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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So folks, you’ve been chatting to someone on Fab. It’s been a few messages and you decided to swap face pics ...

... and they’re not your type (it’s allowed!)

What’s your response ?

Polite no. Ignore. Continue and slowly cut off contact. None of the above.

I like to say we’re polite. But sometimes take other approaches. And I couldn’t tell you why !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So folks, you’ve been chatting to someone on Fab. It’s been a few messages and you decided to swap face pics ...

... and they’re not your type (it’s allowed!)

What’s your response ?

Polite no. Ignore. Continue and slowly cut off contact. None of the above.

I like to say we’re polite. But sometimes take other approaches. And I couldn’t tell you why !"
just say you really aren't our type but good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks but no thanks..

Or if im enjoying the chat just make it fizzle out and slink off...

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Thanks but no thanks..

Or if im enjoying the chat just make it fizzle out and slink off..."

I'm guilty of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was talking to someone about this. I’d prefer someone to just not reply than send a “you’re not our type reply”.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I think it would depend - if we'd swapped a few messages back and forth and they'd asked directly about meeting then I'd send a polite thanks but no thanks and see if conversation fizzled out from there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks but no thanks..

Or if im enjoying the chat just make it fizzle out and slink off...

I'm guilty of that "
i think I have pangs of guilt in thinking I’m being superficial. And then realise I’m not. Just super picky. Need looks, personality and a $1m estate lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry not for us good luck in your search happy swinging

It’s not a massive drama and if someone put that to us after face pic exchange so what - at least they haven’t led you up the garden path wasting both your time and theres! We wouldn’t be offended as we know we’re not for everyone! We wouldn’t ignore them either if we saw them at a club either a hello or nod of the head to say hi

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Sorry not for us good luck in your search happy swinging

It’s not a massive drama and if someone put that to us after face pic exchange so what - at least they haven’t led you up the garden path wasting both your time and theres! We wouldn’t be offended as we know we’re not for everyone! We wouldn’t ignore them either if we saw them at a club either a hello or nod of the head to say hi "

100% this!

I don't use "picky" when describing potential meets as the connotation is I somehow think I'm better than the other person. We all have certain qualities we look for in playmates. If that "xfactor" isn't there doesn't matter if it's Brad Pitt it's not going to happen. Doesn't mean the other person isn't picky because they think he's the dog's bollocks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After face pics were exchanged and there was no attraction we'd politely say so.

No drama as not everyone suits everyone. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the reasons I swap face pics straight away. But ghosting/ not replying is worse. I would just say thanks been nice chatting but afraid your not for me physically. I actually have some friends on fab that are not my type at all but we get on well, we would never play but have created a friendship.

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

We avoid all of this by having face pics on our profile

mind this could explain the lack of messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of the reasons I swap face pics straight away. But ghosting/ not replying is worse. I would just say thanks been nice chatting but afraid your not for me physically. I actually have some friends on fab that are not my type at all but we get on well, we would never play but have created a friendship. "

We also have friends on here that we wouldn’t play with for a few reasons including not being attracted to them and not wanting to jeopardise the friendship!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry not for us good luck in your search happy swinging

It’s not a massive drama and if someone put that to us after face pic exchange so what - at least they haven’t led you up the garden path wasting both your time and theres! We wouldn’t be offended as we know we’re not for everyone! We wouldn’t ignore them either if we saw them at a club either a hello or nod of the head to say hi

100% this!

I don't use "picky" when describing potential meets as the connotation is I somehow think I'm better than the other person. We all have certain qualities we look for in playmates. If that "xfactor" isn't there doesn't matter if it's Brad Pitt it's not going to happen. Doesn't mean the other person isn't picky because they think he's the dog's bollocks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I said ‘not my type’ to a woman the other week, I felt such cunt after cause she replied ‘such a shame’.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'm honest and say ,sorry not for me .I do try and swap pics early on so we don't waste time ,in case I'm not for them too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv had sorry your not my type a couple time iv been blocked a couple times it stings for a second then u move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say "thanks but regret not my type" and then block to save any abuse or further timewasting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am definately not many ladies type and had messages to say that. I think what you ladies have put is perfect x

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!

I find it very awkward when Ive been chatting to someone and ask for a face pic,and they send back something that makes them look like a serial killer.I do try and be positive and polite but must admit I have sometimes just let things drift away

I also get people asking me for non-made up face pics, which is a bit odd I think, as I'm not going to meet them dressed in man-mode

Worst thing though is when you ask for a pic after building a rapport and you get a cock rather than a face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reply that they're not what I'm looking for and wish them well. Never had a rude reply back, they've so far always been gracious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any response, other than ignore..

A simple not my/our type Will do. Or just allow convo to fizzle out...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why we ask to exchange face pics at a very early stage...

Mrs x

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