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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Unless the guys a hung like a donkey Adonis do women ever EVER message first on here?!?!?!? Or have they got absolute free range as guys always message first?!?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women message first!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women message first! "

Where where

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I don't bother

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

Not me ... but lots do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unless the guys a hung like a donkey Adonis do women ever EVER message first on here?!?!?!? Or have they got absolute free range as guys always message first?!?!? "

Yes we do..

Well i do so there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women message first! "

Only on nights when there is a blood moon and cake and chocolate are given out for free on the streets...other than then no we dont!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Prove it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly I would not class myself as an Adonis, but have on occasions been messaged by women first, which did make me smile!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sooooooooooooooo 34th of Neverember

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

If I like a guy enough then why wouldn't I? Fair's fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, they do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you like this guy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I message guys I'm attracted to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you like this guy?"

Which guy?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

If men EVER bothered to have a decent profile of course I would message first if they caught my eye. Unfortunately MOST are just soo shite with a lack of pictures yet come to the forum bemoaning the fact of their 'lack of luck' look at home first before you start moaning about the lack of success on here, the clue is almost always there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you like this guy?"

Use Reply + quote .... it helps

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you like this guy?

Use Reply + quote .... it helps "

Ahhhh I seeeeee

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By *lexGMan
over a year ago

Camberley

I've had 2 winks, which then results in me saying hello and thanks for the message, which then leads onto other things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women message first!

Where where "

Certainly not here.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

I often message first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" which then leads onto other things "

They come and undo your shirt buttons?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often message first "

you need to do more messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women message first!

Where where

Certainly not here."

Not here or there or anywhere for fear of life with a cock and gasping for air

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I often message first "

Let’s hope I’m one of the lucky ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If men EVER bothered to have a decent profile of course I would message first if they caught my eye. Unfortunately MOST are just soo shite with a lack of pictures yet come to the forum bemoaning the fact of their 'lack of luck' look at home first before you start moaning about the lack of success on here, the clue is almost always there! "

You sound jaded !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Prove it lol"

No as you're too young and too short

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"I often message first

you need to do more messages "

I would do but sadly you're no longer local

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By *lexGMan
over a year ago

Camberley


" which then leads onto other things

They come and undo your shirt buttons?"
Well one we've discussing what is going to happen when we meet up

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"If men EVER bothered to have a decent profile of course I would message first if they caught my eye. Unfortunately MOST are just soo shite with a lack of pictures yet come to the forum bemoaning the fact of their 'lack of luck' look at home first before you start moaning about the lack of success on here, the clue is almost always there! "

Testify!

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

You seem to have made up your mind OP.

I’d hate to seem contrary.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Very rarely unless I already know someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often message first

Let’s hope I’m one of the lucky ones"

I'll cross my fingers for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I often message first

you need to do more messages

I would do but sadly you're no longer local "

Awwwwwww

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"If men EVER bothered to have a decent profile of course I would message first if they caught my eye. Unfortunately MOST are just soo shite with a lack of pictures yet come to the forum bemoaning the fact of their 'lack of luck' look at home first before you start moaning about the lack of success on here, the clue is almost always there!

You sound jaded ! "

Whatever gave you that idea? Oh wait, the fact I have been repeatedly saying so of late? Damn I need to start holding somethings back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If men EVER bothered to have a decent profile of course I would message first if they caught my eye. Unfortunately MOST are just soo shite with a lack of pictures yet come to the forum bemoaning the fact of their 'lack of luck' look at home first before you start moaning about the lack of success on here, the clue is almost always there!

You sound jaded !

Whatever gave you that idea? Oh wait, the fact I have been repeatedly saying so of late? Damn I need to start holding somethings back "

Thanks for messaging me first though !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get a fair few opening messages from women. I think the key is to not be pushy and just chat to people as you would anywhere else. I never turn the conversation to sex unless it’s obvious that’s what the lady is after.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I've had first messages from ladies and Adonis is not a word that has ever been used to describe me

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Women message first!

Where where

Certainly not here."

Liar liar pants on fire Doc!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they don't I ain't messaging them. I've found messaging simply doesn't work and only adds to the piles in women's inboxes. So they pretty much have to at least wink at me for anything to happen. If they don't. And I don't. Then nothing happens on here for me. I'm fine with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they don't I ain't messaging them. I've found messaging simply doesn't work and only adds to the piles in women's inboxes. So they pretty much have to at least wink at me for anything to happen. If they don't. And I don't. Then nothing happens on here for me. I'm fine with that "

He waits, that what he does.

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By *lackbird1000Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Unless the guys a hung like a donkey Adonis do women ever EVER message first on here?!?!?!? Or have they got absolute free range as guys always message first?!?!? "

Who gave you that idea that all women like the same ! I don't like guys hung like a donkey !

And sometimes I do message first ! If someone is what I am looking for !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unless the guys a hung like a donkey Adonis do women ever EVER message first on here?!?!?!? Or have they got absolute free range as guys always message first?!?!? "
yes in a way but they never message first because they are in high demand on here so u got to have the perfect profile to get there attention

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Some women do message first

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By *xycpl699Couple
over a year ago

kilmarnock

Yes we do well I do. hollie

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By *lackbird1000Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Some women do message first "
yes correct I did message you first !!

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Yes they do

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere nearby

I do, usually on FPF though!

One of my Fab besties is a guy I sent a face pic to on FPF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do, usually on FPF though!

One of my Fab besties is a guy I sent a face pic to on FPF "

What's FPF?

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere nearby


"I do, usually on FPF though!

One of my Fab besties is a guy I sent a face pic to on FPF

What's FPF?"

Face Pic Friday - you reply on the FPF thread then send your pic to others on the thread

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I do, usually on FPF though!

One of my Fab besties is a guy I sent a face pic to on FPF

What's FPF?"

Sure you don’t know Doc or just forgotten?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i come across a fit guy black or white and love their pics i will message and compliment them

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"If men EVER bothered to have a decent profile of course I would message first if they caught my eye. Unfortunately MOST are just soo shite with a lack of pictures yet come to the forum bemoaning the fact of their 'lack of luck' look at home first before you start moaning about the lack of success on here, the clue is almost always there!

You sound jaded !

Whatever gave you that idea? Oh wait, the fact I have been repeatedly saying so of late? Damn I need to start holding somethings back

Thanks for messaging me first though ! "

You wish

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I get a fair few opening messages from women. I think the key is to not be pushy and just chat to people as you would anywhere else. I never turn the conversation to sex unless it’s obvious that’s what the lady is after. "

That is what works for me! Just a normal conversation so we can both suss each other out to see if we both want to maybe meet other

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By *0tt0nSu3Woman
over a year ago

London


"If i come across a fit guy black or white and love their pics i will message and compliment them "

I do that as well. They don't necessarily have to be sexually attractive. If they have really great pictures and a profile, I will drop a note to say it's really nice.

Sometimes I let them know that their fantastic composition of their photos have inspired me to take better pictures of myself.

I expect nothing more, nothing less. I've made some great friends on Fab this way.

Sometimes I get a DEATHLY silence, which can make me laugh sometimes. And, sometimes they even attend the same social... And disappear pretty quickly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve a had few women first messages ....... pleasant surprise it is too

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By *apstarMan
over a year ago

Harpenden


"Unless the guys a hung like a donkey Adonis do women ever EVER message first on here?!?!?!? Or have they got absolute free range as guys always message first?!?!? "

Home hung like a field mouse and get plenty of messages first from beutifull lady's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often message first. I find it easier and usually more successful that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very rare but always a nice surprise if it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do, usually on FPF though!

One of my Fab besties is a guy I sent a face pic to on FPF

What's FPF?

Sure you don’t know Doc or just forgotten? "

Never forget important things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's very rare but always a nice surprise if it happens "

A much better reply than mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more trogladye than Adonis and yet I do recieve first messages from women here despite my lack of six pack body like a melted welly and face like a ruptured spleen.

Seems your premise needs some wodk OP.

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By *rongstantineWoman
over a year ago

hull

I've been known to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often message first "

I wish lol

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I stopped msging woman on here a couple of years ago unless it's forum related. Guess I'm just to proud to scramble round for crumbs and I refuse to be the normal sad single male on here and in answer to the question yes some women do but it's rare.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I send a wink. Sometimes I'll drop someone a message.

I most certainly don't throw a hissy fit/send a follow up message/put up a bitchy status if the guy doesn't reply. I just assume they're not interested

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Yes they do sometimes, if they like what they see and normally more importantly what they read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Occasionally yes which is rather nice

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Of course we do! I've been very proactive in the past about finding what I want If I stumbled across a well-written profile that intrigued me and matched my preferences, I had no hesitation in sending a first message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unless the guys a hung like a donkey Adonis do women ever EVER message first on here?!?!?!? Or have they got absolute free range as guys always message first?!?!? "

Don't hassle them if they want you they'll let you know.

I very rarely message first they come to me because I don't pester them.

It's that simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I send a wink. Sometimes I'll drop someone a message.

I most certainly don't throw a hissy fit/send a follow up message/put up a bitchy status if the guy doesn't reply. I just assume they're not interested"

And that’s the main difference between men sending the first message and women sending the first message in my experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah iv had loads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The odd one on occasion in all these years which has resulted in meets lol x but very rare indeed .so so not be shy ladies lol

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By *ailorJerryLoversCouple
over a year ago

South Herts

Yes, they do. On occasion.

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By *irk Diggler 02Man
over a year ago

Swindon

I get messages from women all the time, in this modern chauvinistic society we live in why the hell should I make the first move!

If they want a peice of me they can stop whatever housework they’re doing and come find me!!!

Tongue placed firmly in cheek.

In reality I’ve had a few in the past, predominantly it’s winks, then I send the first message.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Unless the guys a hung like a donkey Adonis do women ever EVER message first on here?!?!?!? Or have they got absolute free range as guys always message first?!?!? "

Yes OP, women do message first and fortunately this has happened often with me. You don't have to be an Adonis but your profile has to be appealing and put out a good vibe. Sadly, yours needs a lot of work to stand out from the crowd.

You didn't ask for profile advice, however whining and complaining in your profile text does you no favours. Be engaging. Use the forums, participate, leave a good impression and emphasize your strengths and who knows....you may find a message in your inbox some time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did once

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By *ongueNcheek33Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Yes they do if they like what they see/reed and want to know more

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Well I'm certainly hoping they were women

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London


"I did once "
You should try that again sometime

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Unless the guys a hung like a donkey Adonis do women ever EVER message first on here?!?!?!? Or have they got absolute free range as guys always message first?!?!? "

I've messaged first several times

If a profile interests me...

Oh, and if you're ever in Glasgow give me a shout because I'd happily tie you up and play MarioKart at you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope!!! It is forbidden by the Fab Gods.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope!!! It is forbidden by the Fab Gods. "
I made no such rule

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If i come across a fit guy black or white and love their pics i will message and compliment them

I do that as well. They don't necessarily have to be sexually attractive. If they have really great pictures and a profile, I will drop a note to say it's really nice.

Sometimes I let them know that their fantastic composition of their photos have inspired me to take better pictures of myself.

I expect nothing more, nothing less. I've made some great friends on Fab this way.

Sometimes I get a DEATHLY silence, which can make me laugh sometimes. And, sometimes they even attend the same social... And disappear pretty quickly!

"

There is one guy i messaged said how wonderful his pics where and it would be our pleasure to meet him. I sat with baited breath he read and deleted. Gutted for all of 2 minutes then thought pah his loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If i come across a fit guy black or white and love their pics i will message and compliment them

I do that as well. They don't necessarily have to be sexually attractive. If they have really great pictures and a profile, I will drop a note to say it's really nice.

Sometimes I let them know that their fantastic composition of their photos have inspired me to take better pictures of myself.

I expect nothing more, nothing less. I've made some great friends on Fab this way.

Sometimes I get a DEATHLY silence, which can make me laugh sometimes. And, sometimes they even attend the same social... And disappear pretty quickly!

There is one guy i messaged said how wonderful his pics where and it would be our pleasure to meet him. I sat with baited breath he read and deleted. Gutted for all of 2 minutes then thought pah his loss "
must of been blind

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"Unless the guys a hung like a donkey Adonis do women ever EVER message first on here?!?!?!? Or have they got absolute free range as guys always message first?!?!? "

I've get the odd messages hear and thar. But it's allways just been for a quick chat about sumthing in a thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If i come across a fit guy black or white and love their pics i will message and compliment them

I do that as well. They don't necessarily have to be sexually attractive. If they have really great pictures and a profile, I will drop a note to say it's really nice.

Sometimes I let them know that their fantastic composition of their photos have inspired me to take better pictures of myself.

I expect nothing more, nothing less. I've made some great friends on Fab this way.

Sometimes I get a DEATHLY silence, which can make me laugh sometimes. And, sometimes they even attend the same social... And disappear pretty quickly!

There is one guy i messaged said how wonderful his pics where and it would be our pleasure to meet him. I sat with baited breath he read and deleted. Gutted for all of 2 minutes then thought pah his loss must of been blind "

Aw thank you xx

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Some women do message first yes correct I did message you first !! "

You did indeed

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By *oobies92Woman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

I mostly wink but sometimes message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unless the guys a hung like a donkey Adonis do women ever EVER message first on here?!?!?!? Or have they got absolute free range as guys always message first?!?!?

Yes we do..

Well i do so there "

We have a rare earth element here!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Sometimes I wink and hope they message first, but if someone's in my hotlist for a while I eventually get the balls to message first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seem to the one mailing first lately on fab

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

Yes I get this constantly.

XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive has a few messages from women first, sometime after a wink but sometimes not

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Women do message first and when it happens it’s lovely and I’m certainly not hung like a donkey. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some do....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. That means I only get messages from people I want to talk to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've messaged first, if i really like the look of someone's profile. I see no problem with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, most of my meets have been from women messaging first.

It’s a compliment as women get plenty of messages, so the fact my profile pic/profile has stood out enough for them to message me, means a lot

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By *mm and HerCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Yes, they do. And now we just have a couples profile!

Hmm x

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis


"Unless the guys a hung like a donkey Adonis do women ever EVER message first on here?!?!?!? Or have they got absolute free range as guys always message first?!?!? "

Women do message me first and I'm hardly a 'hung like a donkey adonis' as you put it, OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they do ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's better if the ladies make the first move,as our message just gets lost within there inbox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few do it, but I'm automatically suspicious about how genuine they are! They turned out lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had women message me first.

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By *ngels of Sin 69Couple
over a year ago

High Wycombe

I do (Mrs) but the gentleman must tick all of my boxes before i will make contact first x

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

I've got a few messages from women first.

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By *atural-born-thrillerMan
over a year ago

oulton broad

It’s a nice surprise when it happens.its good to know that there are still a few out there who’s favourite charity is help the aged x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone caught my eye then I would but that rarely happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got a few messages from women first. "

Did they ask you whether that brick wall behind you was real, or a curtain ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They do message first, it's all

'What conditioner do you use?'

'Is your hair naturally that blond?'

'FAF?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No woman has messaged me ever.

Yours sincerely X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think a donkey can be an adonis, all that whiskery beard and huge squidgy ears and whispy tail does not an adonis make.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"No woman has messaged me ever.

Yours sincerely X"

Fibber!

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"I've got a few messages from women first.

Did they ask you whether that brick wall behind you was real, or a curtain?"

it a curtain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No woman has messaged me ever.

Yours sincerely X

Fibber! "

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No woman has messaged me ever.

Yours sincerely X

Fibber!

Ditto "

(For Tame being the fibber not you Sj )

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"No woman has messaged me ever.

Yours sincerely X

Fibber!

Ditto

(For Tame being the fibber not you Sj ) "

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

They do OP, patience is the key

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

They do

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

I’ve had it happen once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I message 1st if I've had a wink and they have viewed my profile lots, if I like the look and sound of them but they seem to be dithering I'll send the 1st message...I have no patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve had it happen once"
you would have probably won the lottery that day

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"Unless the guys a hung like a donkey Adonis do women ever EVER message first on here?!?!?!? Or have they got absolute free range as guys always message first?!?!? "

We do. Most guys who message us aren't what we're looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer messaging first. My very favourites I've messaged first because they've made me laugh on the forums (oh and hot pics)

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By *iger.10Man
over a year ago

Llantrisant


"I prefer messaging first. My very favourites I've messaged first because they've made me laugh on the forums (oh and hot pics) "

Message first with that 3rd July photo on your profile and there's a damn good chance of a positive response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer messaging first. My very favourites I've messaged first because they've made me laugh on the forums (oh and hot pics)

Message first with that 3rd July photo on your profile and there's a damn good chance of a positive response

"
thanks

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By *iger.10Man
over a year ago

Llantrisant

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By *oxy femaleWoman
over a year ago

North (NC500) Northeast of Inverness

I never message first .....

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By *iger.10Man
over a year ago

Llantrisant


"I prefer messaging first. My very favourites I've messaged first because they've made me laugh on the forums (oh and hot pics)

Message first with that 3rd July photo on your profile and there's a damn good chance of a positive response

thanks "

A well fitted pencil skirt always always gets my attention but that's another level

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

Ladies who are confident and wish to be proactive will.. after alle they know better than anyone what they seek..

Those ladies with fragile egos and or who can't accept rejection very unlikely they'll message first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's about time the ladies send the first message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty much all of the conversations I have on here are instigated by women.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I’ve had a few women message me first in the last week.

It’s rare but it does happen.

This has been an exceptional few days.

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By *irk Diggler 02Man
over a year ago

Swindon

I’ve had a few messages first from women in the past, likewise couples....invariably alas they’re not the ones I’m searching for!

I’m more a 1 on 1 kinda guy...greedy like that

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I message first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's about time the ladies send the first message "

Do you really think that? Like really really think that?

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By *irk Diggler 02Man
over a year ago

Swindon


"I think it's about time the ladies send the first message

Do you really think that? Like really really think that? "

Love your profile if ever you do feel the urge to message first then head my way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes happens to me

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

If i see somrone on here i like i message them without hesitation.

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By *att71Man
over a year ago

Bristol

It can happen and has to me...but admit it is a rarity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I so wish this would happen lol x

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By *ast_And_CuriousMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

I've had one message first. She was very keen to meet then didn't show up and haven't heard from her since.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ladies do message first, if they have something that they want to message about or want to say. It may not always be about meeting and rarely if ever about sex but yes it does happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done when I'm looking for a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies do message first, if they have something that they want to message about or want to say. It may not always be about meeting and rarely if ever about sex but yes it does happen.

"

If that's was the case every man's inbox would be full to the point bursting!

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By *igstu66Man
over a year ago

Guildford

Why should they not....if they see something they like... want.....crave.....fuck is this 2018 or 1974..... guys who message first are hunter studs ...girls are sluts..get real !

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I’ve messaged first and been ignored or questioned as to why I messaged or winked. We just can’t win.

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By *igstu66Man
over a year ago

Guildford


"I’ve messaged first and been ignored or questioned as to why I messaged or winked. We just can’t win. "

That's just bad manners...we should practice and expect respect...

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By *bwlookingforfunWoman
over a year ago

crawley

I do a lot. Not only to meet someone but i also like to give a nice eord here and there if i like some pics/profile.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Out of the guys ive messaged first ive only had one guy get cocky and think he was on a guranteed shag. So i just blocked him

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