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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seems to be a lot of attention seeking people constantly updating their status to bemoan the lack of sex, but you read their statuses, and they actually sound aggressive and rude as fk. And they wonder about their lack of action. Anyone else encounter these types of people/profiles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They aren't for me so I ignore them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No its not an issue i update all the time makes little difference

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

I suppose the whole purpose of statuses is to attract attention.

In fact so are profiles, and starting threads in the forum.

The whole website is geared to allow you to attract attention to yourself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hardly ever check out others profiles but if they are whinging I tend to move along anyway

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

Look at me.. no seriously .. look at me..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems to be a lot of attention seeking people constantly updating their status to bemoan the lack of sex, but you read their statuses, and they actually sound aggressive and rude as fk. And they wonder about their lack of action. Anyone else encounter these types of people/profiles?"

It’s called marketing

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

If it's something I feel strongly about I will copy and paste it to the notes section on their profile to remind me.... Otherwise I ignore them. If they message I'm polite and chat but I don't encourage conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really pay much attention, in all honesty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

‘Thanks for a lovely evening, you know who you are!’

*looks at right hand*

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

There not the type of people im attracted to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's more attention seeking within the forums in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

‘Sorry guys I’ve had to bulk delete, I’m just so popular. You know who you are.’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's more attention seeking within the forums in my opinion."

Never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The whole point of the site is to seek attention in one way or another, its just some do it well and others are just moaning winging negative idiots!

Lets face it, moany status updates are more than off putting and I often find a users updates speak volumes about them, way more than their usually very brief, if not non existant, profiles do.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

There are attention seekers all over the site in various ways (status updates, forum posts, profile text etc.) - as others have said it's surely the purpose of being here to seek attention to a greater or lesser degree - it's how you go about seeking that attention that is key.

Things like negative status updates would be a turn off for me - likewise continual pity poor me reverse psychology forum posts that seek attention along the lines of "I'll just sit here and be ignored no-one could possibly want me" - surely no-one finds negativity attractive and not sure why people don't realise that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"‘Sorry guys I’ve had to bulk delete, I’m just so popular. You know who you are.’"

#YouKnowWhoYouAre

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"‘Sorry guys I’ve had to bulk delete, I’m just so popular. You know who you are.’

#YouKnowWhoYouAre"

#ThanksInAdvance

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Surely simply by having an account on here we are all seeking attention?

We use text to tease and entice. We use pictures to lure in our chosen people.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I wonder if anyone who posts these updates will explain why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder if anyone who posts these updates will explain why"

I doubt it. I hugely doubt that they are interested in explaining themselves to the forum mafia. Why should they?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I wonder if anyone who posts these updates will explain why

I doubt it. I hugely doubt that they are interested in explaining themselves to the forum mafia. Why should they?"
they dont have to. But it would be nice to get their point of view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"‘Thanks for a lovely evening, you know who you are!’

*looks at right hand*"

Lmfao

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

But isn't sex all about peacocking - I.e. look at me and what a swell time I can offer you in bed?

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Fab becoming fabbook

Keep winey, attention seeking for that.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I'd rather they carried on with their attitude. Reminds me not to entertain them and the fact they've the personality of a fun pump in reverse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry uberfans this guy said i cant seek your attention look away

Now

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