FabSwingers.com forum: Having someone cook for you

By *wingfellow OP Man
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

So in recent months I’ve discovered that the majority of women I’ve met have never had a man cook them a proper meal from scratch.

I find it quite shocking, is this a common thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you cook for me?

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By *wingfellow OP Man
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

"Would you cook for me?"

A banquet if you’d be the desert

My ruthless friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you cook for me?

A banquet if you’d be the desert

My ruthless friend "

You want me to be a desert? Tad sandy.

I’d make a finer dessert.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Its funny its not something ive really thought about. My husband used to do a bit when we where married. Ive never really been with someone that cooks. I just go out if i want something nice

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By *wingfellow OP Man
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

"Would you cook for me?

A banquet if you’d be the desert

My ruthless friend

You want me to be a desert? Tad sandy.

I’d make a finer dessert.

You’d be like jelly when I’m finished with you and that’s a dessert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you cook for me?

A banquet if you’d be the desert

My ruthless friend

You want me to be a desert? Tad sandy.

I’d make a finer dessert.

You’d be like jelly when I’m finished with you and that’s a dessert

You’re very confident.

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By *wingfellow OP Man
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

"Its funny its not something ive really thought about. My husband used to do a bit when we where married. Ive never really been with someone that cooks. I just go out if i want something nice"

I just find it crazy because it’s not a difficult thing but it seems it’s always left to the woman. I quite enjoy it.

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By *wingfellow OP Man
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

You’re very confident. "

An incorrigible rogue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re very confident.

An incorrigible rogue

Seemingly so. I couldn’t keep up with you, I reckon.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Its funny its not something ive really thought about. My husband used to do a bit when we where married. Ive never really been with someone that cooks. I just go out if i want something nice

I just find it crazy because it’s not a difficult thing but it seems it’s always left to the woman. I quite enjoy it."
i rarely cook either

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By *wingfellow OP Man
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

"Its funny its not something ive really thought about. My husband used to do a bit when we where married. Ive never really been with someone that cooks. I just go out if i want something nice

I just find it crazy because it’s not a difficult thing but it seems it’s always left to the woman. I quite enjoy it.i rarely cook either

I just cook a few different meals over weekend for throughout the week.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Its funny its not something ive really thought about. My husband used to do a bit when we where married. Ive never really been with someone that cooks. I just go out if i want something nice

I just find it crazy because it’s not a difficult thing but it seems it’s always left to the woman. I quite enjoy it.i rarely cook either

I just cook a few different meals over weekend for throughout the week."
i do cook normal everyday food

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put more effort into my cooking than I do my profile that's for sure

I like being cooked for, who don't but I do get involved in the kitchen

Your own good is best

It's cleaner

takeaways are crap

What's your best dishes

Whoever does cook

I'm always up for a munch

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By *wingfellow OP Man
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

"I put more effort into my cooking than I do my profile that's for sure

I like being cooked for, who don't but I do get involved in the kitchen

Your own good is best

It's cleaner

takeaways are crap

What's your best dishes

Whoever does cook

I'm always up for a munch

Jerk chicken/ pork dishes

Lasagne is one that people seem to really enjoy because I mess with the spices.

My paneer curries are pretty good.

There’s not much I can’t make to be honest. What I will not make is seafood dishes because I refuse to make someone food that I can’t eat haha

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

My partner used to cook from me all the time, his Sunday roast was legendary

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

My other half cooks for me all the time, I'm open to offers if anyone else fancies cooking for me too, I'm greedy like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was 17 I used to go out with this boy who lived with his parents but they always did massive food shops and always had nice food. I practically lived there and this boy used to cook for us all the time. Cooked breakfasts and he always done the eggs perfect and the fried mushrooms, he'd make me cottage pies and the potato on top would always be really crisp and lovely.

Gotta say for a first boyfriend he was really good.

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By *wingfellow OP Man
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

"My partner used to cook from me all the time, his Sunday roast was legendary

It’s the roasties that do it for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to do most of the cooking when I was married but since I’ve been single, I’ve met many guys that love to cook. I’ve been lucky enough to have been spoiled in that way with some lovely meals.

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By *wingfellow OP Man
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

"My other half cooks for me all the time, I'm open to offers if anyone else fancies cooking for me too, I'm greedy like that. "

You’re too far away or I’d offer to do so. Having said that if your age range dropped by a year that would be cause for a celebratory meal

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By *wingfellow OP Man
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

"When I was 17 I used to go out with this boy who lived with his parents but they always did massive food shops and always had nice food. I practically lived there and this boy used to cook for us all the time. Cooked breakfasts and he always done the eggs perfect and the fried mushrooms, he'd make me cottage pies and the potato on top would always be really crisp and lovely.

Gotta say for a first boyfriend he was really good. "

I think I was pretty clueless at that age to be honest, wouldn’t have been out of bed early enough to make breakfast either so you definitely struck it lucky haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So in recent months I’ve discovered that the majority of women I’ve met have never had a man cook them a proper meal from scratch.

I find it quite shocking, is this a common thing? "

Mr does all the cooking. I'm living the dream

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By *wingfellow OP Man
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

"I used to do most of the cooking when I was married but since I’ve been single, I’ve met many guys that love to cook. I’ve been lucky enough to have been spoiled in that way with some lovely meals. "

I’m usually the one that does all the cooking haha. I just need to meet someone who can bake and then I’ll be a happy chap indeed.

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By *wingfellow OP Man
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

"So in recent months I’ve discovered that the majority of women I’ve met have never had a man cook them a proper meal from scratch.

I find it quite shocking, is this a common thing?

Mr does all the cooking. I'm living the dream

You have the poor man slaving away over a hot stove for you eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re thinking of hiring Seeside

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

When I was married I did all the cooking. Now that I'm single I've lost my way a bit

I've only ever had one meet cook for me (once) and that was lovely.

I'd love to meet a guy who could, and would, cook decent food.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So in recent months I’ve discovered that the majority of women I’ve met have never had a man cook them a proper meal from scratch.

I find it quite shocking, is this a common thing?

Mr does all the cooking. I'm living the dream

You have the poor man slaving away over a hot stove for you eh?

He can find an hour or so for it being retired while I slave at work

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

I'll cook for a date or breakfast in bed, I don't do vegans or vegetarians meals sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An ex of mine loved cooking and I used to sit in the kitchen watching him. It was really quite sexy, we'd chat and laugh and kiss and drink. Definitely a good thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gotta say for a first boyfriend he was really good.

I think I was pretty clueless at that age to be honest, wouldn’t have been out of bed early enough to make breakfast either so you definitely struck it lucky haha"

It would be more like lunch time when we got up. When his parents had gone to work and his brother in school we'd have to load the dishwasher, peg his mums washing out, walk the dog and then we'd just eat, fuck and play computer games!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex would make me breakfast in bed that was nice. My son has made me a meal - I ended up needing to rescue it.

I think my brother is the only man who's ever cooked me a meal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm one of those women. The most I've had cooked for me by a partner is omelette with toast.

Some women are very lucky in life to have partners who cook, I hope they appreciate their men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a 2 day date beginning of this week (first meet) and he prepared a beautiful picnic, cooked me dinner and also breakfast the next day. It’s so lovely to be pampered in that way.

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

"So in recent months I’ve discovered that the majority of women I’ve met have never had a man cook them a proper meal from scratch.

I find it quite shocking, is this a common thing? "
yep never cook. Horses for courses.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We both cook. We both do most of the things around the house. We do it because we need to eat and live in a clean home not as a "thing" for each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex husband cooked a lot of meals not specifically for me just us as a family. But I’ve never met a man that has cooked me a meal x

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I cook just about everyday of the year I love it. I don't see it as a chore.

The first thing I think about when I wake up is what I can cook for dinner that evening.

However, I cherish when someone cooks for me and it isn't a restaurant.

I really appreciate friends and family who cook for me but just as happy cooking for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like being the cook. Preparing and serving food is one way I show affection. Although, I do also love being cooked for!

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3

My fella cooks for me everyday. He enjoys doing it and his good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have cooked for myself all my adult life and even when married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant cook but im shit hot on a phone

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

I don't cook but will happily do the ironing.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I don't cook but will happily do the ironing."

When can you get here?

just don't iron a crease in my linen trousers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I cant cook but im shit hot on a phone"

Chinese takeaway for me then please

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

I don’t really understand an adult not being able to cook (I don’t mean anything fancy, but just something quite basic) or another adult facilitating it. Everyone has to eat, surely it’s something pretty important?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love cooking for people... used to cook all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clift cooks for me all the time. It’s lovely x

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"I don’t really understand an adult not being able to cook (I don’t mean anything fancy, but just something quite basic) or another adult facilitating it. Everyone has to eat, surely it’s something pretty important?"

It's most important thing I learned in school. It's one of the few things I use everyday.

They should go further. Make it compulsory and also teach how to grow food, hunt, fish, butcher and prepare the food. Along with how to handle it and cook it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree. My nephew offered to cook for me and my ex husband when he was 14. It was the day of a funeral and asked if we were hungry and did we want something. He was trained well by my sister. He could cook, clean etc.

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Love cooking. I don't see why everyone can't make at least some simple meals, it's not like there's difficult technical skills required. Especially in these days of youtube, you can just watch a video and copy it.

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"I don't cook but will happily do the ironing.

When can you get here?

just don't iron a crease in my linen trousers

I'm in Portsmouth in a fortnight. Just a hop, skip and a very long jump from you. And I don't do creases, I'm a professional me

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I've only had one man cook for me. I now know that if he invites me for lunch at his place it's safer to decline.

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Mr EM is a Cheffy so he cooks from scratch most nights.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

MrH can. But does rarely. I don’t give a shit if it’s beans on toast or a gourmet meal. I just like to have someone else cook it. Please. For the love of anybody’s god!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've only had one man cook for me. I now know that if he invites me for lunch at his place it's safer to decline.

London Kinkster, as was, used to cook for me regularly. He was an exceptional cook.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Someone has just called me to say they are ordering a pizza and do I want one - does that count? Thats about as good as it gets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do 90% of the cooking at home (mr)

Make a lot of stuff myself, pizza dough, pasta sauce etc....once you’ve done homemade the shop bought pre packed stuff is awful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone has just called me to say they are ordering a pizza and do I want one - does that count? Thats about as good as it gets"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cook most meals in our house. Wifey gets home later than me so I get it ready for when she gets home. And a glass of red waiting.

Prefer not to cook but have to make best use of your time to free the night up.

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By *tuOnePlumMan
over a year ago

Guildford

Love to cook for an all girl dinner party....serve drinks and wait at table....what would you ladies have me wear ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive never cooked a meal from scratch. Hubby does all of our cooking.

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By *rincess Fiona 76Woman
over a year ago

clitheroe

I want this to happen so much. Although I cook most things from scratch I hate it, it’s the worst thing I have to do.

Would pretty much do anything if someone cooked me a meal! The couple of times someone’s made me breakfast they’ve been amazed at how excited I get at the prospect lol. However I’m still waiting for someone to cook me poached eggs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had 5 men cook for me. My ex husband cooked a meal just for the two of us, once in 30 years.

A man from POF cooked for me a couple of times and 3 men from here cooked for me; sausages, chicken salad and lamb chops with sweet potato and veg.

It was nice for a change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do most of the cooking if your only looking for basic fayre.

I love somone to cook something a bit adventurous every once in a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like most single guys if I don't cook I don't eat.

Cooking for two is just as easy as cooking for one....and more fun too.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I've only had one man cook for me. I now know that if he invites me for lunch at his place it's safer to decline.

London Kinkster, as was, used to cook for me regularly. He was an exceptional cook. "

I should have taken him up on his offer. Regrets...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband always cooks for me :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I want this to happen so much. Although I cook most things from scratch I hate it, it’s the worst thing I have to do.

My date earlier this week cooked me poached eggs and avocado on rye toast. It was a nice treat. It’s not the first time someone has done that, a previous date made me eggs Benedict and it was delicious.

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere nearby

I’d quite like to be cooked for I think. Never happened with a Fab meet, but I do get brought cakes from a fab fwb.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like most single guys if I don't cook I don't eat.

Cooking for two is just as easy as cooking for one....and more fun too."

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