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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good morning Fabbers

I was wondering about something that is pretty important to the site. There is the search function, for looking into profiles you might otherwise never know about. My question is whether you would respond to someone that has found you that way other than in chat or here in these wonderful forums?

Honest answers people...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good morning Fabbers

I was wondering about something that is pretty important to the site. There is the search function, for looking into profiles you might otherwise never know about. My question is whether you would respond to someone that has found you that way other than in chat or here in these wonderful forums?

Honest answers people... "

Why wouldn’t I?

I’m assuming that’s how most folk find me. Hardly anyone messages me from the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and get most of my messages off people who have 'come across my profile'...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good morning Fabbers

I was wondering about something that is pretty important to the site. There is the search function, for looking into profiles you might otherwise never know about. My question is whether you would respond to someone that has found you that way other than in chat or here in these wonderful forums?

Honest answers people... "

If you don't chat you won't know regardless. Most people on my timeline are not in forums or chatrooms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good morning Fabbers

I was wondering about something that is pretty important to the site. There is the search function, for looking into profiles you might otherwise never know about. My question is whether you would respond to someone that has found you that way other than in chat or here in these wonderful forums?

Honest answers people... "

Forumites rarely message, unless i know them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course, but I suspect men rarely use this, preferring to look at "women online now."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Interesting... I was beginning to think that it could be seen as "stalker"-like...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good morning Fabbers

I was wondering about something that is pretty important to the site. There is the search function, for looking into profiles you might otherwise never know about. My question is whether you would respond to someone that has found you that way other than in chat or here in these wonderful forums?

Honest answers people... "

That's how you're supposed to find members, forum members are only a small part of Fab. There are loads of members who don't use the forum or cams, so how do they find meets or get found if they don't use the search facility?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting... I was beginning to think that it could be seen as "stalker"-like..."

Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting... I was beginning to think that it could be seen as "stalker"-like..."

Why?

The function is there for a reason...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you look at "online now" that brings up members countrywide, not much good for finding local people x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would find it far more flattering if a man approached me having used the search function because it suggests a greater level of discernment and effort. Also via the forums as well of course. Looking at who's currently online just seems lazy and as if anyone will do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many people get irate when someone messages them about a forum post. Weird but true.

Why post in the forum if they don't want messages?!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

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I don't get it...why would people mind being contacted from a site search (and how would they know?)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well, the attitude I seem to get most times is one of impatience, indifference, or just hostility... seems counter productive to meeting people really...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good morning Fabbers

I was wondering about something that is pretty important to the site. There is the search function, for looking into profiles you might otherwise never know about. My question is whether you would respond to someone that has found you that way other than in chat or here in these wonderful forums?

Honest answers people...

Why wouldn’t I?

I’m assuming that’s how most folk find me. Hardly anyone messages me from the forums. "
I would all avenues should be used that's point of site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of our meets have come from searches either by them or by us. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to respond to ones i like the sound and look of, how they came across my profile, is not important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get it...why would people mind being contacted from a site search (and how would they know?) "

I don't understand this either. Secret functions? Eh?

I've never even clicked on the chat button. Would rather use a search function to find people I like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, the attitude I seem to get most times is one of impatience, indifference, or just hostility... seems counter productive to meeting people really... "

That seems to be the same however people find their profiles. Be glad you won't be meeting them.

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