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The small things that turn you on during sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So, I'm sure everyone has them, the little things a partner or playmate does to you which you don't realise push you closer to the edge, until you reflect back and think about it.

I'll start.

So one thing is when I'm going missionary style, and a woman holds my hips, usually this is in vanilla sex or when it's a more gentle fuck, but lord, I do't know why it's a turn on to feel a woman's hands on my hips as I sink into her.

The next is a bit rougher I guess. I used to have a partner who loved deepthroating, gagging and being what she called, facefucked. One thing she used to do when doing any of these was to basically grab my arse cheeks and pull them towards her. I'm not sure why that's such a slight but significant turn on.

Anyone want to contribute?

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By *rinceCorwinMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Hearing a familiar phrase from my FB....Am I going to get a fucking?

Always gets me hard.

When she deep throats my cock and gently inserts the tip of a finger in my arse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talking sexy to me as we have fun

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

Pheromones...

Except they're a massive part of it for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hearing slurp or gag sounds as my dick gets sucked or seeing a trail of saliva from mouth to dick. Also whilst fucking in missionary seeing dem titties jiggle with every thrust. Or the expression on their faces and the sudden gasp as the first inch slides inside for the first time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a woman looking up at me as she takes my cock in her mouth...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eye contact and a sexy knowing smile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pheromones...

Except they're a massive part of it for me. "

How's that for you? I used to have an older female FWB on here and I often met at her's just after she showered on a morning, she could be wearing no perfume, but she just had a certain smell when she leaned in close to me which would get me hard instantly.

Not to mention how sometimes we'd meet fr quickies at mine or outdoors and the moment she opened her legs to show she had no knickers on, I'd just get this very 'womanly scent' filling the air and it drove me mad.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any women want to contribute?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching a strong tattooed forearms tense with the grip of the hand as he pulls my hips in doggy style

And same again in missionary watching the muscles flex...yummy

MrsK x

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By *art123Man
over a year ago

Stoke

One girl put her tongue in my ear while we were having sex and bizarrely it drove me wild!

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By *ynda CTV/TS
over a year ago

Nr pwllheli

That point of no return , when I feel my thong being pulled down xxxx

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By *othianGuy41Man
over a year ago

Eureka

That joyous moment when she farts, but accidentally follows through on you dick mm

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

hearing her breath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When a man pins my hands to the bed above my head with his hands while in missionary position.

Mrs

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy


"Pheromones...

Except they're a massive part of it for me.

How's that for you? I used to have an older female FWB on here and I often met at her's just after she showered on a morning, she could be wearing no perfume, but she just had a certain smell when she leaned in close to me which would get me hard instantly.

Not to mention how sometimes we'd meet fr quickies at mine or outdoors and the moment she opened her legs to show she had no knickers on, I'd just get this very 'womanly scent' filling the air and it drove me mad. "

Yup, every woman is different. They're all good, some great... but, when you find that one particular woman who's cassolette drives you insane... it's primal.

That's it.

You have to have her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something naughty whispered in my ear while he's inside me.

Or that pause, loaded with anticipation, before he thrusts again really hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definately eye contact and playing with my nipples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing the back of my neck. Standing behind me and holding my throat from behind.

Both drive me wild.

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Hands gripping my shoulders when I'm on all fours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The sound of a man moaning with pleasure.

A huge turn on, not enough do it!

I like seeing toes curl too, as it means I’m hitting the spot! :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just anything my fuck buddy says really. Being called a good girl, hearing them moan my name or ‘fuck’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When women do that shoulder thing and let out a sigh.

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"When women do that shoulder thing and let out a sigh."

That doesn't sound promising.

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By *llysonMacWoman
over a year ago

Hanley


"The sound of a man moaning with pleasure.

A huge turn on, not enough do it!

"

This.. totally this!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eye contact and a sexy knowing smile "

I have to agree with you on that one . Staring into her eyes and that smile .. Makes me hard

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy


"The sound of a man moaning with pleasure.

A huge turn on, not enough do it!

This.. totally this!!"

I'm a right moaner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds of pleasure

Ears licked nibbled

Having my back and chest stroked

Kissing and anything face to face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When women do that shoulder thing and let out a sigh.

That doesn't sound promising. "

A contented sigh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The sound of a man moaning with pleasure.

A huge turn on, not enough do it!

This.. totally this!!"

Hahahaha i get told to shut up hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The sound of a man moaning with pleasure.

A huge turn on, not enough do it!

This.. totally this!!

Hahahaha i get told to shut up hahaha"

What?!!!

I would never! I love it, the sounds of pleasure from a man is like music to my ears! :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The sound of a man moaning with pleasure.

A huge turn on, not enough do it!

This.. totally this!!

I'm a right moaner "

The right kind I hope! hahaha.

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By *he Dork KnightMan
over a year ago

Newport

Watching her work the vibratoron her clit.

Seeing her squirt and demand I fuck her.

The caught breath in her throat as I enter her for the first time in that session.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Feeling the chest rise and fall, hearing the breath. The smell of some perfume.

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By *aughtyLittleMissWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Having my hair pulled as I'm being fucked doggy or sucking his cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back being scratched lightly being bitten on chest doea it for me

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh


"Having my hair pulled as I'm being fucked doggy or sucking his cock

"

Mmm yes. And for me, the first moan a woman makes when I am deep inside and take a first fistful of hair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Watching a strong tattooed forearms tense with the grip of the hand as he pulls my hips in doggy style

And same again in missionary watching the muscles flex...yummy

MrsK x"

This...definitely this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having my hair pulled as I'm being fucked doggy or sucking his cock

"

And this x

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy


"The sound of a man moaning with pleasure.

A huge turn on, not enough do it!

This.. totally this!!

I'm a right moaner

The right kind I hope! hahaha."

You'll have to find out

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

LMAO .. having someone else there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pussy to mouth is always a great turn on for me, (MR), especially when it's another mans cock she it tasting her own juices on ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The sound of a man moaning with pleasure.

A huge turn on, not enough do it!

This.. totally this!!

Hahahaha i get told to shut up hahaha

What?!!!

I would never! I love it, the sounds of pleasure from a man is like music to my ears! :D"

Same with a woman for me its like dodgy carol singing without having a snowball whack you in the ear

But yes iv been told be quiet a few times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having someone whisper rude things in my ear, whilst they are fucking me and kissing the back of my neck, as they have my hair in a tight grip and take me from behind.... That definitely gets my juices flowing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching a woman play with her nipples and clit before instructing to go and taste

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having someone whisper rude things in my ear, whilst they are fucking me and kissing the back of my neck, as they have my hair in a tight grip and take me from behind.... That definitely gets my juices flowing. "

*takes notes*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When the moan is more of a growly sound...

Tink x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg, my fwb loves it when I squeeze his arse cheeks as he pounds me, I feel him tense and he goes deeper.

I love it when he pulls my face to his and tells me to look at him when he's fucking me... Intense to look in his eyes and see how much he loves it! Mmm

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"So, I'm sure everyone has them, the little things a partner or playmate does to you which you don't realise push you closer to the edge, until you reflect back and think about it.

I'll start.

So one thing is when I'm going missionary style, and a woman holds my hips, usually this is in vanilla sex or when it's a more gentle fuck, but lord, I do't know why it's a turn on to feel a woman's hands on my hips as I sink into her.

The next is a bit rougher I guess. I used to have a partner who loved deepthroating, gagging and being what she called, facefucked. One thing she used to do when doing any of these was to basically grab my arse cheeks and pull them towards her. I'm not sure why that's such a slight but significant turn on.

Anyone want to contribute?"

I've not had any sex to find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, I'm sure everyone has them, the little things a partner or playmate does to you which you don't realise push you closer to the edge, until you reflect back and think about it.

I'll start.

So one thing is when I'm going missionary style, and a woman holds my hips, usually this is in vanilla sex or when it's a more gentle fuck, but lord, I do't know why it's a turn on to feel a woman's hands on my hips as I sink into her.

The next is a bit rougher I guess. I used to have a partner who loved deepthroating, gagging and being what she called, facefucked. One thing she used to do when doing any of these was to basically grab my arse cheeks and pull them towards her. I'm not sure why that's such a slight but significant turn on.

Anyone want to contribute?

I've not had any sex to find out "

Yeah, yeah we know already.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That look in their eyes when they sparkle with fire...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it’s neck kissing...being held tight when in missionary position...his arm wrapped around back of neck or hands being held in his hand to the side or above head....mmmmm love it!!!

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By *ocky82Man
over a year ago

Watford

Telling me how her ex’s used to fuck her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being fucked from behind and told "you're mine".

Having my neck kissed, shoulder bitten again from behind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being fucked from behind and told "you're mine".

Having my neck kissed, shoulder bitten again from behind."

Anybody got a pen and paper?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smell of sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of little things, especially the way my partner licks and bites her lips.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I can hear his breathing change as he's about to cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im off for that cold shower

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The butler ringing the gong for dinner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I can hear his breathing change as he's about to cum "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I can hear his breathing change as he's about to cum

"

Fab straight, Sandman?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being fucked from behind and told "you're mine".

Having my neck kissed, shoulder bitten again from behind."

Oh my, yes that too.... My fwb usually whispers 'you're my bitch' while looking straight into my eyes, he has the most gorgeous blue/grey eyes mmmmmm

If my moans get too loud he'll shush me and tell me to bite him, which makes the need to moan worse.

*off to message fwb, need that booty call*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stroking of the gooch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A grunt. I love the sex noises men make. Especially when their faces are all screwed up in desperation not to cum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A grunt. I love the sex noises men make. Especially when their faces are all screwed up in desperation not to cum."

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Her hot breath on my neck, the feel of her fingers on my skin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I can hear his breathing change as he's about to cum

Fab straight, Sandman?"

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
over a year ago

HereAndThere

I have a few...

The way his face looks when I climb on top and slide onto him slowly

The way he bites the arch of my foot when he’s missionary’ing with me

The way he kisses and then teases my mouth like he’s eating pussy that one does terrible things to me

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

pausing mid fuck for a slow and sensual kiss before he goes in again hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"pausing mid fuck for a slow and sensual kiss before he goes in again hard "

I love doing this xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having someone whisper rude things in my ear, whilst they are fucking me and kissing the back of my neck, as they have my hair in a tight grip and take me from behind.... That definitely gets my juices flowing. "

Taking notes here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eye contact with the smiles and lip biting, aswell as kissing her anywhere possible, not to mention her nail digging into my back. (Heart eyes)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bollocks to all that it’s the bit where her knickers get caught in her heels and between the two of you canny work it out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When he grabs a hold of my hair and looks me in the eyes and tells me to cum for him x

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By *heDesiCandiTV/TS
over a year ago

Leicester

Groping me and whispering naughty things below my ear near my neck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Biting, finish get nails digging in and the woman moaning and swearing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Filthy looking facial expressions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crabs ......... oh 'on' !

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By *lbert_shlossedMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I do like the fingernails being pushed into my ass cheeks and then slowly being dragged up my spine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

breathing yea its essential but still

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By *acey_smWoman
over a year ago

westmeath

Being held really tight and of course the fingertips being run across my ass

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By *acey_smWoman
over a year ago

westmeath


"When he grabs a hold of my hair and looks me in the eyes and tells me to cum for him x "

Very hot

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By *bwlookingforfunWoman
over a year ago

crawley

There is a few ...

Love when my regular walks in,and gets his cock straight in my pussy. No talking, no play.. just hard fuck.

Hand on my throat. God how much i like it..

Moaning, talking. Even more when he asks me how was my day, while fucking me..

Hand in my hair, while im on my knees..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A women being present!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The excited thrill giggle some women make when they watch me shoot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im getting a semi just reading this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When someone whispers dirty things in my ear and then tells me to turn over. Grrrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When someone whispers dirty things in my ear and then tells me to turn over. Grrrrrr"

Oooh “get on your knees” i love hearing that (for doggy style) i’d never get up off the floor from a blowjob!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When someone whispers dirty things in my ear and then tells me to turn over. Grrrrrr

Oooh “get on your knees” i love hearing that (for doggy style) i’d never get up off the floor from a blowjob! "

I’ve fucked my knee up and have recently discovered that I too, cannot get up from the floor when giving a blowjob.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

There are a few...

Play with my nipples and it's been known to tip me over the edge

Eye contact where you look deep inside them

In missionary when one leg is lifted slightly and hooked down your side pulling you in

That moment when you penetrate for the first time and there's the briefest bit of tension before she opens and you slide inside

There's a couple I've played with where he's particularly "instructive" and that never fails to get me going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doggy style and she looks over her shoulder .. lust in her eyes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The look the pleasure on her face or the uncontrollable movements she makes when she orgasms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and when she says "fuck me" while I'm still teasing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When he fucks me doggy and holds my throat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having someone whisper rude things in my ear, whilst they are fucking me and kissing the back of my neck, as they have my hair in a tight grip and take me from behind.... That definitely gets my juices flowing. "

Now you really do seem my type of girl Holly .. We need a catch up in Yorkshire real soon xx

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

My penis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine (and sorry if someone has already said it) is when the lady is devouring your cock in her mouth like she hasn’t eaten for a week, and gives you the ‘eyes’ looking up at you. That is the best ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not what she does it's what she says.

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Eye contact x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eye contact x"

As long as shes not supergirl

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere nearby

Hearing the person I’m with making noises of enjoyment

Having my wrists held above my head while I’m being kissed hard

A hand on my throat while I’m being fucked, and told what a bad girl I am

Having my hair pulled a bit

Having my neck and just behind my ear kissed really gently

My breasts being squeezed hard, just as I’m in the point of orgasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having my bum squeezed as she moans in my ear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A women being present! "

Its helpful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A women being present!

Its helpful "

Marvelous

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

The sound of the kids banging on the door and asking to be let in

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