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By *rs Robinson1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Chapel Row

Im starting to get fed up with the nasty abusive mails I sometimes get from guys Ive never even met and Ive not done anything what so ever to deserve the abuse here was me thinking it was meant to be fun swinging Feel like packing it in sometimes Anyone else feel the same ?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Just delete, block and move on hun don't let anyone spoil your fun.. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go into mail settings and stop anyone you don't want mailing you.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

There's some right idiots on here but the majority are nice. If they are very abusive report them. Then block and ignore.

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

there loss honey just block em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's some right idiots on here but the majority are nice. If they are very abusive report them. Then block and ignore."

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can honestly say have never recieved any abusive mail the whole time i have been on here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nil desperandum...

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ya get em lol

Just realise that some people are extremely immature and childish and throw there dollies outa the pram if they don't get their own way

Ignore em they go away and bother someone else eventually xx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Ya get em lol

Just realise that some people are extremely immature and childish and throw there dollies outa the pram if they don't get their own way

Ignore em they go away and bother someone else eventually xx "

So Fmuma stops sending you abusive messages if you ignore her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First things first.... Report the messages/profiles that you find abusive and block them.

If you are finding you are getting abuse because you have simply replied "thanks but no thanks" to someone that had messaged you because they are interested then it's best to block them right after you have messaged them.

We use the blocking tool a lot... I can't think for the life of me when we last had an abusive message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good way to cut down/out abusive messages....when u send a no thank u message also block the user. then they can't send u further messages.

had them myself, don't let the idiots get to u

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ya get em lol

Just realise that some people are extremely immature and childish and throw there dollies outa the pram if they don't get their own way

Ignore em they go away and bother someone else eventually xx

So Fmuma stops sending you abusive messages if you ignore her? "

No but there are exceptions ta every rule xx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Ya get em lol

Just realise that some people are extremely immature and childish and throw there dollies outa the pram if they don't get their own way

Ignore em they go away and bother someone else eventually xx

So Fmuma stops sending you abusive messages if you ignore her?

No but there are exceptions ta every rule xx "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im starting to get fed up with the nasty abusive mails I sometimes get from guys Ive never even met and Ive not done anything what so ever to deserve the abuse here was me thinking it was meant to be fun swinging Feel like packing it in sometimes Anyone else feel the same ? "

the lifetime of communication with people who are 'less than desirable' is entirely up to you. If you choose not to answer, and delete such mails then they are effectively disconnected, and hopefully they will get the message and desist (once you decide to do that, just *dont* read the headers at all and get drawn in, just nuke on sight). If you block them, then that means you will never have the problem of having to endure such abuse ever again - and don't feel the least guilty about having to block anyone - it's your right

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had abusive messages, whats wrong with me

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Never had abusive messages, whats wrong with me "

Everyone likes you.

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By *rs Robinson1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Chapel Row

Its just a shame that they feel the need to do it in the first place maybe Im just a sensative little thing that takes it all to heart lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"nil desperandum...

Wolf

"

Never give up +1

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Its just a shame that they feel the need to do it in the first place maybe Im just a sensative little thing that takes it all to heart lol "

I'm not sensitive in any way but when I get one it takes the wind out of my sails a bit. It's not nice so don't think it's anything you've done. Report, report, report, then block. Maybe the meanies will think before doing it again if they get kicked off the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never had abusive messages, whats wrong with me "

Hang on I'll send ya one xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never had abusive messages, whats wrong with me

Hang on I'll send ya one xx"

It's ok I've already done it

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By *rs Robinson1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Chapel Row

Imo men that do that get off on bullying women arent real men anyway lol

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Nil Illigitemo et carburundum. Don't let the bastards grind you down.

Report block move on.

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By *rs Robinson1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Chapel Row

Im not just saying its only men doing it, women can be the same for guys too I expect Also I dont get it that much but when the come into your mail box it can be upseting I always report and block instantly dont even bother replying to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly the following comments are not aimed at the OP…. I’m just simply expressing a general opinion without wishing to sound unsympathetic or offensive to anyone,,,,,,

I find the idea of anyone allowing random individuals to negatively effect their enjoyment of site’s like this when receiving private message from them containing unpleasant comments frankly ridiculous….

It seems crazy remaining a member of sites like this without a clear understanding and acceptance of the good the bad and the ugly dynamic, which exists on all platforms of this nature…

The Internet is not a good place to hang out if your of a precious persuasions which allow keyboard trolls to get under your skin.

This excellent site provides all members with protective options to filter who can mail us,,, it also provides delete mail and block user facility's which are further backed-up with a first class report abuse option ……

We however must take responsibility to provide our own thick-skin coupled to a suitable sense of humour and an applied rationality to where we are.…….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Firstly the following comments are not aimed at the OP…. I’m just simply expressing a general opinion without wishing to sound unsympathetic or offensive to anyone,,,,,,

I find the idea of anyone allowing random individuals to negatively effect their enjoyment of site’s like this when receiving private message from them containing unpleasant comments frankly ridiculous….

It seems crazy remaining a member of sites like this without a clear understanding and acceptance of the good the bad and the ugly dynamic, which exists on all platforms of this nature…

The Internet is not a good place to hang out if your of a precious persuasions which allow keyboard trolls to get under your skin.

This excellent site provides all members with protective options to filter who can mail us,,, it also provides delete mail and block user facility's which are further backed-up with a first class report abuse option ……

We however must take responsibility to provide our own thick-skin coupled to a suitable sense of humour and an applied rationality to where we are.…….

"

And breathe...

(Totally agree btw...;-))

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By *rs Robinson1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Chapel Row

oh Im not that sensative just felt like a rant lol and its sad that people feel the need to do it in the first place

PS agree with all you say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oh Im not that sensative just felt like a rant lol and its sad that people feel the need to do it in the first place

PS agree with all you say "

Ranting... On a Saturday....

Tsk... Ya'll be shaggin next...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had abusive replies. Best to ignore and move on. Think of all the nice people you've met on here instead and imagine the fun you'll have with the ones you've yet to meet.

If the abuse is very extreme, I advise you to report it. Get them removed from here! no need for it!

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

I got a message from a young girl, she said 'There ought to be more of you old people on here, you bring a lot to the table............including false teeth.'

I didn't bite though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Twas on another site,,,, but my favourite shitO'gram, was once being branded an "ugly degenerative timewasting misfit" for politely declining some random dude's 7-word message demanding an immediate meet in my own home….!. haha....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oh Im not that sensative just felt like a rant lol and its sad that people feel the need to do it in the first place

PS agree with all you say "
Is it because you will not meet them?? what are thay saying ... I have only had one off a man is was Because he was mailing and mailing asking to meet and i was not up for it ... and he was local and felt i was on this site and easy .. He said that too ... Report them to fab dont put up with there crap x

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"Never had abusive messages, whats wrong with me "

Think Ive only had two the whole time Ive been here, but if you want Ill share them with you...Im very generous me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im starting to get fed up with the nasty abusive mails I sometimes get from guys Ive never even met and Ive not done anything what so ever to deserve the abuse here was me thinking it was meant to be fun swinging Feel like packing it in sometimes Anyone else feel the same ? "

was gonna send you an idea to deal with that by private but you have apparently blocked everyone of my sex, which is wierd cos we are a couple

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By *razydriver8Couple
over a year ago

plymouth

had few in my time. referring to my cuddly! size in a mean and nasty way... i normally just tell them ill send them a puncture repair kit, cos their g/f s gonna need it if thats the way they treat people. then block.. lol

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By *BW38jWoman
over a year ago

Dudley/Telford


"Can honestly say have never recieved any abusive mail the whole time i have been on here..."

you're lucky they can be dreadfully offensive and aggresive

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"Never had abusive messages, whats wrong with me "

I've never had one either... they must be scared of us

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By *azmalcCouple
over a year ago

derby

we had them we blocked them and reported but they then got there friends to send 1 even used somebody else profile to continue the abuse . and they are all still on whats the point of reporting them nothing seems to be done about them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we had them we blocked them and reported but they then got there friends to send 1 even used somebody else profile to continue the abuse . and they are all still on whats the point of reporting them nothing seems to be done about them "
why do thay do this ?? Because you will not give them what thay are looking for ?? never sure why people do it ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never had abusive messages, whats wrong with me

I've never had one either... they must be scared of us "

We dont want ya settin Soapy on us...

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By *inkershoes69Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

only ever had one and that was from a woman who apparantly knew me

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset


"Im starting to get fed up with the nasty abusive mails I sometimes get from guys Ive never even met and Ive not done anything what so ever to deserve the abuse here was me thinking it was meant to be fun swinging Feel like packing it in sometimes Anyone else feel the same ? "

So sorry to hear this, seems some men forget their manners when they get let loose on these sex sites, the stupid thing is it just puts some women off from staying on here long, and I cannot say I blame them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im starting to get fed up with the nasty abusive mails I sometimes get from guys Ive never even met and Ive not done anything what so ever to deserve the abuse here was me thinking it was meant to be fun swinging Feel like packing it in sometimes Anyone else feel the same ? "

Anonymous people on a site like this upset me?!! No!

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