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"I make eye contact, or brush close to them and see if there are any signs of mutual attraction. " Wot if thay don't notice it or don't see that as a sine ? | |||
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"I wish more would come up to me and say ‘hello’ instead of coming up tome and saying ‘hell, no!’ " Lol | |||
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"I make eye contact, or brush close to them and see if there are any signs of mutual attraction. Wot if thay don't notice it or don't see that as a sine ? "Then I suppose I'd take it that they aren't interested | |||
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"I make eye contact, or brush close to them and see if there are any signs of mutual attraction. Wot if thay don't notice it or don't see that as a sine ? "Telling them you’re not wearing knickers usually works  | |||
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"I make eye contact, or brush close to them and see if there are any signs of mutual attraction. Wot if thay don't notice it or don't see that as a sine ?
Then I suppose I'd take it that they aren't interested "So no plan B then just in case ? | |||
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"I make eye contact, or brush close to them and see if there are any signs of mutual attraction. Wot if thay don't notice it or don't see that as a sine ?
Telling them you’re not wearing knickers usually works "Saying that, I have been known to just go and join people at tables. Give a knowing look, then wiggle away | |||
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"I make eye contact, or brush close to them and see if there are any signs of mutual attraction. Wot if thay don't notice it or don't see that as a sine ?
Telling them you’re not wearing knickers usually works "Lol | |||
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"I wish more would come up to me and say ‘hello’ instead of coming up tome and saying ‘hell, no!’ " I would say Hello if I saw you, come up to an STP meet sometime. | |||
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"I'd make some excuse to talk to him, then it's up to him
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"I like a really obvious approach. "Same hear. It's just never happened to me yet. And if it has then i haven't realised it | |||
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"I wish more would come up to me and say ‘hello’ instead of coming up tome and saying ‘hell, no!’ I would say Hello if I saw you, come up to an STP meet sometime. " It’s on my to do list.  | |||
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"The last guy I liked on a night out, I walked past him and as we made eye contact, I said "Nice tits! I think they are bigger than mine!" And then the trouble started..." Borrowing this  | |||
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"If I’m out with mi bitches. I’d just smile in his direction. I’m not one for copping off when my friends are in tow. In a fab environment say a club or a social then I’m proactive. At worst he says no ta love. At best well. It’s pretty damn lovely. " Ok | |||
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"The last guy I liked on a night out, I walked past him and as we made eye contact, I said "Nice tits! I think they are bigger than mine!" And then the trouble started..." 
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"As someone who has never pulled on a night out I'm here purely to copy the other ladies ideas. " We'll to pall me on a nite out just make it obvious. Like Hi I'm ..... Want to go out ? | |||
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"I like a really obvious approach. "I like you
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"Erm, if it's not in a swinger's club, probably very little! It's kind of obvious I'm 'taken' and I just think it could be an awkward conversation to have whilst on a night out. Maybe they wouldn't care. I don't know, not really tried it for a while. "Ok | |||
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"I like a really obvious approach.
I like you
KM"That wood work for me | |||
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"I'd make some excuse to talk to him, then it's up to him
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"As someone who has never pulled on a night out I'm here purely to copy the other ladies ideas. We'll to pall me on a nite out just make it obvious. Like Hi I'm ..... Want to go out ? "what approach do you use _eeside | |||
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"I usually just start chatting but in fairness if im on a normal night out with my friends im not looking to pull so i would probably just have a laugh with the guys that come and talk to me rather than make an approach" Ok | |||
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"I'd make some excuse to talk to him, then it's up to him
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sounds good
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"As someone who has never pulled on a night out I'm here purely to copy the other ladies ideas. We'll to pall me on a nite out just make it obvious. Like Hi I'm ..... Want to go out ? what approach do you use _eeside"We'll wen I've worked up the currige and Tryed to put my nurvers away i normally say. Hi how are you. and try to start a conversation. But so far its never led to Mor than a friendly chat. But with my aspirgers. getting my nurvers at bay and just arsking them. is a challing in the 1st place. Most times i just sit at the bar watching and listening to the music. | |||
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"The last guy I pulled in a night club and actually went on to shag him and date him for a few months it started by me spotting him in a bar with a few lads, I walked past him a couple of times so he noticed me, then when I saw him getting served by the bar (busy bar) I said if I give you the money will you get me a strawberry and lime kopperberg, he said yeah, I went to give him the money and he said gimmie your number instead so I did. Then o said coming to the smoking area (I wanted puff on my pipe) he offered me his lap to sit on cos the seats outside were cold and I rubbed my bum over his willy (through his trousers) had a neck on and then had to leave to go to the club! But we met the following weekend and every weekend for months. " Ok | |||
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"I'd make some excuse to talk to him, then it's up to him
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sounds good
You'd get a hug
Oo nice "Seeside does wonderful hugs back | |||
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"I'd make some excuse to talk to him, then it's up to him
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sounds good
You'd get a hug
Oo nice
Seeside does wonderful hugs back "Lol | |||
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"If/wen your on a night out and you see a guy you fancy. Do you just wate and hope he comes to you or do you go to him ? And if you go to him wot do you do/say to show your intreated ? No resoun for this question its just a random question "If i like someone i will e the move | |||
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"If I saw a guy I liked I would make sure to lock eyes with him and then give him a slow and sexy smile. I would go for a dance with my friends but keep catching his eye. If he watches me then I know he's into me if he doesn't bother I would stop trying. " You see I'm so socially awkward I'd just interpret that as you being polite. I actually don't know what I'd do if a woman walked up to me and started chatting up, I'd probably shit a brick and question if it was really happening. And I don't have the courage to approach a woman first. I hype myself up to do it, trying to figure out what to say and end up not bothering in the end. I overthink things. | |||
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"If/wen your on a night out and you see a guy you fancy. Do you just wate and hope he comes to you or do you go to him ? And if you go to him wot do you do/say to show your intreated ? No resoun for this question its just a random question
If i like someone i will e the move"Is that ment to be .... make ? | |||
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"If I saw a guy I liked I would make sure to lock eyes with him and then give him a slow and sexy smile. I would go for a dance with my friends but keep catching his eye. If he watches me then I know he's into me if he doesn't bother I would stop trying. " Wot if he just thinks your smiling at him ? | |||
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"If I saw a guy I liked I would make sure to lock eyes with him and then give him a slow and sexy smile. I would go for a dance with my friends but keep catching his eye. If he watches me then I know he's into me if he doesn't bother I would stop trying. You see I'm so socially awkward I'd just interpret that as you being polite. I actually don't know what I'd do if a woman walked up to me and started chatting up, I'd probably shit a brick and question if it was really happening. And I don't have the courage to approach a woman first. I hype myself up to do it, trying to figure out what to say and end up not bothering in the end. I overthink things. " I no the filling to well... Your not alown. | |||
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"If I saw a guy I liked I would make sure to lock eyes with him and then give him a slow and sexy smile. I would go for a dance with my friends but keep catching his eye. If he watches me then I know he's into me if he doesn't bother I would stop trying. Wot if he just thinks your smiling at him ? "Then he wouldn't be the guy for me .
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"I've never been approached in a normal bar or club and I'd be out with friends so would never make the 1st move. Seeside your approach seems good, well done for being brave, must take a lot of bottle to walk up to somebody new and strike up a conversation. How about saying "Hi, do you mind if I join you?" Chat generally for a bit then ask something like "have you seen.... Insert name of film here... Yet? Do you fancy coming with me to see it?" Or maybe insert a local band playing at a pub? Or even a new restaurant.... Just make the general chat become chatting up if you get what I mean." Mor bottle than you can emajon. I don't arsk very often but wen i do it fills like i got a planet on my hed and I'm stood in the spot lite in front of a judge jury and Executioner. Mite try thos tips next time. others just make it look so easy thoe. and go about like glen quagmire from family guy. Lol | |||
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"If I saw a guy I liked I would make sure to lock eyes with him and then give him a slow and sexy smile. I would go for a dance with my friends but keep catching his eye. If he watches me then I know he's into me if he doesn't bother I would stop trying. Wot if he just thinks your smiling at him ?
Then he wouldn't be the guy for me .
"How wood you no ? He cood be your dreem guy. But needs mor of a obvious sine. | |||
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"If I saw a guy I liked I would make sure to lock eyes with him and then give him a slow and sexy smile. I would go for a dance with my friends but keep catching his eye. If he watches me then I know he's into me if he doesn't bother I would stop trying. Wot if he just thinks your smiling at him ?
Then he wouldn't be the guy for me .
How wood you no ?
He cood be your dreem guy. But needs mor of a obvious sine. "Continuous eye contact and smiling at each other is an obvious sign. If you fancy someone that you see in a bar or club you'll keep looking at them and catching their eye and smiling. | |||
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"If I saw a guy I liked I would make sure to lock eyes with him and then give him a slow and sexy smile. I would go for a dance with my friends but keep catching his eye. If he watches me then I know he's into me if he doesn't bother I would stop trying. Wot if he just thinks your smiling at him ?
Then he wouldn't be the guy for me .
How wood you no ?
He cood be your dreem guy. But needs mor of a obvious sine.
Continuous eye contact and smiling at each other is an obvious sign. If you fancy someone that you see in a bar or club you'll keep looking at them and catching their eye and smiling. "Ok but Hoo makes the 1st move ? | |||
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"If I saw a guy I liked I would make sure to lock eyes with him and then give him a slow and sexy smile. I would go for a dance with my friends but keep catching his eye. If he watches me then I know he's into me if he doesn't bother I would stop trying. Wot if he just thinks your smiling at him ?
Then he wouldn't be the guy for me .
How wood you no ?
He cood be your dreem guy. But needs mor of a obvious sine.
Continuous eye contact and smiling at each other is an obvious sign. If you fancy someone that you see in a bar or club you'll keep looking at them and catching their eye and smiling. "Okay, now I'm questioning whether or not my old co-worker liked me because she did a lot of smiling at me and looking in my direction whenever I went into her section. | |||
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"Erm, if it's not in a swinger's club, probably very little! It's kind of obvious I'm 'taken' and I just think it could be an awkward conversation to have whilst on a night out. Maybe they wouldn't care. I don't know, not really tried it for a while. "Yep, this
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"I would try to catch their eye, look at them then looo away, then look again. Smile at them then look away, smile again at them. If I got a smile and glances back then I would probably go over." It's good that you'd make the first move. Like I said I'd probably crap myself if you did, but I'd certainly appreciate it. I always thought it was more socially acceptable for the man to make the first move. That's how I've always seen the pick-up scene. | |||
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"If I saw a guy I liked I would make sure to lock eyes with him and then give him a slow and sexy smile. I would go for a dance with my friends but keep catching his eye. If he watches me then I know he's into me if he doesn't bother I would stop trying. Wot if he just thinks your smiling at him ?
Then he wouldn't be the guy for me .
How wood you no ?
He cood be your dreem guy. But needs mor of a obvious sine.
Continuous eye contact and smiling at each other is an obvious sign. If you fancy someone that you see in a bar or club you'll keep looking at them and catching their eye and smiling.
Ok but Hoo makes the 1st move ?"if a woman has made it perfectly obvious to a man shes interested then if hes interested he will do something about it. If not the woman assumes there is no interest | |||
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"If I saw a guy I liked I would make sure to lock eyes with him and then give him a slow and sexy smile. I would go for a dance with my friends but keep catching his eye. If he watches me then I know he's into me if he doesn't bother I would stop trying. Wot if he just thinks your smiling at him ?
Then he wouldn't be the guy for me .
How wood you no ?
He cood be your dreem guy. But needs mor of a obvious sine.
Continuous eye contact and smiling at each other is an obvious sign. If you fancy someone that you see in a bar or club you'll keep looking at them and catching their eye and smiling.
Okay, now I'm questioning whether or not my old co-worker liked me because she did a lot of smiling at me and looking in my direction whenever I went into her section. "Sometimes people are just nice people and are nice to people. It's not a signal that they fancy you or want to fuck your brains out. | |||
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"I would try to catch their eye, look at them then looo away, then look again. Smile at them then look away, smile again at them. If I got a smile and glances back then I would probably go over. It's good that you'd make the first move. Like I said I'd probably crap myself if you did, but I'd certainly appreciate it. I always thought it was more socially acceptable for the man to make the first move. That's how I've always seen the pick-up scene." its 2018 | |||
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"I would try to catch their eye, look at them then looo away, then look again. Smile at them then look away, smile again at them. If I got a smile and glances back then I would probably go over." That just sounds very confusing. | |||
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"If/wen your on a night out and you see a guy you fancy. Do you just wate and hope he comes to you or do you go to him ? And if you go to him wot do you do/say to show your intreated ? No resoun for this question its just a random question "It would all depend on how much I'd drank | |||
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"I would try to catch their eye, look at them then looo away, then look again. Smile at them then look away, smile again at them. If I got a smile and glances back then I would probably go over. That just sounds very confusing. " It's a different kind of smile to a friendly one. Can you determine facial expressions meanings? | |||
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"If I saw a guy I liked I would make sure to lock eyes with him and then give him a slow and sexy smile. I would go for a dance with my friends but keep catching his eye. If he watches me then I know he's into me if he doesn't bother I would stop trying. Wot if he just thinks your smiling at him ?
Then he wouldn't be the guy for me .
How wood you no ?
He cood be your dreem guy. But needs mor of a obvious sine.
Continuous eye contact and smiling at each other is an obvious sign. If you fancy someone that you see in a bar or club you'll keep looking at them and catching their eye and smiling.
Ok but Hoo makes the 1st move ?if a woman has made it perfectly obvious to a man shes interested then if hes interested he will do something about it. If not the woman assumes there is no interest"Wot if he don't see eye contact as a sine wot if he thinks its just a polite smile ? | |||
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"I would try to catch their eye, look at them then looo away, then look again. Smile at them then look away, smile again at them. If I got a smile and glances back then I would probably go over. That just sounds very confusing. It's a different kind of smile to a friendly one. Can you determine facial expressions meanings?" I'm not Shor... A smile to me is just a small. | |||
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"If I saw a guy I liked I would make sure to lock eyes with him and then give him a slow and sexy smile. I would go for a dance with my friends but keep catching his eye. If he watches me then I know he's into me if he doesn't bother I would stop trying. Wot if he just thinks your smiling at him ?
Then he wouldn't be the guy for me .
How wood you no ?
He cood be your dreem guy. But needs mor of a obvious sine.
Continuous eye contact and smiling at each other is an obvious sign. If you fancy someone that you see in a bar or club you'll keep looking at them and catching their eye and smiling.
Okay, now I'm questioning whether or not my old co-worker liked me because she did a lot of smiling at me and looking in my direction whenever I went into her section.
Sometimes people are just nice people and are nice to people.
It's not a signal that they fancy you or want to fuck your brains out."So how do you tell the difference between the 2 wen thay look ezakley the same. ? | |||
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"If I saw a guy I liked I would make sure to lock eyes with him and then give him a slow and sexy smile. I would go for a dance with my friends but keep catching his eye. If he watches me then I know he's into me if he doesn't bother I would stop trying. Wot if he just thinks your smiling at him ?
Then he wouldn't be the guy for me .
How wood you no ?
He cood be your dreem guy. But needs mor of a obvious sine. "Because I like a more assertive guy and if he couldn't see I'm interested from my signs I would realise that he couldn't handle me | |||
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"If I saw a guy I liked I would make sure to lock eyes with him and then give him a slow and sexy smile. I would go for a dance with my friends but keep catching his eye. If he watches me then I know he's into me if he doesn't bother I would stop trying. Wot if he just thinks your smiling at him ?
Then he wouldn't be the guy for me .
How wood you no ?
He cood be your dreem guy. But needs mor of a obvious sine.
Continuous eye contact and smiling at each other is an obvious sign. If you fancy someone that you see in a bar or club you'll keep looking at them and catching their eye and smiling.
Okay, now I'm questioning whether or not my old co-worker liked me because she did a lot of smiling at me and looking in my direction whenever I went into her section.
Sometimes people are just nice people and are nice to people.
It's not a signal that they fancy you or want to fuck your brains out.
So how do you tell the difference between the 2 wen thay look ezakley the same. ? "if a woman a work is smiling dont just assume shes interested. If its a girl in a bar and she keeps looking and smiling assume she is | |||
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"If I saw a guy I liked I would make sure to lock eyes with him and then give him a slow and sexy smile. I would go for a dance with my friends but keep catching his eye. If he watches me then I know he's into me if he doesn't bother I would stop trying. Wot if he just thinks your smiling at him ?
Then he wouldn't be the guy for me .
How wood you no ?
He cood be your dreem guy. But needs mor of a obvious sine.
Continuous eye contact and smiling at each other is an obvious sign. If you fancy someone that you see in a bar or club you'll keep looking at them and catching their eye and smiling.
Ok but Hoo makes the 1st move ?if a woman has made it perfectly obvious to a man shes interested then if hes interested he will do something about it. If not the woman assumes there is no interest
Wot if he don't see eye contact as a sine wot if he thinks its just a polite smile ?"but most do see it as a sign. Have you ever looked anything up on the interenet about women and the signs they give off when interested | |||
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"If I saw a guy I liked I would make sure to lock eyes with him and then give him a slow and sexy smile. I would go for a dance with my friends but keep catching his eye. If he watches me then I know he's into me if he doesn't bother I would stop trying. Wot if he just thinks your smiling at him ?
Then he wouldn't be the guy for me .
How wood you no ?
He cood be your dreem guy. But needs mor of a obvious sine.
Continuous eye contact and smiling at each other is an obvious sign. If you fancy someone that you see in a bar or club you'll keep looking at them and catching their eye and smiling.
Ok but Hoo makes the 1st move ?if a woman has made it perfectly obvious to a man shes interested then if hes interested he will do something about it. If not the woman assumes there is no interest
Wot if he don't see eye contact as a sine wot if he thinks its just a polite smile ?but most do see it as a sign. Have you ever looked anything up on the interenet about women and the signs they give off when interested"Arr no i haven't. 
I've maneley thort that if sumone wos interested in me thay wood come up to me. | |||
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"If I saw a guy I liked I would make sure to lock eyes with him and then give him a slow and sexy smile. I would go for a dance with my friends but keep catching his eye. If he watches me then I know he's into me if he doesn't bother I would stop trying. Wot if he just thinks your smiling at him ?
Then he wouldn't be the guy for me .
How wood you no ?
He cood be your dreem guy. But needs mor of a obvious sine.
Continuous eye contact and smiling at each other is an obvious sign. If you fancy someone that you see in a bar or club you'll keep looking at them and catching their eye and smiling.
Ok but Hoo makes the 1st move ?if a woman has made it perfectly obvious to a man shes interested then if hes interested he will do something about it. If not the woman assumes there is no interest
Wot if he don't see eye contact as a sine wot if he thinks its just a polite smile ?but most do see it as a sign. Have you ever looked anything up on the interenet about women and the signs they give off when interested
Arr no i haven't.
I've maneley thort that if sumone wos interested in me thay wood come up to me."might be worth having a read. Strange creatures us women we give all kinds of signs and signals off | |||
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"If I saw a guy I liked I would make sure to lock eyes with him and then give him a slow and sexy smile. I would go for a dance with my friends but keep catching his eye. If he watches me then I know he's into me if he doesn't bother I would stop trying. Wot if he just thinks your smiling at him ?
Then he wouldn't be the guy for me .
How wood you no ?
He cood be your dreem guy. But needs mor of a obvious sine.
Continuous eye contact and smiling at each other is an obvious sign. If you fancy someone that you see in a bar or club you'll keep looking at them and catching their eye and smiling.
Ok but Hoo makes the 1st move ?if a woman has made it perfectly obvious to a man shes interested then if hes interested he will do something about it. If not the woman assumes there is no interest
Wot if he don't see eye contact as a sine wot if he thinks its just a polite smile ?but most do see it as a sign. Have you ever looked anything up on the interenet about women and the signs they give off when interested
Arr no i haven't.
I've maneley thort that if sumone wos interested in me thay wood come up to me.might be worth having a read. Strange creatures us women we give all kinds of signs and signals off "Lol ok | |||
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"If/wen your on a night out and you see a guy you fancy. Do you just wate and hope he comes to you or do you go to him ? And if you go to him wot do you do/say to show your intreated ? No resoun for this question its just a random question "Tbh the last person i batted my eyelashes at in a club became my now ex husband...so i don't think i would try it again  | |||
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