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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

...If you had to compile a list of people who know you or have met you. How many do you think actually like you, against those who dislike you?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I neither know nor care, those who do like me accept me as I am and I them, warts and all. xx

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

In swinging? I would say most like me, but that does not mean that they would play with me. There would be the odd one or two who I have been blunt with because they cannot take a hint! (or a gentle let down!)

Outside, I am in business and no matter how I try to be a nice person, some still take umbridge!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In swinging? I would say most like me, but that does not mean that they would play with me."
You are joking of course or are they dead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

now let me think about that not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God knows, I'm pretty sure I've offended a few people cos my mouth opens before my brain can catch up sometimes and i end up in a massive hole with my hubby trying to dig me out lmao. But it's rarely ever a one night thing with us so if they come back they must like... right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I neither know nor care, those who do like me accept me as I am and I them, warts and all. xx"

Ditto!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In swinging? I would say most like me, but that does not mean that they would play with me. There would be the odd one or two who I have been blunt with because they cannot take a hint! (or a gentle let down!)

Outside, I am in business and no matter how I try to be a nice person, some still take umbridge! "

From any walk of life, from any time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im off to bottom of garden to find worms

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Im with Laine on this one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A manager I worked under for a bit, took an instant dislike for me, don't know why. Always having a pop.

After about a fortnight he said quite out of the blue "Do you despise me"?

"If I gave it any thought, I guess I would". I replied.

He left me alone after that.

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"I neither know nor care, those who do like me accept me as I am and I them, warts and all. xx"

And those that don't like me, do I care

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"Im off to bottom of garden to find worms "

Oh you know that song too

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By *TUNNAWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

those who like me are my friends

those who dont mean nothing

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"those who like me are my friends

those who dont mean nothing

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Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I neither know nor care, those who do like me accept me as I am and I them, warts and all. xx"

Likewise: how self absorbed would you need to be to sit contemplating whether you're liked or not?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I neither know nor care, those who do like me accept me as I am and I them, warts and all. xx

Likewise: how self absorbed would you need to be to sit contemplating whether you're liked or not? "
lots do though

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

most people like me,those who don't are just jealous.

that's what my mam told me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mabey 70/30 like/dislike? But to be honest I couldn't really give a shit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"most people like me,those who don't are just jealous.

that's what my mam told me. "

there's many a true word ...........

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

The ones you like.. You wish them well

The ones you don't.. You wish them well also.

As a post last said... More important things in the world going on than the sniping in here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The ones you like.. You wish them well

The ones you don't.. You wish them well also.

As a post last said... More important things in the world going on than the sniping in here.

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Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 18/11/11 06:59:49]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

care?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would assume that people find things about me that they like and things about me that they don't.

After all, no one is perfect and trying to be all things to all men isn't a reflection of the true person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Frankly, my dear, I don't give a damn!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im me they are them

If we gel we gel if not then then hey ho not everyone can like everyone else lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some do like me some dont like me.

as soapy said not everyone can like everyone else

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset

If some peeps don't like me,

they can Kiss my Ass!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If some peeps don't like me,

they can Kiss my Ass! "

I dont like ya

(ya were sayin) xx

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By *ornyHorwichCpl aka HHCCouple
over a year ago

horwich

We like everybody !!

Group hug anyone ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i don't care what people think of me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some good answers so far.

We are all like marmite in some respects

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having been lucky enough to enjoy an itinerant lifestyle, I can honestly say I’ve simply no idea how many 1000s of amazingly diverse and wonderful people I’ve met and spent time with,

But without the aid of something triggering my memory back to a specific time and place, I could never hope to remember my personal interaction with each and every person I've met….

So I guess if any of those people can still easily remember me, albiet it for good or bad reason !,..... I am truly humbled……

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

Nicely put Soxy x

I wonder when I read these threads... So many people who say they don't care if they are liked or that anyone who doesn't like them doesn't matter.. But reading the posts almost everyday, you can see that people really do care if they are liked or not!

I always used to say that if people didn't like me, it was their loss and I wasn't changing for anyone. In truth, I did really care and it was more protectionist than accurate. I would see, reading other posts, that a lot of this is protectionism.

Not that it really matters, we all know in our hearts how we really feel...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nicely put Soxy x

I wonder when I read these threads... So many people who say they don't care if they are liked or that anyone who doesn't like them doesn't matter.. But reading the posts almost everyday, you can see that people really do care if they are liked or not!

I always used to say that if people didn't like me, it was their loss and I wasn't changing for anyone. In truth, I did really care and it was more protectionist than accurate. I would see, reading other posts, that a lot of this is protectionism.

Not that it really matters, we all know in our hearts how we really feel... "

Ah ha! somebody gets it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I care less as I get older...which mabye as it should be...

I do think we all crave some aceptance...somewhere along the line...however small..

I`m far less inclined to people please as I was many years ago....I did all sorts to garner acceptance...

I`ve no real idea how people percieve me..its no bad thing sometimes getting feedback from those that don`t like you....sometimes they tell the truth...free of any emotional connection...

There tis..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"care?"

Put that on, because the question of it, do i care, you bet!!

I know for every great fun friend you meet or know, sure as eggs are eggs, theres someone lurking,trying their darndest to spoil it, tread on your toes or simply fill their boots with gossip.

A "No thanks" is far easier to digest than to get along great with a person for so long then have to see them sometimes slowly, sometimes quickly distance themselves from you, safe in the knowledge its nothing you've done,but most likely idle,spitefull "lurkers".

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