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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Folks I’m in a job I hate. But it’s only 2 mins from my house. I’ve been offered another job which is 1 hour away! Decisions!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Move house.

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By *aenMan
over a year ago

Here and There


"Move house."

Got to admire your logic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does other job offer what you want, will it make you happy if yes take the job

If answer yes to point one then need decide if happy to travel to work again if yes take job

If unsure or no to above don’t rake

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

If it's something you want to do, do it.

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

We spend too much of our time at work to be doing something that we hate and which makes us miserable!

Last year I was in a job I hated. Was enduring workplace bullying which they wouldn’t address and it was causing anxiety and depression. Eventually I went to my gp who signed me off sick and I never went back. Spent my time job hunting and took great pleasure in handing in my notice and telling them why I was leaving.

Ultimately, you have to do what is right for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Folks I’m in a job I hate. But it’s only 2 mins from my house. I’ve been offered another job which is 1 hour away! Decisions! "

You have to do the pros and cons thing. Will the journey still be an hour in the winter? Does that factor in rush hour traffic? Even if it’s an hour you might love the job, love the place, make new friends. so I guess it boils down to how much you hate your current one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Folks I’m in a job I hate. But it’s only 2 mins from my house. I’ve been offered another job which is 1 hour away! Decisions! "

Go for it..

We work to live not live to work..

Lifes too short to be in a job you hate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It shouldn’t even be a decision. You’re in a job you hate. We spend most of our lives at work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with all the above OP. If you don't like something then why put yourself through it. An hours travel is nothing for a job you enjoy.

Take a leap of faith and make the change.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Say it wasn't a work and it was a shag and you have to shag 5/6 times a week.

You can either shag the one you don't like who is 5 minutes away bit boring and smells a bit OR drive an hour away for an amazing shag with greats tits and nice bum?

Choice is yours

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We spend too much of our time at work to be doing something that we hate and which makes us miserable!

Last year I was in a job I hated. Was enduring workplace bullying which they wouldn’t address and it was causing anxiety and depression. Eventually I went to my gp who signed me off sick and I never went back. Spent my time job hunting and took great pleasure in handing in my notice and telling them why I was leaving.

Ultimately, you have to do what is right for you"
This is what’s happening me. One guy ( my direct manager) is a nasty piece of work. I’m suffering mentally with it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Folks I’m in a job I hate. But it’s only 2 mins from my house. I’ve been offered another job which is 1 hour away! Decisions!

You have to do the pros and cons thing. Will the journey still be an hour in the winter? Does that factor in rush hour traffic? Even if it’s an hour you might love the job, love the place, make new friends. so I guess it boils down to how much you hate your current one."
10/10 hate

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"We spend too much of our time at work to be doing something that we hate and which makes us miserable!

Last year I was in a job I hated. Was enduring workplace bullying which they wouldn’t address and it was causing anxiety and depression. Eventually I went to my gp who signed me off sick and I never went back. Spent my time job hunting and took great pleasure in handing in my notice and telling them why I was leaving.

Ultimately, you have to do what is right for you This is what’s happening me. One guy ( my direct manager) is a nasty piece of work. I’m suffering mentally with it "

Well get the stuff out!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Agree with all the above OP. If you don't like something then why put yourself through it. An hours travel is nothing for a job you enjoy.

Take a leap of faith and make the change.

Good luck!"
Thank you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It shouldn’t even be a decision. You’re in a job you hate. We spend most of our lives at work. "
agreed and thank you

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Why do you hate the current job?

Do you have any ties stopping you move house (e.g. kids settled in a school?)

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By *ildjianMan
over a year ago

London

You cannot live and work in a situation that is causing you mental suffering.

Change job and enjoy the commute, use the hour to read, write or listen to a radio show or music (depending on your mode of transport) and embrace the change.

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton


"Folks I’m in a job I hate. But it’s only 2 mins from my house. I’ve been offered another job which is 1 hour away! Decisions!

You have to do the pros and cons thing. Will the journey still be an hour in the winter? Does that factor in rush hour traffic? Even if it’s an hour you might love the job, love the place, make new friends. so I guess it boils down to how much you hate your current one. 10/10 hate "
. If you hate your job 10/10 take the new one looking at your profile to see your age you are young enough to change your job another 10 years and it won’t be so easy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You cannot live and work in a situation that is causing you mental suffering.

Change job and enjoy the commute, use the hour to read, write or listen to a radio show or music (depending on your mode of transport) and embrace the change."
very well put! And thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do you hate the current job?

Do you have any ties stopping you move house (e.g. kids settled in a school?) "
I am finding the work difficult.

The role is out of my comfort zone and my direct like manager whom

Was not involved in my recruitment is not understanding. So

In turn I’m

Feeling the pinch.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Why do you hate the current job?

Do you have any ties stopping you move house (e.g. kids settled in a school?) I am finding the work difficult.

The role is out of my comfort zone and my direct like manager whom

Was not involved in my recruitment is not understanding. So

In turn I’m

Feeling the pinch. "

But the job isn't inherently bad then. I'd say you need to consider the trajectory you are improving at and the opportunity cost of moving. Don't commute one hour, that really does suck.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

You spend about a third of your day asleep, a third of your day at work, and a third of your day being you.

If any of those isn't working as it should, the quality of your life suffers.

You shouldn't stay in a job you don't like. It's not fair on yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You spend about a third of your day asleep, a third of your day at work, and a third of your day being you.

If any of those isn't working as it should, the quality of your life suffers.

You shouldn't stay in a job you don't like. It's not fair on yourself."
agreed and thank you so much

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

It's two hours of every work day that you wont get back.

Is it worth it financially?

If the answer's no then keep looking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's two hours of every work day that you wont get back.

Is it worth it financially?

If the answer's no then keep looking."
it’s worth it financially yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An hour commute is probably average these days. You'll have less time but be spending 40+ hours a week not somewhere you hate.

Unless it turns out to be worse.

I'd go for it personally - it's not worth being somewhere you're not happy if you have options.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"An hour commute is probably average these days. You'll have less time but be spending 40+ hours a week not somewhere you hate.

Unless it turns out to be worse.

I'd go for it personally - it's not worth being somewhere you're not happy if you have options."
Very fair logic!

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth


"We spend too much of our time at work to be doing something that we hate and which makes us miserable!

Last year I was in a job I hated. Was enduring workplace bullying which they wouldn’t address and it was causing anxiety and depression. Eventually I went to my gp who signed me off sick and I never went back. Spent my time job hunting and took great pleasure in handing in my notice and telling them why I was leaving.

Ultimately, you have to do what is right for you This is what’s happening me. One guy ( my direct manager) is a nasty piece of work. I’m suffering mentally with it "

I think you have just answered your own question here. Our mental health is precious, we need to look after it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I handed in my notice today and accepted the other Role. Thanks folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I handed in my notice today and accepted the other Role. Thanks folks "

good luck I hope it brings everything you need and happiness

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Good luck xxx

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"Folks I’m in a job I hate. But it’s only 2 mins from my house. I’ve been offered another job which is 1 hour away! Decisions! "

Do you work for the love of work?

Or

Do you work to fund enjoying your self out side of work?

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"I handed in my notice today and accepted the other Role. Thanks folks "

Good luck from us both, follow your heart and hope it works out well for you.

We had a guy leave us to take early retirement, even moved to a new country, a year later he has come back and asked for his old job back.

Guess we are doing it right then?

M & M

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Folks I’m in a job I hate. But it’s only 2 mins from my house. I’ve been offered another job which is 1 hour away! Decisions!

Do you work for the love of work?

Or

Do you work to fund enjoying your self out side of work?"
To fund everything outside it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I handed in my notice today and accepted the other Role. Thanks folks

Good luck from us both, follow your heart and hope it works out well for you.

We had a guy leave us to take early retirement, even moved to a new country, a year later he has come back and asked for his old job back.

Guess we are doing it right then?

M & M"
Hi M&M it sounds very much like you guys are doing something right

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Take the new job and start visiting this site continuously from your new work pc without any image blocker on -that way you'll soon be home without a job and have far more time to spend on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Folks I’m in a job I hate. But it’s only 2 mins from my house. I’ve been offered another job which is 1 hour away! Decisions! "
have a move and fresh start maybe new ladies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Folks I’m in a job I hate. But it’s only 2 mins from my house. I’ve been offered another job which is 1 hour away! Decisions! "

Life’s too short to hate anything

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Folks I’m in a job I hate. But it’s only 2 mins from my house. I’ve been offered another job which is 1 hour away! Decisions!

Life’s too short to hate anything "
thank you

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It’s worth the hour travel each way to be happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An hour isn't that far really.

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