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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Happy Fab Friday everyone,

I was told on a separate thread I needed more pics of myself (Mr) on our couples profile to try sell it a bit, so I managed to take one this mornimg for the purpose of just posting to our public gallery.

It was liked 4 times in the first 30 minutes which shocked me as I tend to get 1 like every so often if I'm lucky, the wife's pics understably get most, all my likes have been from men and I feel privileged by that, would be nice to know it appeals to females as well being a straight male.

Does anyone else feel hounded when the same sex like your pics ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What does it matter? Take it as a compliment. I don’t get why this bothers people. If you uploaded a photo to Facebook and someone of the same sex liked it, would you be annoyed?

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I take it all as a complement. It’s nice to feel noticed and appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't bother me in the slightest. The thought of being annoyed by compliments is unfathomable to me. I even respond to male private messages with a thank you when they say "nice cock dude."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very appealing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What does it matter? Take it as a compliment. I don’t get why this bothers people. If you uploaded a photo to Facebook and someone of the same sex liked it, would you be annoyed? "

Did you even bother reading the post or do you take offence to everything ?

I never said it mattered to me ?, I did say not only that I took it as a compliment but that I felt privileged by the fact, and I wouldn't be uploading pics like this to Facebook for everyone to see anyway.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I would take it as a compliment. It's a nice pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst I take it as a compliment, it would be nice if I got the occasional pic like from a lady

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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I tend to think its mostly men who feel hounded by the same sex fabbing pics, personally im happy for anyone to fab my pics, if that wasnt the case then i wouldnt put them on a public site in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could also depend on your own sexual orientation too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would take it as a compliment. It's a nice pic "

I certainly have taken it as a compliment trust me not sure why other feel I got offended by the fact

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

It's a great pic

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

No

I'm straight and fab other women's pics of I like them,doesn't mean j wanna jump them.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

I don't care who fabs my photos - same sex or not, whether I fancy them or not - it's a compliment. If I don't want particular individuals to see me I can block them, and of course, anyone who finds same sex fabbing truly objectionable can always switch that function off completely which would solve the issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr H here , not bothered in the slightest who fabs my pics don’t put as many up as Mrs H but I do like to make an effort when I do so any appreciation is happily received

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not hounded, just disappointed it’s a bloke Fabbing the photo rather than a woman.

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

It's always nice to get recognition regardless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

?? I think that any love is good lovin’ ??

?? So I took what I could get. ??

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

I don't have a problem with anyone dabbing my pics who would at my age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's why I don't have any public pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"?? I think that any love is good lovin’ ??

?? So I took what I could get. ??"

?? And then she looked at me with those big brown eyes and said ??

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

It's a good pic OP - and the sheer ratio of men vs women on the site, and the fact that men are generally more visually stimulated is probably the reasoning behind it - as you and others have said it's a compliment nothing more.

I get fabbed by men, women and couple's alike and (even though I'm bi so open to it anyway) don't feel in the slightest bit hounded or even read a great deal into fabs at all - just see them as an appreciation of a pic

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By *urity555Man
over a year ago

south west

Just fabbed them

Miss

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By *heDesiCandiTV/TS
over a year ago

visiting Glasgow


"Doesn't bother me in the slightest. The thought of being annoyed by compliments is unfathomable to me. I even respond to male private messages with a thank you when they say "nice cock dude.""

You have more than just a nice cock dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy just to get some fabs on mine rather than just the wife’s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A fabbed piccy is a fab pic and a very rare thing lol

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

So when a couple fabs your pics how do you know if it's the male or female doing the fabbing, being a male female couple, anyone fabbing is going to be the same sex as one of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no to be honest I'm flattered if the same sex fab my pics

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

If you are thanking guys for fabbing your pics ... perhaps you are enjoying the male attention. .. nothing wrong with that .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any fab on a pic is a compliment. The person fabbing it, likes it. I dont see it matters what sexuality the fabber or the recipiant is. Still a compliment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd take it as a compliment lol,as it's mostly the wife who gets fabbed...but she deserves it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's a good pic OP - and the sheer ratio of men vs women on the site, and the fact that men are generally more visually stimulated is probably the reasoning behind it - as you and others have said it's a compliment nothing more.

I get fabbed by men, women and couple's alike and (even though I'm bi so open to it anyway) don't feel in the slightest bit hounded or even read a great deal into fabs at all - just see them as an appreciation of a pic "

Agreed Gemini

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By *atural-born-thrillerMan
over a year ago

oulton broad

It’s a compliment I find . Just smile and enjoy x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Happy just to get some fabs on mine rather than just the wife’s "

Haha it does make for a nice change doesn't it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just fabbed them

Miss

"

Thank you miss, had to return the favour, your stage conditioning looked amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a straight man I’m not always sure how to take messages from other men. I have nothing against what they are into it’s just not my cup of tea. However I guess it’s the same as a straight man fabbing a lesbians picture would they see it as a compliment? It can’t be helped if somebody else of the same sex is into you just take it as a confident and if they ever message politely decline

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a straight man I’m not always sure how to take messages from other men. I have nothing against what they are into it’s just not my cup of tea. However I guess it’s the same as a straight man fabbing a lesbians picture would they see it as a compliment? It can’t be helped if somebody else of the same sex is into you just take it as a confident and if they ever message politely decline "

^^^^^ meant take it as a compliment not confident lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fab loads of other women.dont see how liking there pic is hounding them

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I take it all as a complement. It’s nice to feel noticed and appreciated "

If it wasn't for blokes Fabbing my pics, I would only have roughly 1/3 of the appreciation I currently enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I take it all as a complement. It’s nice to feel noticed and appreciated

If it wasn't for blokes Fabbing my pics, I would only have roughly 1/3 of the appreciation I currently enjoy "

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