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"It’s not rude not to reply to messages. There’s lots of forum posts with profile advice, advice for single men etc. Get yourself to a social or get a pussy fitted! " Great advise! | |||
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"Also your age will count against you. And because you aren’t fussed on looks at all to me, it seems like you’ll fuck anyone " FAF on OP’s behalf? | |||
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"No one is obliged to respond to you and it states this if the faq. Yes I can knock you back I just delete my message when sent then I can just for get about it. Lots of fellas in cluding my self have been here awhile be patient keep trying and you'll get there. Hope it helps a little. " Easy there Harvey Weinstein! You’ve only been here 5 weeks | |||
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"Hi all Fabswingers I made an account on here around 9 months ago and messaged a few people who caught my eye. I didn’t really get ANY responses so I sort of gave up on the whole idea. 9 months on I thought I’d give it another try on here. Again,I’ve messaged a few people and nobody has even been kind enough to reply with a “no thankyou” just either read and don’t reply or rudely delete. What is wrong with me? Is it a looks thing? Does my profile come across strange? I’m a male looking for females only preferably older than myself but I really am not fussed on looks, a good personality and cleanliness are my two main attractions. If anyone can give some advice I would highly appreciate it. Thanks, Jack xx" i know how you feel but just give it time. | |||
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"No one is obliged to respond to you and it states this if the faq. Yes I can knock you back I just delete my message when sent then I can just for get about it. Lots of fellas in cluding my self have been here awhile be patient keep trying and you'll get there. Hope it helps a little. Easy there Harvey Weinstein! You’ve only been here 5 weeks " Lmfao!! | |||
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"No one is obliged to respond to you and it states this if the faq. Yes I can knock you back I just delete my message when sent then I can just for get about it. Lots of fellas in cluding my self have been here awhile be patient keep trying and you'll get there. Hope it helps a little. Easy there Harvey Weinstein! You’ve only been here 5 weeks " And still being patient. I've been on before I met someone left and came back when it ended. | |||
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"And the fact you cannot accommodate won’t work in your favour I’m afraid " With all due respect you can’t give him advise as you have no experience in being a single guy on fab. Best regards | |||
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"And the fact you cannot accommodate won’t work in your favour I’m afraid With all due respect you can’t give him advise as you have no experience in being a single guy on fab. Best regards " It was advice. It was a point | |||
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"The odds are stacked against you. 1. You are male 2. You are quite young 3. You don't accommodate 4. You are not fussy And all that before we even know you. Join in with the forums more, try to get along to a social (the Heathrow social is local and very well attended). Only message people whose profile you have read carefully and you honestly match what they are looking for. Stop looking at you sent mail, it's just soul destroying. Send your message with a smiley face pic then forget about it. Any replies are they. A pleasant bonus. Read the sites FAQ." Who is posting this? If it’s the female half then sorry, you can’t advise as you haven’t been a single male on fab | |||
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"The odds are stacked against you. 1. You are male 2. You are quite young 3. You don't accommodate 4. You are not fussy And all that before we even know you. Join in with the forums more, try to get along to a social (the Heathrow social is local and very well attended). Only message people whose profile you have read carefully and you honestly match what they are looking for. Stop looking at you sent mail, it's just soul destroying. Send your message with a smiley face pic then forget about it. Any replies are they. A pleasant bonus. Read the sites FAQ. Who is posting this? If it’s the female half then sorry, you can’t advise as you haven’t been a single male on fab " | |||
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"The odds are stacked against you. 1. You are male 2. You are quite young 3. You don't accommodate 4. You are not fussy And all that before we even know you. Join in with the forums more, try to get along to a social (the Heathrow social is local and very well attended). Only message people whose profile you have read carefully and you honestly match what they are looking for. Stop looking at you sent mail, it's just soul destroying. Send your message with a smiley face pic then forget about it. Any replies are they. A pleasant bonus. Read the sites FAQ. Who is posting this? If it’s the female half then sorry, you can’t advise as you haven’t been a single male on fab " | |||
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"The odds are stacked against you. 1. You are male 2. You are quite young 3. You don't accommodate 4. You are not fussy And all that before we even know you. Join in with the forums more, try to get along to a social (the Heathrow social is local and very well attended). Only message people whose profile you have read carefully and you honestly match what they are looking for. Stop looking at you sent mail, it's just soul destroying. Send your message with a smiley face pic then forget about it. Any replies are they. A pleasant bonus. Read the sites FAQ. Who is posting this? If it’s the female half then sorry, you can’t advise as you haven’t been a single male on fab " Can i copy and paste this post, im a single guy on fab | |||
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"And the fact you cannot accommodate won’t work in your favour I’m afraid With all due respect you can’t give him advise as you have no experience in being a single guy on fab. Best regards It was advice. It was a point " She’s arguing now.. have you ever sent tens of messages and not got a single reply? Has not being able to accommodate stopped you from having meets? Answer this to qualify for more | |||
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"And the fact you cannot accommodate won’t work in your favour I’m afraid With all due respect you can’t give him advise as you have no experience in being a single guy on fab. Best regards " Of course she can. She's a single woman, which is the demographic he's after, telling him exactly why his profile is unappealing. I'd say she's the perfect person to be giving him advice. | |||
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"And the fact you cannot accommodate won’t work in your favour I’m afraid With all due respect you can’t give him advise as you have no experience in being a single guy on fab. Best regards Of course she can. She's a single woman, which is the demographic he's after, telling him exactly why his profile is unappealing. I'd say she's the perfect person to be giving him advice. " | |||
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"The odds are stacked against you. 1. You are male 2. You are quite young 3. You don't accommodate 4. You are not fussy And all that before we even know you. Join in with the forums more, try to get along to a social (the Heathrow social is local and very well attended). Only message people whose profile you have read carefully and you honestly match what they are looking for. Stop looking at you sent mail, it's just soul destroying. Send your message with a smiley face pic then forget about it. Any replies are they. A pleasant bonus. Read the sites FAQ. Who is posting this? If it’s the female half then sorry, you can’t advise as you haven’t been a single male on fab Can i copy and paste this post, im a single guy on fab " Yes you can!! Only if you agree though, god forbid us women offering advice | |||
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"And the fact you cannot accommodate won’t work in your favour I’m afraid With all due respect you can’t give him advise as you have no experience in being a single guy on fab. Best regards Of course she can. She's a single woman, which is the demographic he's after, telling him exactly why his profile is unappealing. I'd say she's the perfect person to be giving him advice. " I was just away to type all his out | |||
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"And the fact you cannot accommodate won’t work in your favour I’m afraid With all due respect you can’t give him advise as you have no experience in being a single guy on fab. Best regards It was advice. It was a point She’s arguing now.. have you ever sent tens of messages and not got a single reply? Has not being able to accommodate stopped you from having meets? Answer this to qualify for more " I haven’t sent ‘tens of messages’ but I’ve sent a fair few and been ignored. And I can accommodate, so that isn’t an issue for me | |||
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"And the fact you cannot accommodate won’t work in your favour I’m afraid With all due respect you can’t give him advise as you have no experience in being a single guy on fab. Best regards Of course she can. She's a single woman, which is the demographic he's after, telling him exactly why his profile is unappealing. I'd say she's the perfect person to be giving him advice. I was just away to type all his out " This** | |||
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"And the fact you cannot accommodate won’t work in your favour I’m afraid With all due respect you can’t give him advise as you have no experience in being a single guy on fab. Best regards It was advice. It was a point She’s arguing now.. have you ever sent tens of messages and not got a single reply? Has not being able to accommodate stopped you from having meets? Answer this to qualify for more I haven’t sent ‘tens of messages’ but I’ve sent a fair few and been ignored. And I can accommodate, so that isn’t an issue for me " I don’t accommodate and I get meets.. so | |||
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"And the fact you cannot accommodate won’t work in your favour I’m afraid With all due respect you can’t give him advise as you have no experience in being a single guy on fab. Best regards Of course she can. She's a single woman, which is the demographic he's after, telling him exactly why his profile is unappealing. I'd say she's the perfect person to be giving him advice. I was just away to type all his out This** " My mistake, yes, this | |||
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"And the fact you cannot accommodate won’t work in your favour I’m afraid With all due respect you can’t give him advise as you have no experience in being a single guy on fab. Best regards Of course she can. She's a single woman, which is the demographic he's after, telling him exactly why his profile is unappealing. I'd say she's the perfect person to be giving him advice. I was just away to type all his out This** My mistake, yes, this " There are more | |||
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"And the fact you cannot accommodate won’t work in your favour I’m afraid With all due respect you can’t give him advise as you have no experience in being a single guy on fab. Best regards It was advice. It was a point She’s arguing now.. have you ever sent tens of messages and not got a single reply? Has not being able to accommodate stopped you from having meets? Answer this to qualify for more I haven’t sent ‘tens of messages’ but I’ve sent a fair few and been ignored. And I can accommodate, so that isn’t an issue for me I don’t accommodate and I get meets.. so " I didn’t say he wouldn’t get any meets whatsoever? I said it wouldn’t work in his favour. That’s my opinion | |||
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"And the fact you cannot accommodate won’t work in your favour I’m afraid With all due respect you can’t give him advise as you have no experience in being a single guy on fab. Best regards Of course she can. She's a single woman, which is the demographic he's after, telling him exactly why his profile is unappealing. I'd say she's the perfect person to be giving him advice. I was just away to type all his out This** My mistake, yes, this There are more " Story of my life! | |||
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"And the fact you cannot accommodate won’t work in your favour I’m afraid With all due respect you can’t give him advise as you have no experience in being a single guy on fab. Best regards It was advice. It was a point She’s arguing now.. have you ever sent tens of messages and not got a single reply? Has not being able to accommodate stopped you from having meets? Answer this to qualify for more I haven’t sent ‘tens of messages’ but I’ve sent a fair few and been ignored. And I can accommodate, so that isn’t an issue for me I don’t accommodate and I get meets.. so I didn’t say he wouldn’t get any meets whatsoever? I said it wouldn’t work in his favour. That’s my opinion " So tell me this, if a girl doesn’t accommodate would that stop her getting meets from fab? | |||
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"And the fact you cannot accommodate won’t work in your favour I’m afraid With all due respect you can’t give him advise as you have no experience in being a single guy on fab. Best regards It was advice. It was a point She’s arguing now.. have you ever sent tens of messages and not got a single reply? Has not being able to accommodate stopped you from having meets? Answer this to qualify for more I haven’t sent ‘tens of messages’ but I’ve sent a fair few and been ignored. And I can accommodate, so that isn’t an issue for me I don’t accommodate and I get meets.. so I didn’t say he wouldn’t get any meets whatsoever? I said it wouldn’t work in his favour. That’s my opinion So tell me this, if a girl doesn’t accommodate would that affect her getting meets from fab? " Possibly, wouldn’t know as I’m not looking for women. I’m looking for men, and if they couldn’t accommodate, I would be suspicious as to why. Could be as simple as they have a child at home and don’t want random folk in their house, could be that they live with their parents or are at uni and have flat mates. Who knows. | |||
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"And the fact you cannot accommodate won’t work in your favour I’m afraid With all due respect you can’t give him advise as you have no experience in being a single guy on fab. Best regards It was advice. It was a point She’s arguing now.. have you ever sent tens of messages and not got a single reply? Has not being able to accommodate stopped you from having meets? Answer this to qualify for more I haven’t sent ‘tens of messages’ but I’ve sent a fair few and been ignored. And I can accommodate, so that isn’t an issue for me I don’t accommodate and I get meets.. so I didn’t say he wouldn’t get any meets whatsoever? I said it wouldn’t work in his favour. That’s my opinion So tell me this, if a girl doesn’t accommodate would that affect her getting meets from fab? Possibly, wouldn’t know as I’m not looking for women. I’m looking for men, and if they couldn’t accommodate, I would be suspicious as to why. Could be as simple as they have a child at home and don’t want random folk in their house, could be that they live with their parents or are at uni and have flat mates. Who knows. " Seriously? | |||
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"Yeah, I feel as if after reading your posts it’s more normal than I am thinking. Just to clear up, I’m not looking for just anyone. Personality meaning I would need some form of “Click” with you through a social to actually be sexually attracted to you. Cleanliness meaning I like someone who cares about their body/skin condition etc. If I met up with some who most people find unattractive, I wouldn’t necessarily. The put offs would be things like bad/spotty skin, bad odours breath etc. Maybe I’m just not as vain as some on here? Will stop getting upset by the non replies and just concentrate on people who seem to match me perfect. Accommodation is hopefully only a temporary thing as I am hopefully going to be on the ladder soon. Thanks for all your tips and advice. Looks like a social event is going to have to be on the cards soon Xx" A social will definitely help you out. Unfortunately there are far more men than women and couples on here so getting yourself out there and known will help a lot. | |||
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"You can make a baby in 9 months.. you just made nothing. Welcome to fab " Blimey, it takes me about 3 minutes to make a baby. | |||
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"You can make a baby in 9 months.. you just made nothing. Welcome to fab Blimey, it takes me about 3 minutes to make a baby. " 5 minutes on a good day | |||
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"You can make a baby in 9 months.. you just made nothing. Welcome to fab " I've seen some single men take 10 months to get 22 meet verifications. It's bloody hard work...... | |||
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"Why don’t we have women and couples asking for advise lol " Because they already know everything.... | |||
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"You can make a baby in 9 months.. you just made nothing. Welcome to fab Blimey, it takes me about 3 minutes to make a baby. 5 minutes on a good day " You are fast girl! | |||
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"Why don’t we have women and couples asking for advise lol " What are we doing wrong? We rarely get replies to our messages, it's just rude. I send 100"s of FAF? messages and if I'm lucky I get a "piss off munters" reply. Help us please... Our premium runs out next week and we are thinking of chucking in the towel | |||
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"Why don’t we have women and couples asking for advise lol What are we doing wrong? We rarely get replies to our messages, it's just rude. I send 100"s of FAF? messages and if I'm lucky I get a "piss off munters" reply. Help us please... Our premium runs out next week and we are thinking of chucking in the towel " I rest my case | |||
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"Why don’t we have women and couples asking for advise lol What are we doing wrong? We rarely get replies to our messages, it's just rude. I send 100"s of FAF? messages and if I'm lucky I get a "piss off munters" reply. Help us please... Our premium runs out next week and we are thinking of chucking in the towel I rest my case " | |||
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"Why don’t we have women and couples asking for advise lol What are we doing wrong? We rarely get replies to our messages, it's just rude. I send 100"s of FAF? messages and if I'm lucky I get a "piss off munters" reply. Help us please... Our premium runs out next week and we are thinking of chucking in the towel " Send dick pics, either beside a sky remote or a can of lynx. That’ll get them | |||
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"In my experience mate the site is full of ignorant people! to say its a social site not many people are social! Like yoj say its not hard to say no! But yeah your best going to a part or social its how i got my first meet off here! " The amount of men I’ve said ‘thank you but you’re not my type sorry’ too just to receive abuse back is overwhelming. Hence why I don’t bother replying unless I can tell they’ve put a lot of effort into their message | |||
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"Why don’t we have women and couples asking for advise lol What are we doing wrong? We rarely get replies to our messages, it's just rude. I send 100"s of FAF? messages and if I'm lucky I get a "piss off munters" reply. Help us please... Our premium runs out next week and we are thinking of chucking in the towel Send dick pics, either beside a sky remote or a can of lynx. That’ll get them " It’s just double standards because if you sent your pussy pics with a bottle of wine or a cucumber in it, it will be received with regards | |||
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"Why don’t we have women and couples asking for advise lol What are we doing wrong? We rarely get replies to our messages, it's just rude. I send 100"s of FAF? messages and if I'm lucky I get a "piss off munters" reply. Help us please... Our premium runs out next week and we are thinking of chucking in the towel Send dick pics, either beside a sky remote or a can of lynx. That’ll get them It’s just double standards because if you sent your pussy pics with a bottle of wine or a cucumber in it, it will be received with regards " How is it double standards that some people like those type of pictures and some people don’t? I know plenty of women who like dick pics | |||
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"Thats a very fair point i forget how pathetic some people and there egos are haha" It’s unfortunate! | |||
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"You can make a baby in 9 months.. you just made nothing. Welcome to fab Blimey, it takes me about 3 minutes to make a baby. " 3?....show off | |||
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"Why don’t we have women and couples asking for advise lol What are we doing wrong? We rarely get replies to our messages, it's just rude. I send 100"s of FAF? messages and if I'm lucky I get a "piss off munters" reply. Help us please... Our premium runs out next week and we are thinking of chucking in the towel Send dick pics, either beside a sky remote or a can of lynx. That’ll get them It’s just double standards because if you sent your pussy pics with a bottle of wine or a cucumber in it, it will be received with regards How is it double standards that some people like those type of pictures and some people don’t? I know plenty of women who like dick pics " Haha.. you know it is Sonia | |||
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"You can make a baby in 9 months.. you just made nothing. Welcome to fab Blimey, it takes me about 3 minutes to make a baby. 5 minutes on a good day " Have you been talking to my mum? | |||
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"Dick pics for the win Always get an erection " Ftfy. | |||
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"Dick pics for the win Always get an erection Ftfy. " Nice work there | |||
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"Dick pics for the win Always get an erection Ftfy. Nice work there " I just slipped it in.... Fnar fnah | |||
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"Dick pics for the win Always get an erection Ftfy. Nice work there I just slipped it in.... Fnar fnah" Smooth I didn’t feel a thing | |||
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"Dick pics for the win Always get an erection Ftfy. Nice work there I just slipped it in.... Fnar fnah Smooth I didn’t feel a thing " You're not the first person to tell me that. | |||
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"Hi all Fabswingers I made an account on here around 9 months ago and messaged a few people who caught my eye. I didn’t really get ANY responses so I sort of gave up on the whole idea. 9 months on I thought I’d give it another try on here. Again,I’ve messaged a few people and nobody has even been kind enough to reply with a “no thankyou” just either read and don’t reply or rudely delete. What is wrong with me? Is it a looks thing? Does my profile come across strange? I’m a male looking for females only preferably older than myself but I really am not fussed on looks, a good personality and cleanliness are my two main attractions. If anyone can give some advice I would highly appreciate it. Thanks, Jack xx" Personally I didn’t find anything problematic with your profile but you are rather vague which makes me glance over your profile not press the “wink” button. I hope that helps | |||
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"Hi all Fabswingers I made an account on here around 9 months ago and messaged a few people who caught my eye. I didn’t really get ANY responses so I sort of gave up on the whole idea. 9 months on I thought I’d give it another try on here. Again,I’ve messaged a few people and nobody has even been kind enough to reply with a “no thankyou” just either read and don’t reply or rudely delete. What is wrong with me? Is it a looks thing? Does my profile come across strange? I’m a male looking for females only preferably older than myself but I really am not fussed on looks, a good personality and cleanliness are my two main attractions. If anyone can give some advice I would highly appreciate it. Thanks, Jack xx" Nothing on your profile jumps out and says, " ooh, I'll have a piece of That!" ... your just another below average male profile. There are thousands of those!!! Harsh but true... Mistress Amelia | |||
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"And the fact you cannot accommodate won’t work in your favour I’m afraid " We can't/won't accommodate. It's never been a problem. That's what hotels are for. | |||
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