FabSwingers.com forum: Is sex even important?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m finding that meeting just to bang .....is not that important to me .....how about you ?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Sex with a connection is a different ball game.

As an old rabbi once said, Sex without love is just friction.

If you're not enjoying what you do change it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once in a blue moon, and by the time I've found someone who floats my boat the urge has gone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m finding that meeting just to bang .....is not that important to me .....how about you ? "

Is that with casual random meets, or meets with someone more regular ?

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

if its a duck and go I font tend to enjoy it that much. unless I already know the person...otherwise a bit of laughter and chatting is needed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sex with a connection is a different ball game.

As an old rabbi once said, Sex without love is just friction.

If you're not enjoying what you do change it.

Brilliant !

I will drink the milk but I don’t want the cow

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Once in a blue moon, and by the time I've found someone who floats my boat the urge has gone. "

Can be hard work

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m finding that meeting just to bang .....is not that important to me .....how about you ?

Is that with casual random meets, or meets with someone more regular ?"

I don’t really do random .....but the drive to meet just fir the sex is loosing the appeal to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s no way we’d meet just to bang. I don’t think many people do

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"if its a duck and go I font tend to enjoy it that much. unless I already know the person...otherwise a bit of laughter and chatting is needed."

Who you meeting Donald Duck ? Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There’s no way we’d meet just to bang. I don’t think many people do

Mrs"

I can see why your classy swingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m finding that meeting just to bang .....is not that important to me .....how about you ?

Is that with casual random meets, or meets with someone more regular ?

I don’t really do random .....but the drive to meet just fir the sex is loosing the appeal to me "

Take a break for a while, or perhaps that person isn't what you need right now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont just bang anymore.... investment in the connection takes much higher priority

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell yes sex is important to me. It's something I want and need in my life and I absolutely love it.

Don't know what I'm going to do when I'm old....no doubt you'll find me on a 'grab-a-granny' site with profile photos of me getting fucked over a zimmer frame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m finding that meeting just to bang .....is not that important to me .....how about you ? "

it seems to get more important the less it becomes available

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m finding that meeting just to bang .....is not that important to me .....how about you ?

Is that with casual random meets, or meets with someone more regular ?

I don’t really do random .....but the drive to meet just fir the sex is loosing the appeal to me

Take a break for a while, or perhaps that person isn't what you need right now."

Sophee I think you could be right x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if its a duck and go I font tend to enjoy it that much. unless I already know the person...otherwise a bit of laughter and chatting is needed."

and lots of quacking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sex with a connection is a different ball game.

As an old rabbi once said, Sex without love is just friction.

If you're not enjoying what you do change it.

Christ, if it's just friction I'd suggest more foreplay.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I dont just bang anymore.... investment in the connection takes much higher priority "

I totally agree x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hell yes sex is important to me. It's something I want and need in my life and I absolutely love it.

Don't know what I'm going to do when I'm old....no doubt you'll find me on a 'grab-a-granny' site with profile photos of me getting fucked over a zimmer frame."

So you always set out the intention from the beginning ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m finding that meeting just to bang .....is not that important to me .....how about you ?

it seems to get more important the less it becomes available"

I can see your point .....you have an advantage on this site 100 men to 1 lady so you should have plenty of offers x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m finding that meeting just to bang .....is not that important to me .....how about you ?

Is that with casual random meets, or meets with someone more regular ?

I don’t really do random .....but the drive to meet just fir the sex is loosing the appeal to me

Take a break for a while, or perhaps that person isn't what you need right now.

Sophee I think you could be right x "

I am female, of course I am right

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m finding that meeting just to bang .....is not that important to me .....how about you ?

Is that with casual random meets, or meets with someone more regular ?

I don’t really do random .....but the drive to meet just fir the sex is loosing the appeal to me

Take a break for a while, or perhaps that person isn't what you need right now.

Sophee I think you could be right x

I am female, of course I am right

Hahahahaha xx I would disagree x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m finding that meeting just to bang .....is not that important to me .....how about you ?

it seems to get more important the less it becomes available

I can see your point .....you have an advantage on this site 100 men to 1 lady so you should have plenty of offers x "

Yeah, but there are 100 frogs we have to kiss to find 'the one'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wants and needs are changing as time goes on... yes I’ve had the fuck and go meets and it was what it was at the time! Served a purpose!

But now where I am in my life now I don’t want that anymore! However finding that connection with someone is harder then what I thought it would be!! But I love the feeling from meeting someone you click with and also discovering how this transfers sexually!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m finding that meeting just to bang .....is not that important to me .....how about you ?

it seems to get more important the less it becomes available

I can see your point .....you have an advantage on this site 100 men to 1 lady so you should have plenty of offers x

Yeah, but there are 100 frogs we have to kiss to find 'the one'

Just watch out for the poisonous ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hell yes sex is important to me. It's something I want and need in my life and I absolutely love it.

Don't know what I'm going to do when I'm old....no doubt you'll find me on a 'grab-a-granny' site with profile photos of me getting fucked over a zimmer frame.

So you always set out the intention from the beginning ?"

Do excuse me if I'm being thick, but I don't quite underand your question?

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By *hips n FursMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

As an old rabbi once said, Sex without love is just friction.

Make no wonder I'm burnt out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As an old rabbi once said, Sex without love is just friction.

Make no wonder I'm burnt out."

Don't care, it still feels damn good

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My wants and needs are changing as time goes on... yes I’ve had the fuck and go meets and it was what it was at the time! Served a purpose!

I agree with you upto a point, I see this in a very selfish way which is I’m not gratifying myself on this site.....I just don’t believe I will get a connection other than that what this site means; which is relief and Detuative contact that in the next 5 mins the adventure will be available and offered x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hell yes sex is important to me. It's something I want and need in my life and I absolutely love it.

Don't know what I'm going to do when I'm old....no doubt you'll find me on a 'grab-a-granny' site with profile photos of me getting fucked over a zimmer frame.

So you always set out the intention from the beginning ?

Do excuse me if I'm being thick, but I don't quite underand your question? "

Sex is the objective for you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i want a bang i can get that on a one nighter

I cum he goes. I can be selfish on a one nighter

But when im here active.

I look for chemistry Connection and ideally reg fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Layers.

There's a carnal urge, and something that is that plus more (lust/attraction,etc.).

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If i want a bang i can get that on a one nighter

I cum he goes. I can be selfish on a one nighter

But when im here active.

I look for chemistry Connection and ideally reg fun

Having options must be good

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Layers.

There's a carnal urge, and something that is that plus more (lust/attraction,etc.)."

I think this sums it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Layers.

There's a carnal urge, and something that is that plus more (lust/attraction,etc.)."

Agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If i want a bang i can get that on a one nighter

I cum he goes. I can be selfish on a one nighter

But when im here active.

I look for chemistry Connection and ideally reg fun

Having options must be good

Everyone has options in life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never meet just to bang. Friends with benefits is important to me when I'm meeting. I can't fuck strangers

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If i want a bang i can get that on a one nighter

I cum he goes. I can be selfish on a one nighter

But when im here active.

I look for chemistry Connection and ideally reg fun

Having options must be good

Everyone has options in life. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I never meet just to bang. Friends with benefits is important to me when I'm meeting. I can't fuck strangers "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hell yes sex is important to me. It's something I want and need in my life and I absolutely love it.

Don't know what I'm going to do when I'm old....no doubt you'll find me on a 'grab-a-granny' site with profile photos of me getting fucked over a zimmer frame.

So you always set out the intention from the beginning ?

Do excuse me if I'm being thick, but I don't quite underand your question?

Sex is the objective for you ? "

Damn right it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't meet just to bang.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m finding that meeting just to bang .....is not that important to me .....how about you ? "

Same thing my best meets have socail ones maybe iv gone soft

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I dont want to have a bang with anyone. I meet to have good quality sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. That's why i haven't had a bang for ages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s true you know it’s not that important as you easily bang the wrong person.

Takes me back to my last meet, completely wrong for that meet. Lady trya bang me when her kids were upstairs and worst about it, I can hear them.

Don’t get me wrong as it would’ve been fun, but there’s standards and people that act like that, are just wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone can do fuck and run. At some point probably everyone on fab has. It's a tingle that lasts for a few moments...And then what. What's the point?

Get inside my mind allow me in your mind. The real need always starts there. And if minds meet then all those other connections that make it more than just a fuck are where it gets real......

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By *cot611Man
over a year ago

carterton

Quite simply yes it is important. Very important.

It's one of the only pleasures we get that costs nothing ( most of the time) and allows two or more people to have fun, burn off a few calories and at the same give and receive pleasure. All for free ??

For me it's Definitely better if there's more than just a physical connection there. That said a good spontaneous public meet and fuck is never a bad thing either.

Sex is great and probably more important than pretty much everything else!!! It's gonna out last everything else. Mark my words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am with you op, I also try to meet in order to get my lovely shoes laced

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wanking is more fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m finding that meeting just to bang .....is not that important to me .....how about you ?

Same thing my best meets have socail ones maybe iv gone soft"

Starting to agree !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nope. That's why i haven't had a bang for ages

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s true you know it’s not that important as you easily bang the wrong person.

Takes me back to my last meet, completely wrong for that meet. Lady trya bang me when her kids were upstairs and worst about it, I can hear them.

Don’t get me wrong as it would’ve been fun, but there’s standards and people that act like that, are just wrong. "

Exactly ......this

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Quite simply yes it is important. Very important.

For me it's Definitely better if there's more than just a physical connection there. That said a good spontaneous public meet and fuck is never a bad thing either.

Sex is great and probably more important than pretty much everything else!!! It's gonna out last everything else. Mark my words.

.....get off the fence lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am with you op, I also try to meet in order to get my lovely shoes laced"

.....Thought you have slip ons

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Love a good ole bang with him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wanking is more fun. "

Lot of wankers about

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

Sex is important to me. I love it. I don't *need* socials or connections, if I wanted that I'd join dating sites.

I want to fuck people that turn me on, if I find them visually attractive and when talking to them they aren't a twat then I want to meet and let off some steam, release the stress and tension of everyday life and leave the world behind for a while. I'm not saying a connection isn't nice but I want to fuck more.

That's what I want, that's what I need, and that's what being fucked gives me, and I still love it.

I don't know if it's maybe because I'm an introvert and I'm forced to be social with people everyday at work, so sex to me doesn't have to come with a social side as that's draining more than anything?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes of coarse sex is important we are not getting any younger. Sometimes it would be nice to be treated like a lady. A social can lead to much more than just sex. I am actually looking for the impossible

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

As an old rabbi once said, Sex without love is just friction.

Make no wonder I'm burnt out."

I guess if you smoke after sex, that Rabbi was right, slow down, use a lube

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes of coarse sex is important we are not getting any younger. Sometimes it would be nice to be treated like a lady. A social can lead to much more than just sex. I am actually looking for the impossible

Totally agree as the build up can be just as good.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Yes, having good sex is important to me still, very.

I'd rather not meet for anything that could be described as 'just a bang', but I have met people I have hardly spoken to for sex alone and found an amazing connection, and hour after hour of sensuous, passionate, erotic sex and laughter. I wish I could find more meets like that.

But the problem I find is that I am unwilling to go through many more meets that turn out to be sexually disappointing in order to get the few good ones.

There comes a point where you just say 'fuck it' and stop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never really been a fan of the fuck and go, much prefer quality time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Changed mt mind whos horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex is important.. but not with every Tom Dick or Harry. I am ultra fussy about who I have sex with as I have been impulsive in the past and regretted it. I have no intention.of being a hole to fuck or a cum dump. Many threads on here are posted from ladies who have felt utterly used and degraded by guys after having had sex so it won't ever be happening to me.

For.me it's only good with someone you have built up a great rapport with - sex with anyone outside that is pretty meaningless and nothing more than a sporting activity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m finding that meeting just to bang .....is not that important to me .....how about you ? "

'Tis the icing on the cake.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks all for your comments

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all the comments

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