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That feeling after a meet...

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

You've finally had a play meet with someone who you've chatted to that ticked your boxes...you either played with them on the first meet, or on a second occasion after a social. What thoughts have run through your mind afterwards? Is it the "worth every second, let's do that again!", "so so, not bad may see again, may not", or "that was awful, one off only!"

Personally, its mainly been #1 and the odd #2. Anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very few of the.... "worth every second, let's do that again!"

Majority of the "so so, not bad may see again, may not"

Thankfully only two of the "that was awful, one off only!"

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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago

deptford London


"Very few of the.... "worth every second, let's do that again!"

Majority of the "so so, not bad may see again, may not"

Thankfully only two of the "that was awful, one off only!"

"

did you wear those boots to most meets?x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of course - but they are mainly reserved for club nights

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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago

deptford London


"Some of course - but they are mainly reserved for club nights "

well i bet the ones you wore them to thought

worth every second, let's do that again!"

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"You've finally had a play meet with someone who you've chatted to that ticked your boxes...you either played with them on the first meet, or on a second occasion after a social. What thoughts have run through your mind afterwards? Is it the "worth every second, let's do that again!", "so so, not bad may see again, may not", or "that was awful, one off only!"

Personally, its mainly been #1 and the odd #2. Anyone?"

All three sadly, rarely one, mostly two - I'm hard to please lol!

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By *ffinfuntMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Haha isn’t every woman

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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago

deptford London


"You've finally had a play meet with someone who you've chatted to that ticked your boxes...you either played with them on the first meet, or on a second occasion after a social. What thoughts have run through your mind afterwards? Is it the "worth every second, let's do that again!", "so so, not bad may see again, may not", or "that was awful, one off only!"

Personally, its mainly been #1 and the odd #2. Anyone?

All three sadly, rarely one, mostly two - I'm hard to please lol! "

can i try and help you gt a number 1 x

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"You've finally had a play meet with someone who you've chatted to that ticked your boxes...you either played with them on the first meet, or on a second occasion after a social. What thoughts have run through your mind afterwards? Is it the "worth every second, let's do that again!", "so so, not bad may see again, may not", or "that was awful, one off only!"

Personally, its mainly been #1 and the odd #2. Anyone?

All three sadly, rarely one, mostly two - I'm hard to please lol! "

Sounds like a delicious challenge

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"You've finally had a play meet with someone who you've chatted to that ticked your boxes...you either played with them on the first meet, or on a second occasion after a social. What thoughts have run through your mind afterwards? Is it the "worth every second, let's do that again!", "so so, not bad may see again, may not", or "that was awful, one off only!"

Personally, its mainly been #1 and the odd #2. Anyone?

All three sadly, rarely one, mostly two - I'm hard to please lol!

Sounds like a delicious challenge "

Haha, that wasn't my intention, honestly!

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere nearby

I think I’ve only ever had 2 ‘never agains’. The majority have been “that was really good, I really hope they’d like to see me again”, and there have been a couple of “oh my god they are amazing, I absolutely NEED to see them again”. One of them has become a great pal who I see fairly frequently. We get on like a house on fire, he pops round at lunchtime if he’s passing, or I meet him out and about. He makes me feel like some sort of sexual goddess!. He also drops cakes off if he knows I’m having a shit day. Win win really! Proper FWB

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I think I’ve only ever had 2 ‘never agains’. The majority have been “that was really good, I really hope they’d like to see me again”, and there have been a couple of “oh my god they are amazing, I absolutely NEED to see them again”. One of them has become a great pal who I see fairly frequently. We get on like a house on fire, he pops round at lunchtime if he’s passing, or I meet him out and about. He makes me feel like some sort of sexual goddess!. He also drops cakes off if he knows I’m having a shit day. Win win really! Proper FWB

"

And that is why I love fab!

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere nearby


"I think I’ve only ever had 2 ‘never agains’. The majority have been “that was really good, I really hope they’d like to see me again”, and there have been a couple of “oh my god they are amazing, I absolutely NEED to see them again”. One of them has become a great pal who I see fairly frequently. We get on like a house on fire, he pops round at lunchtime if he’s passing, or I meet him out and about. He makes me feel like some sort of sexual goddess!. He also drops cakes off if he knows I’m having a shit day. Win win really! Proper FWB

And that is why I love fab! "

Yes! And he makes up for the headfuck meets that are hot/cold/hot/cold.... !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am still waiting for my first meet to know the feeling afterwards lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had a couple of the latter but it’s mainly the first option for myself.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

For me, I’ve mostly had very positive experiences. Many have led to repeat meets, some have just been very nice one offs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me, I’ve mostly had very positive experiences. Many have led to repeat meets, some have just been very nice one offs. "

What a hero

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"For me, I’ve mostly had very positive experiences. Many have led to repeat meets, some have just been very nice one offs. "

Let's both start a "men satisfied with fab club!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single woman on here majority of my meets were just one offs, one guy I met twice and then I met Cute, he does it again and again and again, and it just gets better and better

Kitten

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By *entish79Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I’ve been pretty lucky I think and mostly had good or great meets. My one really disastrous one was only social with a couple, when it seemed like she just didn’t even want to be there and didn’t say a word for an hour.

Most of my meets have been up in Scotland, and despite the distance I keep in touch with most of them to a greater or lesser degree. One of them has become a really great pal, although annoyingly she is also the furthest away.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Mainly we have a feeling that’s something along the lines of ‘ That was fun , glad we met and had a good time , maybe see them again at some point in the future , but not for a while ‘ .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over the years I've had a variety of different types of meet but once in a while you get a fantastic meet that reminds you of why your on Fab.

Every meet is different but those ones that leave you with a big smile on your face for days after make it all worth while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My meets have been mostly #1, occasionally #2, and never #3. I don't think I've ever met a guy who didn't want to meet up again

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Most of my meets have been up in Scotland, and despite the distance I keep in touch with most of them to a greater or lesser degree. One of them has become a really great pal, although annoyingly she is also the furthest away."

I've been fortunate as most of my meets have also resulted in great fab friendships that I still keep in touch with regularly despite my current self imposed exile in the channel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've finally had a play meet with someone who you've chatted to that ticked your boxes...you either played with them on the first meet, or on a second occasion after a social. What thoughts have run through your mind afterwards? Is it the "worth every second, let's do that again!", "so so, not bad may see again, may not", or "that was awful, one off only!"

Personally, its mainly been #1 and the odd #2. Anyone?"

One or two #1 *blissfull sigh*

Some partly #1 - as in the “worth every second” bit ... totally fabulous fun at the time

Not had a #3 as in awful ... but have thought definitely just a one off ... probably when something really rude involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My meets way in the past have been 1 and 2 but I've had a few #3 meets that were awful.

I still remember that wonderful feeling you get for days after a great meet. You literally keep grinning and re-living it in your head. I like those memories.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I still remember that wonderful feeling you get for days after a great meet. You literally keep grinning and re-living it in your head. I like those memories. "

Ahh yes .... realising you’ve been thinking and smirking when someone says oh eye what are you thinking about ... delicious secrets

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"My meets way in the past have been 1 and 2 but I've had a few #3 meets that were awful.

I still remember that wonderful feeling you get for days after a great meet. You literally keep grinning and re-living it in your head. I like those memories. "

Those are the best and the reason we're here I think x

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By *entish79Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"My meets way in the past have been 1 and 2 but I've had a few #3 meets that were awful.

I still remember that wonderful feeling you get for days after a great meet. You literally keep grinning and re-living it in your head. I like those memories.

Those are the best and the reason we're here I think x"

Definitely - a couple of my best meets have lasted 24 hours or more and have made some fantastic memories. Not just the obvious, but also a few wee things that I only have to think about now and they’ll still make me smile.

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"My meets way in the past have been 1 and 2 but I've had a few #3 meets that were awful.

I still remember that wonderful feeling you get for days after a great meet. You literally keep grinning and re-living it in your head. I like those memories.

Those are the best and the reason we're here I think x

Definitely - a couple of my best meets have lasted 24 hours or more and have made some fantastic memories. Not just the obvious, but also a few wee things that I only have to think about now and they’ll still make me smile."

Weekend meets with people you've really clicked with are amazing and for me are the pinnacle of an ideal fab meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I still remember that wonderful feeling you get for days after a great meet. You literally keep grinning and re-living it in your head. I like those memories.

Those are the best and the reason we're here I think x

Definitely - a couple of my best meets have lasted 24 hours or more and have made some fantastic memories. Not just the obvious, but also a few wee things that I only have to think about now and they’ll still make me smile.

Weekend meets with people you've really clicked with are amazing and for me are the pinnacle of an ideal fab meet "

All of this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think i have been very lucky as the majority of my meets have been #1 with the odd #2 ..

Also i have never met anyone that didnt want a further meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually it's I can't wait to do that again.

On a few occasions it's been ok, but not enough to make me want more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who its with and how satisfied you were

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

#1 with an occasional #2

I don't do 'instant meets' always chat a while & have a social first.

I'd already know if there was chemistry, it wouldn't go any further than a social if something didn't click in my head.

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By *ayMyName123Man
over a year ago

Barnsley


"I think I’ve only ever had 2 ‘never agains’. The majority have been “that was really good, I really hope they’d like to see me again”, and there have been a couple of “oh my god they are amazing, I absolutely NEED to see them again”. One of them has become a great pal who I see fairly frequently. We get on like a house on fire, he pops round at lunchtime if he’s passing, or I meet him out and about. He makes me feel like some sort of sexual goddess!. He also drops cakes off if he knows I’m having a shit day. Win win really! Proper FWB

"

I need to find myself a lady like this ! you lucky thing

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"#1 with an occasional #2

I don't do 'instant meets' always chat a while & have a social first.

I'd already know if there was chemistry, it wouldn't go any further than a social if something didn't click in my head."

Precisely the way it should be

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I think i have been very lucky as the majority of my meets have been #1 with the odd #2 ..

Also i have never met anyone that didnt want a further meet "

If you take time chatting to someone and building up a good rapport / chemistry over some time and you both seem to be in the same wavelength I think its difficult to get any result different to #1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've finally had a play meet with someone who you've chatted to that ticked your boxes...you either played with them on the first meet, or on a second occasion after a social. What thoughts have run through your mind afterwards? Is it the "worth every second, let's do that again!", "so so, not bad may see again, may not", or "that was awful, one off only!"

Personally, its mainly been #1 and the odd #2. Anyone?"

Most of our meets are the first example. A few are the second example. When swinging alone many years ago i had a couple of meets that were the last example.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally have a completely different option of that was a fantastic one off. To me that's largely what swinging is about. I get bored easily and you can have too much of a good thing in this game. I'm not looking to develop a life partner maybe that's why meeting again is less favourable with many. It takes a certain person to cope with multiple meets without reading too much into it. Those are my meet agains.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've finally had a play meet with someone who you've chatted to that ticked your boxes...you either played with them on the first meet, or on a second occasion after a social. What thoughts have run through your mind afterwards? Is it the "worth every second, let's do that again!", "so so, not bad may see again, may not", or "that was awful, one off only!"

Personally, its mainly been #1 and the odd #2. Anyone?

Most of our meets are the first example. A few are the second example. When swinging alone many years ago i had a couple of meets that were the last example. "

Actually re thinking it most of our meets are the 1st example but we generally dont mind if we meet again or if they are one offs that have been great.

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