' intuition, should not be underestimated.

SHe must know something is wrong, perhaps you need to go back to brass tacks and start from scratch with things like being friends, date night, having an intimate massage that doesn't end in sex, but intimacy.

Take the pressure off, but keep the intimacy, then eventually she might turn to you for it.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

i dont want to put a downer on you but i would say for certain that she is getting it elswhere and hence doesnt require your services

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont want to put a downer on you but i would say for certain that she is getting it elswhere and hence doesnt require your services"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont want to put a downer on you but i would say for certain that she is getting it elswhere and hence doesnt require your services"

That is a massive assumption!!!

And frankly you have no basis for a comment like that!! Jeez!

No wonder he was asking for a female perspective!

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

only being devils advocate

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