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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I want to go to one of the socials but I've never been before. Is it just a case of turn up and get speaking or should I take someone with me so I don't stand out like a sore thumb

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Most organised socials I've been to the organisers have been very good at introducing people to others - they really are just usually a drink or two in a pub/bar so nothing to be scared of. Make sure you get your name on the invite list though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think I will. May as well just go for it

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London


"I want to go to one of the socials but I've never been before. Is it just a case of turn up and get speaking or should I take someone with me so I don't stand out like a sore thumb "

It's absolutely essential to not shower for at least a week, get blind d*unk beforehand and don't forget to bring your childhood teddy with you -the ladies will go weak at the knees for that kind of stuff

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do I brush my teeth or is that a no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I made the mistake of being under dressed on my first social.

It was a shame because everyone else was dressed up.

Ask the organiser if you are to dress to impress

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You know what that would never have even crossed my mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get your name on the list and then show up, it seems daunting at first but it is literally like chatting to friends in person rather than on the forums

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'll do that I'll just fire my name down and turn up. What's the worst that could happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll do that I'll just fire my name down and turn up. What's the worst that could happen "

You could die

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll do that I'll just fire my name down and turn up. What's the worst that could happen "

Your mom could be there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Both very good points. I'll take the risk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both very good points. I'll take the risk"

I’ll be rooting for you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Both very good points. I'll take the risk

I’ll be rooting for you! "

Rooting for me to die? Awwww thanks I'll try not to disappoint

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"I want to go to one of the socials but I've never been before. Is it just a case of turn up and get speaking or should I take someone with me so I don't stand out like a sore thumb "

Just turn up.

Have a chat and get to no people.

You also need to say you want to go to the social on witch ever social thread it is to or you won't no wear to go as you won't be on the gest list so won't get sent the exact location.

The 0 meet club big social still has space.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been to one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both very good points. I'll take the risk

I’ll be rooting for you!

Rooting for me to die? Awwww thanks I'll try not to disappoint "

No!!!!! That you’re taking a risk. I have the upmost faith in you! You’ll have fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Soon as ones out the way it's all good. At least I won't go to my second one not knowing anyone

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"Soon as ones out the way it's all good. At least I won't go to my second one not knowing anyone "

We'll depending on wot social you go to 1st you cood go to a 2nd and not no anybody thar as difrount socials are hosted by different people.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I want to go to one of the socials but I've never been before. Is it just a case of turn up and get speaking or should I take someone with me so I don't stand out like a sore thumb

Just turn up.

Have a chat and get to no people.

You also need to say you want to go to the social on witch ever social thread it is to or you won't no wear to go as you won't be on the gest list so won't get sent the exact location.

The 0 meet club big social still has space. "
how many you got coming now _eeside

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Not directed at you OP but why is it always men who need encouragement or their hand held regarding socials?

Just get on with it!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Turn up and get to know others

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