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By *oantrimcpl2010 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

Why ask for help or advice, then get annoyed or upset and throw a numpty because you dont like the answers that you have been given.

I dont see the sense in this, Am I the only sane one here

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Why ask for help or advice, then get annoyed or upset and throw a numpty because you dont like the answers that you have been given.

I dont see the sense in this, Am I the only sane one here "

Ermmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm nope

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

I need advice

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By *oantrimcpl2010 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"I need advice "

that thread is next door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope but then it helps to decide which numptys to block

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"I need advice

that thread is next door "

I tried it but I didn't like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why ask for help or advice, then get annoyed or upset and throw a numpty because you dont like the answers that you have been given.

I dont see the sense in this, Am I the only sane one here "

Is throwing a numpty like throwing a dwarf only different

But yes thats when I step away before fingers overtake brain

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By *oantrimcpl2010 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"I need advice

that thread is next door

I tried it but I didn't like it "

did you try the one further on down

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By *oantrimcpl2010 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"Why ask for help or advice, then get annoyed or upset and throw a numpty because you dont like the answers that you have been given.

I dont see the sense in this, Am I the only sane one here

Is throwing a numpty like throwing a dwarf only different

But yes thats when I step away before fingers overtake brain "

have had to do that sometimes as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there is a way of answering diplomatically without being rude,and some people dont seem to have that diplomacy unfortunately....just my take on it mind..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why ask for help or advice, then get annoyed or upset and throw a numpty because you dont like the answers that you have been given.

I dont see the sense in this, Am I the only sane one here

Is throwing a numpty like throwing a dwarf only different

But yes thats when I step away before fingers overtake brain

have had to do that sometimes as well "

actually having just read what i put that doesnt make sense , what I meant was when I see a thread that goes that way I step away

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By *oantrimcpl2010 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"I think there is a way of answering diplomatically without being rude,and some people dont seem to have that diplomacy unfortunately....just my take on it mind.. "

That could be part of it, but also some people arnt good at expressing themselves over a keyboard, some things that might have been said in jest or banter may not come acroos like it was meant x

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"I need advice

that thread is next door

I tried it but I didn't like it

did you try the one further on down "

look I don't like your type of advice - who do you think you are directing me to other peoples problems?

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By *oantrimcpl2010 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"Why ask for help or advice, then get annoyed or upset and throw a numpty because you dont like the answers that you have been given.

I dont see the sense in this, Am I the only sane one here

Is throwing a numpty like throwing a dwarf only different

But yes thats when I step away before fingers overtake brain

have had to do that sometimes as well

actually having just read what i put that doesnt make sense , what I meant was when I see a thread that goes that way I step away "

lol i actually understood what you meant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Am I the only sane one here "

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By *oantrimcpl2010 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"I need advice

that thread is next door

I tried it but I didn't like it

did you try the one further on down

look I don't like your type of advice - who do you think you are directing me to other peoples problems? "

ok ok .. tell me your woo's and i will advise you what not to do

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By *oantrimcpl2010 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"

Am I the only sane one here

"

you got that outfit yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yer`d never beieve there`s an ongoing explosion in the prescription of ritalin, pacifying the neer-do-wells in the suburbs would yer...

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"I need advice

that thread is next door

I tried it but I didn't like it

did you try the one further on down

look I don't like your type of advice - who do you think you are directing me to other peoples problems?

ok ok .. tell me your woo's and i will advise you what not to do "

why haven't I been to Co Antrim for 5 years and why haven't we met?

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"I need advice

that thread is next door

I tried it but I didn't like it

did you try the one further on down

look I don't like your type of advice - who do you think you are directing me to other peoples problems?

ok ok .. tell me your woo's and i will advise you what not to do

why haven't I been to Co Antrim for 5 years and why haven't we met? "

Cos you keep going to Sharm lol

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By *oantrimcpl2010 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"I need advice

that thread is next door

I tried it but I didn't like it

did you try the one further on down

look I don't like your type of advice - who do you think you are directing me to other peoples problems?

ok ok .. tell me your woo's and i will advise you what not to do

why haven't I been to Co Antrim for 5 years and why haven't we met? "

well play your cards right and you never know what will happen

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"I need advice

that thread is next door

I tried it but I didn't like it

did you try the one further on down

look I don't like your type of advice - who do you think you are directing me to other peoples problems?

ok ok .. tell me your woo's and i will advise you what not to do

why haven't I been to Co Antrim for 5 years and why haven't we met?

Cos you keep going to Sharm lol"

Thats not advice thats an observation!

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"I need advice

that thread is next door

I tried it but I didn't like it

did you try the one further on down

look I don't like your type of advice - who do you think you are directing me to other peoples problems?

ok ok .. tell me your woo's and i will advise you what not to do

why haven't I been to Co Antrim for 5 years and why haven't we met?

well play your cards right and you never know what will happen "

snap, bragg or poker?

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

If i was the devil's advocate i'd insist the game was Strip Poker. That's Strip then Poker.

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By *oantrimcpl2010 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

ok im on for strip poker, as long as i can deal

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"ok im on for strip poker, as long as i can deal "

I'm holding the aces though or should that be the jokers?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

[Removed by poster at 15/11/11 19:38:35]

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

because some didn't really want advice/help, they wanted:

POSTER:

female.... 'oh honey, it's their loss to have missed a hottie like you' from 100 sycophants

male... a sympathy shag from anyone who feels their pain.

others genuinely do and often get great advice and then totally ignore

just another day in the forums...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can work the other way though. I've seen threads where the OP has asked advice on a profile and people have answered saying, take that bit out, change the profile pic, and when the OP hasn't, they've re-posted saying why haven't you done what I've said. And I do agree its how the advice is delivered at times, which can be quite rude.

Its great to ask advice but its not obligatory to abide by the advice given.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

agreed ... yup you are right there x

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By *oantrimcpl2010 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"It can work the other way though. I've seen threads where the OP has asked advice on a profile and people have answered saying, take that bit out, change the profile pic, and when the OP hasn't, they've re-posted saying why haven't you done what I've said. And I do agree its how the advice is delivered at times, which can be quite rude.

Its great to ask advice but its not obligatory to abide by the advice given.

"

I do agree that people's profils should be there own, about them and what is right for them. Not what others think it should contain. xxx

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By *oantrimcpl2010 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"agreed ... yup you are right there x"

you beat me to it, and with shorter version xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need advice please, I have *advised* someone without my usual diplomacy.

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By *oantrimcpl2010 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"I need advice please, I have *advised* someone without my usual diplomacy. "

shame on you, bend over and take your punishment

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

PS OP if ever you get splinters from fence sitting give me a shout and i'll suck em out for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bending over as we speak..... I have a bad back mind so go easy on me.

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By *oantrimcpl2010 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"

PS OP if ever you get splinters from fence sitting give me a shout and i'll suck em out for you "

Me sit on a fence ...never

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By *oantrimcpl2010 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"bending over as we speak..... I have a bad back mind so go easy on me. "

ok will be gentle (evil laugh)

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"

PS OP if ever you get splinters from fence sitting give me a shout and i'll suck em out for you

Me sit on a fence ...never "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"bending over as we speak..... I have a bad back mind so go easy on me.

ok will be gentle (evil laugh) "

...... you don't have to take a run up!!!!!!! *gulp*

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By *oantrimcpl2010 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"bending over as we speak..... I have a bad back mind so go easy on me.

ok will be gentle (evil laugh)

...... you don't have to take a run up!!!!!!! *gulp* "

only gathering some speed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Am I the only sane one here

you got that outfit yet "

Going in the buff. Cheaper option.

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By *oantrimcpl2010 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"

Am I the only sane one here

you got that outfit yet

Going in the buff. Cheaper option."

oh the easy access route

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"I think there is a way of answering diplomatically without being rude,and some people dont seem to have that diplomacy unfortunately....just my take on it mind.. "

well the flip side of that is that some people on want to hear what they want to... i.e the sugar-coated stuff, whereas other tend to be down the road of "tell it like it is" and be more honest.... and then people throw the dummies out of the pram...

some people only want to hear what they want to hear.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why ask for help or advice, then get annoyed or upset and throw a numpty because you dont like the answers that you have been given.

I dont see the sense in this, Am I the only sane one here "

You make me look sane xx

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By *oantrimcpl2010 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"Why ask for help or advice, then get annoyed or upset and throw a numpty because you dont like the answers that you have been given.

I dont see the sense in this, Am I the only sane one here

You make me look sane xx "

oi you where's me voddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Am I the only sane one here "

Am I the only one questioning your sanity

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By *oantrimcpl2010 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"

Am I the only sane one here

Am I the only one questioning your sanity "

Hello I am VERY SANE, my doctor told me so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Am I the only sane one here

Am I the only one questioning your sanity

Hello I am VERY SANE, my doctor told me so "

Doctor Who?

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"I think there is a way of answering diplomatically without being rude,and some people dont seem to have that diplomacy unfortunately....just my take on it mind..

well the flip side of that is that some people on want to hear what they want to... i.e the sugar-coated stuff, whereas other tend to be down the road of "tell it like it is" and be more honest.... and then people throw the dummies out of the pram...

some people only want to hear what they want to hear....."

and then some people don't half rant at what they do hear/read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think there is a way of answering diplomatically without being rude,and some people dont seem to have that diplomacy unfortunately....just my take on it mind..

well the flip side of that is that some people on want to hear what they want to... i.e the sugar-coated stuff, whereas other tend to be down the road of "tell it like it is" and be more honest.... and then people throw the dummies out of the pram...

some people only want to hear what they want to hear....."

yes i get where you coming from,however you also find that some believe their advise is the be all and end all,and when the op begs to differ and have their own opinion,they then throw their dummies from the pram ....so am guessing its swings and roundabouts really..

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By *oantrimcpl2010 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"

Am I the only sane one here

Am I the only one questioning your sanity

Hello I am VERY SANE, my doctor told me so

Doctor Who? "

That was his name.. do you know him as well?

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"I need advice

that thread is next door "

is this the right room for an argument?

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"I need advice

that thread is next door

is this the right room for an argument?"

no, it's the I'm not going to give you the advice you want room - the argument room might be somewhere else but we can't give you any advice on where

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By *oantrimcpl2010 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"I need advice

that thread is next door

is this the right room for an argument?"

theres no arguing in here ...move on please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of people ask advice about their personal circumstances so that they will have people confirm that what they are doing is the right thing.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why ask for help or advice, then get annoyed or upset and throw a numpty because you dont like the answers that you have been given.

I dont see the sense in this, Am I the only sane one here

Ermmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm nope "

.

+1!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck i got a big stiff hard cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why ask for help or advice, then get annoyed or upset and throw a numpty because you dont like the answers that you have been given.

I dont see the sense in this, Am I the only sane one here "

nah its like when you go in the chat room and guys ask you to look at their cam and ask if you like them

if you say no they spit their dummy out

dont ask if you dont want the truth

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