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How well do you know yourself

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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

At what age did you discover who your really where. Know how your going to react in certain situations, became comfortable with your fundamental morals and beliefs. Learn to accept the negative traits about yourself.

When did you really know who me was.

I was around 36

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am brilliant!

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And deluded

And 37!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I am still learning at 31....

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

around 35 and feel comfortable in my own skin now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

46

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At what age did you discover who your really where. Know how your going to react in certain situations, became comfortable with your fundamental morals and beliefs. Learn to accept the negative traits about yourself.

When did you really know who me was.

I was around 36"

Still learning even now xx

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

late 20's I think...

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

74 i expect.

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

I genuinely don't think you ever stop learning and certainly as I've got older (I know I'm ancient) I have actually become more liberal with my _iews and tollerant of others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

45 and I'm still learning about myself, blindfold bondage is my newist discovery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only just started to feel I really understand and know myself and what I want at 35. This year had been an amazing one for discovery

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I am 30 I still don't know how I will react in certain situations

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

I'm forever changing my _iews on certain things, as i'm learning all the time. As for reacting to things, I react before I think

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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I do think im still learning and growing and we always will. But that was the age I knew me as a person. For example, if there is some disaster and everyone is running round like headless chickens im the one that is calm and sorts stuff then cracks up later. I think the hardest was excepting that there is things about yourself that are not necessarily nice

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By *o Peep n WoodyCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

Still waiting. Lol

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By *DSRMan
over a year ago

leicester

with me it's always expect the unexpected and i wouldn't change that for the world... I don't want to become predictable! that said i do know me, as in.. i've been in so many situations and i have learned how to deal with them, al9t better than i used to!!! So i think about 28 is the answer, sorta x

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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In some ways after my Mum died, so I was 43.

But as far as feeling confident in me 15th November 2007 and yes can pin it down to the date

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Probably around mid to late twenties... just after being profiled for the first time.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

According to my therapist, I have 7 personalities, and if other peoples reactions are anything to go by, I really dont want to ge to know "me" at all, so I'll just sit here with the other 5 and have a party, ta very much!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At what age did you discover who your really where. Know how your going to react in certain situations, became comfortable with your fundamental morals and beliefs. Learn to accept the negative traits about yourself.

When did you really know who me was.

I was around 36"

Still getting there, although I've not really changed since I was 14 to be honest. Possibly something to do with older brothers.

Still learning to except how to make good of some of my negative traits, and perhaps learning my reactions. I hope though, that I'm still learning till the day I die, otherwise life could become somewhat boring!

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By *ornyHorwichCpl aka HHCCouple
over a year ago

horwich

I knew who I was at a very young age. However having the confidence to actually be who I really am has only come around in the past few years.

I love being in my 30's as it has all come to fit at a time when I can handle it.

Scarlett

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I knew who I was at a very young age. However having the confidence to actually be who I really am has only come around in the past few years.

I love being in my 30's as it has all come to fit at a time when I can handle it.

Scarlett"

If I could have put it that way I probably would, lol

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By *uro anchorMan
over a year ago

Coventry

i dont know and im fucking old....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just recently, in the last year. But I'm sure there is still more to come. I'm actually enjoying finding 'Me' and I have been surprised at some of the things I have discovered. It's a wonderful voyage and long may it continue.

Hippo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always been myself but at around 34 I realised that I could only ever be me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't really know when exactly, as I have always been very at ease with myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't really know when exactly, as I have always been very at ease with myself. "

He he, my ex made me aware by trying to change me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not got there yet im 31 everyday i get closer and with the friends i have on here im sure ill there one day.

cheers guys you know who you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always learning!

But I feel I definitely found clarity in my late twenties.

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By *ong_legs2Couple
over a year ago

essex

probs 24

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By *parrow77Man
over a year ago

cheshire

Never will lol I'm never growing up

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"At what age did you discover who your really where. Know how your going to react in certain situations, became comfortable with your fundamental morals and beliefs. Learn to accept the negative traits about yourself.

When did you really know who me was.

I was around 36"

I still suprise myself.

Feel comfortable in my skin now but it has taken me till my early 30's to get there. Think that you never really stop learning things about yourself as we are always changing.

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By *azzaahhWoman
over a year ago

north wales / chester

just starting to

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By *in4sumMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Still learning

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Depends which 'me' you are talking about.

I have 37 individual personalities.

No he hasn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im 37 and still learning how to deal with life and certain situations

i have to learn not to over analyse x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im 37 and still learning how to deal with life and certain situations

i have to learn not to over analyse x"

I the same i think to much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im 37 and still learning how to deal with life and certain situations

i have to learn not to over analyse x

I the same i think to much "

i try not to but things start me thinking x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yesterday.. That's 44 years and bla bla days... I finally realised who I am, what my life has in store for me and why I do what I do... Some things were a nice surprise, some horrible.. It's made me wake up this morning in a totally different mind frame from ever.. Shock is sinking in but I have finally realised what makes me tick..

What a strange thread to find in my mind fame...

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