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Bi and happy with it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The only problem with being bi for me, is I’ve not had the opportunity to have proper bi play enough.

I wish I’d have realised and accepted I was bi when I was much younger.

I have noticed on here that I’d say the average age of bi chaps is older than the general average age of guys on here, I wonder if it’s because like me people didn’t realise they were bi when younger, or is it that as you get older your tastes broaden.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only problem with being bi for me, is I’ve not had the opportunity to have proper bi play enough.

I wish I’d have realised and accepted I was bi when I was much younger.

I have noticed on here that I’d say the average age of bi chaps is older than the general average age of guys on here, I wonder if it’s because like me people didn’t realise they were bi when younger, or is it that as you get older your tastes broaden. "

An interesting question OP.

Sexuality is fluid, it can and will change over time according to experiences and other stimuli, there is also the fact that as people get older they come more to terms with themselves and accept all the things that make up who they are.

I came to the realisation fairly recently and had a hard time dealing with it and coming to terms with it. I can imagine that others have a similar experience at various points in their lives.

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By *azmar62Couple
over a year ago

Hinckley

I new I was, it took two failed marriages to be able at last realise my dream. One day I caught my gf watching bi porn and playing with herself when I came home from work, it turned her on she told me, In for a penny, I sat down and told what I wanted, it was the best shag I’d had since I’ve been with her, now she’s gagging to see me with guys at nearly every meet, but I’ve had to tell her to back off, because not every guy who is bi wants to play that way, it has to feel right, but when I’m horny enough, no holes barred for me, and when she joins in it get even hotter.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I new I was, it took two failed marriages to be able at last realise my dream. One day I caught my gf watching bi porn and playing with herself when I came home from work, it turned her on she told me, In for a penny, I sat down and told what I wanted, it was the best shag I’d had since I’ve been with her, now she’s gagging to see me with guys at nearly every meet, but I’ve had to tell her to back off, because not every guy who is bi wants to play that way, it has to feel right, but when I’m horny enough, no holes barred for me, and when she joins in it get even hotter. "

Sorry to hear about the failed marriages but delighted to hear about the rest.

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By *azmar62Couple
over a year ago

Hinckley


"I new I was, it took two failed marriages to be able at last realise my dream. One day I caught my gf watching bi porn and playing with herself when I came home from work, it turned her on she told me, In for a penny, I sat down and told what I wanted, it was the best shag I’d had since I’ve been with her, now she’s gagging to see me with guys at nearly every meet, but I’ve had to tell her to back off, because not every guy who is bi wants to play that way, it has to feel right, but when I’m horny enough, no holes barred for me, and when she joins in it get even hotter.

Sorry to hear about the failed marriages but delighted to hear about the rest. "

I’ve been living my dream ever since, we’ve been together 6 years now and the journey has been awesome.

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By *ickyRoosterMan
over a year ago

Uppendown

I knew I was bi in my mid teens. Suppressed it. Had a major man/boy crush on another lad at school. Got married. Got divorced. Met another beautiful woman. Decided to be up front with her in a 'cards on the table' way as things were starting to get serious. Turned out she was bi too and really helped and encouraged me to explore my bisexuality. Unfortunately we are no longer together but I will be forever thankful for the role she played in my 'awakening' as it were

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Ooh nice stories so far, makes my heart sing

Alas there's a lot of male bi phobia (even on here. Sure a petty numpty will chime in soon). My theory is that while society excepts, even encourages women to be sexually fluid, men are expected to choose at a young age. Gay or straight. Pick a lane, no deviation. Which is utter nonsense.

One day, nobody will care. Unti then, keep on trucking

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I became bisexual age 42. That was a bit of a life shock!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ooh nice stories so far, makes my heart sing

Alas there's a lot of male bi phobia (even on here. Sure a petty numpty will chime in soon). My theory is that while society excepts, even encourages women to be sexually fluid, men are expected to choose at a young age. Gay or straight. Pick a lane, no deviation. Which is utter nonsense.

One day, nobody will care. Unti then, keep on trucking "

At the risk of sounding glib; exactly this!

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

I'm happy being it

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I went to boarding school, 'nuff said

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