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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi folks as my life moves on I am seeing again and again how poor my attention to detail is. My daughter was recently diagnosed with Autism. I’m

Wondering is there a link! Or a possible link. It’s becoming a real issue for me in work.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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A link to poor attention to detail and autism? Yes, there is but one autistic person isn't like another - there are so many elements that add up to a diagnosis. If it's truly concerning you, speak to your GP and see if you can get a referral for a multi-disciplinary assessment. Try and be as open as possible with the GP, it will help later. Good luck OP!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A link to poor attention to detail and autism? Yes, there is but one autistic person isn't like another - there are so many elements that add up to a diagnosis. If it's truly concerning you, speak to your GP and see if you can get a referral for a multi-disciplinary assessment. Try and be as open as possible with the GP, it will help later. Good luck OP!"
Hi Meli, thanks. I Defo think I need help. It’s very concerning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a lot does come down to genetics but if you think you’re to blame then don’t. It will only lead you to a very dark place. Just learn the best coping strategies you can and provide the best care for your daughter. She’s going to need you to be strong for her. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes a lot does come down to genetics but if you think you’re to blame then don’t. It will only lead you to a very dark place. Just learn the best coping strategies you can and provide the best care for your daughter. She’s going to need you to be strong for her. X "
. I’m not blaming me. I’m

Concerned i have it also.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Is it a recent thing or have you always lacked attention to detail?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

since my son was diagnosed 5 yrs ago I have noticed certain traits that we share but I am not overly concerned about whether I have it or not.... I've come this far without having attracted any labels so I will just carry on being there for my boy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it a recent thing or have you always lacked attention to detail?"
I have always lacked it. Plus I am very poor at starting and finishing tasks. I suppose I’ve just recently “accepted it”. It’s a major concern for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"since my son was diagnosed 5 yrs ago I have noticed certain traits that we share but I am not overly concerned about whether I have it or not.... I've come this far without having attracted any labels so I will just carry on being there for my boy "
good for you. I suppose I’m at a cross roads in my life where I feel I need and want to address it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes a lot does come down to genetics but if you think you’re to blame then don’t. It will only lead you to a very dark place. Just learn the best coping strategies you can and provide the best care for your daughter. She’s going to need you to be strong for her. X . I’m not blaming me. I’m

Concerned i have it also. "

We all have traits if you look for it. Does it impair your life. You can always see your gp but getting a diagnosis as an adult can be very difficult depending on your area as it’s hit and miss. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes a lot does come down to genetics but if you think you’re to blame then don’t. It will only lead you to a very dark place. Just learn the best coping strategies you can and provide the best care for your daughter. She’s going to need you to be strong for her. X . I’m not blaming me. I’m

Concerned i have it also.

We all have traits if you look for it. Does it impair your life. You can always see your gp but getting a diagnosis as an adult can be very difficult depending on your area as it’s hit and miss. X "
yes it’s been impacting on work for a few years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will have other traits that may back up your thoughts.

I have an autistic son and I would have said that his attention to detail is heightened.

I'm a design engineer.

We are often described as autistic because of our attention to detail.

But autism is a spectrum condition and is totally unique to the individual.

I would go to the doctors and try and get a diagnosis as a previous poster said.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I have been diagnosed with a few things over ma life, I haven't got a clue if there was a history of whatever in ma family, most of them are brown bread now, so how would I know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A link to poor attention to detail and autism? Yes, there is but one autistic person isn't like another - there are so many elements that add up to a diagnosis. If it's truly concerning you, speak to your GP and see if you can get a referral for a multi-disciplinary assessment. Try and be as open as possible with the GP, it will help later. Good luck OP!

Hi Meli, thanks. I Defo think I need help. It’s very concerning "

How would a diagnosis help?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A link to poor attention to detail and autism? Yes, there is but one autistic person isn't like another - there are so many elements that add up to a diagnosis. If it's truly concerning you, speak to your GP and see if you can get a referral for a multi-disciplinary assessment. Try and be as open as possible with the GP, it will help later. Good luck OP!

Hi Meli, thanks. I Defo think I need help. It’s very concerning

How would a diagnosis help? "
it would just make me feel better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes a lot does come down to genetics but if you think you’re to blame then don’t. It will only lead you to a very dark place. Just learn the best coping strategies you can and provide the best care for your daughter. She’s going to need you to be strong for her. X . I’m not blaming me. I’m

Concerned i have it also.

We all have traits if you look for it. Does it impair your life. You can always see your gp but getting a diagnosis as an adult can be very difficult depending on your area as it’s hit and miss. X yes it’s been impacting on work for a few years "

Then it’s definitely worth chasing a diagnosis. Good luck with that I have two adult sons I’m just going through diagnosis with after years of trying x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A link to poor attention to detail and autism? Yes, there is but one autistic person isn't like another - there are so many elements that add up to a diagnosis. If it's truly concerning you, speak to your GP and see if you can get a referral for a multi-disciplinary assessment. Try and be as open as possible with the GP, it will help later. Good luck OP!

Hi Meli, thanks. I Defo think I need help. It’s very concerning

How would a diagnosis help? "

Support as my son receives

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes a lot does come down to genetics but if you think you’re to blame then don’t. It will only lead you to a very dark place. Just learn the best coping strategies you can and provide the best care for your daughter. She’s going to need you to be strong for her. X . I’m not blaming me. I’m

Concerned i have it also.

We all have traits if you look for it. Does it impair your life. You can always see your gp but getting a diagnosis as an adult can be very difficult depending on your area as it’s hit and miss. X yes it’s been impacting on work for a few years

Then it’s definitely worth chasing a diagnosis. Good luck with that I have two adult sons I’m just going through diagnosis with after years of trying x "
thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A link to poor attention to detail and autism? Yes, there is but one autistic person isn't like another - there are so many elements that add up to a diagnosis. If it's truly concerning you, speak to your GP and see if you can get a referral for a multi-disciplinary assessment. Try and be as open as possible with the GP, it will help later. Good luck OP!

Hi Meli, thanks. I Defo think I need help. It’s very concerning

How would a diagnosis help?

it would just make me feel better "

Worth seeing the doc then. Hope it works out ok.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A link to poor attention to detail and autism? Yes, there is but one autistic person isn't like another - there are so many elements that add up to a diagnosis. If it's truly concerning you, speak to your GP and see if you can get a referral for a multi-disciplinary assessment. Try and be as open as possible with the GP, it will help later. Good luck OP!

Hi Meli, thanks. I Defo think I need help. It’s very concerning

How would a diagnosis help?

Support as my son receives"
Thanks mate. I hope your son is good. I just know something is “up” with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A link to poor attention to detail and autism? Yes, there is but one autistic person isn't like another - there are so many elements that add up to a diagnosis. If it's truly concerning you, speak to your GP and see if you can get a referral for a multi-disciplinary assessment. Try and be as open as possible with the GP, it will help later. Good luck OP!

Hi Meli, thanks. I Defo think I need help. It’s very concerning

How would a diagnosis help?

Support as my son receives Thanks mate. I hope your son is good. I just know something is “up” with me "

Good luck. There's support out there

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"How would a diagnosis help? "

I would have thought that if it was the correct diagnosis (not always given on first examination), then the medication might help reduce the cause of whatever is causing him to post this.

I've not long had a week in hospital with pneumonia, that ain't fun

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