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Its never 50/50

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

During sex who puts in more work physically you or the person/people(for you sexual deviants)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is it never 50/50?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say the guy thinks he's got more to prove?

Rightly or wrongly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With my LTP it's usually me mostly. Now and then he's on one and lets me rest.

My local buddy likes old fashioned style sex, and he does most of the work, a good portion of the time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why is it never 50/50?"

I find I do most of the work. Riding a guy or other positions or movements from the person am with is rare and I don't think am that big

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely me doing most of the work and alot of the time it's tiring as fuck haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m selfish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to give and take. Maybe not in the same session though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always been me up to pres

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the position obviously, if she’s on top, I’m kicking back just trying not to blow my beans to early. Missionary obviously the bloke is doing the work, doggy the blokes doing the work, wheelbarrow the blokes doing the work. Up against the wall and your lifting her off the ground, again the blokes doing the work. If she’s pegging your ass she’s doing the work. Hope this helps X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50/50 for me but always depends on my type of meet. Sometimes I control too much other times I lay back and let him do the work but 50/50 is always the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He puts in waaaaay more work than me! I'm not as young as I used to be haha

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends on the position obviously, if she’s on top, I’m kicking back just trying not to blow my beans to early. Missionary obviously the bloke is doing the work, doggy the blokes doing the work, wheelbarrow the blokes doing the work. Up against the wall and your lifting her off the ground, again the blokes doing the work. If she’s pegging your ass she’s doing the work. Hope this helps X"

Even riding i'm thrusting uo against gravity

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"50/50 for me but always depends on my type of meet. Sometimes I control too much other times I lay back and let him do the work but 50/50 is always the best "

Lucky for some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Them.

Because I push them further than they realise they can go!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm greedy but I like to spoil too x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Them.

Because I push them further than they realise they can go!"

Lol with words of encouragement or instructions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s mood dependent. Sometimes I like to do all the hard work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50/50.

Got to be give and take, can't have him calling all the shots, I can be quite demanding when I'm horny he loves it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to say I do like the man to do most of it, they seem to be able to go at it much faster than me. I am gripping tight,and tensing muscle, bracing myself and being bent up every which way so I still consider it a workout

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I like to give and take but on balance would probably say my fwb does more of the work. We do have meets where I turn the tables though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never think of it as work....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to pleasure every bit as much as receive but I do find the majority of men I meet prefer to lavish their attention on me more than receive. I hate to feel selfish so I do insist they let me take the lead at some stage of the meet.

However, the men I have met who have enjoyed being pegged, are happy to let me do most of the the work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's usually me doing most of the work. Not that I'm complaining

Mrs

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Doggy style is usually 50/50, I can't think that anyone would dispute that.

69 is one for the equation as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to give and take but on balance would probably say my fwb does more of the work. We do have meets where I turn the tables though "
Sounds like a good deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely give and take here too.

There's times when one gets more attention but it all evens out eventually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to give and take, but recognise that it’s probably my mr that does above half of the work. Though he’s happy to lie back and let me take over x

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere


"I like to give and take but on balance would probably say my fwb does more of the work. We do have meets where I turn the tables though Sounds like a good deal "

I reckon he'd be happy if his work was shared out

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

whoever isn't tied up...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Penetration- him.

Oral - me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends. I like it switching. Love to spoil and love to be spoiled.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have to say I do like the man to do most of it, they seem to be able to go at it much faster than me. I am gripping tight,and tensing muscle, bracing myself and being bent up every which way so I still consider it a workout

"

This

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Me I reckon

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

Mostly me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As i usually do all the work it would be a nice change for a lass to take charge

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Me I reckon "

You put them through their paces

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely 50:50 here. Sometimes he throws me around and does what he wants. Sometimes I take advantage and do what I want to him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

80 /20

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thinking about it, mostly me, but I strongly encourage participation...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to give rather than take

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me. First of all I have to get the house tidy, cook dinner, make sure the lawn is cut and wash the car before jumping in the shower. By the time I get to bed I find her asleeep and I have to make do with a wank.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leading up to sex and foreplay it's 90% me, I'll be sucking the dick and the wanking and arse hole licking, spend a decent amount of time doing that but then the sex it's all the guy because I like to be fucked and missionary is my favourite position!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I,male, does most of the work.

Never thought of it in this way before,hmmm. But probably because I have a greater lust for sex and passion. Not sure now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to do a the most work during sex. But I like to take control so dont mind

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By *sRedbbwWoman
over a year ago

Amwythig

Depends what mood I'm in tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"During sex who puts in more work physically you or the person/people(for you sexual deviants) "

Never timed it, as I don't wear a watch only enjoyed it, who cares

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s mood dependent. Sometimes I like to do all the hard work "

Do you bring a tool belt filled with hardware when you do?

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area


"Depends on the position obviously, if she’s on top, I’m kicking back just trying not to blow my beans to early. Missionary obviously the bloke is doing the work, doggy the blokes doing the work, wheelbarrow the blokes doing the work. Up against the wall and your lifting her off the ground, again the blokes doing the work. If she’s pegging your ass she’s doing the work. Hope this helps X"

Phew thats worn me out ..

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Why keep a dog and bark?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"80 /20 "

Haha do you watch the steve harvey show

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By *xycpl699Couple
over a year ago

kilmarnock

50/50 here but I usually start it find it hard keep my hands n mouth off him. hollie

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By *igJandTheBlondeCouple
over a year ago

Kings Hill

I’m a lazy lover

Blonde x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always me, I like to please.

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