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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do gay men cause more drama than straight men? I could be wrong but this is something I’ve noticed.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Can't say I've noticed a distinction between them - those that will cause drama will cause drama no matter their sexuality

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By *alking HeadMan
over a year ago

Bolton

"Do gay men cause more drama than straight men? I could be wrong but this is something I’ve noticed.

Just a different sort of drama. Crying into their Creme de Menthe because they cant find curtains to match their new rug, whilst the others cry into their beer when their team loses. But that can apply for both sexualities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The camp ones over-exaggerate more I would say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The op question is a major example of stereotyping.

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By *he Knight is YoungMan
over a year ago

22 Acacia Ave, Preston-for now

I feel that I get stalked more by gay men than Bi men as with Bi men will take it or leave it but some gay men are more clingy or if its a subtle no, I seem to either get blocked or a mini domestic is going on in my inbox.

I tend to stay on the m/f Bi side of playing or just mmmmm lol

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Depends what you mean by drama really.

At uni, I developed a habit of going to gay nightclubs for the simple reason that I never ever saw a fight in one (except for a few dykes). Whereas about ~20% of the people that go to straight clubs on a Friday or Saturday are knuckle draggers that seem to go for the express purpose of getting in a fight.

Gay men are more promiscious, on average, so they tend to have more relationship drama to deal with.

That said, once the constitution of a social group becomes more than 50% female, then you can guarantee that they will start hen pecking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do gay men cause more drama than straight men? I could be wrong but this is something I’ve noticed.

Yes, it’s been proven in controlled scientific experiments.

I think you’ve been watching way to much of Louis Spence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The camp ones over-exaggerate more I would say"

Another generalisation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont know any gay people to compare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The camp ones over-exaggerate more I would say

Another generalisation."

Meh

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"I feel that I get stalked more by gay men than Bi men as with Bi men will take it or leave it but some gay men are more clingy or if its a subtle no, I seem to either get blocked or a mini domestic is going on in my inbox.

I tend to stay on the m/f Bi side of playing or just mmmmm lol

How does anyone get stalked on here? If someone sends you one arsey message, you block them don't you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do gay men cause more drama than straight men? I could be wrong but this is something I’ve noticed.

In what sense OP?

In my experience every person brings their own sense of drama just in different ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The op question is a major example of stereotyping. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The camp ones over-exaggerate more I would say

Another generalisation.

Meh

Good retort, I bow down before your eloquence.

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

"Do gay men cause more drama than straight men? I could be wrong but this is something I’ve noticed.

Classic stereotyping. Are you Alan Sugar in disguise?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The camp ones over-exaggerate more I would say

Another generalisation.

Meh

Good retort, I bow down before your eloquence. "

If you disagree with what I said then that's fine, but at least provide something that suggests I'm wrong and I'll happily chat about it, or don't say anything at all.

But if you're just going accuse me of generalisation then I'm not really interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do gay men cause more drama than straight men? I could be wrong but this is something I’ve noticed.

Classic stereotyping. Are you Alan Sugar in disguise?"

No, Alan Sugar has more charm.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"The camp ones over-exaggerate more I would say

Another generalisation.

Meh

Good retort, I bow down before your eloquence.

If you disagree with what I said then that's fine, but at least provide something that suggests I'm wrong and I'll happily chat about it, or don't say anything at all.

But if you're just going accuse me of generalisation then I'm not really interested "

I think the general argument is that generalisations based on personal experience are, per se, unreliable.

I mean about 95% of the people I know have English as a first language. I can't conclude from that that most people have English as a first language.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The camp ones over-exaggerate more I would say

Another generalisation.

Meh

Good retort, I bow down before your eloquence.

If you disagree with what I said then that's fine, but at least provide something that suggests I'm wrong and I'll happily chat about it, or don't say anything at all.

But if you're just going accuse me of generalisation then I'm not really interested

I think the general argument is that generalisations based on personal experience are, per se, unreliable.

I mean about 95% of the people I know have English as a first language. I can't conclude from that that most people have English as a first language. "

I understand where you're coming from.

I was only voicing my opinion and not claiming it as a fact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Frankly the whole thread is a huge generalisation, many straight people bring their own drama in their own way. Irrespective of sexuality, creed or gender people react to things differently

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"The camp ones over-exaggerate more I would say

Another generalisation.

Meh

Good retort, I bow down before your eloquence.

If you disagree with what I said then that's fine, but at least provide something that suggests I'm wrong and I'll happily chat about it, or don't say anything at all.

But if you're just going accuse me of generalisation then I'm not really interested "

He just wants to cause drama. Winky face.

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By *oncupiscentTonyMan
over a year ago

Kent

"Dont know any gay people to compare"

You do, you just don't know you do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The camp ones over-exaggerate more I would say

Another generalisation.

Meh

Good retort, I bow down before your eloquence.

If you disagree with what I said then that's fine, but at least provide something that suggests I'm wrong and I'll happily chat about it, or don't say anything at all.

But if you're just going accuse me of generalisation then I'm not really interested

He just wants to cause drama. Winky face."

Did you really type 'winky face' rather than just the emoji?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dont know any gay people to compare

You do, you just don't know you do."

Cause you know him better than he knows himself ?

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"The camp ones over-exaggerate more I would say

Another generalisation.

Meh

Good retort, I bow down before your eloquence.

If you disagree with what I said then that's fine, but at least provide something that suggests I'm wrong and I'll happily chat about it, or don't say anything at all.

But if you're just going accuse me of generalisation then I'm not really interested

I think the general argument is that generalisations based on personal experience are, per se, unreliable.

I mean about 95% of the people I know have English as a first language. I can't conclude from that that most people have English as a first language.

I understand where you're coming from.

I was only voicing my opinion and not claiming it as a fact"

I can't really see that distinction. If you say "the camp ones over exaggerate" you are making a factual statement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The camp ones over-exaggerate more I would say

Another generalisation.

Meh

Good retort, I bow down before your eloquence.

If you disagree with what I said then that's fine, but at least provide something that suggests I'm wrong and I'll happily chat about it, or don't say anything at all.

But if you're just going accuse me of generalisation then I'm not really interested

I think the general argument is that generalisations based on personal experience are, per se, unreliable.

I mean about 95% of the people I know have English as a first language. I can't conclude from that that most people have English as a first language.

I understand where you're coming from.

I was only voicing my opinion and not claiming it as a fact

I can't really see that distinction. If you say "the camp ones over exaggerate" you are making a factual statement. "

Well, when you are only reading half of what I put then yea I see where you're coming from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The camp ones over-exaggerate more I would say

Another generalisation.

Meh

Good retort, I bow down before your eloquence.

If you disagree with what I said then that's fine, but at least provide something that suggests I'm wrong and I'll happily chat about it, or don't say anything at all.

But if you're just going accuse me of generalisation then I'm not really interested "

I’m ambivalent to you not being interested.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"The camp ones over-exaggerate more I would say

Another generalisation.

Meh

Good retort, I bow down before your eloquence.

If you disagree with what I said then that's fine, but at least provide something that suggests I'm wrong and I'll happily chat about it, or don't say anything at all.

But if you're just going accuse me of generalisation then I'm not really interested

He just wants to cause drama. Winky face.

Did you really type 'winky face' rather than just the emoji?

Yes emojis are dead to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The camp ones over-exaggerate more I would say

Another generalisation.

Meh

Good retort, I bow down before your eloquence.

If you disagree with what I said then that's fine, but at least provide something that suggests I'm wrong and I'll happily chat about it, or don't say anything at all.

But if you're just going accuse me of generalisation then I'm not really interested

He just wants to cause drama. Winky face."

See what you done there.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Oh.....shit, I thought this was a thread about Sir Ian McKellen

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"The camp ones over-exaggerate more I would say

Another generalisation.

Meh

Good retort, I bow down before your eloquence.

If you disagree with what I said then that's fine, but at least provide something that suggests I'm wrong and I'll happily chat about it, or don't say anything at all.

But if you're just going accuse me of generalisation then I'm not really interested

I think the general argument is that generalisations based on personal experience are, per se, unreliable.

I mean about 95% of the people I know have English as a first language. I can't conclude from that that most people have English as a first language.

I understand where you're coming from.

I was only voicing my opinion and not claiming it as a fact

I can't really see that distinction. If you say "the camp ones over exaggerate" you are making a factual statement.

Well, when you are only reading half of what I put then yea I see where you're coming from"

The phrase "I would say" adds nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The camp ones over-exaggerate more I would say

Another generalisation.

Meh

Good retort, I bow down before your eloquence.

If you disagree with what I said then that's fine, but at least provide something that suggests I'm wrong and I'll happily chat about it, or don't say anything at all.

But if you're just going accuse me of generalisation then I'm not really interested

I think the general argument is that generalisations based on personal experience are, per se, unreliable.

I mean about 95% of the people I know have English as a first language. I can't conclude from that that most people have English as a first language.

I understand where you're coming from.

I was only voicing my opinion and not claiming it as a fact

I can't really see that distinction. If you say "the camp ones over exaggerate" you are making a factual statement.

Well, when you are only reading half of what I put then yea I see where you're coming from

The phrase "I would say" adds nothing. "

It means "In my opinion" so it kind of does

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Plenty of Straight drama Queens here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not on this thread....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do gay men cause more drama than straight men? I could be wrong but this is something I’ve noticed.

Fact. End of. Rant over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do gay men cause more drama than straight men? I could be wrong but this is something I’ve noticed.

Did I miss the memo for sweeping statements and generalisation day?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do gay men cause more drama than straight men? I could be wrong but this is something I’ve noticed.

Did I miss the memo for sweeping statements and generalisation day?

We sent yours by carrier pigeon, he should be at yours by Tuesday, he had to make a detour to deliver a memo on a dairy farmer thread, to a bloke in Somerset.

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By *sylockeWoman
over a year ago

East Anglia

Is today Let's be bigoted Friday' ??

I think OP is just trying to say something ignorant and watch people implode.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

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"Do gay men cause more drama than straight men? I could be wrong but this is something I’ve noticed.

I know straight and bi men who are total drama queens - it's just men you know!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like a guy once said to me, that in a 'lesbians relationship' one of them must play the 'guy role'..

Some people just have their stereotypical views, that's all..

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

My guess would be that different groups all have similar levels of drama (or anything else), but that some are read as acceptable while others are dismissed as a thing (different group) do. Like women and gossip or bitchiness/assertiveness.

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By *sylockeWoman
over a year ago

East Anglia

"It's like a guy once said to me, that in a 'lesbians relationship' one of them must play the 'guy role'..

Some people just have their stereotypical views, that's all.."

More like small minded and heterosexist

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"It's like a guy once said to me, that in a 'lesbians relationship' one of them must play the 'guy role'..

Some people just have their stereotypical views, that's all..

More like small minded and heterosexist"

Come everyone knows that Gay men dress well, like musical theatre and are good with interior design...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's like a guy once said to me, that in a 'lesbians relationship' one of them must play the 'guy role'..

Some people just have their stereotypical views, that's all..

More like small minded and heterosexist

Come everyone knows that Gay men dress well, like musical theatre and are good with interior design... "

oh my god.....am i gay?

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"It's like a guy once said to me, that in a 'lesbians relationship' one of them must play the 'guy role'..

Some people just have their stereotypical views, that's all..

More like small minded and heterosexist

Come everyone knows that Gay men dress well, like musical theatre and are good with interior design...

oh my god.....am i gay?

Wanna find out

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"It's like a guy once said to me, that in a 'lesbians relationship' one of them must play the 'guy role'..

Some people just have their stereotypical views, that's all..

More like small minded and heterosexist

Come everyone knows that Gay men dress well, like musical theatre and are good with interior design...

oh my god.....am i gay?

Wanna find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's like a guy once said to me, that in a 'lesbians relationship' one of them must play the 'guy role'..

Some people just have their stereotypical views, that's all..

More like small minded and heterosexist

Come everyone knows that Gay men dress well, like musical theatre and are good with interior design...

oh my god.....am i gay?

Wanna find out

I don't know which half wrote this....but sure, I'm in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is today Let's be bigoted Friday' ??

I think OP is just trying to say something ignorant and watch people implode.

How is it? He isn't saying the entire gay male population, just those he's noticed.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

No.

But if we're generalising here, my gay and queer friends are certainly more fun than their heterosexual counterparts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all no. Sexuality has nothing to do with it. All sorts of people from all different walks of life can be drama llamas.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Gay men make the best drivers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gay men make the best drivers."

I fancy a gay bus driver! He mocks me for it

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

"Is today Let's be bigoted Friday' ??

I think OP is just trying to say something ignorant and watch people implode.

How is it? He isn't saying the entire gay male population, just those he's noticed. "

Lololol

Noticed what?

That big “I am gay” tattoo on the forehead?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Is today Let's be bigoted Friday' ??

I think OP is just trying to say something ignorant and watch people implode.

How is it? He isn't saying the entire gay male population, just those he's noticed.

Lololol

Noticed what?

That big “I am gay” tattoo on the forehead?

Maybe he has gaydar..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work part time in a pub. And I can tell you now, its straight men that cause more drama. Feels like an old ladies meeting up there sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do gay men cause more drama than straight men? I could be wrong but this is something I’ve noticed.

I know straight and bi men who are total drama queens - it's just men you know!!!

Oi leave it woman!!

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

I am a straight man that prefers drinking in gay bars to regular ones purely because there’s less trouble. So in a word, no. They don’t

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

Male , Female , Gay , Straight , Bi , TV /TS apologise to any one I have missed drama can be created by anyone of the above depends on the individual not the so called label.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is today Let's be bigoted Friday' ??

I think OP is just trying to say something ignorant and watch people implode.

How is it? He isn't saying the entire gay male population, just those he's noticed.

Lololol

Noticed what?

That big “I am gay” tattoo on the forehead?

Yes because that's the only way anyone ever knows if someone is gay.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do gay men cause more drama than straight men? I could be wrong but this is something I’ve noticed.

In what sense OP?

In my experience every person brings their own sense of drama just in different ways"

In Relationship drama sense

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do gay men cause more drama than straight men? I could be wrong but this is something I’ve noticed.

Classic stereotyping. Are you Alan Sugar in disguise?"

Call me Lord Sugar, lady

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Frankly the whole thread is a huge generalisation, many straight people bring their own drama in their own way. Irrespective of sexuality, creed or gender people react to things differently"

Let me help you with your generalisation, Gay men cause more drama in their relationships

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do gay men cause more drama than straight men? I could be wrong but this is something I’ve noticed.

In what sense OP?

In my experience every person brings their own sense of drama just in different ways

In Relationship drama sense

How would you know? Maybe the gay people you know are just more open about their relationship drama. So much goes on behind closed doors. There’s drama to be had no matter your sex or sexual orientation

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"I am a straight man that prefers drinking in gay bars to regular ones purely because there’s less trouble. So in a word, no. They don’t "

Bingo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do gay men cause more drama than straight men? I could be wrong but this is something I’ve noticed.

Just men in general Nanaman. Just in different dramatic tones

Peach x

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Do gay men cause more drama than straight men? I could be wrong but this is something I’ve noticed.

Is this your way of coming out to us?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

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"Do gay men cause more drama than straight men? I could be wrong but this is something I’ve noticed.

I know straight and bi men who are total drama queens - it's just men you know!!!

Oi leave it woman!!"

I'm a lady I'll have you know!

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