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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How would you feel if someone that had messaged you three times, with no promise of a meet, messaged one of your verifications asking if its ok to talk to you? As they don't want to be "treading on anyones toes" I'm single and this is a swinging site.....

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I'd block them. Anyone asking permission of someone to meet me clearly doesn't understand the ethos of swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How would you feel if someone that had messaged you three times, with no promise of a meet, messaged one of your verifications asking if its ok to talk to you? As they don't want to be "treading on anyones toes" I'm single and this is a swinging site....."

I'd think they were slightly psycho and block them

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Sounds odd. If it doesn't feel right to you then block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he is trying to arrange a threesome...

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By *LkinkyfunCouple
over a year ago

stockport

Rude block them

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

I'd ask what the hell they thought they were doing? How rude! Tell them to go play silly games with somebody else.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'd ask what the hell they thought they were doing? How rude! Tell them to go play silly games with somebody else

Thanks for all your replies...wasn't sure if I was making a big deal of it or not. I have let him know exactly what I think of him.... lol. and just as I thought they couldn't get any crazier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd ask what the hell they thought they were doing? How rude! Tell them to go play silly games with somebody else

Thanks for all your replies...wasn't sure if I was making a big deal of it or not. I have let him know exactly what I think of him.... lol. and just as I thought they couldn't get any crazier "

Just block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he's had bad past experiences?

I've had it before where I left a veri and some crazy messaged me!

I've not looked at your profile but if you have multiple veri's from the same person then maybe he doesn't want a load of abuse off the guy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe he's had bad past experiences?

I've had it before where I left a veri and some crazy messaged me!

I've not looked at your profile but if you have multiple veri's from the same person then maybe he doesn't want a load of abuse off the guy? "

Please leave common sense out of this thread....

Btw you’re right

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By *hips n FursMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

What next...seen the vicar and the church is booked.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Maybe he's had bad past experiences?

I've had it before where I left a veri and some crazy messaged me!

I've not looked at your profile but if you have multiple veri's from the same person then maybe he doesn't want a load of abuse off the guy? "

You could be right, if so the chap should have asked both of them if he was getting in between anything.

OP if you feel strongly enough about it and are still interested in meeting him, ask the chap why he felt it necessary to message your verify guy.

If it's put you off, block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe he's had bad past experiences?

I've had it before where I left a veri and some crazy messaged me!

I've not looked at your profile but if you have multiple veri's from the same person then maybe he doesn't want a load of abuse off the guy?

Please leave common sense out of this thread....

Btw you’re right "

I generally am

Multiple veri's from the same person stinks of lamppost pissing. Personally I think he was a bit silly to ask permission, I'd just steer clear of profiles like that. Really not worth the hassle

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By *iger.10Man
over a year ago

Llantrisant


"Maybe he's had bad past experiences?

I've had it before where I left a veri and some crazy messaged me!

I've not looked at your profile but if you have multiple veri's from the same person then maybe he doesn't want a load of abuse off the guy?

Seen a few profiles with multiple veri's and the odd one or two with multiple upon multiple veri's off the same person. Never thought of it like that...

Please leave common sense out of this thread....

Btw you’re right

I generally am

Multiple veri's from the same person stinks of lamppost pissing. Personally I think he was a bit silly to ask permission, I'd just steer clear of profiles like that. Really not worth the hassle "

I've see a few profiles with multiple veri's and the odd ones with multiple, multiple veri's...Never thought of it like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe he's had bad past experiences?

I've had it before where I left a veri and some crazy messaged me!

I've not looked at your profile but if you have multiple veri's from the same person then maybe he doesn't want a load of abuse off the guy?

Please leave common sense out of this thread....

Btw you’re right

I generally am

Multiple veri's from the same person stinks of lamppost pissing. Personally I think he was a bit silly to ask permission, I'd just steer clear of profiles like that. Really not worth the hassle "

I would have been offended if he was asking personal questions like what she like in bed....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd ask what the hell they thought they were doing? How rude! Tell them to go play silly games with somebody else

Thanks for all your replies...wasn't sure if I was making a big deal of it or not. I have let him know exactly what I think of him.... lol. and just as I thought they couldn't get any crazier "

Some people just don't know how crazy they are.

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs


"How would you feel if someone that had messaged you three times, with no promise of a meet, messaged one of your verifications asking if its ok to talk to you? As they don't want to be "treading on anyones toes" I'm single and this is a swinging site....."

Think I'd be telling them I found their behaviour a bit odd and perhaps they don't quite get the scene before having no further interactions with them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You could be right, if so the chap should have asked both of them if he was getting in between anything.

OP if you feel strongly enough about it and are still interested in meeting him, ask the chap why he felt it necessary to message your verify guy.

If it's put you off, block and move on.

True..and he should have come to me at some point during our lengthy 3 message relationship lol. I didn't see that multiple veris from the same person could be an issue..i can now.. but then again, I didn't see that I'm 49, single, can make up my own mind about who I see and not in need of parenting on here.,and that would be an issue either lol. Thank you so much for the input...i know I'm mainly a lurker here, but i do enjoy reading you all daily and appreciate the advice xxx

i'll go back to my corner

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"You could be right, if so the chap should have asked both of them if he was getting in between anything.

OP if you feel strongly enough about it and are still interested in meeting him, ask the chap why he felt it necessary to message your verify guy.

If it's put you off, block and move on.

True..and he should have come to me at some point during our lengthy 3 message relationship lol. I didn't see that multiple veris from the same person could be an issue..i can now.. but then again, I didn't see that I'm 49, single, can make up my own mind about who I see and not in need of parenting on here.,and that would be an issue either lol. Thank you so much for the input...i know I'm mainly a lurker here, but i do enjoy reading you all daily and appreciate the advice xxx

i'll go back to my corner

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One thing I've learnt, don't bother yourself trying to work all the sorts of crazy that goes on here.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

The sites full of oddballs. Ive no idea how some of them found their way here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How would you feel if someone that had messaged you three times, with no promise of a meet, messaged one of your verifications asking if its ok to talk to you? As they don't want to be "treading on anyones toes" I'm single and this is a swinging site....."

Weirdos avoid weirdos

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

[Removed by poster at 25/06/18 17:02:57]

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"We had a potential regular, decide to contact someone we had a social with wanting to know what we talked about...

They became ex meets and people we had a social with felt their privacy was invaded and things weren't going to happen.

OP beware the green eyed monster. Leave this alone and block"

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