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"He was honest and open... If I badmouth you... Does that mean Im right... Should I listen to the opinion of a person who is prepared to badmouth someone else... If Barry Norman said a film was sh1t... I always went to see it... As always, when meeting a new man, you will have some sort of security backup...(!!!!) Is this the only reason you cant meet this man... Do you really need to meet this man... Are you going to miss out on something special because you believe someone elses opinion... These questions, and many more, to be answered on next weeks episode of...Soap.. ![]() Or it could be that the guy was/is an arse and knew an ex-meet had been warning people about him and decided to pre-empt her by getting in first. There are plenty of decent guys on here and the OP just doesn't need the hassle, so the way I see it is "he could be a genuine guy, but why take the risk?" | |||
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"Or it could be that the guy was/is an arse and knew an ex-meet had been warning people about him and decided to pre-empt her by getting in first. There are plenty of decent guys on here and the OP just doesn't need the hassle, so the way I see it is "he could be a genuine guy, but why take the risk?"" Agreed. | |||
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"but how would she even know you was meeting to warn you off ..unless he tells her ![]() By checking his verifications? - if he's daft enough to make them public knowing he has a fruit loop following him around. Possibly. | |||
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"but how would she even know you was meeting to warn you off ..unless he tells her ![]() My thoughts exactly..... | |||
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"You obviously wanted to met him so go meet him but just don't verify him and don't accept friend request so she wont know you and him are in contact " Good advice. Then if she DOES get in contact then things will be clearer. Anyway, deleting messages and blocking people is not the hardest thing to do on here. | |||
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"You obviously wanted to met him so go meet him but just don't verify him and don't accept friend request so she wont know you and him are in contact " A good call that way you get the fun bun no bunny boiler stalking you. | |||
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"It is probably the same as when a new female arrives, meets guys, they check others who have met her... a bit like marking their territory. She may have developed feeling for him and was warning others off. Has happened before. i had that ..one fb check another out ..kinds felt good lol " ![]() | |||
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"I would have still met the guy. I have my OWN mind... I know how vindictive some people can be... I know innocent folk can get caught up in horrible hate campaigns for no other reason than rejection... I social meet would have me make my mind up whether I fancy a bit of NSA sex or not. It could be a complete twot or a perfect one off partner to meet me and the OH for some fun... Who knows? It seems the 'lady' is winning with her little hate campaign ![]() +1 | |||
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"I had been chatting to this guy a while back,and was going to meet him untill he told me a previous meet he had was messaging his meets warning them off,and basically making his life a bit of a misery after a long think about this,i decided not to meet him,after him telling me he had removed her friends status and she could no longer contact him...would like to know if anyone else has experienced this and how did you deal with it ?" I would say that unless the man is an idiot, he would hide his verifications and block the lady in question, thus preventing her from _iewing and therefore contacting any subsequent meets. Thus ensuring your safety, so why would you worry about meeting him? Or is it the manner in which he made the comments about her that made you uneasy? Either way, instincts are there for a reason, I usually trust mine. | |||
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