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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And says can i ask you a question?

Well you just did...

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

"And says can i ask you a question?

Well you just did...

I don't think I've ever had that one...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And says can i ask you a question?

Well you just did...

I don't think I've ever had that one...

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wonder what they wanted to ask?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just reply no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's one of the messages I detest the most

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And says can i ask you a question?

Well you just did...

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Well hey its a good thing, well unless it's a bloke and it says straight on your profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And says can i ask you a question?

Well you just did...

Well hey its a good thing, well unless it's a bloke and it says straight on your profile

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yea it was a bloke so i blocked him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But nobody ever does message me and say "Can I ask you a question?"

In fact nobody ever messages me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's one of the messages I detest the most "
me too..

It's usually followed with a challenge about why I don't do something mentioned in my profile.. like car meet or hotel etc...

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Urgh. Hate those messages - instant delete.

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By *rchie_pMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Op ?? Can I ask you a question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instant delete

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I just reply no

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Op ?? Can I ask you a question?

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no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only been asked one question am i married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Instant delete"

That’s rather kind. I block time wasters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate those kind of messages, it’s usually to ask something perverted or disgusting but my curiosity gets the better of me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Instant delete

That’s rather kind. I block time wasters."

What counts as a time waster?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Only been asked one question am i married"

What happens when I pull your finger?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I ask you a question?

Well the answer is always yes you can, but what they actually mean is *may* I ask you a question? To which the answer is invariably no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then they ask something lame, then you try to politely to get rid of them, then you get the you're hot/faf/or some other lame shit to follow it up.

Before you know it you've an inbox full of shit, and you end up blocking them for your own sanity!

Worst first message ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hence I always say, Can I ask you two questions!

Gotta make yourself stand out gents

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Archers are on soon ....

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By *nsatiable Needy BratWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

I delete them straight away. Just irks me slightly. Attempting to engage me that way isn't going to work. If they had a genuinely decent question, serious or even better totally ridiculous I'd be way more inclined to answer if they just asked it straight away. An intriguing first line will always catch my eye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just reply fire away in the hope that someone is going to ask something really interesting. They never do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just reply fire away in the hope that someone is going to ask something really interesting. They never do

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damn I try to ask different questions but I rarely message anyone these days I reply if someone messages me mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And says can i ask you a question?

Well you just did...

I've borrowed an answer from someone I've met recently:

While you may ask the question your ability to ask it is yet to be determined.

Just waiting for the chance to try it now

Mrs

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By *_and_LCouple
over a year ago

Tamworth

And that’s exactly what I always reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And says can i ask you a question?

Well you just did...

Well hey its a good thing, well unless it's a bloke and it says straight on your profile

yea it was a bloke so i blocked him"

I was going to ask was it a man as I get loads of those from men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually reply saying no need, im fine thanks

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I've had this before. I simply say go ahead and see what they want to discuss. I'm not the opening question Police, save my judgement till I understand a bit more what they have to say.

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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire

Our last one was a chap asking to just help in the home whilst we got on with usual stuff ..... I think a question is better the a ‘hi how’s things’ x

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