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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

In terms of what you look for in a man like what you might be attracted to does that change when you get older say when you get in to your 30s and 40s and beyond

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

No, I've always looked for intelligence and a personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for me he has to be tall, be able to hold a conversation, have a sense of humour and not take himself too seriously.... and that has never changed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not so much looks then s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still look at personality over looks but obviously there needs to be an attraction. Cheeky smile work's wonders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. No changes yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm fussier now I'm older - more select. They have to appeal to me in more ways than simple attraction

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

not looking for guys with spots everywhere anymore like i did in my teens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"for me he has to be tall, be able to hold a conversation, have a sense of humour and not take himself too seriously.... and that has never changed "

applauds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The lower age range has gone up but types are still the same.

I'm attracted to many character traits.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

When I was 20 I wouldn't have looked twice at a man of 60. Now I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not looking for guys with spots everywhere anymore like i did in my teens "

If he had blackheads I'd spend the night squeezing them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I've always looked for intelligence and a personality."

This and I'm definitely becoming more appreciative of older guys who are still in reasonable shape but have that gorgeous silvery grey hair and a grey beard. I'd say I prefer it to younger guys now if I'm honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, it changes a little but I'm yet to find a guy in his 50s that floats my boat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes, it changes a little but I'm yet to find a guy in his 50s that floats my boat. "

You definitely float mine xx

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Only been on here since my 40’s so I guess what I want now is based less on looks and more on skill and conversation. Need to have a connection so that potentially it will lead to semi regular fun.

I do like nice eyes and a smile.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Only been on here since my 40’s so I guess what I want now is based less on looks and more on skill and conversation. Need to have a connection so that potentially it will lead to semi regular fun.

I do like nice eyes and a smile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really. I have always found men between 30 and 40 the most attractive. Then I also like intelligence, always have.

I also like lots of hair on men, also always have.

The most important remains for me being able to have a good conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A decent height, sense of humour, the ability to hold a conversation and have a giggle... this has not changed since I was in my late 20s, although now I will entertain younger men as well as slightly older

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

First of all ....... check that he's breathing.

Hold on ..... that might be second. Anyone got a ruler ?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Eyes.... A nice twinkle gets me moist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I haven't been in my 30's or 40's yet but my tastes have changed since my younger days.

What seemed exciting before is irritating now and I am much more attracted to someone stable.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"No, I've always looked for intelligence and a personality.

This and I'm definitely becoming more appreciative of older guys who are still in reasonable shape but have that gorgeous silvery grey hair and a grey beard. I'd say I prefer it to younger guys now if I'm honest."

I’m rather partial to an older man

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