FabSwingers.com forum: Rejection

By *oody69er OP Man
over a year ago

midlands

I find it funny that it upsets me when I get ignored on here by a lady , but if I was on the street I wouldn’t look twice at her never mind try and make contact with her . It’s nice to be nice . Rejections a funny old thing

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Have you worked out why you feel upset on here

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By *woforone2025Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Dublin

"I find it funny that it upsets me when I get ignored on here by a lady , but if I was on the street I wouldn’t look twice at her never mind try and make contact with her . It’s nice to be nice . Rejections a funny old thing "

it's not rejection....it's only the land of fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah must be upsetting when even the buzzards ignore you.

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By *oody69er OP Man
over a year ago

midlands

"Have you worked out why you feel upset on here"

I’m guessing I’m not used to it ?

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

Been a reject all my life. Fuck it it’s normal

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Have you worked out why you feel upset on here

I’m guessing I’m not used to it ? "
i would of thought after a year or more you would be used to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats why I've basically given up even trying. Its pretty pointless even trying to be honest. Your message will either get buried or just ignored, no matter how good or bad the opener is.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Thats why I've basically given up even trying. Its pretty pointless even trying to be honest. Your message will either get buried or just ignored, no matter how good or bad the opener is. "
hey. I missed you. Where you been

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why bother contacting them on here then, desperation ?

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By *oody69er OP Man
over a year ago

midlands

"Thats why I've basically given up even trying. Its pretty pointless even trying to be honest. Your message will either get buried or just ignored, no matter how good or bad the opener is. "

Man down !!

Don’t give up mate , keep going . The next messsge you send may get the reply you want . Good luck pal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks. Busy with life and got bored of fab.

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By *oody69er OP Man
over a year ago

midlands

Why bother contacting them on here then, desperation ?"

Mainly boredom and loneliness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thats why I've basically given up even trying. Its pretty pointless even trying to be honest. Your message will either get buried or just ignored, no matter how good or bad the opener is.

Man down !!

Don’t give up mate , keep going . The next messsge you send may get the reply you want . Good luck pal "

Doubtful. I'm lucky if I get a reply. Fab is like tinder or pof to be honest, no matter how much people will deny it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thats why I've basically given up even trying. Its pretty pointless even trying to be honest. Your message will either get buried or just ignored, no matter how good or bad the opener is. "

Good to see you’ve come back with a new positive attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thats why I've basically given up even trying. Its pretty pointless even trying to be honest. Your message will either get buried or just ignored, no matter how good or bad the opener is.

Man down !!

Don’t give up mate , keep going . The next messsge you send may get the reply you want . Good luck pal

Doubtful. I'm lucky if I get a reply. Fab is like tinder or pof to be honest, no matter how much people will deny it. "

I’m not on POF, but Tinder is brilliant.

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds

Is it possible the ladies you're contacting are both confused by the one pic being of a female( as delightful as she is) and your profile one being a long distance squint. Your not really helping yourself x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why bother contacting them on here then, desperation ?

Mainly boredom and loneliness "

Get a dog.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe just maybe you'd get more luck if your main picture was of you and not a woman, just maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thats why I've basically given up even trying. Its pretty pointless even trying to be honest. Your message will either get buried or just ignored, no matter how good or bad the opener is.

Man down !!

Don’t give up mate , keep going . The next messsge you send may get the reply you want . Good luck pal

Doubtful. I'm lucky if I get a reply. Fab is like tinder or pof to be honest, no matter how much people will deny it.

I’m not on POF, but Tinder is brilliant."

How? I've literally not had anything and I have two unis in the city.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

J K Rowling got rejected more than seventy times by publishers. You never heard her bleating.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It is nice to be nice.

Why do you contact women you wouldn't look twice at ordinarily?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah must be upsetting when even the buzzards ignore you. "

Cuts deep

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

It’s nice to be nice .

Did you forget that when you wrote you post?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

It’s nice to be nice .

Did you forget that when you wrote you post?"

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By *oody69er OP Man
over a year ago

midlands

It’s nice to be nice .

Did you forget that when you wrote you post?"

I think I was having a rant an not thinking in the correct manor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thats why I've basically given up even trying. Its pretty pointless even trying to be honest. Your message will either get buried or just ignored, no matter how good or bad the opener is.

Man down !!

Don’t give up mate , keep going . The next messsge you send may get the reply you want . Good luck pal

Doubtful. I'm lucky if I get a reply. Fab is like tinder or pof to be honest, no matter how much people will deny it.

I’m not on POF, but Tinder is brilliant.

How? I've literally not had anything and I have two unis in the city. "

How, cause I’ve met loads of interesting women on there and had three girlfriends since I’ve been on there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thats why I've basically given up even trying. Its pretty pointless even trying to be honest. Your message will either get buried or just ignored, no matter how good or bad the opener is.

Man down !!

Don’t give up mate , keep going . The next messsge you send may get the reply you want . Good luck pal

Doubtful. I'm lucky if I get a reply. Fab is like tinder or pof to be honest, no matter how much people will deny it.

I’m not on POF, but Tinder is brilliant.

How? I've literally not had anything and I have two unis in the city.

How, cause I’ve met loads of interesting women on there and had three girlfriends since I’ve been on there. "

I mean. How have you managed it? Like profile and stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thats why I've basically given up even trying. Its pretty pointless even trying to be honest. Your message will either get buried or just ignored, no matter how good or bad the opener is.

Man down !!

Don’t give up mate , keep going . The next messsge you send may get the reply you want . Good luck pal

Doubtful. I'm lucky if I get a reply. Fab is like tinder or pof to be honest, no matter how much people will deny it.

I’m not on POF, but Tinder is brilliant.

How? I've literally not had anything and I have two unis in the city.

How, cause I’ve met loads of interesting women on there and had three girlfriends since I’ve been on there.

I mean. How have you managed it? Like profile and stuff. "

For a start don’t hold a gert big carp fish in your profile photo, that always helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thats why I've basically given up even trying. Its pretty pointless even trying to be honest. Your message will either get buried or just ignored, no matter how good or bad the opener is.

Man down !!

Don’t give up mate , keep going . The next messsge you send may get the reply you want . Good luck pal

Doubtful. I'm lucky if I get a reply. Fab is like tinder or pof to be honest, no matter how much people will deny it.

I’m not on POF, but Tinder is brilliant.

How? I've literally not had anything and I have two unis in the city.

How, cause I’ve met loads of interesting women on there and had three girlfriends since I’ve been on there.

I mean. How have you managed it? Like profile and stuff.

For a start don’t hold a gert big carp fish in your profile photo, that always helps."

What?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Well I'm sorry but what a load of bollocks that opening post is. Have I got this you're messaging women who you don't even find attractive,then getting all mardy when they're not interested.

Jesus Chris Ive heard it all now.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Tough shit eh. I guess they wouldn't look twice at you either

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By *oody69er OP Man
over a year ago

midlands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Convinced folk sit about thinking what they can type to sound interesting and get some attention. Hence ,endless threads of total bollocks.

Keeps ‘em off the streets though.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

So I ask myself the question. If you wouldnt look twice in the real world why send the message in the first place?

I find that somewhat odd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, regardless of what you write on your message or profile the pics are what are going to be a yes or no. That is a skill that I haven't mastered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I ask myself the question. If you wouldnt look twice in the real world why send the message in the first place?

I find that somewhat odd

People tend to go way under their standards on here. Not that I have.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Have any of you ladies been messaged by him? Well he don't find you attractive,you're just a vessel to empty the contents of his bollocks in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have any of you ladies been messaged by him? Well he don't find you attractive,you're just a vessel to empty the contents of his bollocks in."

Thats how most guys see lasses on here.

They don't see much past a fuck.

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By *iger.10Man
over a year ago

Llantrisant

"Have any of you ladies been messaged by him? Well he don't find you attractive,you're just a vessel to empty the contents of his bollocks in.

Thats how most guys see lasses on here.

They don't see much past a fuck. "

Ummmmmmmm....nope..if I'm not stimulated mentally or there's no spark then it's not going to happen.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Have any of you ladies been messaged by him? Well he don't find you attractive,you're just a vessel to empty the contents of his bollocks in.

Thats how most guys see lasses on here.

They don't see much past a fuck. "

I shall be good to that remark and keep my gob tightly shut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have any of you ladies been messaged by him? Well he don't find you attractive,you're just a vessel to empty the contents of his bollocks in.

Thats how most guys see lasses on here.

They don't see much past a fuck.

Ummmmmmmm....nope..if I'm not stimulated mentally or there's no spark then it's not going to happen. "

Did I say all guys?

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By *iger.10Man
over a year ago

Llantrisant

"Have any of you ladies been messaged by him? Well he don't find you attractive,you're just a vessel to empty the contents of his bollocks in.

Thats how most guys see lasses on here.

They don't see much past a fuck.

Ummmmmmmm....nope..if I'm not stimulated mentally or there's no spark then it's not going to happen.

Did I say all guys? "

Didn't say you did..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have any of you ladies been messaged by him? Well he don't find you attractive,you're just a vessel to empty the contents of his bollocks in.

Thats how most guys see lasses on here.

They don't see much past a fuck.

Ummmmmmmm....nope..if I'm not stimulated mentally or there's no spark then it's not going to happen.

Did I say all guys?

Didn't say you did.."

So why message like I did?

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By *iger.10Man
over a year ago

Llantrisant

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By *iger.10Man
over a year ago

Llantrisant

"Have any of you ladies been messaged by him? Well he don't find you attractive,you're just a vessel to empty the contents of his bollocks in.

Thats how most guys see lasses on here.

They don't see much past a fuck.

Ummmmmmmm....nope..if I'm not stimulated mentally or there's no spark then it's not going to happen.

Did I say all guys?

Didn't say you did..

So why message like I did? "

Didn't, just gave my opinion in a forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women have all the power on here....

God speed my friend

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Have any of you ladies been messaged by him? Well he don't find you attractive,you're just a vessel to empty the contents of his bollocks in.

Thats how most guys see lasses on here.

They don't see much past a fuck.

Ummmmmmmm....nope..if I'm not stimulated mentally or there's no spark then it's not going to happen.

Did I say all guys?

Didn't say you did..

So why message like I did? "

He didn't.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

How deep does it cut op to message the bottom of the barrel and even they reject you cause their standards are higher

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By *adcat1961Woman
over a year ago

colchester

I haven’t laugh so much in ages lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have any of you ladies been messaged by him? Well he don't find you attractive,you're just a vessel to empty the contents of his bollocks in.

Thats how most guys see lasses on here.

They don't see much past a fuck.

Ummmmmmmm....nope..if I'm not stimulated mentally or there's no spark then it's not going to happen. "

. You can usually tell the ones who have 'any goals a hole' mentality.

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

Could it possibly be the fact that you evidently don’t find them attractive?

The women I mail on here you’re damn right it’s the kind of woman I’d check out on the streets. Because there’s this thing called attraction, I need it. And why don’t you check out said type of woman in the streets? Because if you don’t find them attractive it’s just a fuck in which case you’re likely asking a woman who wants more than just sex to drop her standards for you.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

Why bother contacting them on here then, desperation ?

Mainly boredom and loneliness "

I am sure you have just added points for yourself.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Our minds are strange and complex. Wisdom is attractive, as well as physical endowments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How deep does it cut op to message the bottom of the barrel and even they reject you cause their standards are higher"

Brutal

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By *iger.10Man
over a year ago

Llantrisant

"Have any of you ladies been messaged by him? Well he don't find you attractive,you're just a vessel to empty the contents of his bollocks in.

Thats how most guys see lasses on here.

They don't see much past a fuck.

Ummmmmmmm....nope..if I'm not stimulated mentally or there's no spark then it's not going to happen.

. You can usually tell the ones who have 'any goals a hole' mentality. "

I can very well imagine it's noticeable the one's who have any depth to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women have all the power on here....

God speed my friend "

Yep... even the mingers

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It’s nice to be nice .

Did you forget that when you wrote you post?"

That's what I noticed

If you're not 100% interested in someone, they will pick up on that - potentially returning the same when they notice you. People want someone who will give them maximum satisfaction and as they are blessed with choice, will pick the person who is more committed to them.

As for being uncertain why you are upset at fab rejection - perhaps it's a reflection on what is inside the way you are treating yourself. You suggest that you are are lacking but not not pulling your weight.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It’s nice to be nice .

Did you forget that when you wrote you post?

That's what I noticed

Those latter double negatives were an error on my part, as I'm tired

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've put my face pics back up now. They really aren't the best. But or well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hang on! You've got the hump because women you wouldn't look at twice have rejected you.

I wonder why???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It must be the realisation that someone you deem to be lower than you has an even worse impression of you. That must sting.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Have you worked out why you feel upset on here

I’m guessing I’m not used to it ? "

It's time to get used to it. You will get lot of rejections on fab. Don't let it get you. We can't all fancy everybody who messages us.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Thats why I've basically given up even trying. Its pretty pointless even trying to be honest. Your message will either get buried or just ignored, no matter how good or bad the opener is. "

Most people read your profile before opening your mail. If they don't like your profile your message is going nowhere. You could write the world best message but it will not be opened.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"So I ask myself the question. If you wouldnt look twice in the real world why send the message in the first place?

I find that somewhat odd

Me too. I wouldn't message a woman on here I wouldn't try and chat up in a pub. I dind it very strange you cxould see a woman in the street and think I don't fancy you but if you saw her on fab you would want to meet her. That is very bizzare.

I message people I am attracted to. That doesn't have to always mean physical attraction. Sometimes I am attracted by their personality. What they have said in their profile, things they have sain in the forum or in chat, etc.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"So I ask myself the question. If you wouldnt look twice in the real world why send the message in the first place?

I find that somewhat odd

People tend to go way under their standards on here. Not that I have. "

Bullshit. There are not many who lower their standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rejection is not a nice thing but it part of life a lot now days so it pretty much pointless even trying hard overcome it. Where you go all out trying your hardest and still get ignored even when you are about clubbing or what every the same things happen in real life. In the end the people on the web are so harsh it like having your teeth pulled to get anywhere lately

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