FabSwingers.com forum: Put-downs

By *oodnitegirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

So today I found myself on hot pics, and with it, triple the messages.

A few mailed with things along the lines of ‘you’ve met some really average looking guys. I’m much better looking and will therefore be more exciting/interesting’

This kind of attitude absolutely puts me off people. (Personality looks every time l) I’m not judgemental at all and meet primarily for socials so I’m happy to meet absolutely anyone situation willing.

My question is.. does the veris of someone else make an impact on your decision to meet them?

Amount? Frequency? Ethnicity? Sexuality? Typical attractiveness?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not me as I don't read them

and it really puts me off if they message and say 'check out my veri's' like they can speak for him ffs....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So today I found myself on hot pics, and with it, triple the messages.

A few mailed with things along the lines of ‘you’ve met some really average looking guys. I’m much better looking and will therefore be more exciting/interesting’

My question is.. does the veris of someone else make an impact on your decision to meet them?

Amount? Frequency? Ethnicity? Sexuality? Typical attractiveness?

Discuss. "

(*Checks pics.*)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few mailed with things along the lines of ‘you’ve met some really average looking guys. I’m much better looking and will therefore be more exciting/interesting’"

That's epic. I'm going to start saying that. I want to attract narcissistic idiots!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, I couldn't care less but if they're filthy I'll have a cheeky wank

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I only tend to read them once I've met someone if they've asked me to leave them one so mine blends in tonally - or if I haven't met them and I'm not interested but just fancy being nosey. I don't want to read veris before I choose to meet someone since it might colour my perception of them and I would rather make up my own mind. I know that people reading mine wouldn't learn anything a couple of conversations and some face pics wouldn't already tell them so I assume the same holds true in reverse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like the "you make my girlfriend look like shit" guys. So not appealing

I look at veris but unless they are really graphic it doesn't really affect if/how I speak to someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes veris often put me off.

If someone was slagging off people I'd met trying to make themselves sound better, that would really piss me off and I wouldn't meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only read them to see how good a shot iv got of closing the deal to be honest

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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago

Exeter Bristol Salisbury

I don't read them. I like to form my own opinion of people

I don't honestly see what all the fuss is about them. They all say the same thing in one way or another and you will rarely see a bad one

Actually I did have one published only profile from an arse of a woman who said I was the rudest man she had ever met. Some on here would see that as a compliment.

I got up and left her at the table because she savaged a poor waiter for topping up her wine glass without asking. I gave him £20 and said ignor her she's a tit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope - sexual attraction and maybe previous communication with them is prime focus for me. I’ll read the veris but they don’t sway my opinion

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No. The only thing that would sway me is if they had a lot of graphic verifications

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Yes, they do both make me want to meet someone and put me off sometimes, I think it's a good system and really useful, and I like my veris..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't take much notice of verification.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't read them. I like to form my own opinion of people

I don't honestly see what all the fuss is about them. They all say the same thing in one way or another and you will rarely see a bad one

Actually I did have one published only profile from an arse of a woman who said I was the rudest man she had ever met. Some on here would see that as a compliment.

I got up and left her at the table because she savaged a poor waiter for topping up her wine glass without asking. I gave him £20 and said ignor her she's a tit"

She sounds lovely.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I wouldn't let who someone has met before sway me either way - if I've engaged with someone enough to want to meet them then that's the key.

The only thing that may sway me would be if most of the veris (both left and received) were mostly of an overly graphic and/or possessive nature but then I'd usually have decided about that before getting too involved in conversation with them

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"So today I found myself on hot pics, and with it, triple the messages.

A few mailed with things along the lines of ‘you’ve met some really average looking guys. I’m much better looking and will therefore be more exciting/interesting’

My question is.. does the veris of someone else make an impact on your decision to meet them?

Amount? Frequency? Ethnicity? Sexuality? Typical attractiveness?

Discuss. "

Assuming it's someone who's contacted me, if I have even the most vague doubt about anyone's authenticity I'll have a look at their verifications and do a quick audit trail.

I only ever skim read them, not interested in what they did or what went where, I'm just looking to see if they are "real".

The actual verifications wouldn't sway my decision one way or the other.

On the flipside, if I'm looking to make contact verification's can dissuade me. Not that they have them, more the people they've met. I frequently judge myself poorly against others.

If they've met mid 20s hunks with chiseled features six packs and big cocks I don't see the point in trying.

Using Verifications to determine where I'm put off or not depends whether I'm buying or selling.

Does that make sense?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So today I found myself on hot pics, and with it, triple the messages.

A few mailed with things along the lines of ‘you’ve met some really average looking guys. I’m much better looking and will therefore be more exciting/interesting’

My question is.. does the veris of someone else make an impact on your decision to meet them?

Amount? Frequency? Ethnicity? Sexuality? Typical attractiveness?

Discuss.

Assuming it's someone who's contacted me, if I have even the most vague doubt about anyone's authenticity I'll have a look at their verifications and do a quick audit trail.

I only ever skim read them, not interested in what they did or what went where, I'm just looking to see if they are "real".

The actual verifications wouldn't sway my decision one way or the other.

On the flipside, if I'm looking to make contact verification's can dissuade me. Not that they have them, more the people they've met. I frequently judge myself poorly against others.

If they've met mid 20s hunks with chiseled features six packs and big cocks I don't see the point in trying.

Using Verifications to determine where I'm put off or not depends whether I'm buying or selling.

Does that make sense?

Yes.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"So today I found myself on hot pics, and with it, triple the messages.

A few mailed with things along the lines of ‘you’ve met some really average looking guys. I’m much better looking and will therefore be more exciting/interesting’

My question is.. does the veris of someone else make an impact on your decision to meet them?

Amount? Frequency? Ethnicity? Sexuality? Typical attractiveness?

Discuss.

Assuming it's someone who's contacted me, if I have even the most vague doubt about anyone's authenticity I'll have a look at their verifications and do a quick audit trail.

I only ever skim read them, not interested in what they did or what went where, I'm just looking to see if they are "real".

The actual verifications wouldn't sway my decision one way or the other.

On the flipside, if I'm looking to make contact verification's can dissuade me. Not that they have them, more the people they've met. I frequently judge myself poorly against others.

If they've met mid 20s hunks with chiseled features six packs and big cocks I don't see the point in trying.

Using Verifications to determine where I'm put off or not depends whether I'm buying or selling.

Does that make sense?

Yes."

I'm a tad worried that things I'm saying are making sense....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So today I found myself on hot pics, and with it, triple the messages.

A few mailed with things along the lines of ‘you’ve met some really average looking guys. I’m much better looking and will therefore be more exciting/interesting’

My question is.. does the veris of someone else make an impact on your decision to meet them?

Amount? Frequency? Ethnicity? Sexuality? Typical attractiveness?

Discuss. "

dunno,,but yer profile pic ,avatar is fabulous

love it,,proper good piccie

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Befoe I meet anyone I read their profile check the veris and take a nosey at who they have previously played with.

I'm a nosey bugger I also like to see what that person has written in return.

I suppose I want as much info as I can before deciding on a chat and a social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funnily enough had recently displayed a status because fab has shown me I'm more judgemental than I thought. have been attracted to guys and yes their veris have put me off. I would happily meet them for a social but to bump pelvis with them? Unlikely. Sometimes ignorance is bliss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So today I found myself on hot pics, and with it, triple the messages.

A few mailed with things along the lines of ‘you’ve met some really average looking guys. I’m much better looking and will therefore be more exciting/interesting’

My question is.. does the veris of someone else make an impact on your decision to meet them?

Amount? Frequency? Ethnicity? Sexuality? Typical attractiveness?

Discuss.

Assuming it's someone who's contacted me, if I have even the most vague doubt about anyone's authenticity I'll have a look at their verifications and do a quick audit trail.

I only ever skim read them, not interested in what they did or what went where, I'm just looking to see if they are "real".

The actual verifications wouldn't sway my decision one way or the other.

On the flipside, if I'm looking to make contact verification's can dissuade me. Not that they have them, more the people they've met. I frequently judge myself poorly against others.

If they've met mid 20s hunks with chiseled features six packs and big cocks I don't see the point in trying.

Using Verifications to determine where I'm put off or not depends whether I'm buying or selling.

Does that make sense?

Yes."

Whats with people bumping like 6 month old threads for one word replies latley?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So today I found myself on hot pics, and with it, triple the messages.

A few mailed with things along the lines of ‘you’ve met some really average looking guys. I’m much better looking and will therefore be more exciting/interesting’

My question is.. does the veris of someone else make an impact on your decision to meet them?

Amount? Frequency? Ethnicity? Sexuality? Typical attractiveness?

Discuss.

Assuming it's someone who's contacted me, if I have even the most vague doubt about anyone's authenticity I'll have a look at their verifications and do a quick audit trail.

I only ever skim read them, not interested in what they did or what went where, I'm just looking to see if they are "real".

The actual verifications wouldn't sway my decision one way or the other.

On the flipside, if I'm looking to make contact verification's can dissuade me. Not that they have them, more the people they've met. I frequently judge myself poorly against others.

If they've met mid 20s hunks with chiseled features six packs and big cocks I don't see the point in trying.

Using Verifications to determine where I'm put off or not depends whether I'm buying or selling.

Does that make sense?

Yes.

Whats with people bumping like 6 month old threads for one word replies latley?"

Hmmmmm

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"So today I found myself on hot pics, and with it, triple the messages.

A few mailed with things along the lines of ‘you’ve met some really average looking guys. I’m much better looking and will therefore be more exciting/interesting’

My question is.. does the veris of someone else make an impact on your decision to meet them?

Amount? Frequency? Ethnicity? Sexuality? Typical attractiveness?

Discuss.

Assuming it's someone who's contacted me, if I have even the most vague doubt about anyone's authenticity I'll have a look at their verifications and do a quick audit trail.

I only ever skim read them, not interested in what they did or what went where, I'm just looking to see if they are "real".

The actual verifications wouldn't sway my decision one way or the other.

On the flipside, if I'm looking to make contact verification's can dissuade me. Not that they have them, more the people they've met. I frequently judge myself poorly against others.

If they've met mid 20s hunks with chiseled features six packs and big cocks I don't see the point in trying.

Using Verifications to determine where I'm put off or not depends whether I'm buying or selling.

Does that make sense?

Yes.

Whats with people bumping like 6 month old threads for one word replies latley?"

Because they have a comment to input.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not in the slightest

Hope i wasnt onr of the average looking ones oh wait no i dont care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Funnily enough had recently displayed a status because fab has shown me I'm more judgemental than I thought. have been attracted to guys and yes their veris have put me off. I would happily meet them for a social but to bump pelvis with them? Unlikely. Sometimes ignorance is bliss

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