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By *oungalpha20 OP   Man
over a year ago

North West /Cumbria

Could you just randomly sleep with a person if you're not slightly attracted to them? Sick of hearing this 'any hole is a goal' merlarky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. They need the personality too. Eve just a pretty face wouldn't cut it for me

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Absolutely not. I'd never get aroused by someone I didn't fancy x

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By *bwlookingforfunWoman
over a year ago

crawley

Nope.

One reason why i cancelled long time planned meeting was the fact i didnt feel any atraction.

Guy was 10/10, but i wasnt into him as ecpected.

Even more after he asked me why am

I bothered, if im gonna get a dick after all.

Not my thing at all.

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By *apstarMan
over a year ago

Harpenden

Meaningless isn't for me anymore . I need intimacy and the connection

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By *oncupiscentTonyMan
over a year ago

Kent


"Could you just randomly sleep with a person if you're not slightly attracted to them? "

Thai ladyboys do it all the time

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By *estEndGentMan
over a year ago

London

I have done but i’ve become more discerning with age.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

No, couldn't do it

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By *J RHEAMan
over a year ago

S West

Yes, have done, however Ithink I'd only truly enjoy it again with a partner

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

I haven’t and I wouldn’t. It just wouldn’t work for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

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By *ack with a bangCouple
over a year ago

Hastings

Nope got to be an attraction including personality etc too

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By *ldhillhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Old Hill

As I generally don't talk to them and just fuck, personality isn't a issue but I don't want to gangbang with ugly people.

Most important is that they can fuck well for both our benefit.

Sx

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Put another way, do your tastes change, if and when you are deprived of something for a long period and when your needs are high?

Once you acknowledge that they do, it's only then a question of by how much they change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could you just randomly sleep with a person if you're not slightly attracted to them? Sick of hearing this 'any hole is a goal' merlarky. "

No I couldn’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could you just randomly sleep with a person if you're not slightly attracted to them? Sick of hearing this 'any hole is a goal' merlarky. "

Usually bandied about by lads who aren't getting any

I couldn't

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

It is what you make of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, the hole needs to be able to hold a five minutes conversation with my stick.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Nope, there needs to be attraction. I'm finding as I get older that physical appearance (phwoar factor) is less important than a woman's mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. I may be a swinger but that does nt I will have sex with just because I have the oppertunity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, I need a connection and want the intimacy that the connection brings

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

There is a fucking without attraction post too haha

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

No got too find them interesting and engaging.

Looks with no personality just doesn't do it for me.

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

It's bizarre to me people can shag someone They don't fancy even with a top personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope nope nope

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By *iceButtSlimMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Looking at this from a different stand point.

I don't have quite the same feelings when my partner goes off to play with someone else on their own. However hearing that's she's been going for walks in the woods holding hands etc I have more of a problem with.

It's not necessarily just sex being sex, but how it's played out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance that I could. I have to be physically attracted to a person and like their personality.

Although saying that, if I was in a club and totally in the zone, and in the right scenario, I could get carried away and fuck someone without knowing anything about their personality whatsoever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could you just randomly sleep with a person if you're not slightly attracted to them? Sick of hearing this 'any hole is a goal' merlarky. "

I have done in the past but instantly regreted it after but would i do it again i couldnt give an honest answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My brother and I talked openly one day and he said something I agree with.

The way he looks at it is, there are two types of people... one type he could only sleep with and the other, go into a real loving serious relationship with.

I've had some meets and spoken to alot of people on this site and other dating sites. Spoken to some real annoying people. Arrogant, argumentative and selfish types.

Which made me look at those situations the same way by brother did.

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