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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

couples who play with couples ....as a fairly new couple there's just so many questions... I guess the main ones being

is one of you more "into" this lifestyle than the other?

Do you find it hard to have a four way attraction?

Does jealously ever pop up it's ugly head?

like I say I could ask sooòoo many questions

so any tips for relative newbies would be greatly received

thankyou K (fem) xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

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"couples who play with couples ....as a fairly new couple there's just so many questions... I guess the main ones being

is one of you more "into" this lifestyle than the other?

Do you find it hard to have a four way attraction?

Does jealously ever pop up it's ugly head?

like I say I could ask sooòoo many questions

so any tips for relative newbies would be greatly received

thankyou K (fem) xx

I'd guess couples looking for couples is perhaps the most challenging dynamic, 4 way atraction, plus 4 diaries to coordinate must be a bloody nightmare.

Best advice is always talk, keep talking and keep listening.

Hope you find what youre both looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 way attraction can be difficult to find. Don't be tempted to 'take one for the team'. It will probably make you feel bad and resent your partner.

Jealousy can happen. Talk about it, don't let it fester. Always keep talking and re-assessing boundaries.

Good luck.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

As we only play at a club we have never had an issue with finding people to play with that we are both happy with...spoilt for choice usually. Ultimately we go home together and other couples enhance our play so jealousy never comes into it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thanks everyone....a club will probably be a good idea and yes we are finding communication is the key x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 way attraction can be hard, but talk about what you want and expect together. Set your boundaries and stick to them, if one of you want more then talk about it before the meet. We’ve never had a problem with jealousy as we both know we’re going home together, swapping just adds an extra exciting dimension to our relationship. But communication is the key x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"couples who play with couples ....as a fairly new couple there's just so many questions... I guess the main ones being

is one of you more "into" this lifestyle than the other?

Do you find it hard to have a four way attraction?

Does jealously ever pop up it's ugly head?

like I say I could ask sooòoo many questions

so any tips for relative newbies would be greatly received

thankyou K (fem) xx

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All if those apply very difficult to get compatibility with all four of you

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