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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not having much luck on here, I'm I really that unattractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whining is unattractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many guys feel exactly the same, have you been to any socials?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Usually when people bemoan their "luck" on here OP it's down to something they themselves can fix - could be anything from having unrealistic expectations of the site and not accepting/realising that as a single guy you're in the vast majority and need to make yourself stand out from the crowd, to a very generic and unappealing profile and pics, to approaching things the wrong way or simply not making an effort with messages or getting along to clubs and socials or even using the forums more.

Now I'm not saying any of those apply to you necessarily but it may provide some pointers as to things in your control that you can change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not having much luck on here, I'm I really that unattractive."

Not really my type. Sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know whinning is very unattractive lol, I had a social just before Christmas but then the person left the site for couple of months couple of weeks after, then rejoined. I didn't know that if someone verifies you then leaves the site then that verification leaves your profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No need for sorry , it's a honest answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know whinning is very unattractive lol, I had a social just before Christmas but then the person left the site for couple of months couple of weeks after, then rejoined. I didn't know that if someone verifies you then leaves the site then that verification leaves your profile."

Literally there are loads of threads like this on a daily basis from guys, do a forum search

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look expensive to feed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Understood @Gemini man

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Expensive to feed lol haven't heard that one before. What's the meaning behind it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give it couple more months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Photos are OK, some you look moody as fuck in. They're pretty much all clothed so not much idea what your bod looks like.

Write up is short and pretty dull, with nothing that makes you stand out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Expensive to feed lol haven't heard that one before. What's the meaning behind it "

Think it refers to your first picture on your profile with plates of food?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Expensive to feed lol haven't heard that one before. What's the meaning behind it

Think it refers to your first picture on your profile with plates of food? "

A man has to eat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

November 30th is your best pic but even with that I'd crop it to get rid of the mirror frame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know whinning is very unattractive lol, I had a social just before Christmas but then the person left the site for couple of months couple of weeks after, then rejoined. I didn't know that if someone verifies you then leaves the site then that verification leaves your profile."

They can't have verified you or you'd still have the green tick? The verification goes but the fact you were verified would still show.

Like Gemini man said the site is what you make it, you need more than luck around here especially as a single guy. A big part of swinging is the social side so getting yourself known is important, use the forums and chat and join in. Socials and clubs will get you out and about meeting people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not having much luck on here, I'm I really that unattractive."

You have no cock pics!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know whinning is very unattractive lol, I had a social just before Christmas but then the person left the site for couple of months couple of weeks after, then rejoined. I didn't know that if someone verifies you then leaves the site then that verification leaves your profile.

Literally there are loads of threads like this on a daily basis from guys, do a forum search "

What thread title should men search for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Expensive to feed lol haven't heard that one before. What's the meaning behind it

Think it refers to your first picture on your profile with plates of food? "

thats the one

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I know whinning is very unattractive lol, I had a social just before Christmas but then the person left the site for couple of months couple of weeks after, then rejoined. I didn't know that if someone verifies you then leaves the site then that verification leaves your profile."

The verification text disappears but the green tick and the fact you've been verified still appears in your verification summary - as neither appear in your profile I'm presuming they didn't verify you before leaving?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know whinning is very unattractive lol, I had a social just before Christmas but then the person left the site for couple of months couple of weeks after, then rejoined. I didn't know that if someone verifies you then leaves the site then that verification leaves your profile.

Literally there are loads of threads like this on a daily basis from guys, do a forum search

What thread title should men search for?"

Good question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bin the status. We wouldn’t give anyone with that a second chance.

Don’t talk about being shy. Sell yourself.

Spell check. You’re East going ?

None of these are silver bullets. But given the number of guys on here you really don’t want to give anyone a reason for saying pass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know whinning is very unattractive lol, I had a social just before Christmas but then the person left the site for couple of months couple of weeks after, then rejoined. I didn't know that if someone verifies you then leaves the site then that verification leaves your profile.

Literally there are loads of threads like this on a daily basis from guys, do a forum search

What thread title should men search for?"

Well just typing ‘no luck’ produced 35 threads much the same as this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bin the status. We wouldn’t give anyone with that a second chance.

Don’t talk about being shy. Sell yourself.

Spell check. You’re East going ?

None of these are silver bullets. But given the number of guys on here you really don’t want to give anyone a reason for saying pass. "

He needs cock pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not having much luck on here, I'm I really that unattractive."

You look like Chris Pratt. He's hot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know whinning is very unattractive lol, I had a social just before Christmas but then the person left the site for couple of months couple of weeks after, then rejoined. I didn't know that if someone verifies you then leaves the site then that verification leaves your profile.

Literally there are loads of threads like this on a daily basis from guys, do a forum search

What thread title should men search for?

Well just typing ‘no luck’ produced 35 threads much the same as this "

Meh you're better at searching than I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come on dude, even your whiney status update has a spelling mistake in it

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By *apstarMan
over a year ago

Harpenden

Min smelling iz also crap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Min smelling iz also crap"

It may be. But this thread isn't about you, and you also take on board people's suggestions and actually act on them.

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By *apstarMan
over a year ago

Harpenden

This is true...

My best advice op would be don't ignore people's advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is true...

My best advice op would be don't ignore people's advice"

Ah look, you're spelling improved in just one post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op you have set yourself to fail.

Usually people with number 09 in their profile name really struggle on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe your lack of look on here will give you karma at the bookies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You asked the same thing months ago and got some great advice - did you consider taking any of it onboard?

You mentioned that you were thinking of going to Chams - did you manage that?

These snippets of sense still stand.

Go out. Meet people (clubs and organised group socials). Talking in the real world is way easier than in the virtual one.

The world, as they say is yours to grab should you choose to.

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By *apstarMan
over a year ago

Harpenden

That's because I checked my spelling before I sent the message. Hope you are ok beautiful and you have a lovely weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Negativity begets negativity....

It's a self fulfilling circle.

Most who post here will tell you what they repeat daily on multiple similar threads.

There in no magic formula. You can only be you. If you want things to change then start with changing you.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Not having much luck on here, I'm I really that unattractive."

Your first photo made me think “what a silly billy soldier - he forgot to put his army clothes on’

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