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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sorry I have no other place to get this off my chest so I’m just going to have a mini rant here, feel free to ignore it!

It’s my middle sons last day at school today, I asked my ex husband if he could make sure he got up with him to take ‘the photo’ outside and he assured me he would, he didn’t. My youngest son did it for him, I’m happy I got the photo (inside and looking like a moody teen) of course I am but I am disappointed that my lazy bastard ex husband couldn’t do the one thing I asked of him!

I wouldn’t mind but I had a choice of being there today or not, it was our youngest child’s birthday on Wednesday so we went to see him of course on his birthday but couldn’t do both (car had an issue at the moment) so I asked him to make sure he got up and he promised me he would.

The boys are happy ish with him but him not doing one simple thing and the pub was more important than full filling my request (we get on well generally, we even all sat down for my other sons birthday for a meal the other day with his gf too!).

Like I say pass this by but just wanted a rant.

Geeky x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will you see your son this weekend? Your youngest son sounds a cool guy. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Will you see your son this weekend? Your youngest son sounds a cool guy. x"

No it’s ads kids this weekend, I saw him weds and he will be with us for a while over the summer.

Geeky x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

The slight satisfaction is that you were right to make him an ex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking on the bright side thank god for your youngest son

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

The ex thing and kids is hard just finding that out for myself. Only been living apart for a month and working things out between both is difficult just getting a text reply takes me hours if not days.

Sounds like your youngest is a good kid. Good on him for helping you out.

Take care

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know my youngest would have been having kittens that his dad wasn’t up, I so thankful we got him a phone for his birthday!

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Your ex appears to be doing quite a bit for your son on a daily basis, I'm sure you can forgive him this one thing? Last day of school picture.... not a big issue, if he fails to be at your son's wedding, graduation, grandchild's christening then that's rant worthy.

You point seems to be more about you asking him to do something and him not doing it; maybe, like me, he just didn't see that it was that important but, at least he did make sure you got a picture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You lost the right to tell your ex to do something the moment you made him an ex.

You have the pic. That’s the main thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He never took the photo but it got taken. Don't lose your temper over something so trivial. Guys don't generally see things like that as important so don't take it personal. Just be happy with the things that he does do right. It might not be much but it's 100 times more than some guys do x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's never easy dealing with the ex and the kids, there will always be things that are done or not done that can push you over the edge a little

I can see why your upset as photos are important when you are not around for a special day

Try not to let it wind you up, easier said than done

At least your youngest had the sense to get a pic x

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

What a dick head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You lost the right to tell your ex to do something the moment you made him an ex.

You have the pic. That’s the main thing."

This

By all means ask, but you cant EXPECT him to follow your orders, reading between the lines thats what it sounds like, your pissed because you have no control over him. With regards to your youngest 'having kittens' if he wasnt up, i find that strange that a child would be so on edge about something, unless he had a worry that all hell would break loose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your ex appears to be doing quite a bit for your son on a daily basis, I'm sure you can forgive him this one thing? Last day of school picture.... not a big issue, if he fails to be at your son's wedding, graduation, grandchild's christening then that's rant worthy.

You point seems to be more about you asking him to do something and him not doing it; maybe, like me, he just didn't see that it was that important but, at least he did make sure you got a picture."

It is a big issue to some parents. It wasn't much to ask was it. Get up, take a photo, go back to bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You lost the right to tell your ex to do something the moment you made him an ex.

You have the pic. That’s the main thing.

This

By all means ask, but you cant EXPECT him to follow your orders, reading between the lines thats what it sounds like, your pissed because you have no control over him. With regards to your youngest 'having kittens' if he wasnt up, i find that strange that a child would be so on edge about something, unless he had a worry that all hell would break loose. "

Asking someone to do something isn't an order. If I ask my ex to do something he knows it's important and does he. I do the same for him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi. This wasn’t about the fact I didn’t or didn’t get the picture, it was done, regardless of who took it.

It was the fact that I had asked (for the record we have a very good relationship as exes, we go out socially etc) and my ex husband knows how important this kind of thing is to me.

And answer to one post, my kids are with my ex because 2 of them are autistic and was best to keep them to a routine, with their friends, school etc and up until around 6 months ago my ex was a mostly caring father, he is rarely there for them despite not working, my boys normally cook their own dinners every night, they do all the washing and tidying up, while he swans about at the pub (this isn’t me going over the top, even on our sons birthday evening he cooked dinner and went to the pub after the meal, leaving us and his gf at home, which was lovely for my son but would have been nicer if he waited until he was in bed) and I can hear you all saying about me getting custody of them (I haven’t mentioned a large part that is worrying for rules on fab), I am at present putting together evidence to gain custody of my youngest son at least as the other 2 are very close to or are over 16. This is just point proven to me today that he couldn’t get up to do something that was important to me and he knows this.

Like I said I got this picture so I am happy in that respect.

Geeky x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You lost the right to tell your ex to do something the moment you made him an ex.

You have the pic. That’s the main thing.

This

By all means ask, but you cant EXPECT him to follow your orders, reading between the lines thats what it sounds like, your pissed because you have no control over him. With regards to your youngest 'having kittens' if he wasnt up, i find that strange that a child would be so on edge about something, unless he had a worry that all hell would break loose. "

My youngest is autistic and he is aware that his dad was meant to get up, hence the having kittens part.

Geeky x

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By *oungcouple1993xCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"You lost the right to tell your ex to do something the moment you made him an ex.

You have the pic. That’s the main thing."

Sure you can't make someone do anything despite your relationship status with them. I don't think the pic is the "main thing". The main thing is he should have been there for his kid and he wasn't. OP is more than entitled to rant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ex’s can be arseholes can’t they. I have my kids on every single one of my days off which equates to about 3 days a week, I get no free time at all yet I still get told I have the life of Riley. I’m quite lucky tho, she’s never once used the kids against me, she always tells me that I’m the best dad she could have chosen for her kids so it’s not all bad. She is an arsehole at times tho.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"You lost the right to tell your ex to do something the moment you made him an ex.

You have the pic. That’s the main thing.

This

By all means ask, but you cant EXPECT him to follow your orders, reading between the lines thats what it sounds like, your pissed because you have no control over him. With regards to your youngest 'having kittens' if he wasnt up, i find that strange that a child would be so on edge about something, unless he had a worry that all hell would break loose. "

That’s how I read it. No parent should make their children feel anxiety like that. They won’t thank you in the long run.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You lost the right to tell your ex to do something the moment you made him an ex.

You have the pic. That’s the main thing.

Sure you can't make someone do anything despite your relationship status with them. I don't think the pic is the "main thing". The main thing is he should have been there for his kid and he wasn't. OP is more than entitled to rant.

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Did i say she wasn’t?

She asked for views, i gave mine.

Wind your rolling eyes neck in

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You lost the right to tell your ex to do something the moment you made him an ex.

You have the pic. That’s the main thing.

Sure you can't make someone do anything despite your relationship status with them. I don't think the pic is the "main thing". The main thing is he should have been there for his kid and he wasn't. OP is more than entitled to rant.

Did i say she wasn’t?

She asked for views, i gave mine.

Wind your rolling eyes neck in "

I didn’t ask, just wanted to vent but comments are most welcome x

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

"Hi. This wasn’t about the fact I didn’t or didn’t get the picture, it was done, regardless of who took it.

It was the fact that I had asked (for the record we have a very good relationship as exes, we go out socially etc) and my ex husband knows how important this kind of thing is to me.

"

People that I have a good relationship with don't call me a fucking dick head and lazy on a public forum - he sounds like a good guy and probably deserves more respect.

Now I have the context of your son's being autistic I can see how one of them finishing school is a big deal; I can also imagine how challenging at times it can be to be looking after them each day and how tiring it could be - maybe you ex slept in for a reason? There's always more to these issues than what is presented on there's threads.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Oh weve not had a thread complaining about exs for about three days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'm not agreeing or disagreeing.

but im thinking your ex didnt go out of his way to wind you up, ignore you , or upset you .

im sure he had his reason or reason.

tired

late night

to much on his plate

running late

doing packed lunch

ironing clothes

feeling poorly or run down

could be a million reasons why he wasnt able to take the all important pic

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"You lost the right to tell your ex to do something the moment you made him an ex.

You have the pic. That’s the main thing.

This

By all means ask, but you cant EXPECT him to follow your orders, reading between the lines thats what it sounds like, your pissed because you have no control over him. With regards to your youngest 'having kittens' if he wasnt up, i find that strange that a child would be so on edge about something, unless he had a worry that all hell would break loose.

My youngest is autistic and he is aware that his dad was meant to get up, hence the having kittens part.

Geeky x"
why put an autistic child in that position?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

You know what some men are like he probably just didn't think it was that important. Did he give you a reason why he didn't do it?

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By *urlesque!Woman
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Hi. This wasn’t about the fact I didn’t or didn’t get the picture, it was done, regardless of who took it.

It was the fact that I had asked (for the record we have a very good relationship as exes, we go out socially etc) and my ex husband knows how important this kind of thing is to me.

People that I have a good relationship with don't call me a fucking dick head and lazy on a public forum - he sounds like a good guy and probably deserves more respect.

Now I have the context of your son's being autistic I can see how one of them finishing school is a big deal; I can also imagine how challenging at times it can be to be looking after them each day and how tiring it could be - maybe you ex slept in for a reason? There's always more to these issues than what is presented on there's threads."

What a balanced stance! I can empathise with the OP's frustration to a degree, and now the context is one of autism, there is indeed a different slant to the situation. It is good to see such balanced posts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry I have no other place to get this off my chest so I’m just going to have a mini rant here, feel free to ignore it!

It’s my middle sons last day at school today, I asked my ex husband if he could make sure he got up with him to take ‘the photo’ outside and he assured me he would, he didn’t. My youngest son did it for him, I’m happy I got the photo (inside and looking like a moody teen) of course I am but I am disappointed that my lazy bastard ex husband couldn’t do the one thing I asked of him!

I wouldn’t mind but I had a choice of being there today or not, it was our youngest child’s birthday on Wednesday so we went to see him of course on his birthday but couldn’t do both (car had an issue at the moment) so I asked him to make sure he got up and he promised me he would.

The boys are happy ish with him but him not doing one simple thing and the pub was more important than full filling my request (we get on well generally, we even all sat down for my other sons birthday for a meal the other day with his gf too!).

Like I say pass this by but just wanted a rant.

Geeky x"

I have an ex who is a complete waste of time.

But focus on the positives and your children now.

Make memories with them and have fun..because they grow up so quickly.

They will also realise who spends time with them and who doesn't.

Enjoy your summer holidays. Xx

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

Did you ever hear the saying it's a man world but women rule it . This I agree with..

Men are damned if they do and damned if they dont in some cases.. ppl are so quick to judge the daddys and side with the mammys. There's 2 sides to every story and it's not always the daddy's fault..

Ranting on fab is hardly the right thing to do after all it's just your version and he can't defend his... it exasperates me how easy it's believed the men are at fault always.. not all women smell of roses..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did you ever hear the saying it's a man world but women rule it . This I agree with..

Men are damned if they do and damned if they dont in some cases.. ppl are so quick to judge the daddys and side with the mammys. There's 2 sides to every story and it's not always the daddy's fault..

Ranting on fab is hardly the right thing to do after all it's just your version and he can't defend his... it exasperates me how easy it's believed the men are at fault always.. not all women smell of roses.. "

^^ top answer so far ^^

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

Why did op feel she needed to rant on here about it surely it would of been better to contact her ex and tell him directly to his face can’t see what he did that deserved the rant in first place it’s not as if the bloke doesn’t bother with his kids unfortunately we all let people down from time to time we aren’t all perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry I have no other place to get this off my chest so I’m just going to have a mini rant here, feel free to ignore it!

It’s my middle sons last day at school today, I asked my ex husband if he could make sure he got up with him to take ‘the photo’ outside and he assured me he would, he didn’t. My youngest son did it for him, I’m happy I got the photo (inside and looking like a moody teen) of course I am but I am disappointed that my lazy bastard ex husband couldn’t do the one thing I asked of him!

I wouldn’t mind but I had a choice of being there today or not, it was our youngest child’s birthday on Wednesday so we went to see him of course on his birthday but couldn’t do both (car had an issue at the moment) so I asked him to make sure he got up and he promised me he would.

The boys are happy ish with him but him not doing one simple thing and the pub was more important than full filling my request (we get on well generally, we even all sat down for my other sons birthday for a meal the other day with his gf too!).

Like I say pass this by but just wanted a rant.

Geeky x"

No reason to rant..

The fact that your three kids are with him, says a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You lost the right to tell your ex to do something the moment you made him an ex.

You have the pic. That’s the main thing.

This

By all means ask, but you cant EXPECT him to follow your orders, reading between the lines thats what it sounds like, your pissed because you have no control over him. With regards to your youngest 'having kittens' if he wasnt up, i find that strange that a child would be so on edge about something, unless he had a worry that all hell would break loose.

My youngest is autistic and he is aware that his dad was meant to get up, hence the having kittens part.

Geeky x

why put an autistic child in that position?"

What do you mean?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

If that is all there is to complain about with an ex then you are winning

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"If that is all there is to complain about with an ex then you are winning"

PS for someone who says they have a good relationship with an ex, calling him a dickhead over the lack him doing as you say says otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did you ever hear the saying it's a man world but women rule it . This I agree with..

Men are damned if they do and damned if they dont in some cases.. ppl are so quick to judge the daddys and side with the mammys. There's 2 sides to every story and it's not always the daddy's fault..

Ranting on fab is hardly the right thing to do after all it's just your version and he can't defend his... it exasperates me how easy it's believed the men are at fault always.. not all women smell of roses..

^^ top answer so far ^^"

Good answer

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sorry I have no other place to get this off my chest so I’m just going to have a mini rant here, feel free to ignore it!

It’s my middle sons last day at school today, I asked my ex husband if he could make sure he got up with him to take ‘the photo’ outside and he assured me he would, he didn’t. My youngest son did it for him, I’m happy I got the photo (inside and looking like a moody teen) of course I am but I am disappointed that my lazy bastard ex husband couldn’t do the one thing I asked of him!

I wouldn’t mind but I had a choice of being there today or not, it was our youngest child’s birthday on Wednesday so we went to see him of course on his birthday but couldn’t do both (car had an issue at the moment) so I asked him to make sure he got up and he promised me he would.

The boys are happy ish with him but him not doing one simple thing and the pub was more important than full filling my request (we get on well generally, we even all sat down for my other sons birthday for a meal the other day with his gf too!).

Like I say pass this by but just wanted a rant.

Geeky x

No reason to rant..

The fact that your three kids are with him, says a lot.

"

The reason the kids are with him is because 2 of them are autistic and rather than disrupt their lives and routine by dragging them out of school away from their friends to a new school a new town and a new county to live with Geeky and I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry I have no other place to get this off my chest so I’m just going to have a mini rant here, feel free to ignore it!

It’s my middle sons last day at school today, I asked my ex husband if he could make sure he got up with him to take ‘the photo’ outside and he assured me he would, he didn’t. My youngest son did it for him, I’m happy I got the photo (inside and looking like a moody teen) of course I am but I am disappointed that my lazy bastard ex husband couldn’t do the one thing I asked of him!

I wouldn’t mind but I had a choice of being there today or not, it was our youngest child’s birthday on Wednesday so we went to see him of course on his birthday but couldn’t do both (car had an issue at the moment) so I asked him to make sure he got up and he promised me he would.

The boys are happy ish with him but him not doing one simple thing and the pub was more important than full filling my request (we get on well generally, we even all sat down for my other sons birthday for a meal the other day with his gf too!).

Like I say pass this by but just wanted a rant.

Geeky x

No reason to rant..

The fact that your three kids are with him, says a lot.

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So, all the dads who don't have custody of their kids are bad fathers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry I have no other place to get this off my chest so I’m just going to have a mini rant here, feel free to ignore it!

It’s my middle sons last day at school today, I asked my ex husband if he could make sure he got up with him to take ‘the photo’ outside and he assured me he would, he didn’t. My youngest son did it for him, I’m happy I got the photo (inside and looking like a moody teen) of course I am but I am disappointed that my lazy bastard ex husband couldn’t do the one thing I asked of him!

I wouldn’t mind but I had a choice of being there today or not, it was our youngest child’s birthday on Wednesday so we went to see him of course on his birthday but couldn’t do both (car had an issue at the moment) so I asked him to make sure he got up and he promised me he would.

The boys are happy ish with him but him not doing one simple thing and the pub was more important than full filling my request (we get on well generally, we even all sat down for my other sons birthday for a meal the other day with his gf too!).

Like I say pass this by but just wanted a rant.

Geeky x

No reason to rant..

The fact that your three kids are with him, says a lot.

The reason the kids are with him is because 2 of them are autistic and rather than disrupt their lives and routine by dragging them out of school away from their friends to a new school a new town and a new county to live with Geeky and I

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You already explained that, but some people still think children should be with their mum, because men are no good at parenting perhaps?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Sorry I have no other place to get this off my chest so I’m just going to have a mini rant here, feel free to ignore it!

It’s my middle sons last day at school today, I asked my ex husband if he could make sure he got up with him to take ‘the photo’ outside and he assured me he would, he didn’t. My youngest son did it for him, I’m happy I got the photo (inside and looking like a moody teen) of course I am but I am disappointed that my lazy bastard ex husband couldn’t do the one thing I asked of him!

I wouldn’t mind but I had a choice of being there today or not, it was our youngest child’s birthday on Wednesday so we went to see him of course on his birthday but couldn’t do both (car had an issue at the moment) so I asked him to make sure he got up and he promised me he would.

The boys are happy ish with him but him not doing one simple thing and the pub was more important than full filling my request (we get on well generally, we even all sat down for my other sons birthday for a meal the other day with his gf too!).

Like I say pass this by but just wanted a rant.

Geeky x

No reason to rant..

The fact that your three kids are with him, says a lot.

The reason the kids are with him is because 2 of them are autistic and rather than disrupt their lives and routine by dragging them out of school away from their friends to a new school a new town and a new county to live with Geeky and I

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hes a full time carer to three children 2 are autistic. Most be a bloody hard job yet she thinks its perfectly acceptable to come on the public forums when all she gets is the good bits of seeing then every other weekend

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok, I have spoken to him and he was in the pub until late. I only posted this to get something of my chest, I know opening this up on a forum opens me up to criticism but I was clear I never asked for any, just a chance to vent my frustration at a situation that was promised to me a few days ago, thanks for all those commenting though,

Geeky x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sorry I have no other place to get this off my chest so I’m just going to have a mini rant here, feel free to ignore it!

It’s my middle sons last day at school today, I asked my ex husband if he could make sure he got up with him to take ‘the photo’ outside and he assured me he would, he didn’t. My youngest son did it for him, I’m happy I got the photo (inside and looking like a moody teen) of course I am but I am disappointed that my lazy bastard ex husband couldn’t do the one thing I asked of him!

I wouldn’t mind but I had a choice of being there today or not, it was our youngest child’s birthday on Wednesday so we went to see him of course on his birthday but couldn’t do both (car had an issue at the moment) so I asked him to make sure he got up and he promised me he would.

The boys are happy ish with him but him not doing one simple thing and the pub was more important than full filling my request (we get on well generally, we even all sat down for my other sons birthday for a meal the other day with his gf too!).

Like I say pass this by but just wanted a rant.

Geeky x

No reason to rant..

The fact that your three kids are with him, says a lot.

The reason the kids are with him is because 2 of them are autistic and rather than disrupt their lives and routine by dragging them out of school away from their friends to a new school a new town and a new county to live with Geeky and I

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hes a full time carer to three children 2 are autistic. Most be a bloody hard job yet she thinks its perfectly acceptable to come on the public forums when all she gets is the good bits of seeing then every other weekend"

Ok, I seem to have opened up something here, my ex husband is out the house more than he is in it, the kids basically fend for themselves, which is why I am getting advice for custody.

All I wanted to do was get off my chest how annoyed I was and knew full well he would have been hungover. Thanks all.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

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"Sorry I have no other place to get this off my chest so I’m just going to have a mini rant here, feel free to ignore it!

It’s my middle sons last day at school today, I asked my ex husband if he could make sure he got up with him to take ‘the photo’ outside and he assured me he would, he didn’t. My youngest son did it for him, I’m happy I got the photo (inside and looking like a moody teen) of course I am but I am disappointed that my lazy bastard ex husband couldn’t do the one thing I asked of him!

I wouldn’t mind but I had a choice of being there today or not, it was our youngest child’s birthday on Wednesday so we went to see him of course on his birthday but couldn’t do both (car had an issue at the moment) so I asked him to make sure he got up and he promised me he would.

The boys are happy ish with him but him not doing one simple thing and the pub was more important than full filling my request (we get on well generally, we even all sat down for my other sons birthday for a meal the other day with his gf too!).

Like I say pass this by but just wanted a rant.

Geeky x

No reason to rant..

The fact that your three kids are with him, says a lot.

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Go on enlighten us what exactly does it say? So what does it say about all those children that are with their mother's,what does that say about the father's?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sorry I have no other place to get this off my chest so I’m just going to have a mini rant here, feel free to ignore it!

It’s my middle sons last day at school today, I asked my ex husband if he could make sure he got up with him to take ‘the photo’ outside and he assured me he would, he didn’t. My youngest son did it for him, I’m happy I got the photo (inside and looking like a moody teen) of course I am but I am disappointed that my lazy bastard ex husband couldn’t do the one thing I asked of him!

I wouldn’t mind but I had a choice of being there today or not, it was our youngest child’s birthday on Wednesday so we went to see him of course on his birthday but couldn’t do both (car had an issue at the moment) so I asked him to make sure he got up and he promised me he would.

The boys are happy ish with him but him not doing one simple thing and the pub was more important than full filling my request (we get on well generally, we even all sat down for my other sons birthday for a meal the other day with his gf too!).

Like I say pass this by but just wanted a rant.

Geeky x

No reason to rant..

The fact that your three kids are with him, says a lot.

Go on enlighten us what exactly does it say? So what does it say about all those children that are with their mother's,what does that say about the father's?"

Yes please as my kids are with there mother what does that say about the man who quit a job to be there day and night for his child and a child that he calls his even if she is not his blood while his partner is busy shagging other blokes?

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

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"Sorry I have no other place to get this off my chest so I’m just going to have a mini rant here, feel free to ignore it!

It’s my middle sons last day at school today, I asked my ex husband if he could make sure he got up with him to take ‘the photo’ outside and he assured me he would, he didn’t. My youngest son did it for him, I’m happy I got the photo (inside and looking like a moody teen) of course I am but I am disappointed that my lazy bastard ex husband couldn’t do the one thing I asked of him!

I wouldn’t mind but I had a choice of being there today or not, it was our youngest child’s birthday on Wednesday so we went to see him of course on his birthday but couldn’t do both (car had an issue at the moment) so I asked him to make sure he got up and he promised me he would.

The boys are happy ish with him but him not doing one simple thing and the pub was more important than full filling my request (we get on well generally, we even all sat down for my other sons birthday for a meal the other day with his gf too!).

Like I say pass this by but just wanted a rant.

Geeky x

No reason to rant..

The fact that your three kids are with him, says a lot.

Go on enlighten us what exactly does it say? So what does it say about all those children that are with their mother's,what does that say about the father's?

Yes please as my kids are with there mother what does that say about the man who quit a job to be there day and night for his child and a child that he calls his even if she is not his blood while his partner is busy shagging other blokes?"

What a classy cpl ye both are both slagging off the ex's it's not Jeremy Kyle it's a a swinging sight. Have some respect for yourselves and keep your dirty laundry at home and use fab for what it's intended for...

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

Really don't know why people post such personal information in here :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish my sons far was this much of a dick head

My sons dad hasn't bothered with him for years so be grateful that he does, the fact he has custody of your boys must mean something. OK he didn't take the pic but you got it. So relax it doesn't matter. If you don't think that your ex is looking after the kids properly do something about it.

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over a year ago

"Sorry I have no other place to get this off my chest so I’m just going to have a mini rant here, feel free to ignore it!

It’s my middle sons last day at school today, I asked my ex husband if he could make sure he got up with him to take ‘the photo’ outside and he assured me he would, he didn’t. My youngest son did it for him, I’m happy I got the photo (inside and looking like a moody teen) of course I am but I am disappointed that my lazy bastard ex husband couldn’t do the one thing I asked of him!

I wouldn’t mind but I had a choice of being there today or not, it was our youngest child’s birthday on Wednesday so we went to see him of course on his birthday but couldn’t do both (car had an issue at the moment) so I asked him to make sure he got up and he promised me he would.

The boys are happy ish with him but him not doing one simple thing and the pub was more important than full filling my request (we get on well generally, we even all sat down for my other sons birthday for a meal the other day with his gf too!).

Like I say pass this by but just wanted a rant.

Geeky x

No reason to rant..

The fact that your three kids are with him, says a lot.

So, all the dads who don't have custody of their kids are bad fathers? "

No... I meant , the dad already has plate full and looking after them everyday, so OP can't have a rant, for not taking a picture, which is silly to me. Calling someone a dick head in a public forum, after all he is doing for that children is unnecessary and unacceptable.

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