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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do you ladies look for in men. What makes you want more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be likeable

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Master bakers preferably cake not bread

That's master baker !! not masturbators

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who doesn’t crave attention

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Personality "

I so wish that was true

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Honestly, honesty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Musk

https://youtu.be/5ccp-lEmoAE

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Clean shoes so I’m told

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to be drawn to complicated men who hide their many complicated layers with a smattering of good humour.

Plus they tend to be good in bed and filthy minded fuckers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dead ferrets in your pants they love it

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

Sense of humor!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spark

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By *iger.10Man
over a year ago

Llantrisant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone who doesn’t crave attention "

That's funny I was just talking about me too

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

A large bank balance

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Humour

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By *iger.10Man
over a year ago

Llantrisant


"I tend to be drawn to complicated men who hide their many complicated layers with a smattering of good humour.

Plus they tend to be good in bed and filthy minded fuckers."

I'm questioning how many complicated layers I have now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personality

sense of humour

his height

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cunning linguists

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to be drawn to complicated men who hide their many complicated layers with a smattering of good humour.

Plus they tend to be good in bed and filthy minded fuckers."

You called....??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s personality... how you come across.. can you hold a conversation... do you make me laugh... are you kind... and physical attraction as well but sometimes it’s more then that... it’s that chemistry and spark that just seems to happen!! And that is what I’m looking for most of all!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes and must be a great kisser!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Height, build, good looks, personality, intellect, honesty, bedroom skills... That is a lotta things to work on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock pics... I get complement and offers after they looking at my 20 different angle cock pics...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A PHD

And not being a virgin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*takes out note pad*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's actually simple, women believe they want personality, humour, honesty, and integrity. But then explain why men like the late Peter Stringfellow, Mike Tyson, and Ted Bundy had no trouble attracting women. It's a perceived since of power that each of them demonstrated and the women (whether conscience of the fact or not) responded. You always hear,"Nice guys finish last" or "Be mean, keep them keen" there are reasons for that...

Didn't mean to go on so long, if you read all this pat yourself on the back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you look like Ryan Gosling... Ryan Reynolds... George Clooney.... that would attract me!!!

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By *ida8780Couple
over a year ago

any town


"What do you ladies look for in men. What makes you want more "

They look for a man who starts a new thread every few minutes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly, honesty"

I’m with you on that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to be drawn to complicated men who hide their many complicated layers with a smattering of good humour.

Plus they tend to be good in bed and filthy minded fuckers."

How do you know they've got many complicated layers if they hide them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to be drawn to complicated men who hide their many complicated layers with a smattering of good humour.

Plus they tend to be good in bed and filthy minded fuckers.

How do you know they've got many complicated layers if they hide them? "

Because they get revealed, eventually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to be drawn to complicated men who hide their many complicated layers with a smattering of good humour.

Plus they tend to be good in bed and filthy minded fuckers.

How do you know they've got many complicated layers if they hide them?

Because they get revealed, eventually."

That's a paradox, they're hidden so how can you be drawn to them so as to be revealed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what I mean’t Doc, and that’s good enough for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blackness.

I'm joking.

I'm also d*unk!

(Sorry )

A strong sense of one's self is most attractive to me..

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to be drawn to complicated men who hide their many complicated layers with a smattering of good humour.

Plus they tend to be good in bed and filthy minded fuckers.

How do you know they've got many complicated layers if they hide them?

Because they get revealed, eventually.

That's a paradox, they're hidden so how can you be drawn to them so as to be revealed? "

Next you'll be asking how anyone knows "the unconscious" exists since the mere fact of being conscious of it means it is no longer unconscious

There wrap your "complicated man who disguises it with a sense of humour" around that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I know what I mean’t Doc, and that’s good enough for me.

"

No offence, my dear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to be drawn to complicated men who hide their many complicated layers with a smattering of good humour.

Plus they tend to be good in bed and filthy minded fuckers.

How do you know they've got many complicated layers if they hide them?

Because they get revealed, eventually.

That's a paradox, they're hidden so how can you be drawn to them so as to be revealed?

Next you'll be asking how anyone knows "the unconscious" exists since the mere fact of being conscious of it means it is no longer unconscious

There wrap your "complicated man who disguises it with a sense of humour" around that "

I might do if I could work it out!

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By *ancfemWoman
over a year ago

widnes

For me they have to be tall.... usually go for an athletically built guy..( but track record all have been arseholes) hate arrogance n banter is a must

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By *ilNdoCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

i like confident men but it's the shy serious looking guy that gets me hot under the cover!

The type who doesn't say much but when he speaks has me rolling laughing and obvs has to be focused on just me!!!

Where are you guys???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me they have to be tall.... usually go for an athletically built guy..( but track record all have been arseholes) hate arrogance n banter is a must "

Bugger, that'd be me for 1 for 4!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on who is standing in front of me and how he comes across

Definitely helps if he is at least as tall as me and smells good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So attraction to start with which for me is generally a guy taller than me with broad shoulders and a nice smile.

Then humour, if he can make me laugh he has a chance to get in my pants.

Be able to hold a conversation and not be shy.

Be quite domineering naturally

Kind as a person, show that I'm more than just a fuck

Be able to give great cuddles and kisses that make me melt.

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere nearby

Kind hearted, reasonably intelligent, can make me laugh, and won’t mind if I have a tiny cry on occasion.

Tall, beardy, chunky, nice smelling

Won’t do that breadcrumbing bollocks - either speak to me or don’t. I’m not going to be 1st/2nd/3rd reserve just cos the prettier/brighter/bigger boobed/whatever one is busy. Or if you do that, ffs don’t make it obvious

Will be ok with me trusting them a bit before I get all nekkid and wild.

Authoratitive but not domineering

A fan of kissing - I’d do the kissing all day

If you can cook - I’m not going to complain....!

Hmmm I’m more demanding than I thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the UK? For me I get no attention whatsoever.

But in Canada or California something changed and for the first time I had women making excuses to chat to me...

maybe I had a different accent than the rest but it made me feel confident for the first time in years, and I took advantage totally, as you would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think in my opinion most lady’s will firstly want an attraction there, most be put off by first messages with cocks am very rude messages, but if your polite an there’s an attraction you’ll get a reply ...but with most cases there’s a lot more chose here for lady’s which is why it can be hard for a man as the ratio is way more men than women....

Just be polite, as though you would approach someone in a bar with some decent pics of yourself an don’t act too desperate an I’m sure eventually you’ll get a reply from someone genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeing is Believing because every women does not have the same taste in me if they do on here then there a lot of unhappy people in this world of the web loll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh yes and must be a great kisser!!!!!!!! "

I love to kiss.. There's nothing better than a good old fashioned snog .. And I have a great sense of humour.. read my varifications.Hull is only an hour away .lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you ladies look for in men. What makes you want more "

A cock.

A small cock.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Tip: Women love men who can hold a conversation.

So.....um.....yeah.....what did you think of Harry Kane’s third goal then?

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

I see the replies and understand most except humour. Not sure that is the entire story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dr who pjs

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

The basic essentials - respect, interest in me, my needs and pleasing meand someone who is generally decent. Racially attractive to me.

Then an interesting person, in your own way - you'll be unique. Sensitive and with good humour. Physically fit and attractive - pretty much height / weight proportionate, average to above average cock. Ideally he's adventurous and sexually explorative.

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By *onnyeasygoingMan
over a year ago

Somewhere on the M62 between 24 and 14

Talking about the constant erosion of the British coastline and the battle to ward off time and tide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you ladies look for in men. What makes you want more "

More on here or relationships in general?

On here good pictures, genuine, not thinking with their dick, attractive, funny the list in endless and even longer in real life

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