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"I do so love these posts without context -did you bump into said person on street, are you working in a psychiatric or demtia ward, is the person in a full body cast/ a victim of a horrific accident and suffering the effects of concussion, are you attracted to or repulsed by their habits or apparrent hygene... As in all things, it has more to do with what led up to the moment that the person thought it was appropriate to ask such a question -Even themost desperate of us may have doubts if when waiting for the car to be serviced, the mechanic/ receptionist popped in with the remains of their lunch smeared across their face and asked whether you wanted to have a ride in the used parts bin while the boss is looking the other way. " To put it into context for me it's a guy who I fancied as soon as I first saw him 3 years ago when I started working as a casual receptionist in a gym. I only work there as and when I can around my other job but my other job involves taking people's to the swimming pool and gym so I'm at this place a lot. He's in the building 3x a week and I never really used to speak to him apart from general pleasantries, he had a bird but the last year or so I started talking to him properly. The last 9 months or so when I was working he would sit in reception with me in between his clients and we'd have proper conversations and flirty banter (hate that word) New Year's Eve he had an argument with his bird and was asking for advice and I told him then, don't talk about problems with your current gf with another female for a start and said that most things can be solved by simply apologising, even if you don't believe you've done anything wrong. March time (that's the next time I worked there) talked again and he said it was on the rocks, didn't see him for a while till last week. He said it was done and we had flirty chats again. As per my other thread about sticking my tongue up a work colleagues arse hole. | |||
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" To put it into context for me it's a guy who I fancied as soon as I first saw him 3 years ago when I started working as a casual receptionist in a gym. I only work there as and when I can around my other job but my other job involves taking people's to the swimming pool and gym so I'm at this place a lot. He's in the building 3x a week and I never really used to speak to him apart from general pleasantries, he had a bird but the last year or so I started talking to him properly. The last 9 months or so when I was working he would sit in reception with me in between his clients and we'd have proper conversations and flirty banter (hate that word) New Year's Eve he had an argument with his bird and was asking for advice and I told him then, don't talk about problems with your current gf with another female for a start and said that most things can be solved by simply apologising, even if you don't believe you've done anything wrong. March time (that's the next time I worked there) talked again and he said it was on the rocks, didn't see him for a while till last week. He said it was done and we had flirty chats again. As per my other thread about sticking my tongue up a work colleagues arse hole. " Ah yes I have been following your other posts with interest -a bit like being hooked on Eastenders -a guilty pleasure really ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Oh my god, seriously. Was expecting loads of advice when I got back to this. Nothing, not one jot, doesn't anyone have an opinion? In the context I've described would it be acceptable to tell someone you want to have sex with them. " All the advice was on the thread about sticking your tongue up his bum. The rest of the advice was on the other thread. In the context you've set out it's clearly fine to just ask. You know that if he says no you'll be miffed but he may not ask for fear of being hit with a sexual harassment claim. It's up to you. | |||
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"Oh my god, seriously. Was expecting loads of advice when I got back to this. Nothing, not one jot, doesn't anyone have an opinion? In the context I've described would it be acceptable to tell someone you want to have sex with them. All the advice was on the thread about sticking your tongue up his bum. The rest of the advice was on the other thread. In the context you've set out it's clearly fine to just ask. You know that if he says no you'll be miffed but he may not ask for fear of being hit with a sexual harassment claim. It's up to you. " Just want to give as much detail as possible so I have an idea what the outcome would be. If it leans strongly that it wouldn't be welcomed I won't approach. | |||
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" To put it into context for me it's a guy who I fancied as soon as I first saw him 3 years ago when I started working as a casual receptionist in a gym. I only work there as and when I can around my other job but my other job involves taking people's to the swimming pool and gym so I'm at this place a lot. He's in the building 3x a week and I never really used to speak to him apart from general pleasantries, he had a bird but the last year or so I started talking to him properly. The last 9 months or so when I was working he would sit in reception with me in between his clients and we'd have proper conversations and flirty banter (hate that word) New Year's Eve he had an argument with his bird and was asking for advice and I told him then, don't talk about problems with your current gf with another female for a start and said that most things can be solved by simply apologising, even if you don't believe you've done anything wrong. March time (that's the next time I worked there) talked again and he said it was on the rocks, didn't see him for a while till last week. He said it was done and we had flirty chats again. As per my other thread about sticking my tongue up a work colleagues arse hole. Ah yes I have been following your other posts with interest -a bit like being hooked on Eastenders -a guilty pleasure really ![]() ![]() Need to have some more signs and signals. Men what are signs and signals that you'd be ripe for a fucking? | |||
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"Why don’t you test the water.... just throw it in as a casual ... not joke but light hearted... " That’s right, just do it like this: Diamond, you have a delectable arse, would you mind if I stuck my tongue up it in some kind of consensual but extremely perverted meet? ![]() | |||
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"Think it has been answered to death actually ! Just go for it why don’t you , call the bloke at home and put yourself out of this misery. " Like go into the system and steal his contact details, that's frowned upon and punishable. | |||
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" To put it into context for me it's a guy who I fancied as soon as I first saw him 3 years ago when I started working as a casual receptionist in a gym. I only work there as and when I can around my other job but my other job involves taking people's to the swimming pool and gym so I'm at this place a lot. He's in the building 3x a week and I never really used to speak to him apart from general pleasantries, he had a bird but the last year or so I started talking to him properly. The last 9 months or so when I was working he would sit in reception with me in between his clients and we'd have proper conversations and flirty banter (hate that word) New Year's Eve he had an argument with his bird and was asking for advice and I told him then, don't talk about problems with your current gf with another female for a start and said that most things can be solved by simply apologising, even if you don't believe you've done anything wrong. March time (that's the next time I worked there) talked again and he said it was on the rocks, didn't see him for a while till last week. He said it was done and we had flirty chats again. As per my other thread about sticking my tongue up a work colleagues arse hole. Ah yes I have been following your other posts with interest -a bit like being hooked on Eastenders -a guilty pleasure really ![]() ![]() Shuffling closer in seat creaping my hand close to u see if you mirror you know if she mirrors your actions well also there will be a bulge in my pants on first contact so make sure you have a peak | |||
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"Think it has been answered to death actually ! Just go for it why don’t you , call the bloke at home and put yourself out of this misery. Like go into the system and steal his contact details, that's frowned upon and punishable. " Nooo! Don't go into the system, ask him for his number. It's not that unusual these days. If he refuses then you know sex in his cubby hole is unlikely. If he gives it to you then you can send a picture message and take it from there. | |||
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"Think it has been answered to death actually ! Just go for it why don’t you , call the bloke at home and put yourself out of this misery. Like go into the system and steal his contact details, that's frowned upon and punishable. " Oh really ? Where I work there is a list of everyone and their mobiles in a book on the desk for anyone to use whenever needed. I imagine one of your mutual work mates has his number just ask around ![]() | |||
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"Why don’t you test the water.... just throw it in as a casual ... not joke but light hearted... That’s right, just do it like this: Diamond, you have a delectable arse, would you mind if I stuck my tongue up it in some kind of consensual but extremely perverted meet? ![]() Oh ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Why don’t you test the water.... just throw it in as a casual ... not joke but light hearted... That’s right, just do it like this: Diamond, you have a delectable arse, would you mind if I stuck my tongue up it in some kind of consensual but extremely perverted meet? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Cool, rumour has it that you fart like a vegetarian student so I’ll bring a breath mint for afterwards ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Why don’t you test the water.... just throw it in as a casual ... not joke but light hearted... That’s right, just do it like this: Diamond, you have a delectable arse, would you mind if I stuck my tongue up it in some kind of consensual but extremely perverted meet? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Cheeky sod! ![]() | |||
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"I wouldn't have a relationship with him. He's indiscreet- he talked to you about his girlfriend. I'd ask how he's doing and if he's seeing anyone. Then chuck a comment in like "I'd do ya!". See how he reacts and go from there. " I don't know if mine would be a common reaction among guys but whenever someone has said stuff like this to me it really embarrassed me and I pretty much ran away. I'd honestly advise what I said in my previous response. Wayyy less embarrassing and cheap and just lets things flow naturally to wherever they're going to go | |||
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"I wouldn't have a relationship with him. He's indiscreet- he talked to you about his girlfriend. I'd ask how he's doing and if he's seeing anyone. Then chuck a comment in like "I'd do ya!". See how he reacts and go from there. I don't know if mine would be a common reaction among guys but whenever someone has said stuff like this to me it really embarrassed me and I pretty much ran away. I'd honestly advise what I said in my previous response. Wayyy less embarrassing and cheap and just lets things flow naturally to wherever they're going to go " Oddly enough men do run away from me. Now I see why. ![]() | |||
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"Oddly enough men do run away from me. Now I see why. ![]() Maybe it's all that steel in those heels -could be you've accidentally impaled one or two along the way ![]() | |||
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"Oddly enough men do run away from me. Now I see why. ![]() ![]() They wouldn't be running if they were impaled. ![]() | |||
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"Need to have some more signs and signals. Men what are signs and signals that you'd be ripe for a fucking?" Ummm -the fact that he is still talking and flirting with you -most guys only keep talking to casual female aquaintances for 2 reasons: 1. He thinks he might have a slight chance. 2. he thinks you are so hot that you are way out of his leaugue but will keep talking so that he can drink up as much of you as he can. It's when they stop talking/ flirting that you have to worry ![]() | |||
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"OP, my only worry would be that if you ask and the answer is favourable it's a seize the moment sort of thing. How will you manage with your prep routine and requirements for him? He may not want to adhere to the prep plan." Prep plan? Whatever that is it sounds like a buzz killer ![]() | |||
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"OThey wouldn't be running if they were impaled. ![]() They took the first chance they got -all they needed was you to lift a foot and they could escape ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"OP, my only worry would be that if you ask and the answer is favourable it's a seize the moment sort of thing. How will you manage with your prep routine and requirements for him? He may not want to adhere to the prep plan. Prep plan? Whatever that is it sounds like a buzz killer ![]() It takes some time. Here's one of the threads. I can't remember the name of the original. https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/415046 | |||
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"OP, my only worry would be that if you ask and the answer is favourable it's a seize the moment sort of thing. How will you manage with your prep routine and requirements for him? He may not want to adhere to the prep plan. Prep plan? Whatever that is it sounds like a buzz killer ![]() So many UNLOS! I miss TD and Dee. | |||
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"OP, my only worry would be that if you ask and the answer is favourable it's a seize the moment sort of thing. How will you manage with your prep routine and requirements for him? He may not want to adhere to the prep plan. Prep plan? Whatever that is it sounds like a buzz killer ![]() Ahh it's just fanny prep. Sounds great. I love a sweet tasting pussy. Makes a BIG difference. I drink pineapple juice for the same reason. I thought she was going to insist he undergo some weird grooming ritual like shoving a lufa up his arse ![]() | |||
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"Oh my god, seriously. Was expecting loads of advice when I got back to this. Nothing, not one jot, doesn't anyone have an opinion? In the context I've described would it be acceptable to tell someone you want to have sex with them. " Yup | |||
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"OP, my only worry would be that if you ask and the answer is favourable it's a seize the moment sort of thing. How will you manage with your prep routine and requirements for him? He may not want to adhere to the prep plan. Prep plan? Whatever that is it sounds like a buzz killer ![]() ![]() There is a prep for the man but I can't remember the thread title that covered that. I don't think a loofah was involved. Abstinence is a requirement. | |||
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"OP, my only worry would be that if you ask and the answer is favourable it's a seize the moment sort of thing. How will you manage with your prep routine and requirements for him? He may not want to adhere to the prep plan. Prep plan? Whatever that is it sounds like a buzz killer ![]() OMG was that Atropos .. hilarious thread. had no idea, I often think of that when eating starbursts.. | |||
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"OP, my only worry would be that if you ask and the answer is favourable it's a seize the moment sort of thing. How will you manage with your prep routine and requirements for him? He may not want to adhere to the prep plan. Prep plan? Whatever that is it sounds like a buzz killer ![]() Yep! I've been here a long time! | |||
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"OP, my only worry would be that if you ask and the answer is favourable it's a seize the moment sort of thing. How will you manage with your prep routine and requirements for him? He may not want to adhere to the prep plan. " I'd just do foreplay stuff there and then. | |||
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