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By *good-being-bad OP   Man
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

Not?

If you're working in a person's house or business and that person made themselves a brew and didn't offer you a cuppa...

Rude ..inconsiderate..or acceptable ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its their house and you're there to work, their choice and not rude, they're not obliged to offer refreshments. I would always offer myself but then I'm Irish!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So by the same logic

If he went for a wank would u be happy for him to offer you a go?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rude.

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Power move

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rude !

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I think it's really rude, I always offer tea coffee and biscuits, been known to make a bacon or sausage roll for them if its a big job too.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"Not?

If you're working in a person's house or business and that person made themselves a brew and didn't offer you a cuppa...

Rude ..inconsiderate..or acceptable ?

"

Not rude; a brew offered at the start and one at lunch, the rest you can provide yourself or buy from your customer - you're charging for services, why can't they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Power move"

Could be true also, but then nobody can make you feel inferior without your consent

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

Waveney Valley

Depends - you're working, they're not!

I usually offer a brew, but don't expect one when I go to other people's houses for work, though sometimes they are offered.

For the record, I'm not a tradesman or woman for that matter...where different rules seem to apply.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

It's a bit rude isn't it.

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By *ob198XaMan
over a year ago

teleford

I heard of one businessman who invested in a fancy pants coffee maker. When salesmen or buyers arrived ones that in the past tried to screw him on price, he would make one of his really good coffee's. He would then offer a coffee to his eager visitor before pulling out a cheap jar of instant to make theirs...

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

Anyone comes to my house, first question, I'm putting the kettle on, fancy a cuppa?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone comes to my house, first question, I'm putting the kettle on nect to a box of condoms XL, fancy a cuppa?"

So thoughtful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's really rude, I always offer tea coffee and biscuits, been known to make a bacon or sausage roll for them if its a big job too. "

Remind me to come mow your lawn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s common curtesy, I’d offer a brew or coffee. Or if I’m feeling nice at the end of the day a beer.

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By *ocbigMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I usually let them get started first, job underway...coffee or tea?

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By *0tt0nSu3Woman
over a year ago

London

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By *0tt0nSu3Woman
over a year ago

London

I see it as an extremely rude thing to do, OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you stop for lunch, do you offer to buy your customer lunch too?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Acceptable. You're there to do a job and refreshments shouldn't be expected. No one gets me a drink when I'm at work!!

I will say though if I've got someone at mine doing a job I'll offer them a drink. It's the nice thing to do

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By *good-being-bad OP   Man
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"Depends - you're working, they're not!

I usually offer a brew, but don't expect one when I go to other people's houses for work, though sometimes they are offered.

For the record, I'm not a tradesman or woman for that matter...where different rules seem to apply. "

I don't expect a brew, if one is offered I more often than not accept, it's those little considerations that often when asked can you just have a look or while you're here ...I often do as a thank you rather than charge for

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By *eep.Man
over a year ago

Just a background character


"I think it's really rude, I always offer tea coffee and biscuits, been known to make a bacon or sausage roll for them if its a big job too. "

Need any odd jobs done?

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Tradesmen quite offen accept my brews and cake and then have a brew and food of their own later on (whilst still on the job); none of them have ever offered me a drink or some of their food - so rude!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tradesmen quite offen accept my brews and cake and then have a brew and food of their own later on (whilst still on the job); none of them have ever offered me a drink or some of their food - so rude!"

Double standards!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone comes to my house, first question, I'm putting the kettle on, fancy a cuppa?"

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its their house and you're there to work, their choice and not rude, they're not obliged to offer refreshments. I would always offer myself but then I'm Irish!"

I’m a builder and work in people’s houses all the time. Very rarely you won’t get offered a brew, I just think it’s a bit weird. But I’ve had customers come out talking to you with a mug in there hand and still not offer you a cup of tea.

If anyone comes to my house it’s just a natural reflex to put the kettle on!

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

First thing I learned was to offer tradesmen a cuppa.

They do a better job.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Inconsiderate. When we've had tradesmen in, I'm making teas pretty much every hour with biscuits, and normally provide a breakfast sandwich as well.

But I'm ex trade myself so feel a need to keep the workers happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Inconsiderate. When we've had tradesmen in, I'm making teas pretty much every hour with biscuits, and normally provide a breakfast sandwich as well.

But I'm ex trade myself so feel a need to keep the workers happy "

You know then that if you keep us supplied in tea and biscuits we will do a better job!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Inconsiderate. When we've had tradesmen in, I'm making teas pretty much every hour with biscuits, and normally provide a breakfast sandwich as well.

But I'm ex trade myself so feel a need to keep the workers happy

You know then that if you keep us supplied in tea and biscuits we will do a better job!"

As long as they're the good biscuits and not the cheap ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

If anyone comes to my house it’s just a natural reflex to put the kettle on! "

But that just encourages them to stay!!

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